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Yeah first time I asked was on a specific day (which we talked about in person before, I've just asked her again a day before, but she had an excuse). Asked another time for her schedule and when she's generally free. She didn't answer after that. I've learned a lot from that encounter though, thanks man.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 10:32 AM
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The entire sub tends to be an American thing tbh. Whatever is suggested here usually applies way better in the US, as women (girls rather) are very one-dimensional compared to those in Europe. It still can be applied to Europe in general, but there are more factors coming into play here.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 07:01 AM
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What about going out with several female colleagues though? Could use them as some sort of pre Selection, but probably this is a bad idea as well since they see what you are doing on they dance floor?
/r/askTRP18/07/19 10:34 PM
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I'm in the same situation man. Feels good, but be careful. Girls talk about everything. Just a one did when she saw me in my muscle shirt after working out after work. We bumped into each other and the next day it was no. 1 topic, even days after they talk about it.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 04:52 PM
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Lmfao
/r/askTRP11/07/19 11:00 AM
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Just try to have fun. Girls just wanna have fun too. Everyone wants to have fun. Be fun, have fun
/r/askTRP11/07/19 10:58 AM
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After the anger phase is over, you actually appreciate the predictive behavior of women. And also women's energy in conversations or social settings tends to be high or let's say refreshing, at least for me. Having several female colleagues and it's fun interactions given you are higher SMV. You get treated so well lol
/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:31 PM
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Lol
/r/askTRP09/07/19 11:23 AM
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Once I took my lifting more serious and dressed accordingly with well fitted shirts, the club environment is easy mode. Just stand out by your physique, don't dance like a monkey, smile, have fun. Girls will automatically come closer to you, which is an invitation to approach. Just say something situational or don't even say anything and just dance, trying to establish some Kino (can combine it also with touching her hip while saying something into her ear which is an easy plausible excuse to Ki…
/r/askTRP20/06/19 02:14 PM
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For me it's easier going solo than with a wingman. The wingman makes situations more unpredictable to me as attraction may shift to him depending on the circumstances
/r/askTRP09/06/19 12:18 PM
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This frequently happened to me at work when women showed me certain processes. They also literally put themselves into the position that you can look into their breasts by leaning forward. Too bad it's in the working environment lol
/r/askTRP08/06/19 02:16 PM
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That's a great point. Thank you. Thinking about my past interactions with people in general, I can see where you are coming from.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 11:36 PM
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Lifting heavier and more regularly. Then changed my wardrobe completely as well as getting rid of my face problems
/r/askTRP19/05/19 08:35 PM
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And the payoff is so big actually. Either you grow from your "failure" or some fun interaction is going to happen (doesn't need to be a lay)
/r/askTRP11/05/19 09:10 PM
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And the surprising thing is that you actually barely do anything actively in that moment. Doesn't mean it's unfair because you have worked on yourself in the past years and months. You basically harvest what you have seeded at this point.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 10:12 AM
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It's just so much easier to get what you want in general. People are more receptive towards your ideas, approaches, your presence overall, as then having you around already provides value to them. People are very superficial.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 01:38 PM
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Sounds like you spend over 30 minutes just on your face and probably an hour a day if you do the same during the night
/r/askTRP04/05/19 04:35 PM
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I went out the other night in a club. Had a 5 sec long eye contact with a girl, she came into my proximity so I could approach her after. I did that almost right away (she basically initiated the approach anyway already, so you cannot really "lose" anything). All I did was say hello and touching her hips in doing so. Wasn't really difficult apart from just reacting to her approach. It's pretty easy once you established longer than usual mutual eye contact. Now the other scenario is about approac…
/r/askTRP03/05/19 07:37 PM
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It's simple. Lift and dress well. You will be way more confident as a result and people will pick up on that.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 03:11 PM
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Try it. If you get actual dates, you are attractive enough.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 01:16 PM
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It's really simple. Lift like your life depends on it every week without excuses. Make gains and buy clothes that accentuate your hard earned gains. Harvest your efforts in the club and be flooded by pussy.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 02:46 PM
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You probably are on 90 days nofap and experience super powers /s
/r/askTRP29/03/19 12:37 PM
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I like going for push / pull with 4 days per week. Good gains and progress while being flexible throughout the week
/r/askTRP27/03/19 10:45 AM
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Legs are included both in push and pull days. Works out for me.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 08:40 AM
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I've recently lost quite a few friends just due to them having a girlfriend now. They literally spend every free minute with them and won't react to any messages like scheduling stuff to do together. Luckily I've got one friend who remained the same person irrespective of whether he has a girlfriend or not. People just put pussy as their number one objective in their life. As soon as they are single, the wanna go out and do stuff together. Once a girl appears though, they forget you even exist. …
/r/askTRP24/03/19 01:49 AM
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Push pull plan, do 2 pull and 2 push days each week. Keep track of your progression and eat healthy.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 02:47 PM
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Well, you shouldn't really watch them all the time. Focus on enjoying yourself with your friends instead of being a spectator
/r/askTRP22/03/19 07:53 AM
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Most retarded phenomenon in the world club is when 5 dudes are dancing behind a girl (more like a whale) trying to grind on her without having seen her face at all before. Man, it not difficult to stand out in the club. Just don't project neediness like these guys and actually enjoy the music and dance. You enjoying yourself will make girls want to take part in it as well. Tadaaa, now you have girls actually dancing in your proximity and now it's time for you to make a move. Eye contact, smile a…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 07:04 AM
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Get some part time job to earn enough money to leave your parents. Lift regularly and go out some weekends to socialize. It's all about practice and consistency. You'll not improve if you stay at your parents'.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 04:05 PM
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Also, US women seem to be much more stupid and narrow-minded and follow the hypergamy phenomenon stated in TRP. Women in European countries are much more different in this regard in my experience, but TRP still is a good thing to know and apply. European women have more traditional values regarding relationships than US women and are therefore less likely to branch swing.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:24 AM
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I'm in a similar situation currently. Literally all my friends recently got a girlfriend and now the girl is all what matters to them. They stay in their room, refuse to answer messages or invitations to do stuff. I enjoyed some solo nights. Well not exactly solo. I went with a few friends into a club, they left early and I stayed. Had a great time with strangers that night. I still understand your situation though. I'm trying to figure out what to do right now. One friend stayed the same person…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 05:06 PM
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Very good advice. Doing little steps make up a rather big change after a year.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 05:20 PM
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