Oirman Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Girls who are DTF vs wanting ‘more’. Do you care? How do you handle it.	Logistics	Oirman	/r/seduction	02/09/21 08:30 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	People talking behind my back Maybe there’s some jealousy going on and someone has spread some shit to try and bring you down? It’s a shame whatever is happening…. Sounds like you’re doing right by keeping on spending time with people so they get to know you, then those people will be your advocates when you’re not around…	/r/seduction	20/05/22 06:19 PM
3	19 year old with no game and shy( need advice) M41 Super shy guy. Best advice I have is to find your best place and work from there outwards. I’m still useless at hitting on strangers but building your social network is where it’s at. Long-plays involving rapport-building. Get a job in a place where women work and women come to spend time (bar, cafe, etc). Work out in the gym, do sport etc to get the testosterone pumping and to make yourself more desirable. Find a girl like you who is sweet and understanding and stay with her a while rather …	/r/seduction	26/01/22 08:03 AM
2	She doesn’t want to get of tinder I’ve never had any experiences like this. It’s a messaging service using your phone number. Kik is much much worse for unsolicited messages cos u don’t need a phone number.	/r/seduction	26/01/22 07:21 AM
2	She doesn’t want to get of tinder WhatsApp, signal, whatever. WhatsApp is the go-to here in the UK. WhatsApp isn’t the point here though. The point is to get off tinder. Equally he could ask for her insta or snap or whatever - just suggest a well-used alternative and get messaging on there.	/r/seduction	26/01/22 07:19 AM
10	She doesn’t want to get of tinder You need to ask for her number bro. Something along the lines of, “Sure let’s get sushi next week, you on WhatsApp?” If she’s got anything about her she’ll send her number. She clearly wants to meet you, you just need some lines like ‘messaging on Tinder isn’t ideal’. ‘Give me your number and I’ll message you so we can arrange the date’. Or even, ‘I’m getting off tinder soon so it’s better if we chat via WhatsApp if you wanna give me your number’ Sounds like you’ve already done the groundwork. B…	/r/seduction	25/01/22 02:22 PM
3	[deleted by user] It probably means she’s busy, I wouldn’t read into it too much... If she wants to meet you then there’s no problem as I can see. The other extreme is a girl who’s messaging all the time and that can be annoying and shows a woman who is potentially needy/clingy. I’d just go with the flow and don’t expect too much from her before the first date. If things go well, then after a few dates maybe she messages every day, but that’s not necessarily a desirable outcome (depending on what you want from th…	/r/seduction	08/10/21 02:37 PM
2	[deleted by user] Hey Aileen. It will help to add your location ;) I wish you happiness and success...	/r/seduction	07/10/21 05:29 PM
2	[deleted by user] If you’re curious about how it feels, then try it out. I’m not sure anyone else is going to be able to tell you.	/r/seduction	04/10/21 04:31 PM
4	When should I text her? How you do it is up to you ;). I’m just saying it’s fine to message now - also fine to wait. If she likes you she won’t mind either way. There are no rules to this	/r/seduction	29/09/21 11:05 PM
3	When should I text her? I’m 41 dude, IG culture isn’t my thing so I don’t know. But if you two had a good time on the train and intend to meet up again, no reason not to be in contact before she gets back to town.	/r/seduction	29/09/21 11:03 PM
3	When should I text her? Maybe just ask her how her trip is going...	/r/seduction	29/09/21 10:37 PM
2	When should I text her? You are both from the same town, or she is visiting your town?	/r/seduction	29/09/21 10:33 PM
3	When should I text her? She sounds really keen, I don’t think it’s too late at all.	/r/seduction	29/09/21 10:32 PM
18	When should I text her? I would recommend keeping it/her warm between now and when she comes to town...	/r/seduction	29/09/21 10:14 PM
1	Where’s the best place to meet high value women? Before and after sure...	/r/seduction	10/09/21 10:41 PM
13	Where’s the best place to meet high value women? A yoga school man. That’s where it’s at. Yoga women don’t go to the boxing gym cos it’s full of hench dudes. At dedicated yoga places there are loads in my experience...	/r/seduction	10/09/21 01:56 PM
1	[deleted by user] I suggest joining clubs that cater to your interests or taking up some new hobbies. Mutual interests are a good foundation for conversation, connection and exploration :)	/r/seduction	10/09/21 01:17 PM
2	Lots of seduction is frankly about inner game, basically your level of self-esteem & confidence. 😂	/r/seduction	10/09/21 12:59 PM
1	Where’s the best place to meet high value women? 😂	/r/seduction	10/09/21 07:22 AM
36	Where’s the best place to meet high value women? Yoga class. Loads of fit, open-minded women, hardly any dudes.	/r/seduction	10/09/21 07:19 AM
25	Where’s the best place to meet high value women? I think the idea of being happy by yourself first is a good idea.	/r/seduction	10/09/21 07:18 AM
1	Gaming younger girls 18-22 A very good point.	/r/seduction	09/09/21 04:22 PM
0	Gaming younger girls 18-22 😂	/r/seduction	09/09/21 04:21 PM
5	Gaming younger girls 18-22 I say go for it. Plenty of girls have Daddy fetishes and love the idea of fucking an older guy. Probably 20-25 is probably a safer zone though. I’d hate to have a long conversation with anyone in their late teens cos we’d have nothing in common most likely.	/r/seduction	09/09/21 11:41 AM
1	Just a small piece of advice for the day 💪🏼🙏🏻	/r/seduction	07/09/21 05:12 PM
2	Just a small piece of advice for the day And rich!	/r/seduction	07/09/21 09:36 AM
1	Just a small piece of advice for the day Hey... What non-stim pre-workout you on? Creatine?	/r/seduction	07/09/21 09:33 AM
1	Im coward and not confident I’m currently trying a smile / connect approach with anyone I see when I’m out and about. Sometimes I get a smile back, sometimes it’s a hello, sometimes I’m ignored sometimes I get a disgruntled look. For me this is just practice / conditioning (been out the game for a few years). Making connections with strangers is the first step I think. Today I realised that rejection was a good thing because every rejection is a time I tried. The more I get rejected the more I’m trying. Hope this helps! Li…	/r/seduction	06/09/21 12:41 PM
1	Seduction vs Escorts? I’m not into game just for sex. I enjoy the chase and the thrill. I’ve fucked loads of hookers and it’s never as satisfying as being with a woman who genuinely wants you. Finding hot, sexy women who adore you is absolutely where it’s at imo. Any fat ugly old Joe can buy a hoe.	/r/seduction	05/09/21 06:36 AM
1	[deleted by user] I agree on this. Why assume she’s good enough for you or that you’ll like her enough to want a relationship? That’s all projection/coming from your mind. An easy trap to fall into but a trap none the less. For sure you want her physically, so start there...	/r/seduction	04/09/21 08:05 AM
1	Girls who are DTF vs wanting ‘more’. Do you care? How do you handle it. Absolutely. Absolutely. Absolutely. Absolutely. Im not so desperate for sex (or such a cunt) that I would feign love just to get laid. I like people to know where they stand. Im gonna start checking out the other gyms in my city to spread things around a bit. That way if something goes wrong I can just go train somewhere else.	/r/seduction	03/09/21 06:05 AM
1	She’s back: why you should never be needy Welcome!	/r/seduction	02/09/21 07:40 PM
23	She’s back: why you should never be needy Ethical is that it’s open and everyone agrees. Non-ethical is basically cheating. Open relationships are ethical because everyone is open and honest and agrees on the terms	/r/seduction	02/09/21 07:35 PM
18	She’s back: why you should never be needy Ethical Non Monogamy	/r/seduction	02/09/21 07:16 PM
2	Girls who are DTF vs wanting ‘more’. Do you care? How do you handle it. Im with you 100% on this. I don’t say it bluntly like “I just want sex” but a euphemism. Keeps things clean and tidy with no bullshit. Im not into leading people on although I’m sure i have done in the past by not being clear from the outset.	/r/seduction	02/09/21 06:00 PM
1	Girls who are DTF vs wanting ‘more’. Do you care? How do you handle it. Im hearing you on this. I’ve always kept it real with past flings, explaining that I don’t want anything more and we’ve had a loting fun. Just seems to me that most women I hook up with do want more. But yeah. Direct communication is the way and making sure words and actions match. Thanks.	/r/seduction	02/09/21 09:20 AM
2	My formula for setting up dates from dating apps 😂	/r/seduction	27/08/21 06:26 PM
2	Lower text frequency and flirting frequency doesn’t necessarily mean dwindling interest Yeah man, there’s nothing like a clingy or insecure person to kill the buzz. I’ve had enough women like that. We gotta keep cool heads when we properly fall for someone. I found continuing to flirt and hit on other women despite being crazy about this one kinda helps the balance. Thanks!	/r/seduction	11/06/21 06:34 AM
17	Lower text frequency and flirting frequency doesn’t necessarily mean dwindling interest I Needed to hear this today.... Had three dates with the same girl over consecutive weekends. Seeing her again Tuesday but her energy has changed. She has a big exam on Saturday so I’m putting it down to that. Tempting to panic / wonder wtf though. I’ve played a little though. When she does message I now take longer to reply. Letting her be in the ‘waiting’ mode a little keeps her working ;)	/r/seduction	11/06/21 05:36 AM
31	18 M first kiss and first time same night We all do it, you were nervous. I actually bailed on the first encounter I had like this so respect to you young brother. Best advice I can offer from here on in is to be as honest and open as possible and treat her heart gently with the care it deserves. Enjoy 😊	/r/seduction	25/05/21 07:58 PM
150	18 M first kiss and first time same night Congratulations buddy!!!	/r/seduction	25/05/21 07:23 PM