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These guys would be better off imo accepting reality so atleast they won’t become a tool and be used by the other side. They keep thinking there is a carrot at the end of the stick, if they just accepted there wasn’t any carrot, then they could get off the treadmill and stop producing power for the other side. Women are chad only, no point in denying it, but these guys won’t accept it fully. They are still on the belief they can become a chad by just hitting the gym LOL. I’m Gen Z, and we’re pra…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:02 PM
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If she’s not making it easy for you, she doesn’t like you/not attracted to you. There’s a guy she does like that she’ll make it way for. Know your limits and if you have improved your appearance and you still fall short then accept it. Don’t simp, don’t blame yourself for not glowing chad, that was decided for you. No point in arguing with women. Men need to collectively just stop lying mg to themselves about women not wanting attractive men in the physical sense. That’s what they want, the redp…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:38 PM
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Eh maybe I’m a bit of a negative Nancy as my partner says hehe, but I think they more than likely stay due to not having the best options if they left after the age of 40, or they do stay out of sense of duty which is crazy to me. It does happen but I tend to take more cynical reason than the noble and virtuous one. I do agree with that they should just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:20 PM
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I accept that there are women who aren’t pretending to “care” about their significant other. However, there are a couple of relationships where the woman is pretty much checked out of the relationship and is solely there because their relationship has become one of financial transaction/mutual business partners and not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:23 PM
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It seems like people just gaslight men into thinking it’s their behavior or style or something other than looks that affects their success. When in reality it’s basically #1 in that aspect. I agree that women pretty much only say those things in the frame of having to do with Chad. There’s nothing anyone can do about women being chad only. When you finally get women to admit they only want chad then they just say so what deal with it. There’s no point in arguing with them anymore. The real issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:45 PM
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This is a excellent comment. This is what I’ve been jumbling in my head. Most men deep down know what they want is their woman to be infatuated with them. If their woman is just tolerating them due to her failure to acquire other men or x,y,z reason….her tolerance will lessen over time and her resentment will fester. She doesn’t really want you, but she is with you for some reason that is most likely not positive. This how you get women who smashed 8/10 hot guys and did a number of different thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:46 PM
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Anecdote vs Anecdote. All I’ll say at this point is in Gen Z looks matter more than ever. Yes you need confidence, all I’m pointing out is saying that people are downplaying looks soo hard. Gerbert Johnson has good videos on YouTube and he’s good looking and he’s covered tinder and experiments and everything. At the end of the day the main point I want to get across as of now, is that looks are the number one factor and then your personality/confidence can matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:23 PM
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Stop with this personality dorky crap. I’ve seen literal walking introverted loners pull women. They were tall and attractive. They were attributed attributes like alluring, mysterious, and smart because they were dorky, nerdy and ATTRACTIVE. If they were ugly they would be called losers, but because they were attractive they got the halo effect. It’s called pretty privilege and it affects men too. Stop with this nerdy personality crap. Good god, there was a literal physics major who girls were …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:28 PM
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Prefer? If a girl is only attracted to tall guys (5'11+), then she requires him to be tall. If she gets with a guy who she considers to not be tall, then she is settling, and is not attracted to him. In real life women settle all the time, but again women are not attracted to most men. So following that line of reasoning, most women are not attracted to their partners physically. The honesty would be more like this, Honesty: "I am only physically attracted to someone who is tall and if you are n…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:36 PM
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There are a fair number of guys who have tried to get above their looksmatch, but quickly realize that there is a number of obstacles and some are not able to be passed. So they go after their looksmatch, but their looksmatch most of time wants someone above them. Their looksmatch can most of time get them or atleast have sex with them. So that ugly guy then must play in a lower league in order to actually get a chance at a meaningful relationship. However, attraction is always a factor. Ugly pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:03 AM
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It all comes down to attraction. People can lower their standards, to a point. A guy can lower his standards, but at some point it makes no sense to do so, because there is no attraction at all. So a guy might lower his standards to the lowest level possible, but still allows for him to be attracted to the opposite sex. So in this sense he has low standards. But I do get what your saying with the whole population thing. A relationship without attraction can't really be romantic/sexual. That is w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:42 AM
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It has a lot of different meanings and beliefs to many different people. In general, the blackpill is about the importance of looks in dating, social interactions, and relationships etc. It also typically includes the belief that a most men can’t get a woman to lust for him or sexually desire him if he is unattractive. Blackpillers usually concede that money and status can attract women, but they counter with that those things can’t get true lust from a woman. But again the blackpill can mean di…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:44 AM
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Angry redpillers are not blackpillers. Black pill is it’s own pill, and not just an angry redpiller. You can be a redpiller and be angry at dating dynamics, it’s known as redpill rage. The only entry level way to be a blackpiller is to believe in looks theory/lookism and that looks are required for most romantic relationships. As well for them to believe that money and status can attract women, but it won’t get that man genuine lust from women. That is a bare bones blackpiller.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:00 PM
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Yeah, it is getting ridiculous. The amount of straight of gaslighting, projection, and lying is getting to where even the normies are calling this crap out. Average women get approached, they just want chad to approach. Average men pursue average women all the time, but since they are not attractive or they can't be used like a wallet it leads to nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:58 AM
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Average women do get approached and are pursued by many men for relationships. A lot of average women are just not attracted to the average guy who approaches them or pursues them. Let's rule out overweight people entirely and look at the average looking people who are more in line with a healthy BMI. The average looking guy in this group is often not attractive to the average woman. No girl wants average is a obviously a false statement, but most women it seems don't want average. They want a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:26 AM
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This is what these redpill guys won’t accept. You are either born chad or you’re not. For the majority of men, even after intense self improvement will never be chad. The hard looksmaxxing is where they start to draw the line, and that is probably the only way to get near chad level. Nonetheless, you’re really either born chad or you’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:26 AM
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I loved reading this post, it was well worded, and it has such an excellent setup and delivery. I do believe for a proportion of men, point 5 is the truth, but for most men it is not the truth. Most women and men have their beliefs on how the dating scene operates. A lot of people tend to skirt around some of the harsh truths around dating for various reasons. The reason you gave for women obfuscating the truth seem very legitimate. The men are another part of the obfuscation. I myself align mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:31 PM
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So, you're saying we should abort male fetuses in order to make the female to male ratio more 2:1. The purpose of this in your opinion would be to make relationships between men and women easier; because men would have more value? I kind of understand your idea, but it sounds borderline dystopian.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:42 PM
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The redpill insists behavior is on par with looks and they are wrong. The gym stuff and dressing well is something I actually like about the redpill. Redpill and most of the redpillers refuse to accept some limitations. I get not wanting to be sad, but there are some things you can do like surgery, or getting your teeth fixed. I know the redpill has nothing against braces, but mention getting rhinoplasty and they make it seem like you are doing too much. That is why I am pointing out the slight …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:34 PM
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Bingo. Also, women equate being treated as another option as being "bad", because most guys will do the most for women because they lack options. Hot guys don't lack options and thus can treat women as disposable, because they are to those men. Women see that as bad because most of them can't get the hot guy all to themselves. Hot guys always have options. A hot guy doesn't even need to be a stereotypical bad boy. The hot guys just have to treat her like another option in his sea of many other o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:22 PM
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I won't go into extreme detail. All I'll say is that it was just extremely dark and depressing. I got over it after a while and now I just do stuff that makes me happy. I can't worry about women when they don't really like me like that. I have female friends and they are cool. Romantic relationships imo are just reserved for a guy who can be a woman's everything. Otherwise, guys would be setting themselves up for failure such as dead bedrooms, infidelity, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:43 AM
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Most men don't want to admit that women care about looks before anything else. A lot of men are delusional. Most women are not going to admit they only really like attractive men, but you can kind of get to that conclusion by asking them how many attractive guys they see monthly. That number will be very low. It is what it is. Redpillers are the ones who are stopping guys from reaching logical conclusions, by clinging on to delusions. I would also like to say that I think women always thought on…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:49 PM
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I agree with everything you said. I want to point out that some women are genuinely not attracted to some individuals, even though they still deem them dateable. If a successful guy lost his job and the attraction was never really there; he is kinda screwed. The guy doesn't have to necessarily be ugly, he just might not be attractive enough physically for the woman. Women get married to men they are not attracted to all the time. One of the main reasons for divorce is financial issues. Not sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:07 PM
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