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| 22 | Guy here asking questionsThe problem I have with patriarchy is that you're taking the people who are actually the problem - the people who actually have power to prosecute rape/DV, the power to legislate, the power to set pay policies, the power to set leave policies, the power to send big cultural messages - then you lump in every random joe average who has no power at all with them. Why? Men get killed by cops all the time for the crime of being mentally ill in public. Is that one of those big powerful men, the guy ge… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/06/25 07:45 PM |
| 30 | "Secure" menIDK, I think it's just women wishing for their version of a bimbo that will do everything they like and nothing they dislike, serve as a punching bag for their frustrations, etc and men are just as eager to do whatever is the "thing" today as women are. If enough men/women said playing the kazoo was really sexy, people would go blasting kazoos at the opposite sex. The reason many men are very easily manipulated by this has less to do with women having any magic powers and everything to do with h… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/06/25 06:25 PM |
| 101 | "Secure" menI'd love to ask them - why is catcalling a problem then? Why don't women just read The Four Agreements over and over until THEY become black-belts of boundaries and learn not to take those comments that they find disgusting or hurtful seriously? Why is being approached by a man you're not interested in a problem? Just boundaries your way out of it like I'm supposed to. The famous merry-go-round of "taking it personally": Feminist: "All men are terrible" Man: "I don't like that" Feminist: "Well w… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/06/25 04:01 PM |
| 23 | I asked trans men about their thoughts on masculinity. They feel bad for teenage boysYou can't be an advocate with an asterisk. Either care about my problems and give some unequivocal defenses or proposals or just go away. Can you imagine taking this tact in the opposite direction? "Everyone knows women are dumb and weak and naggy and cause all of the problems in the known world BUT I guess some of them should be allowed to have rights so they can better serve my personal interests" would not be a terribly inspiring piece, yet this is the default for this kind of male-facing fem… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/06/25 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Equity or equal victimhood?IF anything, I expected more support for this position on this sub. One of the most infuriating things about so much left leaning "activism" these days is that it's just this endless appeal to an authority figure that clearly either does not exist or does not care. It's like someone decided Lisa Simpson was the best role model for social change. How many millions of words of whining, how many screeches of indignation, how many tears of hopelessness have been spilled during the great Awokening of… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/06/25 06:25 PM |
| 4 | Equity or equal victimhood?This seems like a lot of effort to put the author down and virtually no effort to engage with the ideas put forth. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/06/25 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Equity or equal victimhood?100%. I was terrorized by my mom and failed by my mopey drunk dad. It would be very easy for me to sit in justified resentment about how she was mean (she was), how the system failed me so many ways (it did), and in some ways, sure, if I were to not do so well in life, it would be somewhat expected given my background. But what has motivated me more than anything else is a desire not to become her - not to have really good excuses to do the same behaviors, but to change. My mom and dad both made… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/06/25 04:37 PM |
| 8 | Blatantly UntrueThe notion you can somehow "scientifically" determine who the victims are in the world is exactly where they jumped the shark. It became a secular catholicism with the bible replaced by "studies" - all of the thought police BS, my feelings should carry the weight of law BS, it's fine if bad things happen to you because you're an oppressor (ie heathen) - all of that BS has followed. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/06/25 08:00 PM |
| 3 | In the presidential elections in Poland, just like in the United States, the conservative candidate won due to male voters. It seems like a pattern, and liberal / left political forces need to start doing something about it.We as humans are not very creative and mostly just copy what's been done before. "No, the problem with your hierarchy is that the BAD people were on top. We have done a study to determine who the good people are, and now we'll have a just world with all of the GOOD people on top." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/06/25 04:16 PM |
| 2 | In the presidential elections in Poland, just like in the United States, the conservative candidate won due to male voters. It seems like a pattern, and liberal / left political forces need to start doing something about it.Leftists love to share that LBJ quote about giving white men someone to look down on so they feel important and how it makes them easy to exploit, then they turn around and give themselves someone to look down on so they feel important. But they're the REAL good guys, the high council of gender studies professors said so, so when they do it, its fine! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/06/25 04:13 PM |
| 23 | Why is it that whenever men try to open up about serious issues mental health, loneliness, systemic struggles the conversation always gets hijacked or derailed with blame, deflection, or “women have it worse”? Where are the spaces for honest, empathetic discussion?Because it ain’t what they want. They are entitled to safety and we are obligated to provide it. The idea that we also have feelings and want safety then introduces some level of guilt, so they go “ugh a REAL man doesn’t get scared.” IDK it’s like how we all know cows are in terrible factories but they show commercials where the cows are happy and chilling on a big meadow in the sunset. They want the results from the factory farm and the good vibes of the big happy meadow. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/05/25 05:34 PM |
| 21 | Why is it that whenever men try to open up about serious issues mental health, loneliness, systemic struggles the conversation always gets hijacked or derailed with blame, deflection, or “women have it worse”? Where are the spaces for honest, empathetic discussion?I’ve seen women complaining about it being called “the men’s loneliness epidemic” because women are lonely too… like go start your own thing then? If you’re adamant that men have to fix men’s loneliness problems, then what do you need from me to fix your woman loneliness? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/05/25 05:29 PM |
| 18 | As a male survivor of child/early adulthood abuse, I'm supposed to just pretend that there isn't a huge, sexist discrepancy in services for males vs femalesThere’s a support group that was a breath of fresh air for me and finally gave me hope: Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families I go to both mixed and men’s only meetings there- it has really really made my life better, and the focus is 1000% on the shit that happened to you and not your demographics. I feel your frustration deeply. Two really stark examples: In middle school I made the mistake of revealing that I was really frustrated at home by my dad’s severe drinking and my m… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/05/25 01:14 PM |
| 16 | Why is it that whenever men try to open up about serious issues mental health, loneliness, systemic struggles the conversation always gets hijacked or derailed with blame, deflection, or “women have it worse”? Where are the spaces for honest, empathetic discussion?It’s not specifically focused on gender, however, I attend a support group for people with adverse childhoods (emotional neglect, trauma, substance addicted parents, etc) and we have mens meetings that have been a great opportunity for me to explore things like my terrible relationship with my mom, my hate of my dad for being a drunk, etc. Adult Children of Alcoholic And Dysfunctional Families Specific to your concern is the “rule against crosstalk”- basically, you get your time to talk about wh… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/05/25 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Invalidating men’s issues is counterproductive to feminism.Even deeper is that emotional neglect is basically a lack of being parented. That’s thousands of hours of missing guidance and lived experiences. It’s questions like “who am I” and “what do I even want in life.” In my experience, mental health does not want to touch that kind of thing. They want to be mechanics and fix some kind of specific dysfunction. But the issue is that we don’t even have the fucking car. You can’t CBT your way into life having meaning. And there are some therapists that wi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/05/25 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Invalidating men’s issues is counterproductive to feminism.It’s so funny that the same leftists who can see how poorly the “bootstraps! Make better choices!!! Don’t be bad!!! Try harder!!!” mentality works for all kinds of other issues (crime, poverty, substance abuse) but is often the first and only mentality they apply to men’s suffering. The best you get is a blanket “go to therapy” which is basically just a statement that there’s no social problem, you just have a personal mental failing. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/25 06:01 PM |
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