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Then you have nobody to blame but yourself. Do you really want to go there? I have some bare minimum, reasonable standards. Fine, I'm "to blame" for it. So? "Blame" doesn't give me any option better than suicide. It is pointless to be sad about it because you're choosing to limit your opportunities. I can't get the things I need to make my life better than suicide. It's not feeling sad, it's that the experience is not better than being dead already. It isn't a choice, it's just the way I am. Lim…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:26 PM
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Yes, seems to be the case, and that's why I essentially have no choice but suicide. can you at least describe how a gf fixes your life Why should I explain that kind of thing? That isn't even what I've been saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:57 PM
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Nope, I didn't break any rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:49 PM
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They're very strict when it comes to certain people. They're very inconsistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:47 PM
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If you're that suicidal over being a virgin, It isn't that simple. just lead a few uggos on until one sleeps with you. I've already tried and/or looked into it, and it isn't viable. You might as well be telling me to just be gay, for as much as I'd be attracted to "uggos": I find sex with either to be repulsive. Then realize it was always your personality and never your looks. How would you know? I tried that too, and it didn't get me what I need to live. Since you have all the answers, how abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:45 PM
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Calling me a liar absolutely is a personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:31 PM
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am I supposed to be trying to be attractive to you? Do what you want. I can't stop you. what sympathy am I supposed to have to some guy who can't even describe how a gf would fix his life? Basic human empathy; you have that, right? you are not homeless so this is not the equivalent of asking a homeless person to get a house. They don't have to be equivalent to both be absurd. Your proposal is unreasonable. Just magically make way more money than I'm already able to do, huh? Have you ever paid fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:25 PM
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Why aren't the mods enforcing the sub's rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:50 PM
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Please don't break the sub's rules with personal attacks. Also, you aren't being very nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:48 PM
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Are there any mods around? I've reported someone for not being civil several times in the last few hours and they haven't done anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:39 PM
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What part of "you aren't entitled" do you not understand? I'm sure you'd just find something else to nit pick at anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:37 PM
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No, I don't owe you, and you aren't entitled. You'd probably just say it wasn't me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:29 PM
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I need more than just sex, so it doesn't even address the problem. work hard, earn lots of money, pay for all the sex you want. I'm trying to be respectful here, but how old are you? Have you ever been tested for where you are on the autism spectrum? Because, most adults understand how "just be rich, bro" isn't much of a suggestion. Do you tell homeless people to just buy a house too? According to you, I suppose women should stop complaining about the wage gap too, right? They could just work ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:12 PM
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That's fine, you can be wrong, but you aren't my boss. Pretty much all of your comments in this thread are personal attacks, so I'm surprised the mods haven banned you yet. If you aren't going to follow the rules then maybe you should go elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:44 PM
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I know what I need, which is more or less a girlfriend. I can't get what I need to make my life better that being dead, so suicide is the best thing for me. I could absolutely be in a healthy relationship right now, but also, if I could get what I need I wouldn't be "in this state," so there's no problem with that. Also, it wasn't always like this. I couldn't get what I needed when my mind wasn't "in this state" either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:41 PM
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sex can be gotten from a prostitute. What I need isn't that simple, but I've done that too. It isn't viable for a number of reasons. Yes, you can get sex from a prostitute, and "anyone" can buy a Lamborghini from their dealership, but that doesn't make much of a difference for most people due to how expensive they are. Prostitutes aren't a good enough solution. but seeing as you don't rlly answer questions I can't help you on that front. I've had that conversation many, many times over the years…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:29 PM
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Sure, no problem, I'll just kill myself then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:07 PM
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You are guaranteed to get a gf in the PI. How would you know? Maybe if we strain the definition of "gf" beyond reasonable. 100% chance the opportunity will arise. no, not guaranteed If that's what you really think then tell me exactly how. What is this woman's name? An "opportunity" isn't enough. I need what I need right now, not maybe on the day that I die. So you either A: didn't go or B: turned down the opportunity Either way... I went and it didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:56 PM
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most people don't have suicidal ideations over lack of gf "Most people" are able to more or less get what they need. Most people would be like me if they had it as bad as I do. Regardless, I'm not most people. I am me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:31 PM
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Again, not a lie, but I can't stop you from making personal attacks. I was there and you weren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:15 PM
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I'm sorry, but people can't make something happen for you if it relies upon another third party (potential gf) having to do something for you (be your gf). maybe there's something they could do. Do you have any female, single friends? Fine, then the person we're talking about is the gf, so that person can make it happen. How can you say people don't care when you are asking for something that doesn't exist? There are lots of people who get into relationships. It's absolutely possible at the poin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:07 PM
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Calling anyone a liar is a personal attack, and I didn't lie. I don't have anything to prove to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:56 PM
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For the same reasons as most people do. These are very well known things. Now what? Are you going to propose something to me, or did I waste my time by answering your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:52 PM
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No you didn't, no need to lie... u/Slyfer_Seven, that's a personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:48 PM
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I care about others, but I have my limits. If others cared about me so much then they should have given me help. Everyone has chosen to not help me, so you all only have yourselves to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:33 PM
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I already check. Those things don't cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:14 PM
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I hope things get easier for you man. The only way to do that is suicide since no better options are available to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:10 PM
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I've already tried again. Many, many times. We're not at the point where suicide is better for me than continuing to "try." If anyone was offering me something better than suicide then it might be different. As long as you're alive, you can change things. I don't care. "Maybe" doesn't cut it any more. and you're really convinced in your delusion. If knowing what is best for me counts as a delusion that's fine. There's nothing I can do about it though, it's outside of help any stranger could do f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:08 PM
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Huh? Was that supposed to be a personal attack?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:54 PM
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Give yourself a timing to change that, say five years. I already did. Longer than five years too. That's how we got to this point. I don't know what "MAID" is. With MAID you will not traumatize others by your decision. Not my problem. If anyone cares that much then they can make me a better offer than suicide. No one does. I've already thought of those topics and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:51 PM
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How does answering your question get me what I want? I'm not going to get into an argument about this. If you're not going to offer me anything better than suicide I'll just suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:35 PM
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Yes, and I've tried all sorts of things. I'm not going to get into a back and forth about all the things I tried. But just give. If you have decided to give up, just give No, I'd rather suicide. You aren't offering me anything better than suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:29 PM
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I know myself. You'll just have to accept that I've already considered those other things. Surely there's something else to live for What are you offering me? After considering everything else "to life for" we're at the point where suicide is the best thing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:25 PM
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I don't need suggestions. Trust me, I've already thought about it. I'd rather just die than "try again." Suicide is better than "try again." You aren't offering me anything better than suicide
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:17 PM
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You aren't offering me a GF.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:15 PM
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This isn't a game of 20 questions. I don't have to prove to you that suicide is the best thing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:11 PM
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I already tried "professional help" and they wouldn't help me. What your brain is doing here - it's tricking you No, no, suicide really is the best course of action. Offer me something better than suicide if you care so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:10 PM
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There's too much to write to answer all of your questions. You aren't offering me anything better than suicide. "Maybe try X" isn't good enough now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:04 PM
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You aren't offering me anything better than suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:56 PM
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I don't have the time to answer all of your questions like that. What do you have to offer me that is better than suicide?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:55 PM
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If you're not going to give me something better than death I'll just suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:52 PM
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I already tried that and it didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:51 PM
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Make me a better offer than suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:47 PM
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Not saying that I'll suicide didn't get me a girlfriend. Saying that I'll suicide also didn't get me a girlfriend. What have you got for me that's better than suicide? I figured it wouldn't hurt to ask for help one last time, so this is it. At this point I'll be better off by just killing myself. I see no reason to call a crisis hotline (or anything like that) because I've already tried that, and they tell me they can't help me. If I say that I'm going to kill myself unless someone finds a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:39 PM
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When a man says his loneliness and lack of sex make his life so bad that he'd rather suicide: You are actually mentally ill, and MAYBE after you stop being suicidal due to your loneliness and lack of sex then MABYE you could TRY to get that. You have to be a wage slave even if you never get companionship or sex. Stop being an entitled man-baby, loser. When a man says his loneliness and lack of sex doesn't make his life so bad that he'd rather suicide: See? There's no problem, so stop being a whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:52 AM
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Then get charged with rape, and then spend 15 years in prison
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:49 PM
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Men have no inherent value. Women do. (Chads do as well) Do you mean you agree that it is that way, or that it should be that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:35 PM
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yup, a lot of criticism of it is just projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:35 PM
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You should know "Should"s don't do much good. Again, you completely ignore the things I mentioned in my original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:53 AM
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Okay, so you're weakening the point you made earlier, is that it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:34 AM
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What I think helps about having friends is it develops your social skills, which are important for dating. Oh, so you're saying once you have the "social skills" you automatically get what you want, is that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:46 AM
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It can be extremely helpful or completely useless. Case by case scenario. Right, so whenever anyone makes blanket claims we immediately know they are wrong. It'd be better than just random chance. No, it might be worse. Case by case scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:45 AM
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They might not tell you the truth even if they know, which they might not. I don't know about you, but I don't take my platonic friends with me when I go on dates, so, no, they don't even see how you act. Even if you're friends know what you're doing wrong there is no guarantee that they can suggest anything that will make it you doing it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:43 AM
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No, it isn't, as I explained. It could actually be worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:05 AM
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Not a big deal as long as she sets the story straight within a few dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:30 PM
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Why do so many people believe that a person's IRL friends can tell them why they're not having much success with dating? Sure, it's possible, but so are a lot of other things. There's no guarantee that they'll know. They might have the same blind spots that you have. They might accidentally give you straight up wrong advice. They might not want to hurt your feelings and so avoid telling you what it is even if they know it exactly (this is probably the most likely scenario). What if the thing tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:27 PM
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If multiple therapists over a long period of time are going "Hey you need to work on you first, you need to be happier alone and until you do you're gonna be miserable" then maybe, ... Ok, there are a few problems with your take: Therapists aren't obligated to tell you the truth What else would you expect a therapist to say? What, "stop working on you"? It's always a good time to "work on you" so they're always going to suggest you do that. Same goes for trying to be happier alone. Who would eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:59 PM
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Fine I'm not hard on myself, but I still can't get what I want! That's the real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:27 PM
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This post complaining about how therapy doesn't help with dating sounds like an incel, except she says she's a 30 year old woman: https://old.reddit.com/r/TalkTherapy/comments/17o06y8/so_sick_of_therapists_insisting_i_can_just_be/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:25 PM
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Best advice, pick up a hobby. A romantic/sexual relationship with a woman I'm attracted to, plus other details I've left out for time, is my "hobby," is the thing I get enjoyment out of and want to do.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 07:47 PM
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You don't have to. You can leave the party early.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 07:30 PM
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because blackpill theory claims that a normie CANT slay no matter how good his social skills are. No, it doesn't No, I don't know a "normie who slays" Important, i am talking about Fame/Status, not money. Money/status gets used. they don't want you for you
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 07:27 PM
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Are the mods here just deathly allergic to anything resembling open discussion? yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:56 PM
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The thing is, they'll make it sound as if it's as easy as doing their "basic" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:35 PM
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It would have to also become much cheaper
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:19 PM
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Does that really happen here? All the time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:17 PM
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A common pattern I see here is that someone will yell at a man who's having trouble dating, and they'll tell him something like "you should try treating women like people for a start." And then the man says, yes, I am doing that, but it doesn't work. Then the person yelling at him says something like "treating women as humans is the bare minimum, that doesn't make you an attractive person." Can you see the bait-and-switch they did there? The people yelling at men who have trouble dating intentio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:15 PM
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Easy: because they don't. They think, with good reason, that they have experience with a side of "it" that other's don't have experience with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:21 PM
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They do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:34 AM
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No one can really say what the probability is. Part of it is how you don't even ask depending on what signals you get. Worse case scenario reputation damage, attempts to cancel you in social networks. No, worst case scenario is you get charged with stalking/harassment, lose your job, etc. Getting "cancelled" in your social networks is also really bad too. It isn't that you have to do anything all that bad either. All it takes is one crazy woman making insane accusations. That's all it takes to r…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:17 PM
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Creepshaming is real, albeit risks for men are somewhat exaggerated. I disagree about the "somewhat exaggerated" part. The most severe outcomes are relatively rare, but it can get pretty bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:20 PM
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LMAO, you not being worth the effort doesn't prove that I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:32 PM
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haha, no, you aren't worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:39 PM
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Whenever you're presented with evidence you always find some reason for why it doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:50 PM
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So does someone actually have evidence of women just calling guys creepy for absolutely no reason other than the fact he’s not hot? Videos? Popular stories? That's not the kind of thing that is easy to get on tape. Even if there was video, you'd probably insist that it "doesn't count," for one reason or another. No one care. Convincing you is not important. We don't expect you to believe one thing or another. No one cares what "women" think, or what you think. Your opinion is not important. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:00 PM
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Might as well fuck this trafficked child, since if I don't fuck this one I'll be fucking a different trafficked child. You make me sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:44 PM
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No one needs to eat chocolate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:42 PM
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I would never date a woman if I knew she ate chocolate. It fucking makes me sick that anyone could be that cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:42 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FwHMDjc7qJ8&pp=ygUVam9obiBvbGl2ZXIgY2hvY29sYXRl
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:44 PM
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A man could just pay $50 for guaranteed sex with a hooker a whore who only charges $50 for sex is not the kind of whore you want to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:43 PM
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I love how women bitch about prostitution being bad because women are sometimes trafficked, yet, they have no problem eating chocolate grown by trafficked children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:20 PM
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k? I think this has run its course.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:06 PM
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You might want to work on your social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:03 PM
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Or just never have sex since anyone can betray you. Nah, just use protection while getting to know them better. So since “no one can every fully be trusted” Be single forever. Nah, it's just prudent to get a paternity test every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:58 PM
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Even people you trust a lot can betray you. If someone is really good at lying and cheats on you there isn't a whole lot you can do ahead of time. You could be as careful as possible, only fuck people you really, really "trust," and they could still end up cheating on you. Even if you you did everything right by finding someone you really, really trust. That's why you always get a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:46 PM
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I guess $200 means a lot more to you than it does to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:10 PM
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Wanting a paternity test doesn't mean you don't trust them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:54 PM
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Not everyone is like that, and not to the same degree. No, everyone basically like that, it's just that you don't notice it when things work out for the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:43 PM
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Anyone can lie, you seems to not understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:29 PM
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At ~$200, a paternity test is worth it. You can do everything right when "vetting" and still get taken by a cheater. It doesn't mean you're bad, it just means you got unlucky. Why are you so fixated on trying to prove paternity tests are bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:09 PM
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Sure, but everyone is like that. That's my point. It's just that the married people don't seem like they're trying to "fill a void" because they're getting their needs met, so they don't complain, so you don't notice that they have the same kinds of "personality problems" you think cause the single person to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:03 PM
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If you got that many doubts then why you LTRing. Why are you even fucking her? Just because I wear my seatbelt every time doesn't mean I think I'll get in an accident every time I go driving.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:54 PM
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It's not an either or thing, people can do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:50 PM
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I'm being a bit cheeky, but it gives the man a perfectly legitimate out. You don't want her to be in HS, but if she says she is - and she could lie if she isn't but just doesn't want to talk to you - then you can gracefully end the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:45 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:38 PM
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Condoms aren't 100% effective, so what kind of point were you trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:37 PM
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Like I said, it’s very easy to avoid terrible trashy women…….if you ACTUALLY want to avoid them. You're so, so close to self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:35 PM
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If you can’t even trust that, your baby mama is your baby mama, you have a fucking failed at being a good judge of character. It happens to the best of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:32 PM
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A home DNA paternity test (for personal knowledge and peace of mind only) costs $130 to $200. At that price point you might as well get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:18 PM
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Always get a paternity test, it's just common sense. Trust but verify.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:58 PM
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oh, I see, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:18 PM
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The guy who salivates like a rabid animal on PPD and obsessively demands for "THE TRUTH1!!" is not the sort of guy you'd ever want to antagonize. Usually, when a guys says that he doesn't know why women reject him, people on PPD insist he's lying, but the truth is that even if he gets an answer it probably won't be the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:03 PM
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Most dudes don't want to be flagged as a pedo. How do you think that happens? "Are you in high school?" if yes, apologize and back away if no, continue
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:58 PM
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It only takes one crazy woman to destroy your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:21 PM
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The only difference between single and married people is that the married people were able to find someone to "fill their void." "Fill a void" isn't the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:44 PM
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women and BP'ers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:42 PM
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It only takes one crazy woman to ruin your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:34 PM
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So, from this "Woman films man persistently hitting on her while she is trying to work" video: https://np.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/179yi7u/woman_films_man_persistently_hitting_on_her_while/ a top comment is Don't open with "are you in high school" lol but I think "Are you in high school?" is a great question. It gives her an easy out, much better than the "I have a boyfriend" lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:32 PM
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It was a question. chill
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:37 PM
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not worth my time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:25 PM
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Seriously, if most women you know are mean spirited Chad-fucking e-girls whores, that says alot about your taste in women. Aren't you the one always going on about how shallow most of the men you know are?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:08 PM
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What if it was that he dating a woman doing sex work, rather than paying her? Like, dating/hooking up rather than "work"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:30 PM
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Q4W: Let's say you've been dating a guy for a few months, it's going great, and then you come to find out (let's assume it somehow naturally comes up) that he has paid prostitutes for sex in the past. How would your feelings about him change knowing that he used prostitutes? Let's also assume that it was long enough ago, and he's been tested, that STI's aren't a realistic concern. Let's also say that the kind of prostitution he used was not what you'd think of as the exploitive kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:52 PM
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it's unconscious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:42 PM
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