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Ya even the filter out part, it's like when I was out on the marriage market for the first time, that was a non-negotiable (no kids) unless she was absolutely mind blowingly stunning amazing. It doesn't filter out men who aren't serious, it just makes men who are serious second guess themselves and weigh options Fun fact - I actually did find one that met that criteria but that was such luck it's a one time lifetime event.
/r/MensRights28/07/26 12:41 AM
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It's not that they think they're kid is somehow an asset, they believe that having a child and raising that child alone made them stronger. For single mothers, they see it as proof of their ability to overcome challenges. The other thing is the whole package deal? They think that having that package filters out those men who aren't serious. The disconnect: everything they think is the total opposite of what we think. Which is the reason for the frustration and confusion
/r/MensRights28/07/26 12:13 AM
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See this is why im filing for divorce, I'm in a similar situation but it was me who said that to her. If you flip the script. The results are reversed Get a prenuptial or post-nup that's what im doing You can dictate the divorce so long as it doesn't leave the other person destitute
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 01:44 AM
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Women's preferences change over time and with life events just like us. Its not alpha to birth and beta to raise it's more like priority setting. Motherhood usually pushes more reliability preferences With that said, if you are the provider type....make sure you set your expectations, you are the prize and you hold the keys to a relationship. Also if you don't have kids already, don't date someone with kids.
/r/MensRights25/02/26 03:36 PM
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Dude I worked in private. We don't go through all the reviews you university guys go through. The client paid us, and we produced a study. When the study wasn't what the partners wanted we fixed it
/r/MensRights14/10/25 06:17 PM
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I worked in private We didn't have to go through all that. If its a university paper or government or whatever then ya absolutely I could see that.
/r/MensRights14/10/25 05:52 PM
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That's a good one! My professor use to say "okay guys lets tie these numbers to a chair and make them talk!"
/r/MensRights14/10/25 04:39 PM
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100% correct! This is fantastic deductive reasoning my friend! I use to work in data analytics, I can literally make anything say anything you want if you've got the cash. We can strat ths population, we can play with confidence intervals, we can redefine the null. We call that causation without correlation Just a side note about this: don't believe every "shocking report" you hear. I produced a lot of garbage back in the day and the issue is the vast majority of the public has no idea how to ch…
/r/MensRights14/10/25 04:27 PM
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It also forces the other person to sympathize. Its like claiming abuse when it was a toxic relationships. Toxic relationships imply both parties are at fault.
/r/MensRights04/10/25 12:41 PM
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Ah gotcha, ok that makes sense. Thank you for clarifying.
/r/MensRights30/09/25 01:11 PM
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Can you clarify your first point, i don't understand.
/r/MensRights30/09/25 11:39 AM
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There's shitty men, and there's shitty women. Some people are just shitty 🤷‍♂️ Our perception is there's more shitty women but women probably perceive that there's more shitty men. It's all a matter of what perspective you have
/r/MensRights30/09/25 08:50 AM
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Dont feed into it, I didn't. I chose men like Warren buffet and other such role models
/r/MensRights29/09/25 10:13 PM
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That's not really a male rights issue. When I think mens rights i think anti-discrimnation, access to healthcare, non-gender based scholarships opportunities, non-gender access to social services, lack of encouragement of male roll models to help guide the youth but instead allowing them to fall to the red pill and become pro-trump. Dating is its own beast
/r/MensRights29/09/25 06:01 PM
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As a man raising a daughter, there are a million books about womens empowerment and heros and yet growing up, men and boys need to seek out our own role models. I want to see more role models
/r/MensRights29/09/25 05:32 PM
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If you say you stand up for gender equality but then talk about mens rights, you get labeled as a wolf in sheep's clothing. Gender equality is the rights of both, we fight for mens rights just as much as women's
/r/MensRights26/09/25 02:49 PM
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I don't understand. Dating in my 20's was like a blind man in a dark room room searching for a black cat that may not even exist.
/r/MensRights26/09/25 08:18 AM
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Oh, I feel terrible for them :( 😞 I was just speculating. I wouldn't wish dating as a guy in his 20's on my worst enemy.
/r/MensRights26/09/25 12:22 AM
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100% this, one other thing to note is good looking men in their 40's tend to be either patient or apathetic about dating. It sorta seems like, from an outsider looking in, that women in their 40's experience the dating world like men in their teens and 20's.
/r/MensRights25/09/25 01:23 PM
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She sounds like she's trying to make excuses For her lack of effort is what it sounds like. She's probably my ex-wife or, if not mine, someone elses ex-wife.
/r/MensRights11/09/25 11:56 AM
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This rhetoric doesn't make any sense whatsoever I've never heard it used for men, but here are some major flaws with that argument: Collective punishment - judgment of the many by the worst of the few Ignores free agency and makes assumptions based on the actions of a few Humans aren't candy we are complex beings with an overly complex society with lots of nuances tu quoque fallecy - its just as likely as your skittles are just as poisonous as my skittles because we're both humans.
/r/MensRights09/09/25 10:48 PM
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Could be this, I grew up so close to Canada that we could communicate in Morse codes using our eyebrows.
/r/MensRights08/09/25 06:37 PM
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I was raised on the west coast. We were taught hold the door, let people go ahead in line if you have the time, give up your seat if able, always pay when inviting someone out (both men and women). Lots of small stuff like that :) I do, however, notice this is less common on the east coast where I moved to. I can't speak for the south or Midwest. It's not so much a women thing either. I do this all the time.
/r/MensRights08/09/25 05:54 PM
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Yes, we call ourselves gender rights activists. My wife is a feminist in the true sense as well. She is 100% about gender equality vs all womens rights even at the expense of mens rights. We believe this whole gender war thing is a bunch of bologna used to wedge both men and women instead of uniting us. We believe humans rights aren't a zero sum game and both men and women can benefit from the same decision equally.
/r/MensRights04/09/25 04:40 PM
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She was a product of her time, same with the crap sex ed of the 90s. We were taught gay men were running around trying to pick us up in vans. Never once mentioned women could be into kids, so at that time, I thought...well, this must be just another step towards adulthood, lol 😆
/r/MensRights03/09/25 07:22 PM
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I can agree with this (center-leftist), i thought our side was all about getting rid of isms and preaching accountability for all. Maybe its just the conservative democratic?
/r/MensRights03/09/25 06:56 PM
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You see this more with older generations and with hard-core Republicans. It's an outdated view honestly
/r/MensRights03/09/25 05:53 PM
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I lost my virginity freshman year of high school at 15 to a 25-28ish year old women. I legit had no idea that this was a bad thing. I casually brought it up in conversation with my mom (boomer) who said "dont be ridiculous, men cant be raped" So I was like "cool I guess" This went on for a few months. Didn't mess me up because I didn't even consider it was wrong 🙃
/r/MensRights03/09/25 03:24 PM
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It's because after the 1960's sexuality became a commodity. It became a double standard where mens perceived value was how many and how quickly you could lose it. With women it was the opposite, high body count=less dating value and "purity" became the hot commodity
/r/MensRights03/09/25 12:24 PM
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No, men would not go out of their way to hurt women. The men who want to do harm, will do that harm regardless of the law the men who don't want to hurt women, won't hurt women. When my state legalized weed, guess what happened? The people who smoked weed kept smoking weed, the people who didn't smoke, kept not smoking. Everyone kept claiming Armageddon and mad max scenarios but nothing happened. I suspect the same would happen here. All those laws? They're just a political move. They're their t…
/r/MensRights28/08/25 02:23 PM
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Had this happen, its a trap
/r/MensRights20/08/25 06:15 PM
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Correct
/r/MensRights13/08/25 04:02 AM
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So you're saying women wont be able to pick up riders that are male using this new feature?
/r/MensRights12/08/25 04:17 PM
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So you're not looking at the big picture here, its straight up sexism. This is Becks Cabs all over again, just with gender instead of race. (For those of you who don't know, a becks cab was white drivers only to make white passengers feel safer)
/r/MensRights12/08/25 03:32 AM
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This is an extremely good point, and also what's to stop Uber from adding a religious preference or race preference. What about gay or straight? The list can go on.
/r/MensRights12/08/25 03:20 AM
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Right because why would you? I mean,that's just straight up shooting yourself in the foot. You can get double the fares (men and women) with zero of the downside
/r/MensRights12/08/25 03:16 AM
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Because if it's a male driver, that person is going to lose that revenue. Plus, i dont believe the app is saying women can request women only. i think it's men to that can request
/r/MensRights12/08/25 03:13 AM
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Right here. I'm joining the i don't give a fuck what you think team.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 11:44 PM
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In Brazil you guys should see a single mother as being radioactive
/r/MensRights11/08/25 04:29 PM
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Washing a car? It's more like being invited to a party afterworlds to clean up and pay the bill. I married a single mom (I had no kids of my own) 2 years in, and she cheated with baby daddy. Fortunately, I lost all my attraction to her by that point, and we never had kids, but still!
/r/MensRights11/08/25 04:25 PM
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Sorry you have to deal with that. I wish the roles were reversed and men got hit on constantly so we could see what it's like so we can have a broader perspective. Chances of that happening is zero though https://www.ebsco.com/research-starters/sociology/sex-differences-crime
/r/MensRights11/08/25 02:05 AM
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"It's not about men vs women its about people vs. prejudice" - laura bates. I do not base my decision on race, religion, gender, age, or medical condition but by someone's content of character and actions. If a person does not feel safe to get into a car with a person because of their race, gender, religion or age then maybe that person should consider a different means of transportation
/r/MensRights11/08/25 01:52 AM
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It's reported crimes first off, and those stats only take convictions. Regardless, nonviolent men who might be driving to support their family, are directed affected by these rules. I feel that this new uber and lyft female only driver preferences are sexist and punish everyone for the actions of a few.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 01:40 AM
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Women are 70% more likely to commit property crimes, including burglary, arson, theft, and fraud. Can I request male only bankers? I mean forgive me for not wanting to be defrauded. It's still sexist. Maybe demand Uber do better background checks on drivers without regard to race, sex, religion etc.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 01:29 AM
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No, i think that elephant im the room is this is sexism at its finest, and yet no one's calling this out. Imagine if Uber lets you exclude people based on race, religion, disability or sexual identity/preferences. Could you image the backlash? Guys, this discrimination needs to stop, this is just enforces the stereotype that all men are dangerous and we need to take a stand against discrimination against men.
/r/MensRights04/08/25 10:57 PM
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I pay $679 per month for one.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/25 05:56 PM
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