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lets let the mods decide then To me it was an angry block to get the last word. Next time you should wait at least 5 minutes and not leave any comment unanswered
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:19 PM
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no, the conversation wasn't over because you wrote a comment and then blocked me to have the last word. you are not allowed to block users mid-debate in order to get the last word in. We encourage users to simply not reply to users they no longer wish to talk to, but not to block them so that others can continue to debate. next time you should just stop replying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:16 PM
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you are not allowed to block people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:58 PM
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just FYI blocking is against PPD rules so I reported you 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:27 PM
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UhuHu look at mr edgy over here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:45 AM
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I mean, what's the alternative? we are surrounded by average and we are average people pair up with the people that surrounds them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:54 PM
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I'm sure there's a joke somewhere but I can't come up with one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:52 PM
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that's bc the 3 men and 3 women aren't looksmatched. The third girl is uglier than the 3 guys and the 2 other women are way prettier than the 3 guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:51 PM
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nah they are noisy I wish there were parks for silent people and parks for noisy people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:17 AM
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"As a man you should not date if you are broke" men say this to other men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:16 AM
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Anal Intruders IV
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:13 AM
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this makes me moist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:13 AM
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ahhh could be yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:51 PM
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Why are you assuming I'm nice? you as general you I wasn't talking about you specifically like "y'all" or "you people"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:50 PM
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the point is that nice guys are villains we are villanizing a villain I'm sorry you guys never read the definition of the words
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:48 PM
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why do women date abusive guys? same reason issues
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:46 PM
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why are you reporting this I don't understand what rule is being broken?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:46 PM
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I feel like the nice guy question has been answered a million times already ​ maybe the reason you don't attract women isn't that you are a nice guy but you have trouble listening
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:43 PM
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I feel like the nice guy question has been answered a million times already yet you have people saying "Women villainize/gaslight nice guys to avoid admitting what really attracts them" maybe the reason you don't attract women isn't that you are a nice guy but you have trouble listening
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:42 PM
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what? what question? the one about why they were shady?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:37 PM
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the mom was fine but there were rumors the father hit her or was drunk or there was something going on with the father that I can't remember
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:12 PM
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yeah, I realized that only recently (as far as I knew) she hadn't even had a first kiss and she didn't watch porn also her parents were shady af
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:56 AM
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I had a friend who licked ice creams in a very weird sexual way and enjoyed the attention she got from men on the streets We were 14
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:47 AM
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I'm glad you are learning
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 12:02 AM
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sleep apnea isn't a fat thing you can be thin and have it too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:21 PM
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I've had that happen to me A LOT stage 1: ugh that guy is so uglyyy stage 2: meh, we'll see how this goes, it's not like I have other options stage 3: OMG WHY IS HE SO 🔥🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:56 PM
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tell that to the people here then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:00 PM
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It's like food Did I already ate the best ice cream of my life? probably not, there's no way of knowing would it make sense to stop trying ice cream because maybe I already had the best I'm going to get? nah you build a relationship, so if you are in a happy relationship you are probably having good sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:59 PM
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"tell us a fun fact about yourself" * fake smiles * kill me now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:49 PM
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I think it's more likely to be cheated by someone who is always wondering what would it feel like to have sex with a different person than someone who already has had sex with different people and sees no appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:47 PM
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it's not like pleasure and love is finite that's just not how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:44 PM
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I'm really sick of weirdos going on and on about how women need to "control themselves" sexually. we shouldn't let church people have opinions here honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:43 PM
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If I see a woman without nail polish I vomit instantly and call 911
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:41 PM
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he's rich jk men, what's your excuse now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:41 PM
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yes it is the other day that I commented about leagues there were many saying that "I'm a 7 but only 4 or 3" pay attention to me so it's not like they don't have choices, they just don't like those choices and that's very voluntary if you ask me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:30 PM
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it's all about standards if men lowered their standards they wouldn't be incels same goes to women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:23 PM
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I guess then you'll have to believe in my Life experience and observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:48 PM
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why are you looking at 9 y/o reddit posts? that post is plain and simple hate speech, is that like erotic literature for you? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:16 PM
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maybe you live in a more conservative place here nobody wants a relationship in fact I know more men that are looking for a relationship than women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:11 PM
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source? your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:31 PM
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the point here is that people's tastes have changed to more feminine pretty boys than in the 2000's even though the word hasn't changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:38 PM
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they hate it that the fat feminist has more options than them 🤣 and yes, they literally are the guy that calls you ugly after telling them no
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:35 PM
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Men, if you don't want to be on this difficult situations either don't have sex, get a vasectomy, wear a condom, don't cum inside, etc etc etc after conception you really have no authority over what happens to the child, that's just the way it is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:32 PM
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if you consent to sexual violence that's CNC and it's a kink, perfectly fine if you don't consent then it's rape
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:23 PM
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care to explain why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:37 PM
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nono producers select 5 or 6 guys to make boys bands that are good looking, that doesn't mean they are "pretty boys". "pretty boys" is like BTS where they are kind of feminine, they wear make up, they are interested in fashion, they flirt with each other, they have all the fans wondering if they are secretly gay, etc 90's boys bands didn't do any of those things, they were more hetero oriented. They played the role of "the boy next door that goes to church and is still waiting for the love of hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:32 PM
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Millennial women liked boy bands at one time. but the boys bands in the 90's weren't pretty boys like they are now they played the show abs masculine romantic character. There was always one in the group that was a "bad boy". None of them wore make up. Pretty boys are a new trend
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:04 PM
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But if women actually had her positive outgoing personality maybe stop blaming women for your lack of success?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:23 PM
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are you arguing a boomer joke? seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:12 PM
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men absolutely do this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:09 PM
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gifposting is abandoning the argument no, it's finishing the argument. It's like saying "you are not worth a real answer bc you are too dumb/you won't let it go" abandoning would be stop replying
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:07 PM
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It seems that they worked as intended since you are still salty about (I assume) a conversation you had with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:02 PM
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but you have to start somewhere, be it with chad or with mid guy, maybe the first time sucks but second or third it feels good women (and men) who aren't looking for a relationship usually have a group of people who they see regularly but not regularly enough to be dating. You become FWB. or maybe they are looking for a relationship but mid guy gives her what she needs at the moment, that's how FWB work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:32 PM
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we can't deny that statistically, most women dream about marrying their prince stop watching Disney movies and rom coms this is 2023 women fuck bc sex feels nice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:12 PM
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the fact that you had to even ask this question tells me you don't know a lot about women 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:10 PM
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but don't have good social skills Let's not blame it entirely on him, maybe they weren't compatible that's how dating works
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:45 PM
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I wouldn't say agreeing with people here necessarily means you are not crazy 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:43 PM
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you know you had too much internet when you randomly start singing toxic gosip trainnnn 🎶🎵 because it's stuck in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:35 AM
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that's true you know what's the opposite of confidence? complaining that you are entitled to better looking people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:19 PM
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About the TERF I don’t have any study or statistic shocking 😂 it’s just my personal experience we call those hateful opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:15 PM
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this post turned into "OP you ugly" 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:00 PM
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Who are you going to complain to? The Ministry of Leagues? you get what you get, it doesn't matter how you see yourself, it only matters how people see you. also beauty is subjective, you can't measure your way into beauty that's not a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:57 PM
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we have plenty of statistics that men tend to be misogynistic there's women being murdered by their husbands, women have less income than men. Feminism has statistics to prove patriarchy, you can go to any sub for that now where are the ones saying that all women are TERFS?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:14 PM
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lol no I'm just bored but not that bored
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:23 PM
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that's personal experience if you are going to talk about all women you have to bring statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:22 PM
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sorry, there I edited
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:20 PM
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ahhh idk I don't think all women would have intimacy with other women but I do think men are more scared of that, they are more homophobic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:57 PM
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Say something constructive or worth reading I don't want to bc your comment is so stupid it's not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:49 PM
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Men have to put in way more effort to be attractive. procedures to be pretty aren't different from women's. Diet, exercise, make up, clothes plastic surgery if gay men can do it without this whining victim complex I'm sure you can too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:48 PM
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wait did you try to make a joke out of bicycle? I didn't even understand the second part of your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:45 PM
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show me statistics otherwise this is just coming out of your misogynistic ass
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:43 PM
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Women are also saying most men are sexless blobs. ???? where? By the numbers an attractive man is way more scarce. exactly, because most don't care that much compare to how gay men groom themselves. Gay men are more attractive in general. Hetero men have the same tools available as gay men but they just..... don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:42 PM
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do you want me to dox my friends? lol or you are asking me to take pictures of strangers like a creep? ​ explain why the cosmetic industry's clients are 99% women? why the fashion industry focuses on women? plastic surgeries? why isn't there any demand at all from men? men just simply don't need it that much, if they needed it they'd be taking trips to korea to get plastic surgeries and they'd be using make up to hide imperfections. Most hetero guys I know don't even trim their beards and eyebro…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:35 PM
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you watch too much porn
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:28 PM
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luckily nobody cares what you consider crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:27 PM
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this ugly man can get away with it men judge women by their looks women judge men by their looks and other things, so it's not fundamental for them to be good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:24 PM
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false, the bar os lower for men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:15 PM
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I swear a women who is a 4 can go to a 6 for me if she is wearing a crop top. if she's wearing a crop top she's not a 4 or a 6, try maybe a 7+
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:14 PM
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TERFS are mad at trans that's only a small part of women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:10 PM
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Our women are just down right cheaper I'm going to die of cringe and nausea thank you very much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:00 PM
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Nice, knowing the language is basic but I doubt passport bros know more than one language though you are the exception I bet most can't even point thailand on a map lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:58 PM
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I haven't personally i've just reported what i heard and read from multiple sources you can fins posts on the sub or videos on youtube on the advantages of dating overseas. that's not the same as personal experience everything sounds cool on social media, if you believe that is real idk have you ever crossed the border to a non english speaking country? I think passport bros would piss their pants and fly back on the first day of a country where you don't even understand the alphabet and people …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:56 PM
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more direct with their intentions. you mean they actually say "you bring me to the USA and I'll cook and clean for you"? or the plan is to move to Thailand and support the gf and her extended family? idk I'm skeptical people are thinking this far
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:48 PM
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to reciprocate efforts more. you mean they are more willing to wash the dishes and make you food? are you sure about this? Have you ever actually traveled and met those people? It all feels like an incel fantasy to me how is that any different from a conservative SAHM in a first world country?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:45 PM
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exactly I've seen many expat videos about the experience of westerners trying to introduce themselves into asian culture and many say it's not easy. Even knowing the language and working there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:48 PM
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We want you to be emotionally healthy. Not doing this weird neurotic shit that men do where you have some sort of problem and manifest it as chronic temper tantrums, punching walls, the silent treatment, becoming cold and detached for seemingly no reason, etc. exactly I held a man while he was crying about serious family issues he was going through therapy I left (or rather he left me) when that sadness started to manifest as silent treatment, criticizing me for random shit, getting angry at ran…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:40 PM
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question number2 I thought men here were against gold diggers the only difference between you not being lucky in a first world country and you being lucky in a third world country is the money. so why would it be ok if it's a third world country gold digger wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:35 PM
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I would like to know if all the people talking about passport bros have actually ever traveled alone to a non english speaking third world country Most people in the USA have never even crossed their own border
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:30 PM
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don't be dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:15 PM
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so that internet bitter men can shit on single mothers like they always do?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:19 PM
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Women who don't take BC pills is because the pill can fuck your hormones up not because it was hard to buy them
/r/MensRights13/07/23 08:38 PM
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imagine on first dates "My expectation? I'm going to ask you to delete some pics you have now on your IG. Also enjoy your male friends now bc when we are more serious I don't want you to talk to them"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:29 PM
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don't shit yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:12 PM
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100000% prefer to have a broken arm than be raped also what a strange point to make men can only get away with creepy shit like this on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:12 PM
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I'm pretty sure back then men reacted the same way to women voting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:08 PM
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nono evolutionary psychology is a pseudo science explanation of science. It's a soft science more related to philosophy or psychology. I'm not explaining why things happen that's why it is not evolutionary psychology
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:29 PM
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they hate them bc 1- to then they are like a "used toy" 2- they have more matches and possibilities than them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:48 PM
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Q for people who want the population to keep growing: what's the long term plan? we have finite amounts of resources and temperature is already rising so? what are we going to do then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:42 PM
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don't threaten me with a good time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:32 PM
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they will treat immigrants better when they need them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:30 PM
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I've had men tell me here that they are going to die if they don't have sex so horny and dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:21 PM
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don't argue the obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:17 PM
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men are hornier than women that's why women can choose there it is, you don't need EvOluTioNarY PsIcHoLoGy or StudIes it all boils down to that simple statement
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:14 PM
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nup that's the whole point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:12 PM
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Saying anything about me being "an inspiration" I had that as a child. Nurses and doctors telling me how "brave" I was like I even had a choice to have surgery in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:53 PM
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Are you sure it's the same women? to give an example JKRowling is a woman and also a TERF but she's not representative of all women you know women aren't a hivemind
/r/MensRights13/07/23 12:49 PM
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it's literally the same
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:19 AM
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"Victorian fashion" is very broad how do you know in what depth topics are discussed in relation to fashion in the victorian era?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:16 PM
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how do you know the content I consume is shallow? enlighten me, superior male
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:11 PM
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who are you to say that history is only about wars? history is the study of past events, is the Victorian era not a part of the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:52 PM
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this is such an odd solution how do you know it is or it isn't happening? how do you know what people talk inside a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:47 PM
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For me if what I'm reading/watching doesn't start with a historiographical overview of previous works, I don't consider it history. Or at least not useful history. that's a very narrow way of defining history and I don't agree. I think a documentary on the Victorian era on YT is as history as a lecture
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:44 PM
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I think they are better now thanks to the internet now more women know what even is abuse. Social media has taught that they are not alone. Imagine being in a difficult situation and being able to see a video of a testimony of someone going through the exact same thing. That is something that didn't happen before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:39 PM
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The solution to this problem is for women to take more accountability, prioritize good character and vet better. and how would this look like irl? I mean concrete actions public shaming? make the single mother announce to the world "I misjudged this guy I thought he was awesome but he's actually an asshole" she already knows this, everyone knows this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:34 PM
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there are tons of YT content creators that talk about the Victorian/Edwardian era, specially about fashion. I consume a lot of history content it's just not about male wars and male presidents
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:27 PM
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People gossiped before social media. because anything is written people here think it was all happiness and family. We really don't know what shit went on behind closed doors. And that's only if the man in question wasn't a recognized member of society. In order to protect a certain family image people tend to keep secrets. It's the reason why pedo priests are able to get away with abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:15 PM
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that's what I hear from real life idk maybe it's "n inches taller than me" for some
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:06 PM
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I agree that height is one of the most important things but I don't agree that it's a fixed number I think most women say "taller than me" ​ they described the taller one (6'2) as confident and manly and the shorter Dr (5'8) as arrogant and annoying . They are almost identical in every other aspect ; same job ; same net worth ;average face ; very fit, etc But the shorter one was seen in a negative way. some short men are insecure and overcompensate it with being cocky and arrogant so I'd take th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:00 PM
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that'd only happen if she dared to say something about it. Projecting a good family image was important back then (as it is now). So if the husband was somewhat respected in a community good luck having people backing you up It's like with priests. Nobody would dare to say anything bc they are respected members of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:53 PM
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OP is involving the sister by having him live there where the sister lives too
/r/MensRights12/07/23 08:47 PM
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I think social media made a huge impact on how people are and what people fight for If there was a struggle before the internet you'd never know about it, that's why people think women were more submissive back then. Or maybe they were more submissive because they didn't know they weren't alone. For example if a woman was beat up by her husband you'd probably never see it on the media. So every beat up woman would probably shut up or leave. Now the internet gave everyone a platform to share the …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:36 PM
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(according to people here) they are less submissive and dependant on a man and that's a bad thing obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:24 PM
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of course now imaginary girlfriend appears sure right obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:15 PM
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lies meaning that you think you are entitled to a 6 when actually you'd be perfectly happy with a 4
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:36 PM
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so you are ok with potentially living a lie and be unhappy? sure, be my guest enjoy your high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:19 PM
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You just look within your league of SMV what if you are wrong and what you consider your league are actually better looking? if all women consider you a 4 but only you consider yourself a 6 isn't it more likely that you are a 4 than a 6?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 06:41 PM
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My SMV(sexual market value) do you have a card or something? what "facts" do you show? how do you argue "no, I'm a 6" without looking like crazy? it's her word against yours
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 06:05 PM
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If you think beauty is subjective, ​ you need to learn the difference between objective and subjective the difference between something objective and subjective is if there's unbiased hard data to back you up " Subjective relates to personal viewpoints, experiences, or perspectives, whereas objective refers to factual data that is not influenced by personal beliefs or biases. " For example saying that the water freezes at 20F is wrong bc you can go and see a thermometer and see it for yourself w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:51 PM
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since there's no way to measure beauty, you considering someone a 6, a 3 or a 2 is an entirely personal opinion you considering yourself a 6 isn't any more valid than a woman considering you a 3. You are both right. so, if the only women who look at you are 3 or 4 either you have higher standards and they are actually 6 or they are a 3 or 4 and you are also a 3 or 4 there is no point in getting mad that you are entitled to a 6 when the only thing you can get is a 3 or 4
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:38 PM
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She's still gonna get attention from a guy who's a 6: so if you are a 6 you can get attention from a 3/4 if you lower your standards to like a 3/4 you wouldn't be complaining about not getting laid you are saying it yourself again maybe you think you are a 6 but if all women see you as a 4 what's the point of you considering yourself better?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:28 PM
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so by your logic if you are a 6 you can easily get a date from what you consider a 4 you want dates? you have to lower your standards (also scale is subjective so who knows maybe what you consider a 4 it's actually a 6)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:15 PM
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exactly, let's not pretend high standards and lack of social skills don't play a role here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:12 PM
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exactly that's the complaint that the husbands finds time for leisure like playing some sport with friends or rehearse for the band but then he doesn't have time to take the kid to a birthday party when you have a kid you have to give up stuff and prioritize the kid
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:43 PM
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No, I'm not confusing anything both girls are extremely good looking if you find one of them "mid" that's literally having high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:05 PM
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no I can rate Henry Cavil as attractive but I don't consider him a suitable partner Also there's a big difference between "by societal beauty standards this person is attractive" and still not finding him as a suitable partner (imagine someone very beautiful like Harry stiles. He's attractive but I have different tastes). There are many factors that influence the suitable partner decision and I'm not sure how scientists are making the leap.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:31 PM
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They really need to turn it up tho, it’s so quiet!” grandpa, you dropped your earpiece
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:15 PM
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thinking that she's wearing a certain dress just for you yes, it's a bit unhinged
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:12 PM
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men's standards are too damn high 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:11 PM
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So I wonder why or how did they make the leap from "I rate this man better than others" to "I consider this mas as a potential partner" oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:10 PM
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That guy's ego is so big that he thought the dress was to seduce him instead of a normal fashion choice ​ also Jonah's ex is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:43 PM
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how are those studies made? Do they show the women a picture of a man showing affection to another woman or they let them know what other contestants answered? Bc I can totally see how trends work (this is not a woman thing, everyone is influenced by trends) but I'm very skeptical a woman is going to chose a man that is showing affection for a another woman over the same guy but single. I think going from "women like what other women like" to "women find partnered men more attractive" is a big l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:26 PM
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that's means you have the seal of aproval of other women, which is different from attraction a group of guys is kind of unappealing, they behave very different that when they are around women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:11 PM
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oh absoluuuutely they make them play a role "the bad boy" "the shy" "the boyfriend" "the bubbly funny guy"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:54 PM
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proof of this is how girl teenagers behave as fans of boy groups each one choses one dude and monogamously stick to it The "shy guy in the corner" and "the one that nobody likes" are very common tropes. Liking the one that nobody likes makes them feel special.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:22 PM
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of course spouse of a CIA agent posting on Reddit, tell the white house I said hi 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:11 PM
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No, nobody is telling you to not get married I had someone being so dense about it TRP iS AgAinsT MaRriAgE
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:46 PM
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middle age 35? that's too old I'd say after you are 30 you might as well move to a geriatric home
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:37 PM
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people here have an issue with overrating themselves they think they deserve a certain beauty but are frustrated bc uglier people pay attention to them so maybe they have a skewed perception of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:49 PM
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high standards much? you wish you looked like her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:36 PM
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That's all you got as an argument? "don't cry when only mid girls look your way" as if that was a tragedy to date an average girl? Idc about your personal standards I just like to mock them it's very funny bc this sub is about men complaining that women date above their league but then they rate zendaya as mid with those same eyes they judge the "mid" woman who thinks you are their league. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:34 PM
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you can just say "take care of yourself" instead of this weird list. Everyone knows their personal alcohol limit there's no need to try to micromanage that Also why dancing? dancing is not cheating idk if I was your gf I'd say "yes honey" and then go my way, drink and dance with whoever I want. (I'd never cheat though)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:29 PM
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nah sarah jessica parker is a gnome next to zendaya what are you on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:17 PM
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it used to be for economical reasons also people who want to have babies are relationship oriented bc raising a child alone is crazy Also you don't fall in love with your friends. It's a different type of relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:16 PM
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if you trusted your parter, do you really need all that? if you suspect they are going to cheat on you, why do you trust them to follow the drinking/dancing guidelines?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:14 PM
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sure dude, enjoy your high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:22 PM
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a 15, she's gorgeous she has that photogenic TV aura I bet she looks better IRL than normal people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:21 PM
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you discuss in a normal calmed way not with threats and tantrums are you young? I really hope you are young
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:19 PM
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sure right don't cry when only "mid" girls look your way 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:16 PM
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are people saying zendaya is ugly? https://www.reddit.com/r/popculturechat/comments/14wrq4m/why_has_zendaya_been_getting_so_much_hate_since/ no wonder people here think women date above their league
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:08 PM
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I forgot that you’re totally a sane human being. I am yes, I never broke up fighting or was nowhere near saying unhinged childish stuff like your friend jonah. It's called being a mature adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:05 PM
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idk I always thought it was ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:03 PM
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There's definitely more women doing diets than men also zumba, yoga, pilates, running, are more popular among women than men it's not all about lifting, aerobics are more popular with women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:48 PM
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the unpopular opinions post has the most popular opinions someone even said "I think women are attracted to a small percentage of men" yes, very unpopular, nobody thinks that here genius
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:25 PM
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how is this unpopular in PPD it's like saying this is my unpopular opinion NCOUNTS something something
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:21 PM
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Why is leaving a bad thing? when couples break up it's a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:19 PM
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this is such a PPD thing to thing that an extremely rare case like being recruited by the CIA is normal I'll remember this whenever guys here deny the existence of looks matched couples in the supermarket
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:13 PM
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(which I think she was) what makes you say this? I need prof
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:11 PM
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the alternative is not making threats and tantrums like a small child? you know like normal people break up?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:00 PM
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lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:58 PM
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only a bunch of weirdos online do good luck with that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:58 PM
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your comment is "no, amazon doesn't exploit third world countries, well actually they do"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:57 PM
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yes, the literal definition look it up google is your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:48 PM
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toxic relationships are a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:25 PM
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If anything, he should have just cut her loose sooner. definitely, without the petty threats
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:14 PM
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A threat implies you will hurt her in someway. hurt by leaving, yes, that's how threats work. "if you don't do X I'll do this bad thing"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:14 PM
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are you really asking why threats are bad? sorry, that's too basic human interaction for me to explain
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:11 PM
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do you even read what you yourself write? You interpreted that she agreed bc she put her own set of demands, right? if this is not the case you should link me the source) following your argument it's like: So if a girl tells a guys she doesn't like him looking at bikini models on instagram and he says "well then I don't want you to look at men's profiles unless I pre-aprove them and you can't hang out with people unless I aprove them". We should take that as him being sarcastic? yes, yes we shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:06 PM
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if the woman is disrespecting you leave. sure, don't threat to leave, just leave, don't be a manipulative asshole nobody is saying they should've stayed together you are reading the argument wrong ​ a chance to work through it a list of demands isn't a chance to work through it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:02 PM
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riiiiiight obviously what was I thinking /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:59 PM
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you interpreted something I think you interpreted it incorrectly having a disagreement isn't gaslighting specially in a debate sub people need to learn what gaslight really is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:44 PM
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that's sarcasm lol that's not agreement
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:29 PM
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that's his demands you are saying she agreed to his demands but I don't see it, where is her positive answer to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:15 PM
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She agreed with his boundaries and then broke them. How do you know this? what's the source? I don't believe she ever agreed to that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:05 PM
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it is a threat yes absolutely oh you thought "if roles were reversed" kind of argument, nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:59 PM
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no, he's saying he wants to pre-approve the pics she's going to upload. she didn't agree to all of this before they started dating wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:58 PM
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it's the literal definition of a threat "if you don't do this I'll leave you"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:49 PM
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had sarah agreed on taking down her surfing pics before jonah asked her to? I don't believe you show me where she agrees on that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:48 PM
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yeah people in the past looked down on women who had a lot of sex, thankfully now it's not the case except for some terminally online people who need something to degrade women with 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:33 PM
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Not really as people are implying that asking a gf to stop posting bikini pics is controlling. the people who are saying this didn't read the texts either smh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:11 PM
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that's a very autistic way of saying "getting to know someone" sluts aren't hiding anything, why would they? there's plenty of men who like them, that's why they are sluts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:09 PM
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So right this is my point, you have a problem with the insecurity, not the asking to not post pics lol. I have a problem with the threats yes, that's what makes him an asshole, to say "do this or else". This is what the whole situation is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:07 PM
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nono, an internet classic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:00 PM
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They could fix it if they just raised their standards. absolutely agree 10000%
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:56 PM
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I live in the DMV area lol I know a few people who had to ask their girlfriends to delete their social media presences if they wanted to continue their relationships. and how many of them asked it because they were enrolled in the CIA? 🤣🤣🤣 you say this like it's a normal thing sure if the guy is enrolled in the CIA and the CIA specifically asks for her to remove booty pics (highly unlikely) then he can tell her "honey I have no problem with your booty pics bc I'm not an insecure asshole but the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:55 PM
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so this is the first human unfairness that can't be solved huh so women fought for rights, poor people fought and won working laws, LGBTQ+ fought and won rights, POC ppl same, etc but men can't figure out one single idea to better their situation? that's so weird is it that they don't have a real problem that's why it can't be solved? or centuries of entitlement made them unable to sight for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:48 PM
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guys I found the owl impersonator
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:45 PM
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ikrrr I can't stop laughing at the mental gymnastics some even said it's all therapy's fault, that that's what happens when people go to therapy like whaaaaaat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:42 PM
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it's very weird to say that better compliment an object like "nice shirt" or "nice posture" or something like that otherwise it's creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:39 PM
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What would you do to change that situation? I'm asking for something that you can do like protests, politics, etc or you are just going to cry about it online and that's it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:38 PM
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how tf is that a common example for the life of me how many people do you know are CIA agents
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:35 PM
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"Hey, I accepted that job at the CIA and can no longer date you if you continue to post social media pics of family members due to the security concern." why would the CIA have a problem with booty pics 🤣🤣🤣 If the law is involved it's a different thing your example is so far from reality it doesn't even deserve discussion sloppy with words that's a very nice way of saying "controlling" yes people have a problem with those sloppy words. you can't just say controlling shit and expect people to rew…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:31 PM
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yeah I don't think OP is talking about every woman that goes to the gym, only the ones who post about it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:17 PM
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then you are not a gym girl, you are just a girl who goes to the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:16 PM
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please don't make them delete their insta hot pics once you are in a relationship with them 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:15 PM
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This is true the problem with jonah is how he said that he was uncomfortable you can totally say "hey babe I know you do this for a living and I don't want you to change anything but I want to let you know that I feel this way" any normal person would either talk about the reasons of the insecurity or take down the pics you cannot say Remove those pics or I'll leave you the first one is communicating the second one is threatening It's like the military wife threatening to break up if they re enl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:00 PM
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you just can't come up with an answer that is related to the post, no? is that too much to ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:57 PM
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what therapy words? "controlling" and "asshole" aren't therapy words 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:55 PM
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I like cooking ASMR, specially asian food bc it's so interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:18 PM
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well it depends what you are trying to change if the "bad boy" is an alcoholic and you are trying to change that I see no problem comforting the woman for trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:51 PM
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Making a list of demands or else is fine as long as the or else isn't them doing something to hurt you. I'd say it's a threat not communication he's communicating a threat which is fine obviously like you can communicate a punch or you can communicate and have a tantrum but I think that's not the word communication is about
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:41 PM
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I think that's communicating. technically punching is communicating too I'm not saying he's not allowed to express himself, you can totally say "hey I feel like this I know I don't have the right to tel you what to do" but a whole oter different thing is to make a list of demands or else
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:58 PM
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no, better, tell him how to dress and then tell him that if you are not satisfied with his choice of clothes you are leaving his ass
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:56 PM
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it is ok to express discomfort, that is communication it's not ok to demand for the pics to be taken down or else like a tantrum he's truly a perfect representative of all the manchildren online
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:52 PM
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sadly many of my coworkers are males we'd be more productive if they weren't constantly measuring their dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:47 PM
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the you should read what's all about bc the guy listed all the pics he didn't want her to have on her IG, like some pics where she's surfing (she's a surf instructor, that's her job) and for some reason people here are calling that "communication"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:41 PM
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not if I started dating him while he was posting dick pics online
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:37 PM
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You'd be proven right if women couldn't get relationships without them. it's not normal for women to go on a date without make up sure maybe some do it but the amount of effort a woman puts on her looks preparing for a date is significantly higher than what men do saying otherwise is being obtuse
/r/MensRights10/07/23 05:21 PM
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nah you are not allowed to be the community manager of your partner's social media what is this crazy shit lol no wonder people here are so miserable, you don't know what a healthy relationship and boundaries are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:18 PM
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🙄 don't victimize yourself when it's not necessary nobody is shaming anyone for spending on trucks or on make up men tend to pay less attention to their looks bc it's not that necessary for them to look good idk how you people keep insisting on this very normal concept that even the manosphere agrees on why do you think only women reach the wall? because they start looking bad after 30 and women are judged by their looks
/r/MensRights10/07/23 05:17 PM
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sure, jonah is successfully communicating that he's a controlling insecure asshole 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:14 PM
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so if you'll never know and you can't control women's sexuality what's the point of ranting about it so much online? it's true that caring about ncounts is blocking yourself from sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:12 PM
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people ask about the stuff they care about? I have never asked bc I don't care, same reason I don't ask about the brand of their car or their zodiac sign I was never asked either why would I assume it's a secret issue? occams razor baby
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:39 PM
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idk do you have problems with social rules? it's like saying that punching someone is communicating 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:35 PM
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Cause that's a waste and why is that a waste for men and not for women because society values more women's looks than men's you are all proving my point
/r/MensRights10/07/23 03:33 PM
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If women are hypergamous and also are attracted to looks and men only seek women for their looks I think it's only logical to assume that beauty is more important to one in comparison to the other, isn't it?
/r/MensRights10/07/23 03:32 PM
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in any circumstance it's ok there's no double standard you are creating it yourself to be mad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:31 PM
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Here to put the nail in the coffin 🤦‍♂️ Even if a guy has a great personality, a woman looking for a date still hopes he's at least a little cute*, a new study suggests.* "at least a little cute" that's not the nail in the coffin you think it is, at this point I'm laughing. The second links actually proves my point even further!! If 80% are ugly to women and men still have children families etc, that means looks aren't as important to women than to men. So tell me what other stuff women spend mo…
/r/MensRights10/07/23 03:30 PM
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Guys, listing the pics you want your gf to remove from her insta isn't "communicating"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:21 PM
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Or are you saying guys should just write off sex workers unless they're okay with her doing it while they're together? yeah if you start dating a OF you can't get mad that she didn't stop being a OF
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:19 PM
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Doesn't that usually cost tons more than plastic surgery? if you add nails, hair, make up, surgery, clothes, hair removal that's done regularly you probably end up spending as much as you'd spend in a truck, an expensive gaming console, or any superfluous thing a single middle class man spends it in for every middle class woman spending on make up there's a middle class man spending it on other stuff that's not his looks
/r/MensRights10/07/23 02:08 PM
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sure, because beauty is more important in women than it is in men that's all I'm saying but people here ignore that basic human fact just to be right women are judged by their looks, men are judged by their status
/r/MensRights10/07/23 02:05 PM
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let me ask you something, aren't women hypergamous?
/r/MensRights10/07/23 02:03 PM
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women can’t tell their partners to unfollow Instagram thots then of course you are creating the double standard yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:02 PM
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the source of income for women that's all I'm saying looks are more important to women than to men. But everyonevery salty about it for some reason 🤷‍♂️ like I have never seen men spend the same amount of money a woman spends on make up or in any other beauty procedure, not even clothes.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 02:01 PM
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the reason that happens is bc on OLD it's 90% men I thought hypergamy was a basic manosphere notion guess everyone forgot about it huh
/r/MensRights10/07/23 01:52 PM
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ts not worth the cost so men don't buy it you said it yourself it's not worth the cost. Meaning it's not a priority for men bc beauty standards aren't as hard on them as are on women. For women the cost is higher bc women are more valued for their looks than for their status. Men are valued for their status, that's how rich ugly guys are with gorgeous women.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 10:42 PM
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the boyfriend recovering from an addiction is good for him removing pictures from Instagram doesn't benefit her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:38 PM
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think about how middle class single men spend their money clubs, drinks, pricey gaming console, big tv, drugs, expensive hobby, any of those are superfluous expenses why aren't they using that money on plastic surgery or things that could potentially make them look better like women spend on clothes/make up/plastic surgery/hair etc?
/r/MensRights09/07/23 09:54 PM
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there are many surgical procedures men can do, they are very popular in Korea for example. The reason they are not popular here is probably for lack of demand
/r/MensRights09/07/23 09:50 PM
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there are many procedures men can do, Koreans are experts on this. I think Korea is one of the few places where plastic surgery is popular among men. There are many procedures that can be done but they are just not popular in the west probably for lack of demand. there's liposuction, implants and bone shaping also tbf there's also not a procedure for women that makes you loose 30lbs from the whole body. Lipo is done in a specific area, nothing looks better than losing weight by dieting
/r/MensRights09/07/23 09:48 PM
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ok, how about other upper/middle class superfluous expenses like a car, a flashy motorbike, drinks, going to to expensive places, big TV, videogame setup, any expensive hobby, etc what do single men spend their money on? Many single women put it on their appearance with plastic surgery yet that's not what single men chose the question is why are men not using money on plastic surgery nobody here is giving a straight answer and that's very telling
/r/MensRights09/07/23 09:37 PM
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Asking someone to change is not controlling them it's the literal definition the power to influence or direct people's behaviour or the course of events.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:29 PM
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Because we as men, prioritize spending it on our parents, spouses and kids and that too on 'real' problems like education, healthcare and housing. are you sure men don't spend money in superfluous stuff too like big trucks, fancy property, private planes, luxurious boats, going to see the titanic on a capsule? Why don't they spend that money on plastic surgery instead?
/r/MensRights09/07/23 08:39 PM
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change or I walk in the word change is the control if he didn't want to control her he'd just leave this guy explains it perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:34 PM
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men have money too, yet they don't chose to spend it in achieving those beauty standards so, why is this?
/r/MensRights09/07/23 07:58 PM
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That's exactly the point of making a guy wait, to weed out the ones who think like this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:53 PM
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then how do you explain that the main customers of plastic surgeons and make up are women?
/r/MensRights09/07/23 07:51 PM
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tbf old comic book superheroes (that were drawn by men and read by men) were made ultra muscular. They looked more like bodybuilders than something appealing to women. No, women don't like bodybuilders. Women like muscle but bodybuilders are just too deformed. Comic book Wolverine isn't for women's gaze. Women didn't even read comic books decades ago.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 07:49 PM
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He literally wants her to take down one of the pics that made him message her https://images.perthnow.com.au/publication/C-11225069/1a4060e45882783669a7fabc43ccc24dee54a62d.jpg?imwidth=828&impolicy=pn_v3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:31 PM
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There are many texts of him pointing out the pictures of her instagram that he wants her to delete like this one and this one absolutely demanding her to change
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:28 PM
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If course women don't understand bc women always have choices bc not all men think like that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:16 PM
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are you saying men could have sex with promiscuous women but they chose not to instead they come online and whine about how they don't have choices? interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:11 PM
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This post's purpose is for all the lonely men to say how weak women are smh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:50 PM
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I've seen women lose their shit when told no. The worst I know was a girl who locked herself with a guy in a bathroom. I think a woman being rejected feels worst than guys. There's a weird assumption that men have to always say yes to sex. That men have no choices and are always horny. So when a guy says no it feels even worst. Reality is not like that, men do have choices and preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:47 PM
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Yeah arresting pimps Human trafficking or pimping is already illegal, that hasn't changed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:39 PM
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Your argument for trafficking is same as amazon. Exactly like amazon, you don't punish the third world country workers you punish the company that buys from them I the OF case, again, you punish the company that doesn't do their job very well to identify minors, you don't punish the OF models.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:32 PM
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No, OP is not a Nice Guy. What separates a Nice Guy from normal people like OP is the entitlement. People acuse others of being a Nice Guy when you read them complaining about how come women prefer assholes instead of him who is "nice" all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:20 PM
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Positivity on ppd 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 there was an attempt I value that all the depressing comments are going to be the most upvoted bc people here are aren't looking for positivity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:39 PM
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no bc in OF you are buying naked content and that's exactly what you get the grifter will sell you the promise of success but gives you shitty advice that doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:27 PM
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why young men are drawn to them I tell you why. They have some form of social anxiety and their frustrations make them hate women. So this random dude comes with the most basic advice and a promise of a solution and tells them what they want to hear, that feminism is the reason of their failure. They wouldn't listen to a woman give the same advice bc they don't respect women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:24 PM
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cant provide the good or service you demand from them if by "good service" you mean they are cheaters or they are from the opposite political spectrum, sure. You can make it sound anything as transactional even though not liking someone's personality/opinions isn't transactional. in any way, it is not hard to understand why men choose relationships with people they dislike over just casual sex. nah that's just loser behavior. Putting up with someone who you don't like just bc you can't get casua…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:10 PM
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you see them as transactional, I don't. I don't value people with what they offer me, I value ppl with who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:59 PM
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I don't see relationships as transactional I just commented on another thread that if a gf leaves you for showing yourself vulnerable she's a POS, not you however if you see relationships as transactional and you'd say anything to have sex regularly, you are the one being a POS and honestly kind of pathetic Charlie Sheen as a role model isn't the flex you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:39 PM
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I've seen all the men I dated cry and that made the bond stronger like I said before if a woman leaves bc she's freaked about her bf emotions, she's a POS who didn't deserve you in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:25 PM
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but sexual success I'm talking about relationships, not just sex for quick sex you can say you are an astronaut literally nobody cares but you won't be able to keep that lie in a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:17 PM
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sure sure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:15 PM
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I'm laughing at this point 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:03 PM
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We require sex for having a will to live this is so beta. Be independent, sex is just one aspect of life, imagine giving women the power of your will to live. Depending on others acceptance for your own happiness is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:00 PM
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the more you insist, the less confident you seem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:48 PM
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so you think men are wholly responsible for uh, conditioning women to recognize their own toxic behavior? I don't think I understood this What I'm saying is that people who fight for acceptance don't ask for permission from the people that hate them. They just riot. This would be the same. If men are uncomfortable with people not liking their vulnerability, they should just be whatever they like and fuck the world. Is it easy? ABSOLUTELY NOT I'm tired of the "my gf left me bc I showed vulnerabil…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:39 PM
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sure, whatever makes you sleep at night I've been in that type of relationship. They usually crumble when real crisis appear (sickness, deaths in the family, etc) so good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:33 PM
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if my boyfriend dumped me for being vulnerable with him, logically i would know it’s a positive thing, but in the moment? i’d be fucking devastated. obviously nobody said it was easy, It sucks but it will eventually be a good thing. Imagine that something horrible happens, you'd be going through a vulnerable moment AND be worried that your partner won't like how you look instead of supporting you. It seems all very toxic and men have legitimate fears about opening up. I know and that's something…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:18 PM
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it's not arbitrary you have to appeal to your "read the room" skills, but this isn't just about vulnerability, it's about everything. Like making dark jokes. If said father has just died, you can't make a joke about it. and, again, if you felt it was the right moment (or didn't have a choice bc emotions are like that) for you to be vulnerable and she doesn't like it leave her, she's not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:14 PM
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a grift is when you lie. They make lonely guys believe what they say it's the solution when it's not, I don't see getting naked in OF as a lie, you pay for what you asked for
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:05 PM
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But I guess she basically doesn't like me and I have low self esteem all because I won't be my "real self" around her... Good to know yep, this is it. You have low self esteem. if you can't be yourself with the person you love why even have that sort of relationship? might as well have FWB where it's more impersonal It's better to say you have low self esteem than faking it. Mainly bc people see through it and it looks pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:03 PM
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but almost no woman will gain attraction because of that. this is just normal people behavior, there are moments to be vulnerable and moments you shouldn't. If you are on the early stages of dating you shouldn't cry your eyes out bc something reminded you of your dead father that's just weird opening yourself to someone takes time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:56 PM
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they are absolutely valid and that's my point. Don't hide them for fear of not being liked, don't be fake. If other people don't like them who cares, someone will
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:51 PM
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The fear of losing the person you love is pathetic and screams low self esteem? ....by showing your real self you forgot to add that part you are basically saying that you don't think your real self is worth of her love, that's the exact definition of someone with low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:48 PM
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fear of your gf leaving you if she sees you for who you are sorry it's a bit pathetic, screams low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:31 PM
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the real question is can you be less pathetic out of will? do you have a choice? hiding it isn't really a solution bc you cant maintain it on the long run you probably can't. So it's sexier to be working on yourself to be less pathetic than pretending to be something you are not. Fake people are the worst IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:30 PM
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I am weak and pathetic. Honesty is brave and sexy so by saying that you are more appealing than a guy who is scared of saying the same for fear of what others might think I'm also weak and pathetic but at least I'm not trying to sell something I'm not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:08 PM
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nono, in practice it's true as well I have literally stopped talking to men bc were trying to show how "superior" they are The problem is thinking all women think the same. There's surely a proportion of women who like big truck guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:04 PM
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relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:02 PM
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Aren't men supposed to be strong and brave? https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14szrb9/men_shouldnt_show_their_emotions_to_women/ what is this weak "I'm afraid my gf might leave me if I show vulnerability" If you are really masculine and brave leave the woman who doesn't let you be who you are. It's so beta to change yourself for other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:54 PM
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I’ve never even seen that kind of place that’s open every other day for a few hours a day because the owner doesn’t want to work tbf the only time you get to see that is for laundry money but it's obviously an exception
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:52 PM
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define slut does that mean she cheats? or enjoys ONS? or is very enthusiastic about sex with her partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:49 PM
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still, running any shop is very hard work idk why are you so convinced you are superior to a shop owner
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:34 PM
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They absolutely are. these businesses do not turn profits most of the time and are just toys for rich women to own supported greatly by their rich husbands lol. OP you clearly live in a rich neighborhood
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:29 PM
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exactly what is this first world luxury of being able to live with just 1 income
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:27 PM
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I would ask "would you rather be raped or being falsely accused?" and I can assure you there will be some who will say raped 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:32 PM
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by people like you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:08 PM
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nobody will answer "yes" obviously people are not dumb it's the implication of what they are saying and all the other more humane answers they are not giving they are going to come up with the false rape accusations argument like it's some sort of equivalent to actually being raped, you can read the argument there on the post
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:55 PM
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I feel like a woman or man from a wealthy powerful family don't have a say in the matter
/r/MensRights06/07/23 05:28 PM
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?? So they post a link and then they discuss something that's not mentioned in the link or anywhere else? how does this make any sense to you? idc about how twox hurt your feelings in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:27 PM
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another whataboutism now let's blame feminism in various countries how hard it is to say let's criminalize all rape my god
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:03 PM
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you are commiting whataboutism the normal rational answer would be let's criminalize all rape but noooo that's too much to ask the fact that women also rape doesn't make men's rape ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:53 PM
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oh no, a personal insult, I'm going to cry so much, maybe I'll join the mensrights sub who knows lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:50 PM
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The mensrights post is reacting to the idea that accusations should be taken as truth with no investigation. The pinned mod post makes that clear. I can't find where the article says that the article doesn't talk about investigation, it only discusses how men would be more vulnerable to false acusations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:48 PM
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And that's bad obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:38 PM
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The second thread contains claims that 40% if Indian men report being raped by women (mostly their wives) as adults. How is this an argument against that law? I honestly don't get it. Any normal rational person would say "then lets criminalize every form of rape" but the twisted minds of that sub are something else I don't have the cultural context either, India is not the point here, I'm talking about how the ppl on that sub (who also don't have the cultural context) are defending it with stupi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:31 PM
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it's always so funny to see men complaining that they got banned from other subs just for posting there if we all agree it's a toxic sub MAYBE it is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:29 PM
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that's because men have ruled the world and now equality makes them cry 🎻
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:26 PM
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Yet this woman thought this was a good gotcha to make MRAS look bad. Every day this sub just becomes worse and worse. they do that on their own 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:26 PM
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Did I say that? That's what the post says basically it's bad but I'd rather protect women from rape rather than protect men from false accusations. It's like decriminalizing murder for fear of wrongful accusations. Why don't mensrights fight for proper investigations instead pf decriminalizing marital rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:21 PM
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Bro that thread actually has people blaming feminism for problems in India the level of delusion on that sub is incredible This is not about India specifically (rule 7 I know). It's about the mental gymnastics of that sub to somehow defend that law and make it about feminism somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:17 PM
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Proponents of the marriage strike movement believe that a marital rape law could wrongfully prosecute innocent married men with false rape char see the below answer
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:11 PM
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so it's only logical to decriminalize rape all together, right? it's amazing how men think being falsely accused of rape is somehow similar to actually being raped the levels of delusion ​ also I can't respect someone who writes seggs instead of sex, are they 11 y/o?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:11 PM
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yeah I read that Proponents of the marriage strike movement believe that a marital rape law could wrongfully prosecute innocent married men with false rape charges Every civilized country criminalizes rape It's like decriminalizing murder for fear of wrongful accusations, sounds pretty stupid right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:06 PM
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sometimes the comment is so stupid it doesn't even deserve a reply
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:00 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/14rzz12/india_plans_to_criminalize_marital_rape_so_some/ It's very hard to take men's rights seriously when they are complaining about a law that lets women punish their husband for raping them (like in any other civilized country) yeah men, fight for your right to rape! good for you! edit: I read the post and the comments. They all prefer to decriminalize rape for fear of wrongful accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:57 PM
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are women allowed to not want to get married? I thought the family made the decision, not the woman
/r/MensRights06/07/23 02:38 PM
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think about it like this is adjusting your life to a new baby something difficult? yes do some people cope with difficult situations by eating yes is it common for people to eat to cope with stress and sleep depravation? yes ​ there you go, a Venn diagram of the people I'm talking about I swear this sub will argue the dumbest more common sense stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:24 AM
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my ugly virgin 37 y/o male friend finally found a gf at church she's 27 and way prettier than him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:09 PM
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this wasn't a QFM but anyway, men too have ways of presenting themselves as sexually desirable. Many post workout selfies, normal selfies or wear tight or fashionable clothes see gay men for reference
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:03 PM
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sure in theory all the single childless people here like to assume that fat people are just lazy all the moms I know told me that motherhood is harder than the thought it'd be
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:59 PM
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but to be sexually desired to others you have to show yourself as desirable (for example by dressing sexy or posting sexy pics) what if you do that only for your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:02 PM
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I was about to angrily reply without catching the /s 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:14 PM
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Lmao. So the fact that a platform is mainstream somehow means the content on that platform is automatically also mainstream? yeah that's what "mainstream" means lol I was asking for examples of broken, flawed, weak, morally ambiguous female leads in any recent movie. but you were talking about how male characters have changed through history, making a parallels to what women like, why are you switching to women all of the sudden? I think the topic of women suffering/flawed is very common though.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:28 PM
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Definitely more useful that receiving advice from 30 y/o virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:12 PM
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what? what are you on?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:41 PM
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lol I don't have kids and I don't want kids maybe you have some special friends that lost weight but it's not the norm sorry here everyone is denying it bc they don't want to be looked like assholes for implying that they'd leave their partner bc she got fat after having kids
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:41 PM
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nono I mean if you have a friend who is constantly comparing herself or yourself with people then sure, she could be jealous but if you have a healthy friend who doesn't do that and only mentions this about your relationship then you should listen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:35 PM
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is your friend jealous in other things too? is it more than one friend who is telling you that you are in an abusive relationship? many things to consider but usually it's not jealousy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:21 PM
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I'm not even from the USA it's pretty normal everywhere to gain weight after having kids I think it's a universal truth but obviously 15 y/o here think it's different🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:19 PM
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that's what I'm saying, FDS doesn't represent all women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:16 PM
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that's how abusers work. They probably tell the victim that their friends are jealous and shouldn't listen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:10 PM
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of course but incels took FDS as an example of all women bc they need something to project their hate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:09 PM
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you are the first person to say this in the history of parenthood lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:08 PM
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that's not normal, usually people gain weight if you go to any school moms are usually a bit overweight on average also that's why I said I'm not talking about pregnancy weight I'm talking about adjusting to a new lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:58 PM
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Sometimes having kids makes you gain that weight, not because of the actual weight from pregnancy but more because your life gets turned upside down and taking care of yourself is your last priority you have to be a parent to understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:22 PM
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Small Ghettos of Social media is not a replacement for schools, politics, media, news and entertainment and every other place actual discourse occurs. you mean twitter, YT, tiktok and IG? sure, very niche Oh? Tell me who are the flawed / damaged / dangerous and weak female characters who needed to be straightened out by men in some recent movies? you were talking about male characters. To follow that I'd say Wolverine, Batman, the joker, any character from xmen, any character from The Boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:59 PM
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"both" is not an option bc in our society monogamy is the norm if given the choice between a 9 and a 10 everyone would chose a 10
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:56 PM
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so you are saying in the age of social media, where literally everyone has a device to write whatever, there's a massive conspiracy where women are keeping the secret of their sexuality??? it's the other way around. Women didn't have a voice back then so they just had to agree with whatever men said. ​ Also themes in movies change due to trends. Before, every character was good or bad. Now the trend is explaining the past of dark characters to make them more relatable and put the audience in a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:33 PM
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broadly speaking hypergamy is striving for someone better nobody cares the textbook definition, it's really not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:25 PM
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HyperGamey to TRP is women's sexual innate desire/psychology to get the best guy possible in many areas of attractiveness Also men aren't hypergamous because we always date down and have no sexual desire to mate with women who possess better qualities than us The only reason women are hypergamous is bc they can Ask any men if they'd rather be with a 10 or a 9, they are going to choose 10. Now if IRL they have to settle for a 5, that's a whole other thing. Men also have a innate sexual desire to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:21 PM
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maybe it's true but as a shallow conversation, the kind of stuff you send to each other to have fun but nobody that I know has Phelps standards IRL for a real partner
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:32 PM
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the manosphere theory is way more dramatic though it says that 80% of women go for the 20% of men (I even saw it as 90% 10% but whatever) meaning that there's 80% of men who don't have sex. However on that chart you see that there's 28% of men who have had 5-9 partners, which honestly it's a pretty normal number If you add them up you have 70% of men who have had more than 5 partners. Again, pretty normal number. If you tell me the manosphere is crying because 70% or men only have 5 partners idk…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:18 PM
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"The Office" spoof video this was hilarious and disturbing I think women say men like kpop dudes that are muscular but not bulky like The office dudes you posted
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:30 PM
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oh poor you 🎻
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:27 PM
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you can probably find a "study" from a flat earther if you look hard enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:26 PM
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or you could all shut up? It's bully behavior. Literally nobody asked JP's opinion and the guy went to throw hate anyway. It's like primary school where the fat kid is minding his own business and the bully calls him fat out of nowhere I guess it's too much to ask from people to not behave like kindergarden children ​ and then JP has the audacity to complain when fat ppl defend themselves? acting life victims "ItS PrEfEreNce" no, it's not preference, you just never matured from primary school
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:06 PM
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similar https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm Your conclusion is very far fetched though, 28% is quite high, that's not "top 10% of men". It's life trying to force the manosphere theory on these numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:59 PM
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for not finding them attractive are they? you are saying it yourself. The only way of knowing someone doesn't find you attractive is if they tell you to your face. So, like I said it before, some people started talking shit about fat people like Jordan Peterson who out of nowhere started saying that girl in the cover of a magazine isn't beautiful. Literally nobody asked his opinion yet he said it. So it's only natural that fat people are going to defend themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:33 PM
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bc on a restaurant maybe you see blind dates that didn't work out and also it's less likely to be children there at the supermarket you see raw daily life of couples with kids in their natural state ​ betabuxxing is the lamest c**e the manosphere has
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:29 PM
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Reddit has a biased content policy. and that's because............................? you can do this, I believe in you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:03 PM
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There is no fat is still healthy. what does this even mean? that all people who are thin are probably healthy? the links say like you said "It's possible to fit fat and fit." and that is my argument, what are you saying? why do you assume a fat person is unhealthy when science tells you not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:02 PM
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doing coke is not the flex you think it is it's kind of lame and a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:57 PM
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The individual has to solve the problems themselves. no shit Sherlock you mean the therapist doesn't call my mother to tell her my issues? this is a complete surprise to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:55 PM
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riiiiiiiight obviously all your friends are Chads, what was I expecting and you probably go to a supermarket where all men are Chads with ugly gfs obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:53 PM
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you are not reading my comment again, don't you think there's a reason commenting on one gets you banned and nothing happens on the other one it's always funny to see the 0% self awareness of their own hate speech sure dude, sure, you are the victim suuuuure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:50 PM
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or... maybe not? you are speculating that OLYMPIC ATHLETES are unhealthy, yeah right. did you know that weight isn't correlated to health? link link link literally the first of a thousand links from a quick google search, idk why you people keep denying science
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:48 PM
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because... it is? what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:37 PM
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and you didn't stop and think maybe there's a reason for that? or you just thought men are the poor persecuted victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:33 PM
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maybe you should go outside more, try a supermarket so none of your friends have partners? are they all single?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:32 PM
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here here weighlifters basically also hammer throw and this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:29 PM
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that doesn't make sense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:23 PM
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Like good for her but fitness isn't exactly the same as being healthy. Those bodybuilder guys are fit but they are not healthy too. It0s like when dudes say they go to the gym for health reasons after they eat supplements and 874 eggs for breakfast
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:22 PM
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However you don't see women ranting about how much they find fat men undesirable you only see men ranting about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:20 PM
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what about all the other Olympic athletes who look fat but you know they are not binge eating trash food in front of the TV? so all of those also have an autoimmune disease?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:18 PM
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have you ever been outside? you are telling me you've never seen an ugly 25 y/o couple with kids at the supermarket? right I have plenty of average looking friends who are having kids you don't have that? all of the guys who are fathers are chad looking? riiiiight
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:10 PM
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idk maybe there's a reason people get banned just for commenting on that sub lol poor men, they are the real victims here, they can't post their hate speech in peace
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:07 PM
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It feels kind of autistic to say that you were lied to when people say that looks don't matter looks don't matter to some extent if you think this is false explain all the ugly people that are married and have children, the normal people at the supermarket also if they are autistic it'll also explain their struggles even though they are probably average looking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:30 PM
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It's waaaaay worst at least in twox you have women commenting how their boyfriends are great on mensrights you have a bunch of incels posting about a random woman somewhere in the world who commited a crime and go "see! women are evil too!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:21 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 now he'll say "no, not me, I have 56 girlfriends and my dick is 85 inches"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:19 PM
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people are born from women so you are basically an overgrown egg
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:18 PM
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r/MensRights is where men hate on women it's always funny to see them post hate and then wonder why people who comment there get banned across reddit, 0% self awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:47 PM
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Hate is a strong word though I'm not going to write posts about them I'll just wait for them to figure it out on their own
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:36 PM
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I'm not sure then what is your point I'm a woman, so a woman being against women directly affects me, and that's why I don't like them It's like asking a POC to respect a racist's opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:35 PM
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but when a subject has any political affiliation then it goes into overdrive. the reason we don't like people who are on the other end of the political spectrum is exactly that, your political affiliation affects my life, that's why I don't like you. it's all part of the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:25 PM
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When it affects my life yes, I don't like them. Same reason I don't like pro lifers or anti vaxers, racists, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:45 PM
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People go to therapy to help identify the root of their problems with someone else who is a third party ............and solve the problem you are forgetting that part. It's not just knowing where it comes from, that's just step1. Thinking that you are 100% self sufficient, 100% introspective, is an issue in itself. I'm sorry to say this but you are not special, everyone thinks they are introspective, the hard part of therapy is leaving behind that narcissistic thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:43 PM
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but pick mes usually undermine other women's opinions, that's why they are annoying, they affect other women. They are even more pathetic than misogynistic men. Idc who they end up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:34 PM
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being self aware doesn't solve your issues though for example people who are depressed or have anxiety know the issue they have and prob know where it comes from. That's just step1 to recovery same with addicts
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:27 PM
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choosing a profesional is the most basic thing a normal adult does and you are saying it like it's a new concept
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:23 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:18 PM
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yeah I confused the terms I think men should value women who earn more than them more instead of complaining about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:17 PM
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yeah I confused them but now I'm wondering Laws are usually non gendered, so probably the one earning more money is the one paying alimony, regardless the gender. Knowing this, why so many men still push to be the main breadwinner? Why don't they value more women who earn more than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:15 PM
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AH you are right!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:50 PM
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if the kid goes to the mother, there's no prenup that would save you instead put all that money on lawyers to be able to keep the child in case of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:40 PM
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is this your first day on PPD? lol men here are so eager to tell women all sorts of terrible stuff so that they project their frustrations
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:38 PM
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Alimony is weird. Friends wife cheated on him and left him for another man. He now pays her thousands a month. Crazy. Alimony goes where the child goes. I understand if the kid is very small he has to stay with the mother but once they are old enough men should fight to be able to keep the child. But if they leave the kid with the mother then they can't complain about having to pay for the life they help create.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:36 PM
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I prefer neutral avatars bc men are too quick to dismiss a woman's opinion just bc she's a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:29 PM
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In fact the CDC says men have more lifetime partners than women on average https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm but the manosphere isn't ready for this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:16 PM
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she's comparing bc her current bf sucks Also is should add my current partner our relationship isn't very healthy. He has anger issues and can be quite rude to me, he tells me I'm fat and that's why we don't sleep together (my ex after I told him this said that I'm not and that I look fine). I noticed very recently that when I have problems he doesn't support me he just goes silent or moves away.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:00 PM
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you have to make them shorter on the megathread for more engagement
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:48 PM
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because you are the one who is trying to convince others that this dumb fuck is something special? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:42 PM
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the problem is the dad allowing that behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:40 PM
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people who can't comprehend the concept of maturing are usually very young or a manchild
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:39 PM
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I don't believe that guy can come up with anything remotely interesting other than rage bait why don't you show us an example of an essential knowledge? we'll let you know if it's based or not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:36 PM
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in that one partner gives the other the final say I will never understand someone not wanting to participate in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:26 PM
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walking, doing errands, running and going to the gym alone? yeah probably are you supposed to have a buddy at all times? that's crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:00 PM
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If I friended every kid in my graduating class you whore! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:16 PM
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ok, like I said 15 messages back inform the other redpillers that they have to stop complaining about them not getting into relationships bc that's not what TRP is about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:54 PM
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I know TRP I've been here a while you are the first person to say this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:38 PM
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The husband did everything he could to leave her and his child on the street, changed the locks and all there's nothing she could've done that could justify leaving the kid on the streets He's an abusive POS
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:37 PM
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again, that's not what people say online RP men want relationships, it's all over PPD as well I know you want to win the argument but you can't argue this, it's just..... dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:12 PM
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idk but you know who is definitely innocent? the child
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:58 PM
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Then you should inform half the interne bc that's not what I read lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:57 PM
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I would never depend my life on a man they are unreliable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:57 PM
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I think it's in your imagination nobody cares about you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:27 PM
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Maybe you are on a branch of RP that doesn't want relationships but there's def a side that does check TRP women's sub
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:17 PM
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oh god don't tell me you are from Argentina
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:13 PM
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If they had a kid all that doesn't matter classic men leaving single mothers and blaming them for it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:09 PM
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yes, he's taking advantage of her not doing all of those stuff he's an asshole for leaving her homeless and an even bigger asshole for not caring for his own kid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:07 PM
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ummmm everywhere? have you seen the TRP women's sub with the "captain of the ship" bs? do you live under a rock?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:06 PM
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ok Karen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:53 PM
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this is the reason why men want a submissive housewife, bc they are easier to abuse and no, it's not her fault, the guy is an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:51 PM
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but we do so..... make a post to complain about it if you want
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:49 PM
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I think it's unfair for TRP to advice men to look for a submissive SAHM and then when things go to shit call her a non functional adult. she's a victim of abuse, that's what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:48 PM
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If she has a kid with him it doesn't matter who signed what she's entitled to child support and a home for the kid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:44 PM
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That's true so that means the "model" treated him like shit via text and he still went out with her LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:41 PM
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in practice it is it's not only about status it's about wanting more than what you are if it was just about status RP wouldn't talk so much about aesthetics
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:39 PM
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I'm just laughing here call yourself ugly without realizing 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:04 PM
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Then I guess being hypergamous isn't a woman thing only
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:00 PM
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and the model treated you like you are inferior? 🤣🤣🤣 idk man, maybe you'd be happier if you lower your standards
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:58 PM
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maybe you are uglier than you think and that's your league
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:48 PM
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Bc you don't learn social skills just by reading stuff online it also takes a lot of practice to actually implement them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:47 PM
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classic "I'm a nice guy"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:44 PM
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mostly to protect the women's egos I mean if you think people's egos should be crushed or if you think people should be mean to each other I think you totally deserve to be unsuccessful
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:42 PM
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of course silly you to think otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:33 AM
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If Chad is smashing then OP isn't talking about him ​ Q4A : Do you think parents are confused as to why their perfectly normal son hasn’t found a partner in their late twenties and early thirties? If the "perfectly normal son" was smashing, the parents wouldn't be confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:31 PM
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I remember when I posted some stuff from the CDC and everyone was "this is not a reliable source" "people lie on questionnaires" etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:52 PM
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but PPD autists request sources for the most common sense stuff like I'm not going to find a source explaining that normal people have relationships just go to the supermarket and see it for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:51 PM
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I think that's what this sub misses is the importance of social skills if you think about it it'd explain why average looking people are in relationships (aka the people you see at the supermarket, your friends etc) and it would also explain why this 6ft, 6inch, 6 figures a year person isn't getting into relationships. Maybe he lacks social skills ​ also you can't lie through a relationship. Lying might help for 1, 2, maybe 3 dates, but not a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:21 PM
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yeah but what about social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:41 PM
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What even is "normal guy" because if the relationship aspect is missing maybe they are normal in some areas but not normal in others, specially the social part.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:33 PM
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So then you are saying it's ok to say that women are in fact inferior and stupid I really hope you say this outside this safe internet space go on, please do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:49 PM
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Interesting most anti feminists say it's not real (even though statistics say so). why do they flat out deny it? because saying all women are stupid makes them look hateful guess not everyone is able to read the room like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:17 AM
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you can't expect to be respected with such stupid argument, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:31 AM
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So the wage gap is real? you are saying women actually make less than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:29 AM
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your question is super dumb though you deserved the blocking lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:27 AM
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most men OP lusts over are problematic OP is even encouraging people to write about good men in fact it's the exact opposite of misandry, it's a "not all men" post
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:25 AM
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That's a whole different machine Unless the sex robots are sentient you'll always have the losers who masturbate with a robot and the Chads who are with the real women. And the losers will still cry on some forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:51 AM
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?????? what kind of ignorant statement is this people might be genetically predisposed for example to cancer. Or maybe some stuff in the environment produces cancer. How about car accidents? or any accident what if a pot falls in your head from a balcony lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:44 AM
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?? that's not misandry OP never said "all men are shit"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:32 AM
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maybe anti feminists could use some medicine too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:30 AM
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It'll never happen. Humans are more likely to build a parasocial relationship with a celebrity than falling in love with a robot. Robots will never replace humans. Men don't even want to replace a relationship with prostitution or sugar babying, why would a robot be any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:28 AM
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real life just ask anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:23 AM
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why do you write your dumb ideas in a haiku/poem form
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:24 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:22 AM
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However I can assure you 100% of women had a guy tell her something nasty just because she said no. It probably happened more than once. Sure, it's statistically unlikely that the guy is going to rape or murder you, but you've already seen a guy angry after hearing a "no" so it's only normal to fear this time maybe it escalates
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:20 AM
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if the guy is +30 is so very creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:40 PM
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yes, someone posted it already
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:50 PM
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what's next overcoming depression by being happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:29 PM
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nono, it's already cooked like ham or salami I looove it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:03 PM
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but you don't know how the wife looks? your comment is stupid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:54 PM
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damn he's hot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:53 PM
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this with mayo and bread Im so hungry
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:44 PM
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I don't loose weight just by working out, but I can lose weight just by dieting without working out
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:27 PM
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I think it's fucked up but that's no my issue, that's for her to see in therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:42 PM
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ups sorry yes, a young woman targeting older guys because they are old it's fucked up. Wouldn't say it's creepy or abusive, it's just fucked up, I'd send them to therapy. It's creepy, abusive or predatory when there's a power imbalance. A young woman doesn't have more power than an older man, that's why it's not predatory. in those types of relationships the young woman is usually looking for a father figure. In a daughter - father relationship the man is the one in power.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:30 PM
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it's the same if she's looking for guys just because they are young and maleable that's bad too but let's be honest, this doesn't happen, if it happens it's just a minority statistically most pedophiles and abusers are men you don't see older women around high schools or in clubs where young people hang
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:22 PM
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It's creepy when men chase women more than 10 years younger than them just because they are young. I'm not talking about hooking up with a coworker who happens to be younger, I'm talking about guys who target younger women. if it's illegal it's even worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:48 PM
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lol no, no women say that a 45 with a 35 y/o is creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:24 PM
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even if it is legal, it's still creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:23 PM
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you didn't read the rest of the comments no? anyway the point still stands, only the age of consent makes it legal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:23 PM
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lol the petty downvote OP didn't say that so idk what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:58 PM
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it doesn't matter if the 14 y/o girl is attracted to the 20 y/o dude it's still fucking creepy and illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:56 PM
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I was replying to a comment saying that younger women are difficult which is not true. the point still stands, predators are always around young women, the only difference is that age of consent suddenly makes it legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:33 PM
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maybe that's why most murderers are men bc they think they are "different" and don't need therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:30 PM
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that's the definition of grooming when people say "abuse" it's not always an older guy taking the girl to a van and raping her. Abusers grooming their victims so that they want to be with them that's why the guy tells her "she's mature for her age" and pays for stuff. Young girls want to be treated like "adults" specially by being sexualized. but this is not ok, it's still abuse, even if she "wants to" again, there's no need for a 20 y/o guy to be sexualizing an underage girl, there's a reason w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:28 PM
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NUP
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:22 PM
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nup
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:57 PM
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AF/BB is bullshit also not all women are after chads, couples are very much looks matched
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:54 PM
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wouldn't say ownership, more like a lease or a contract
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:51 PM
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Also PPD women: "You're delusional if you think a young woman would want to date an old man" some young girls are pretty easy though. An older guy makes them feel "mature for your age"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:46 PM
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Men don't know about this because they don't live it but it's very common in high school to have older guys trying to date high school girls and some high school girls are easy to them bc an older guy makes them feel "mature" and "adult" in hindsight they were all creepy there's absolutely no need for a 20 y/o guy to be dating a 14 y/o
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:44 PM
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Yikes, I hope therapy isn't too expensive in your area
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:38 PM
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I remember high school times where there were older men trying to date us and some women liked that bc that made them feel like adults I had a schoolmate that was proud that she lost her virginity when she was 13 to her 25 y/o bf In hindsight I can see now how fucking creepy those dudes were 🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:37 PM
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Men cannot be really angry without serious legal or social consequences LMAO do you not drive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:23 PM
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booooooooooring the only acceptable reason for not drinking is if you don't like it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:04 PM
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having testosterone sounds very boring
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:12 PM
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bc they have a maturity level of a middle schooler
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:10 PM
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oh, so sorry to hear that I hope you are doing well now 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:35 PM
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oh you are so lucky! I'm about to have a polyp removed and I asked to be sterilized and she said it was a whole different procedure :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:48 PM
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When you say you're unmarried with no kids they immediately start trying to push you towards a IUD. Every time I go to the gyno she asks me if I want to have kids she's so annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:55 AM
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Why use imagination when the phone is right there bc if you become addicted you are going to not be able to cum without porn and you can't bring porn when having sex with someone you have to be able to do it with your imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:53 PM
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My dick is too big and that makes me have a lot of women stalkers, it's terrible They keep showing up in my house asking for dick 😤😤😤😤 so I guess that's my disadvantage and advantage at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:09 PM
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that's true he never engages on the crazy shit he posts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:02 PM
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it's true although you can't expect someone to be lusting 24/7 in a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:38 PM
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if you go on 5 dates with a person that shows no interest it's your problem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:36 PM
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bc of people like you 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:34 PM
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that's very ignorant of you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:58 PM
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that's not how therapy works though It's more like a weekly safe space where you can rant about whatever's going on. If you have a mental illness you should go to a psychiatrist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:52 PM
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then act like it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:20 PM
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Anything is possible in the future I suppose no, there are things that are possible and things that are not. If you know you are not going to commit you should say so don't play dumb, you know perfectly well what you are being asked
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:20 PM
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exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:18 PM
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I disagree. If you went out with a person just once it's ok to ghost, and many people think the same as me, it's a very common practice. You are not that invested in someone on a first date to feel hurt by being ghosted I think but you go vet people how you like it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:18 PM
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that's cope though thinking you were called creepy bc you are ugly maybe you were just creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:24 PM
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But a phrase like that is obviously meant as rejection. "maybe in the future" doesn't sound like rejection can't you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:22 PM
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have you ever even done therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:21 PM
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it's called social norms
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:19 PM
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but you were talking about men saying whatever to get sex nothing to do with this reply
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:18 PM
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yes, absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:56 PM
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ghosting is only ok on first stages of dating then you have to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:52 PM
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It's very sus when men complain about this bc then you see what they actually said it's usually along the lines of "high ncount women are disgusting sluts" or some other hate speech and not "my personal preference is low ncount"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:47 PM
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In my country (I shit you not) we have therapy for poor people. They give you treatment for 8 months and you pay whatever you can pay. It helps therapists who are starting to meet some clients. That's how I met mine
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:41 PM
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I've been going to therapy for decades, it's awesome it should be mandatory
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:35 PM
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lmao so the guy says something like "I'm not ready right now maybe in the future" and it's the woman's fault for not knowing he's lying riiiight
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:16 PM
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no, it's worst than that, it's assuming the guy is a cheater or a liar
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:13 PM
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“You say you’re single but Is there anyone who would think that you’re in a relationship with them right now? And why?” imagine asking that on a first date 💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:32 PM
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Also curious to see what methodology they'd use, probably self-reported =/ wdym you want to put cameras on people's bedrooms and judge for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:26 PM
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