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| 1 | Why I Refuse to Choose Between Casual Sex and Monogamywhat i look for totally determines on how things go with the girl. i’m not even into meaningful sex. if i date you it means i find interest and want to build a connection. sex is good ofc but i’m not exactly looking for it. if it happens and we fall out or just don’t have that spark then i’m not gonna force myself to be in a relationship with you. that doesn’t my she was used for sex. i hate the games drama and arguments so usually when a heated argument happens i leave | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 11:31 AM |
| 2 | How to get over fear of being perceived as a creep or horndog?this is what i struggle with too especially considering the only place i really go out to is at the gym and grocery stores/ walmart. i’m very socially awkward but i want to do better however i’m most comfortable at the gym and we all see how that plays out online when guys shoot their shot | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Do guys “understand” touching as a form of flirting?you seem like a good woman | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 11:33 AM |
| 3 | Do guys “understand” touching as a form of flirting?i feel alotta women play me for attention. hate these games | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 03:08 AM |
| 8 | Do guys “understand” touching as a form of flirting?i wish that’s what it meant but from my experience even with that i still get ghosted or turned down when i ask for a date | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 12:50 AM |
| 1 | 10 reasons, excluding looks, preventing you from being good with womenmy main problem is communication. i never really had friends and still don’t. always been mostly introvert and socially distant. i had so called friends screw me over. because of my hideous looks i don’t even really try. i can’t even get luck on dating apps and dating apps are now full of scammers live steamers bots and of girls/ hookers. i really want to do more cold approach but it feels so outta place for me like i’m faking it. i don’t even really feel confident to add value to conversation c… | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Which one has more of an effect on someone's dating life: looks or status?status isn’t necessarily the same as having alotta money. ik poor ppl with status. basically they are very popular | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 06:38 PM |
| 1 | You cant survive the modern dating market unless you are good in bedshit most us can’t even get a text back lol i’m not gonna chase after anyone either unless i can see she’s worth it. another thing, you can’t be going down on every woman that gives you the time of day lol | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do so few men have "rizz"?I feel “rizz” don’t matter much if you are good looking, rich and or interesting/funny/confident | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 02:26 PM |
| -2 | Be real how easy is it to pull girls at a club or bar?i gotta gay bar across the street from my place lol been considering going even tho i don’t consider myself gay but i am attracted to feminine trans. maybe i’m bi in that sense but whatever | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 06:10 PM |
| 1 | The Brutal Truth About Approaching Women Nobody Wants to HearWhat if you are insecure cause you’re butt ugly and poor? My eyes are like cocked up. I’m not fat nor too fit but I do workout regularly. What do I even say and or talk about? I hate over sharing with strangers. I like to be private | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 11:47 PM |
| 3 | How to beat the fear of rejectionMy thing is it just makes me feel fake cause I have never been a talkative person. I know, I know. Step outta comfort zone blah blah. Truth is I just don’t care to chat with strangers and I assume most ppl are like this too cause we are adults and have better things to do than to stop to talk to strangers. Aside from that I’m not really too interesting mostly cause I have no friends. There are many things I want to do but can’t cause I have no friends so all I do is work go to the gym watch YouT… | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedputting effort means you have to always take out a girl for a drink? nah not me. normally i’ll go somewhere cheap and simple unless as said before we’ve already built a connection. some random woman i never met that i have no clue of her intentions will not get anything from me | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedlol that’s something attractive ppl say. us ugly men have different experiences | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedspeak for yourself. i been rejected majority of times i shoot my shot and i never cussed out or assaulted a woman. now if she’s rude and disrespectful about it then i’d might cuss her out a lil but that’s it and it’s justified at that point | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 11:41 AM |
| 5 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedi can usually tell. if i sense no connection on date 1 where she doesn’t engage in conversation or want to be close to me then that’s the last date. that’s why i mostly proceed with a woman that i’ve already made a connection and or friendship with. i ain’t got time for maybes. gotta build something before i decide to take you out | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedwhat makes a man an enjoyable person to you? | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 10:59 AM |
| 5 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedthat’s you tho. other girls out there don’t care. they just want free things. been there done that. that’s why i’m very skeptical to who i wine and dine as well as where we go for the date | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 10:58 AM |
| 7 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedyea but if you ain’t feeling the guy then stop ordering drinks and end the date early. | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 10:57 AM |
| 7 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedthat needs to be addressed and changed. i never understood that | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 09:49 AM |
| 2 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedwho’s being bitter? | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedi do agree with your first statement tho | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 09:21 AM |
| 23 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatednah a girl knows if she’s physically attracted to a man when she sees him so if she feels he’s unattractive and he has no chance why is she accepting dates from him when he’s pursuing? don’t tell me women don’t do that. | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 09:18 AM |
| 7 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedwe should make love and share emotions together sometime | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 09:12 AM |
| 85 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedexcept many women accept just to get free drinks with no intention of even giving the guy a kiss in the end | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Approached the gym employeeYou must be the bf lol sorry to tell you she’s seeing other guys | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 11:47 PM |
| 0 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?i find that it helps to find a place you’ll both enjoy. like a mexican restaurant or something. that way even tho you don’t get laid and the date sucked at least you got to enjoy a good meal and a drink if you consume alcohol. you take an L and W at the same time. also don’t take a girl somewhere you think maybe too pricey. idc what anyone says but first dates should never be fancy. hell even chick fillet ihop or chilis should be fine. if she ain’t with that they find someone else. i rather be s… | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 10:54 PM |
| 15 | "How do I ask for a woman's number?"getting a girls number solves nothing. remember you are almost never the only one. i’ve gotten many numbers. sometimes it goes well and we click and hookup. other times things go well and stilll get ghosted. sometimes you straight up get ghosted. that’s why it’s always best to date multiple women at once until you find that one that isn’t on games and truly is into you. trust me you’ll know if you pay attention | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Why will women respond positively to flirty/teasing messages and the soft close for the date but then ghost you as soon as you ask for their availability (“When are you free?” Or “Whats ur schedule like this week?”)figured. how do ik the girl is into me tho? it’s like they all play games at this point | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Why will women respond positively to flirty/teasing messages and the soft close for the date but then ghost you as soon as you ask for their availability (“When are you free?” Or “Whats ur schedule like this week?”)i hate going through this. it’s a temp girl at work that was very flirtatious and we chatted all day. thought we had chemistry but after i got her number her texts became dry and she always seem to go ghost when i ask her out. it been over a week now. should i move on or keep trying? | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | I'm proof that having success / money doesn't get you laid. (27/M)do you go out and show your wealth? maybe most women assume you’re broke. nothing wrong with not being flashy but our appearance in public tells allot. me i’m broke and dress broke but idc lol that’s just me. also i keep hearing lately that with money and success it boosts your confidence by default so your “game” gets better without you knowing. congratulations on your success btw | /r/seduction | 11/09/23 10:04 AM |
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