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| 7 | I got banned from a bar for cold approaching the wrong wayIf you are going to stay at a venue, then you need to JUST BE SOCIAL and not trolling for numbers. This makes you creepy. While RISK being creepy... if all you are doing is "Must Number Close", then all you are is becoming a Dancing Opener Monkey. You are missing the point of opening and being social. Next time you go out... You are NOT ALLOWED TO ASK FOR A NUMBER. Just Open and chat with EVERYONE in the joint and have ZERO INTE TION but to chat and develop a social circle for the night. If a gi… | /r/seduction | 04/08/26 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Successfully ran The Mystery Method last nightThe MM works | /r/seduction | 02/08/26 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Asking out your waitress. Thoughts? Experiences?And I get down voted because... you are cunts Going through this bullshit reminds me as to why I walked away from "the lairs" and the whole "wingman/pickup" bullshit. Crabs in a bucket mentality | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 08:13 AM |
| 0 | Asking out your waitress. Thoughts? Experiences?Go for it I've absolutely dated several. If you are generating actual rapport, then get the digits and make a plan. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 07:23 AM |
| 1 | I've been doing pickup for almost 15 years and now I feel convinced that its a scam and/or a waste of time?Get out of the house | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 03:51 PM |
| 2 | I've been doing pickup for almost 15 years and now I feel convinced that its a scam and/or a waste of time?If all you are is an "Opening Dance Monkey" and cannot carry conversation with ANYONE around you, then you are correct. What a lot of people getting into "Pickup" do is just focus on talking to girls... girls... girls. While not improving other aspects of their life and that is having meaningful relationships across the board. Be it for business or social. I stepped away from the lairs because so many had just this narrow focus on "number closing"... dates, other closes and not see HOW this can … | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 04:35 AM |
| 3 | How do I playfully handle women who assume I'm gay?"Kiss me and find out" | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Guys 5'4 and below who get laid without a social circle, how do you do it?FLIP THE SCRIPT and be FUNNY "Honey, my eyes are right here... " be really cheeky snd show that they are at her tits (if she is really tall) "C'mere sweetheart, get down to my level" "Babe, talk shorter..." This is coming from when we had a legit small person in the lair. Once when he rolled with this sort of banter, it was amazing to watch him go. | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Potential 3some need helpDon't bullshit that you "have a friend"... | /r/seduction | 22/05/26 03:02 AM |
| 0 | How to seduce shy and insecure woman?"All cats are gray in the dark"... | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Had insane chemistry with a girl on my flight, didn’t ask for her IG, found it later — should I message her?Take a shot | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Went up to a girl for the first timeOK bro... good story... bro I'm reading your post and response, you are deluding yourself. Whatever dog. If it isn't "that deep", then why did you post? Do you need the attention that badly? Trying to give you actionable advice, but I'll be sure to take them down. My apologies for misreading you. | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 03:21 AM |
| – | Went up to a girl for the first timeThat is a contradiction in terms... "I’m a social guy but not extremely outgoing" And then you call yourself out: "I chat it up with people I already know but not really strangers" Is a terrible "box" to put yourself into... you need to figure out how to start chatting it up and being sociable with strangers and not just women who move your dick. | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Went up to a girl for the first timeYou need to recalibrate your game them I get it... Jack Daniels was a great wingman for me With the way you wrote this... it didn't feel like you are comfortable being invited out, by a woman, to go to Chess Club. My apologies | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Went up to a girl for the first timeWhen you go through life in your day... do you strike up conversations with LOTS of strangers in general? Or Do you just go looking for chicks? | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Went up to a girl for the first timeSTOP SAVING EVERY INTERACTION AS -G A M E- All of this should also be serving you IN REAL LIFE. Chat with PEOPLE! | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Went up to a girl for the first timeAt this stage of the game... stop trying to game her or get her on a date. She is testing you and seeing if you are at least a normal human. You need to have MORE interactions with women in general. This includes even having women as friends. You need "calibration". You SHOULD go to Chess Club with her, especially if you are interested in chess. I think that it IS a good thing that you went back and re-engaged... and you now do have: a number. And she is inviting you to something SOCIAL. Make fr… | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 02:42 AM |
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