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Ok-Championship216/r/Divorce_Men02/02/23 05:39 PM
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She is gone brother - give her the D - you will be so much happier - unless you will be happy with her sleeping with other dudes - and some guys are cool with that - but your call.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/23 04:25 PM
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Stopped her meds - so is she BPD or Bipolar?
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/23 01:26 AM
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We are in dating environment called "The Hook up Zone". They can swipe on you and say, cool an set it up, but as soon as someone better comes along, you are a think of the past and not even worth the complimentary rejection letter....and women say we are the creatures....please!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/23 06:10 PM
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I hear ya - the % is very low in terms of reconciliation. Once that trust is broke so hard. As men, I believe when we ask her to be our wife then we hope that stepping out of the marriage is a no go and they get that - but if they do, loyalty and trust are done - I do not like to share nor do I want to think of my wife having sex with another man - nope - don't care if she is a billionaire or supermodel - she is dead to me!
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/23 03:52 PM
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OP - you need to go to suurvinginfidelity reddit...more adive on what you need since you want to stay in marriage and try and repair
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/23 02:14 AM
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Welp - bye Felecia
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/23 02:09 AM
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Dude......she is headed down a path or implosion!! No kids, run man run!!!
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/23 02:04 AM
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Post partum depression bro??? She may need serious help if you all want to save the marriage - plus, if it is PPD, watch the kids - women have done some stupid dangerous shit
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/23 02:03 AM
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She kicked you out!?!?!
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/23 10:27 PM
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Sorry man.....I think, at least for me, it was the feeling of failure. We men, I think it is in our DNA want to succeed, provide and be a good man and for the most part we try and try. Sometimes we fail. We really never enter marriage thinking "well I will try it for a few years" and then crash and burn. I may be wrong, but failure is not an option and when we lose, divorce, get fired, we are hard on ourselves......but the bright spot is over time and with hard work - getting that grove back etc…
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 01:00 AM
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Stay strong brother! What resonated with me is your "cringy" comment. My gut tells me when this is all over, and you heal and get ready you are more likely to have a much more successful relationship with the next woman. She on the other hand, yes, may pull dudes, but not high value dudes in my opinion or at least not the type of guy that will be in long term with her. I mean, how many guys would want this type long term? No offence to you at all. I can see her playing these "going out dancing" …
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/23 10:54 PM
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Sometimes things just don't work out. Be thankful you have recognized early in your marriage and in ur life. You have plenty of time to find the right partner
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/23 10:42 PM
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Agree - healthy relationships are a think of dreams for a divorced kid :(
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 11:30 PM
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You want kids...she does not and run away......do the math bro - time to move on if you want kids - she is not the same page. She wants no money - you are getting a gift many of us never had. Sorry man, she is broken - all she knows about relationships is when they get tough you run away - not good
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 08:50 PM
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Are you in the spare bedroom? Do not be in the same bed - ship her ass to the couch if you need to. Remember it is always easier to be the one that ends things - so for her, she has moved on. She is doing the sweetie talk etc. because it is habit. Sorry bro - it sux
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 08:45 PM
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Yes - but sometimes knowing the whys is good. If she is having a melt down, ok, you can try to fix or not. But if she seriously can not stand you any more, at least you have that closure. For me and I know everyone is different, if I know the person just does not like me - then a big Fuck you to them and easier to move on. Wishing you the best
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/23 05:10 PM
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She is indifferent - she could careless if you live or die. Mate, don't live like this - life is way too short. Separate, then divorce - go meet someone that wants and cares to be around you.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/23 05:22 AM
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Can you speak with her parents, siblings or maybe her bestie??? Someone to talk to her to see what is going on in her head? I mean, does she really think being a single mom of 3 is going to be easy all because you fucked up on putting a vacuum in the car???
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/23 05:17 AM
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I agree. Being cheated on is a form of abuse. Man, it is traumatic. I am so sorry she did this to you and your family. People have no idea how harmful cheating is - just leave us. Also, I think you should look into therapy - talking these issues out helps - I go every 4 weeks just as a release - a verbal puking basically. It does help. Take care of yourself OP :)
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/23 12:03 AM
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Wow - sounds soo familiar - best of luck op - maybe time to pull the cord!
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 07:41 PM
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Your house too - go back she can't lock you out. Make sure you record interactions - she is liable to fill at RO against you start shouting abusive - have a witness when you go back and say can't kick you out or prevent you from your kids - good luck
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/23 06:24 PM
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Sorry man - stay strong!!!
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/23 12:30 AM
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Sorry...I assume you got married and getting divorced or tried to make it work and she wanted no part of it? :(
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/23 07:39 PM
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Wow - she is way damaged - do not engage with crazy
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/23 08:11 PM
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