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Since I've looked and struggled to find, I can tell you that both can be true. Some women are bad at looking but those men are hard to find to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:24 PM
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Those men are rare. Many men only have money to offer. It’s to the point I've had to cut friendships because they were trying to poach him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:06 PM
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Doesn’t have to be monetary it’s that usually when we ask for non monetary things it’s never up to par because men were not raised to developp skills other than being hyper competitive in capitalism. I'm the main breadwinner in my household but my partner does most of domestic labour, protects me physically and brings about a level of emotional safety that is hard to find in most relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:38 PM
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To be clearer sometimes , it happens that you originally find someone attractive but then you get more intimate and it just feels off. I doubt this can be fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:53 AM
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When we can fend for ouselves our lives are aldready good. Relationships with men, especially co living with them usually lowers our quality of life unless they actually compensate for all the downfalls they bring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:26 AM
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Im gonna need screenshots or quotes because I've never seen women go "hahaj look at this guy being lonely". You're the one lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:17 AM
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I think technique can be fixed but if the raw attraction is nit there from start there is no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:15 AM
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Women do not mock lonely men or depressed men. They mock the subset of you who act in mean ways and then complain about nobody wanting to be around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:35 AM
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The Cub obviously. But the optimal solution for survival is to not engage with either. Now, some women choose to try to domesticate the bigger beast so it can protect them from all the other ones. I'm not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:28 AM
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I'm not a feminist though. I'm just a woman who protects herself. If that makes me a misandrist or whatever, I don’t really care. Men I meet in my day to day life don’t notice nor care that I do not want to be around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:11 AM
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It’s a sub where we discuss those things. If people are distressed by opinions they should not come to a debate sub. It is but as black people, we are better off away from them anyways. I'll never understand trying to convince people who want nothing to do with you to be with you. Privilege doesn’t mean you do not suffer it means you have better options than others in similar situations through no merot of your own.There are women in the situations you described. And on top of that they live in …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:38 PM
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"Gen Z women get paid more for the same job" Source ? "Gen Z women have more friends. " Because, as men loved to explained when women complained about the pay gap, women are more people oriented and developp skills to get along. "Gen Z women are more likely to get an interview. " Source ? "Gen Z women graduate more" Women are more conscientious at schools and get better grades. To answer your question GenZ women: - still get their health concerns dismissed more often than men - are still less re…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:14 PM
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Yes, you have less prospects where you don’t conform to gender roles. The fact that pussy is such a motivator for men isn’t women’s fault. I don’t conform to my gender roles and Ive struggled in dating. Such is life. Not sure what we are debating over at this point. Men created toxic environments from themselves and others. I chose to not participate. They chose to stay because of pussy. It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:08 PM
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They do, they’re just unwilling to take the paycut that comes with it. Both are intertwined. You worse off than a billionaire woman. But a woman in your tax brackett is worse off than you. Rich man>rich woman>poor man>poor woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:35 PM
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Maybe, but then there needs to be a willingness to make mixed space pleasant to everyone. Just like many things are cartered to white people, many things are catered to men. Just like it’s very calming to be in a bubble that caters to me as a black person (hair products that fit my hair everywhere I go, doctors that know how to spot symptoms on dark skin, shops that sell bandages tha fit my skin tone everywhere), it’s relaxing to be in bubbles who cater to me as a woman (work culture that is col…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:04 PM
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I happen to be black. The issue was the equal part. Not the separate.I love Atlanta because I can put myself in fully black prosperity bubbles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:32 PM
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Turned out great so far. Most people do it : people of same ethnic group, socio economic background etc tend to garther together. I'm just more brutally honest about it than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:30 PM
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I happen to be black, and I wouldn’t care if someone had said that about black people. And in practice many white folks do exactly this (avoid being in white areas, distrust black people until they know them etc). Also you can not compare oppressed minority groups to a priviledged group. Black men are severly punished when they attack non black people. This is not the case with men attacking women. And again, what do you concretly expect women to do ? As long as safety is not ensured many women …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:27 PM
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I don’t hate men I just don’t trust them. I am also not voicing those thoughts in real life as it’s the best way to attract abusers and men who want to prove you wrong. I simply...avoid being around them. Like no 1 to 1, no male doctors and no deep discussions. I'm not traumatized quite frankly precisely because I have never trusted men even as a kid. My most traumatized friends all trusted men at some point. I trust my partner and my father. That’s about it. And of course you can feel some type…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:22 PM
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That’d be an equalizer but im against gun ownership and they’re illegal where I live anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:05 PM
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If the guy is the same, nothing insures but you have a chance. I do not. At all. That’s the difference between you and me. Just one is enough to be screwed for me. Again, outliers, Im sure there are some women who are stronger than you. But most aren’t. Also, heaviness is nit strenght. You may struggle carrying them but chances are your fist will cause more damage than them. Also, the chances of women attacking you are quite low. Every. Single. Man who has hit puberty is stronger than me. I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:04 PM
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It’s not baseless. For example research has shown that men are more likely to admit to rape if you don’t use the word but describe rape actions. Like asking "have you ever tried to to have sex with a girl while she was passed out ?" Instead of "have you ever raped a drunk girl" A group of men in Italy were caught sharing pictures of their daughters and wives naked online. Similar case happend in Korea. A guy in France managed to garther so many people to rape his wife while she was asleep. Those…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:59 PM
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Men are the maî victimes because of proximity (men are more around men) and more risk taking behaviors. You have the option to defend yourself in most cases. You are screwed with a very specific (and small, you are taller than the average population and 187 cm is is very rare as the red pill guys love to point out) subset of men. I'm screwed with every man. Even my teenaged brother could kill me with his bare hands if he wanted to. That’s why the don’t hit girls rule exist to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:49 PM
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I think it’s a mix of both. You might not orgasm from first encounter but s there needs to be some sort of primal compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:42 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s bs. There are people I simply do not enjoy kissing or touching. Even though they objectively look good. On the contrary that just turned me on. The sex wasn’t necessarily great right away (hence the building) but i dont think you can have good sex with just anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:41 PM
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Men are not monsters...However many have the tendency to ignore consent and act in predatory ways. And i do not think they’re a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:35 PM
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Never said they are equally dangerous but they both are potential threat. Both Timmy and the criminal are stronger than me. It’s like asking me to not be afraid of a small tiger because bigger more agressive tigers exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:32 PM
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Men can defend themselves against men. Women cannot. That’s why women are more careful
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:29 PM
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Concretely what do you want women to do ? Like what’s a paranoid behavior that you see them do that you wish they stopped ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:28 PM
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They’re both dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:24 PM
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Concretely what should women do ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:22 PM
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It didn’t. It said women are entitled to protect themselves and that men cannot tell them what is or isn’t over the top when they take precautions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:20 PM
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You do not need to relate to someone's fears to relate. And the top comment never asked for empathy anyway. It said that since you don’t know what they’re going through, you are not in position to tell women wether they’re being overcautious pr not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:18 PM
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And the so called "hoes" with high boundy counts do get to settle down much more so than the nice girls. But you don’t see women complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:12 AM
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Trivalizing violence such aa sexual assault and physical abuse as a "rich guy problem" is an insane take. Of course I could empathize, being lonely sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 10:29 AM
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A man on this sub not having empathy. How surprising
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 10:21 AM
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It has declined everwhere except Africa. For now. The trend seems that it’s going to keep diminishing. France had 2 kids average until 2010's
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 10:17 AM
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It happened faster there than in the West and the trend seems to keep going. They will be there soon. And it’s happening before reaching the same levels of developpment than in the West. Anyway, that’s not the point. The point is controlling women doesn’t lead to more births. Births are linked to poverty and rural living. As soon as a country becomes modern birth rates fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:58 AM
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Birthrates are falling everywhere though and traditional countries have their rates falling faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:00 PM
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There are 3 times as many men as women on dating apps. The truth is men are trying to ride the pussy carroussel but the number of pussies available is reducing every year
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:57 PM
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You guys are behind. The trend now is to decenter men entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:55 PM
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I mean, the deeper part matters, they just don’t like yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:47 AM
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You did not ask this you demanded that I define the word repulsive. This question is entirely different. As for the things that are repulsive for women : if we are talking in a situation where the woman is at the poibt where she mught want to see what’s underneath im assuming you've escaped the obvious ones (ugly face, extremely short etc). We are then left with lack of hygiene and things which may be more down to personal tastes like beer bellies, receding hairlines etc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:19 PM
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Yes I'm more dismissive of them. I don’t mind being checked out if it’s done once and discreetly. It’s not as flattering if the guy is ugly tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:40 PM
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It is though, it’s just not the answer you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:38 PM
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Try to get to know her a bit first is beter advice. Keep a flirty vibe while doing so
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:17 AM
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This arguing with men online and then cuddling with my man is one of my guilty pleasures.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:07 AM
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Im defintly an outlier but I am the breadwinner in my relationship and i quite frankly don’t mind. I know some women who wouldn’t mind either but are scared of what people will think. And I cannot blame them. People have very strong reactions. They get annoyed at me when they see i don’t do as much around the house because they jump to the conclusion that im forcing him to do it. They get mad at him because why does he make a pretty girl work he must be a bum. This arrangement has no bearing in …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:54 AM
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You can go by the common dictionary definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:42 AM
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They will though if you are not straight up repulsive. Women's libido is reactive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:14 PM
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It does make mid looking guys more attractive. It will make the woman you're dating want to fuck you if she actually likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:37 AM
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They’re everywhere they just get overlooked. If you're in college or college aged go to events organized by girly majors and talk to the discreet wallflowers. From what I experienced in my direct circles, those girls have girly interests so average men don’t see them that often. When they do, they get overlooked cause they’re not that pretty or socially apt. So those girls usually find some nerd who likes them for who they are in their early 20's once they get hot (they tend to be late bloomers)…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:54 PM
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Everytime I see this discussed I cannot help but roll my eyes because us women who didn’t have a crazy youth were right here. They were themselves chasing for thrills but are lying to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:26 AM
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Or working just sucks, that’s why we get paid to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:12 AM
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"While Karraker's results were flawed due to the unfortunate mistake, other studies who don't use her results show a significant increase in divorce rates when the wife becomes seriously ill."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:52 PM
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Would you mind your woman just sharing her day ? Almost as if those women talking about this are not the same women who think sharing your day with your spouse are not the same crowd. It would be indeed be sexist if that’s what I had said. Women control themselves alot throughout the day, like most people in general. Sharing negative feelings if something bad happens is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 06:04 PM
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Then don’t agree. I don’t give a fuck, my point was I don’y agree with you and given your comment history have no interest in conversing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:20 PM
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Let’s agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:12 PM
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As I said, men and women are not compatible and are better off not living/ and in women case having sex together
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:10 PM
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The fact that it’s a compromise you are making and not something you want to hear in itself is a turn off in itself. I cannot help but to wonder, if sex was out of the equation, how many of you would actually want to be around women ? Seems like not a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:51 PM
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Well they do it quite soon. See women cancer patients
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:03 PM
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I t those things show how fundamentally incompatible men and women are. Your "peace" comes at the expense of "bonding" in the female perspective and without bonding many will not see the point in being in relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:31 PM
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It’s the boobs. That’s it. All the guys around me have commented on the boobs. When I ask about the face they don’t compliment as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:17 PM
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From experience, medium high men are okay with taking it slow if they’re actually interested in you. Waiting until commitment to have sex doesn’t equate to playing hard to get
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:56 PM
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There's no point in asking, actions speak louder than words. Men have a hard time pretending they like you especially if you're not having sex. Just close your legs and observe how he acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:49 AM
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Those professions make no money unfortunatly. In a capitalist society, money gives you freedom and power. With that, people can do whatever makes them happy outside of of their work hours. The boss and the job are just a means to an end. "Femininty" (the kind that attracts men at least, gold digging is a very feminine pursuit too), motherdhood and marriage are not good deals for women which is why they don’t invest in those pursuits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:37 AM
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Can you point out to where I said you said she wasn’t ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:33 AM
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That other girl is very much made up though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:53 PM
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Unfortunatly, being feminine is useless in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:21 PM
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Oh I know. I just don’t care because I've made ot clear from the get go that i'm here for friendship only
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:15 PM
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As a very nerdy woman who randomly devevlopped boobs and ass in mid twenties I can relate. It's even trickier because my interests seem normal like I'm an early childhood specialist and im into fashion and makeup. People understand "she is kindergatden teacher who likes to look good". What I mean is im researching niche ways to teach math for a living and i can tell you the history of fabric and patterns and will talk your ear out about button production. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:56 PM
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I have a hard time understanding why red pill men still want to date women. If you believe that stuff, MGTOW makes more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:24 PM
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Those are the answers I give when I can tell the debate will lead nowhere. Maybe your cousin can sense that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:33 PM
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