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There's a reason youth is wasted on the youth is an axiom repeated forever
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:20 PM
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My fiance likes gardening, baking, strategy boardgames, hiking, playing video games, and watersports (among many other things). About half the women I talk to have some interesting hobbies. Granted, if they're just some gym ho whose taking selfies there's a 0% chance I'd chat with them anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:57 PM
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They're huffing industrial grade copium. I could see late 20s for early 20s but even that's super rare. Basically, they can't come to grips with the unending march of time. Yearning to reclaim time they don't have anymore and living in a delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:09 PM
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Am I a rape apologist because men go out and rape women? No, I simply just do not view myself as Batman and anyone who thinks I condone rape because I do not actively go out and patrol it is insane. Here's some examples: A man on Twitter says "Gas the women, gender war now". Truly, I don't care. Anyone who thinks I'm responsible at this level for this kind of stuff is insane and needs to go outside. You are a simp-white-knight-beta-cuck-terminally-online loser if you think you should be responsi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:13 PM
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Oh, for sure, and that's dumb as hell. Other men are not my responsibility and I'm not going to act like they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:45 PM
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Something like 60% of women identify as feminists in the USA. That's like 100 million women. If even 10% of those are radical that's a million activists and if 1% of 10% those publish a book, that's 10000 books. The numbers we're dealing with here are huge. Far left to fringe feminists will just circle jerk their "ideas" and there's nothing the mainstream can realistically do about it. I mean I don't want to waste my life patrolling people in real life and the internet to ensure all immoral view…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:50 PM
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Feminism isn't an organization, it's a loosely cobbled together strain of thought that range from egalitarian and well-meaning to genocidal. You can't throw someone out of a strain of ideas, all you can do is say "well, they aren't the mainstream"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:30 PM
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If he accepted life's unfair he wouldn't have to "unfair" back. That's just called "life". Basically if women choose who they find most attractive then I should also choose who I find most attractive. Wow, deep. This is the luke warmest IQ post in a sub with an already room temperature IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:07 PM
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Oh gee, life's unfair, what other great revelation will I learn next?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:53 AM
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Why do people keep using social media slop? It's the Fox news equivalent for Millennials/Zoomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:07 PM
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There are true deal breakers and then there's "nice to haves", if you can't tell the difference then you don't have enough dating experience to get married imo. My Examples: True Deal Breakers: Has cheated with zero remorse in the past Is unkind to the general populace (for no reason) Really wants/doesn't want kids (and you're the opposite) Openly disrespectful Awful communicator Nothing in common ​ Nice-To-Haves: A fit body, honestly, most body characteristics Large overlap in hobbies, you gott…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:58 PM
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No my job is bullshit too but at least it takes more than 50 IQ to learn and my work can't be written in crayon like a middle manager
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 03:39 AM
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I have much less beef with marketing than middle management. A company that does not market itself will die. A large company that slashes 50% of its middle management will save that much in salary and have pretty much no downside.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:40 PM
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Middle management pencil pushers are the cushiest, most bullshit jobs that exists in modern society. They do basically nothing and have nothing to talk about when it comes to their """"""""""""career""""""""""""". 95% of them could be eliminated and you would hardly even notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:17 PM
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Yup, it's harder to be a man than a woman for relationships. That's life, deal with it or rant about it on the internet. Your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:00 PM
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How is that working for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:08 PM
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Listen to people who have already achieved where you're trying to go. If all you do is listen to bitter divorcees on YouTube then that is where you'll end up. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:44 PM
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By your logic, it's literally impossible so don't bother. It's like being mad the sun is hot, and you don't want it to be hot. Either that, or your logic is flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:58 PM
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Have you like, tried talking to one?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:33 PM
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Big pharma has been selling PNC for decades. They're called SSRIs. Trust me you won't be horny at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:19 AM
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Who would've guessed the autistic 16 year olds with minimal relationship experience would dole out bad advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:23 PM
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Why would they lose their ability to attract men as they age?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:28 PM
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This trope exists because a lot of people just flat out let themselves go around 30, women tend to be valued more for their looks than men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:46 PM
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Yes I can, it's called wisdom. If you aren't wise/introspective then this is the scenario that happens to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:59 AM
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Pretty much this, I'm 5'4" have a really good face, make a lot, and keep myself in shape. Was I fucking crushing it in college? No, but I was better than most for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:56 PM
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If she finds you attractive it doesn't matter where you approach her, just don't do it while she's ACTIVELY doing something like mid weight lift set
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:06 PM
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I can't control what's legal but I can control where I shop. Immature people always point the blame at everyone but themselves. Learning from bad experiences is called wisdom, try it sometime. Bad people will always exist whether you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:01 AM
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Maybe just don't sleep with people you don't know. How naive do you have to be to think everyone is good?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:54 PM
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It's make your intentions very clear from the get go, don't have to be a douche about it too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:02 PM
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Take advantage of it, there's a bunch of men no one wants to date or fuck so all you gotta do is be now attractive than them. Being a top 20% man is fucking easy when your competition is fat socially stunted terminally online men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:35 PM
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Usually women who can cum in 5 minutes have a lot of sexual experience and know their turn-ons and body really well. A virgin nympho who knows exactly what gets them off doesn't really exist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:09 PM
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Don't be obtuse, the whole point of this thread is that some men can be assholes cause they're hot. Yes, if you are very attractive it doesn't matter what you say and you'll still get laid. My sole point is that you shouldn't be an asshole, even if it can get you laid more because comprising integrity for extra poon is wack.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:10 PM
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I'm not saying that sex is unimportant as it's a basic biological need and desire but to cast aside all morals and integrity to chase "just one more wet hole" is pathetic. My world view dictates that a man should strive to be the best version of himself physically, ethically, and mentally and to apply those skills to make his community and family a better place. What you're describing is a sociopathic sex addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:54 PM
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A tale as old as time itself, you can prey on people with psychological "hacks" like a fucking sociopath or you can be a good man because that is what you choose to do. The value of your existence isn't determined by how many holes you fill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:55 PM
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"I take no risks and refrain from doing anything that may harm me regardless of the upside it can bring. Somehow, women are supposed to find me attractive anyways" - You Yeah, the bubble wrap to cocoon yourself in is in Aisle 6 at Lowes. I hope you don't get an ouchie along the way. Jokes aside, if you trust your ability to judge character, have experienced a healthy dynamic before marriage, and believe you can weather the storm that is divorce should that arise then it's a pretty calculated ris…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:10 PM
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One time, I got a ticket for drinking under 21. (I was 20 and it was 2 months to my birthday though) Is there any hope for me Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:31 PM
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"Everything I do must unilaterally benefit me and be risk free. I am too emotionally closed off to function" - average PPD user
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:41 AM
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/PPD/ on suicide watch
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:00 PM
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There are no guarantees in life, it's all about making calculated risks. These things are more likely to make you happy than not having them. Okay cool, guess they're not for you then right now Victim of what exactly? I would absolutely say the same to women but you have to understand double standards are not fair but they're a part of life anyways and you have to navigate them regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:38 PM
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I'll let my fiance know that we're done because of this post. Thanks Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:29 PM
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If she was a good wife until that point then fuck him, he's a piece of shit If she sucked as a wife then good for him, he's knowing his worth Don't get in a relationship with someone if you view them as disposable, that makes you a sociopath. A good relationship always beats looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 02:28 PM
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Buckets 1 and 2 are the same, the other new buckets are "sticking it to the 'patriarchy'" or flat-out sexual trauma (which could also apply to men as well)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:38 PM
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TL;DR People who do this are either sociopaths, Cluster-B disordered, or, if neuro-typical, have cripplingly low self-esteem. Long answer: The first two points are self-explanatory, they have a mental disorder which does not let them view other people as "people". The third bucket are so afraid to show any vulnerability since they don't want to give their partner ammo to leave them if they aren't at their "peak" 25/8. Basically, if you are anything less than Genghis Khan your partner will view y…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:48 PM
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They either marry very early <21 or mature into it ~30
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:46 PM
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I'm a 5'4" manlet and have had a few women explicitly asking for sex and plenty showing lots of obvious interest throughout my life. I realize my height isn't an instant sex magnet but I'm not concerned with women who view my height as a turn off anyways. My advice is keep yourself in great shape and just do what you like and find people who also like those things. Why would I be mad at things other's have that I don't and can't control anyways? I'm not mad about not having Bezos' mega yachts. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:32 PM
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"My whole life is consumed by sticking my meat stick in a wet hole" the post. Develop an identity my dude, the merits of being a life-long good person outweigh getting your dick wet a little more than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:51 PM
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If no one is pressuring you to change or do anything you are not being controlled, you are controlling yourself. If your values align there is realistically no difference than being single in the amount of pressure being applied to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:21 AM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:08 AM
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I don't even care if this is true or not and it's irrelevant to my point anyways. If someone lies to you about their values then you leave. There's a reason people keep saying "trust is the foundation of a relationship".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:35 PM
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See above
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:20 PM
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If you and your partner's values are similar a boundary is not controlling because it is something you also believe. If you force someone to change their values, then you are controlling. Examples: Couple 1 A: I will leave you if you cheat on me (boundary) B: That makes sense as I don't believe in cheating either as it is reprehensible (value) Couple 1 will probably have zero issues regarding cheating --- Couple 2 A: I will leave you if you cheat on me (boundary) B: Fuck you, I can fuck whoever …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:12 PM
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If someone breaks your standards before you even start dating, then don't date them, it's that easy. She had years worth of bikini-clad photos of her surfing with attractive surfer dudes and wasn't hiding any of this at all. There is nothing wrong with having personal standards. There is something wrong with forcing someone to meet them after you already knew they didn't fit them after the fact. If you find out they don't meet your standards after you start dating, you decide if it's a deal brea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:57 PM
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Let's look at your "test": A: If you cheat on me, I will leave. B: You can't tell me to not cheat, that's controlling! You're abusive if you tell me to not cheat on you! I can say with near certainty that any healthy mind should say person B is the emotionally abusive one. Is my definition objectively true? Of course not, only a moron would think my definition is universally correct in every scenario but if it's 95% correct it's probably a very good starting point as to gauge what is toxic and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:45 PM
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Look, I get you're being REALLY obtuse to try and make a point but saying "If you cheat I'll leave" is very different than "You can't have male friends or I'll leave" One implies that your actions will have consequences The other implies that I can't trust you to make good decisions even though you've done nothing wrong --- It all boils down to the expectations of the relationship that are set between two people. Loyalty is a reasonable expectation as trust is the foundation of a healthy relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:11 PM
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Dictating what your partner can do with the threat of leaving is textbook emotional abuse. It could not be any more clear cut. Anyone who wholly prescribes to this is doomed to be miserable as you would make an AWFUL partner
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:57 PM
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A boundary is controlling something done to you. Controlling behavior is when you set boundaries for others. He clearly ended up in controlling territory in those texts. --- Boundary: I will break up with you if you cheat Controlling: You are not allowed to have male friends One implies you trust your partner but will punish them if they actually DO an immoral action, the other implies you cannot trust them to have good judgement. If a partner continually does things that strain your level of tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:48 PM
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It is not the victim's fault that she is in that position but it is her responsibility to have the introspection to find out why she is miserable and remove herself from that situation if it cannot be talked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:47 PM
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Someone can't truly be forced to do something unless at least one of the following are true: They are legally mandated to do so by force of life-destroying repercussions (e.g. slavery, execution, etc...) They lack agency as an individual Unless I'm mistaken there are no laws that force women to be "trad wives" but only societal pressures (i.e. your dad or "friends" judging you will not ruin your life). Also, to my knowledge, women have agency to think independently. I'm confused as to how women …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:34 PM
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The third option is some people put less emphasis on looks and much more on the quality of their character. Mind blowing, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:28 PM
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Following counter trends is the opposite of individually. You'll see when you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:05 PM
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If women can't love, why bother being with them? Just go hire a prostitute since it's literally the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:39 PM
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But muh body count
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:31 PM
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Having the ability to calmly talk through disagreement is a powerful tool in a relationship. You don't need to do it exactly when the problem arises but you should be able to do it at some point. If you do not resolve issues then the relationship won't last.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:12 AM
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People tend to value your input more at work Your value isn't mostly tied to your looks Tend to have a higher earning potential Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:08 PM
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Holy shit, do what YOU want with your life and attract someone who wants what you're slinging. Why do people complicate this shit? You can't have your cake and eat it too, if you do certain activities you will become less attractive to more people and that's fine. Who cares? They're probably not for you as your genuine self anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:11 PM
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Ugly douches that pull a lot of women don't do it because they're charismatic. They're usually borderline or overtly rapey e.g. having sex with girls who are 10/10 wasted or leveraging what they have e.g. "I'll give you a bag of weed if you fuck me". I knew of this one guy in my old town who used to deal heroin and had tons of sex with his addict harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:20 PM
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If you're going out and socializing. I almost guarantee you're getting some and not even noticing. If you're not going out well there's your issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:20 AM
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No, why would you ask out someone who hasn't shown interest in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:15 AM
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Plenty of poor people are happy, learning to be grateful for what you have is a cornerstone of happiness. Comparison breeds misery and resentment (source: this sub)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:12 AM
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If it makes you feel better, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:10 AM
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Exactly, well said
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:09 AM
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Calm down Ted
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:16 PM
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And you are free to do so and your comment is duly noted, thank you for participating in my thread
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:03 PM
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I am but an individual with an opinion. An opinion that these types of people are, in fact, "little bitches". I have no objective authority and do not claim to, if you disagree with what I'm saying then I am here to listen and provide discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:01 PM
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And yet people here still bitch and moan about how they're 5'8.99" and therefore have 0% chance with any woman over a 1.5
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:56 PM
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I'm 31 now and had plenty of fun in my 20s with, you guessed it, women in their 20s. Being 5'4" makes it more difficult than being 6'2" but don't listen to anyone who says it makes it impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:55 PM
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I don't recall saying that in my post. My point is being a little bitch about things you can't control will just make you insufferable (e.g. boohoo I'm 5'7" and unloveable because of it). Accept what you can't control and deal with what you can. Take risks and find fulfilling things to do with your life. At least at that point you won't have regrets because you couldn't have done anything better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:52 PM
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Bro, I'm 5'4" and used to be 195lbs of lard (now 145 thank god). I was the epitome of undateable according to this sub and yet have never had too much of an issue finding women who liked me. 90% of the men that think they're undateable on this sub really aren't, they're afraid of being rejected and use statistics as a crutch for actually trying in real life. How many women have you asked out in person in the last 6 months?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:24 PM
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Absolutely, gotta risk it to get the biscuit. Anyone afraid of rejection, here you go: https://www.rejectiontherapy.com/100-days-of-rejection-therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:02 PM
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I'm sure this post won't help a lot of people in a lot of situations. If you want I can write a 4000 volume tome solving every issue that's ever existed in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:35 PM
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Nope, life ain't fair and it sucks but you can't force other people to want you. Go join a support group
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:31 PM
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Exactly, but one must realize you are not guaranteed or entitled to anything even once you've achieved all your goals. It's a risk but it's far better than not knowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:30 PM
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There's no guarantees in life and that's a brutal redpill they're going to have to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:29 PM
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Nothing that you didn't earn will bring you happiness. If you're born gorgeous, that's just how it is. If you work hard for a good physique, that's very rewarding as long as you actually wanted to do it and not just as external validation generator.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:28 PM
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I was fantastically happy as a single person coming out of an awful relationship. I reconnected with a lot of friends and picked up a bunch of new hobbies that stick with me until this day. I bet $100 that the vast majority of men that complain life isn't worth living aren't doing anything to enrich their lives. I too enjoy video games and jacking off, a fulfilling life it does not make. Go do things that make you happy and fulfilled and don't stop trying things until you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:40 PM
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It sounds like Jake in this scenario didn't want those things but went along with it anyways which would make him a simp. If he was cool with her terms then there really wasn't anything to talk about, was there?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:19 AM
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why the hell did Jake agree to a 6-month celibate period to begin with? he's a simp why didn’t jake keep seeing other women during said 6-month celibate with Sarah period? he's a simp why did jake keep seeing Sarah when he lost attraction to her? he's a simp
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:52 PM
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Sarah was very upfront about her current expectations and seems to be learning from past mistakes that caused her grief and misery. Jake accepted these terms so there seemed to be no problem. If at any point something becomes unacceptable to you, talk it out. If talking it out doesn't work, just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:56 PM
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Help because you want to not because you expect some sort of reward or are averting backlash. If you think a situation requires you, then go for it because that's your moral prerogative. Better for some person to call you a wanker then for them to end up on the obituaries the next day. And yes, not everything is your problem or is smart for you to get involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:29 PM
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This is why "just be yourself (but healthier)" is the final redpill. There is no silver bullet solution to appeal to all women. Appeal to the women that genuinely find YOU attractive as a human. If you love Magic the Gathering and Warhammer 40k, fucking send it. That and take care of yourself and your environment. You don't need to look like a 6'3" Ronnie Coleman with the fashion sense of a male supermodel but just being decently fit and a kempt look goes a VERY long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:49 PM
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Generalizations apply to MOST people but not ALL people. Think of any concept as a bell curve, most people will sit near the middle with some variance with the extremes having a small minority of people. For instance, TRP focuses on attempting to "smooth out" your individuality and uniqueness to be a more palatable option for more women. You must lift, you must dress well, you must hold this specific masculine frame, you must make tons of money, etc... Basically, you're trying to hit the top of …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:36 PM
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I hate hanging around groups of women since the topics and dynamics aren't super interesting to me but one-on-one is perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:31 PM
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Absolutely, she seems to think it is but I love her and she's overall a fantastic gf besides that so I'm definitely going to work through it first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:54 PM
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This is me now. Hot sex with gf multiple times a week for months within 1st date but now hardly wants it all after 1.5 years. I'm kindve at a loss
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:37 PM
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No it isn't if the woman has a shred of self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:34 PM
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TRP tells you to see women as they are as opposed to how society puts them on a pedestal and then simultaneously says don't settle for anything less than an untouched, pure virgin who sees you as God. These two concepts are directly at odds with each other since women just aren't like that. They have entire lives before they meet you, same as anyone. They're just people and the absolute vast majority of people don't have a perfect backstory. What matters in a relationship is that you are both ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:42 PM
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I have a good face and I make decent money but you'd never know by looking at me (t shirt, jeans 90% of the time). Nothing too crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:10 PM
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Yes, they always go with itemized over standard with only a W2. It's infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:34 PM
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It sure is and like decisions, it has consequences. Accept the world is unfair and move through it or just sit there and be a lonely, sad cunt until you die.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:04 PM
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But bro you aren't the most attractive man in the world and therefore unlovable. Jokes aside, congrats on being a Chadlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:02 PM
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Exactly, it's common sense and then a lot of guys wonder why they don't attract women. It's not cause you're 5'7", it's because you have a supremely pessimistic worldview that's an absolute downer to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:53 PM
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Point being, those that are blackpilled have severe confidence issues which is exactly how to make yourself less attractive. I just act like myself with my friends and some women just tend to gravitate towards me. If I like them back I'm upfront about my exact intentions with no games or lying. I don't try to force myself onto women who aren't initially attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:50 PM
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You act like a man and don't give a fuck about how other people think you should live your life. If you wanna go mega-built dwarf-mode then fucking do it. If you wanna be an uber-twink fem-boy then be the best little cum guzzler you can be. Source: 5'4" "man"let
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:23 PM
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It is inherently not masculine to be black-pilled. There will always be some trait you don't have that would make you objectively more attractive to more people. I'm 5'4", have an average sized dick, and have the body of someone who you can tell "used to be fit" but is nothing special right now. I have literally NEVER had a problem attracting women, granted I never tried cold approaches (why would I? Im 5'4" lol). Bitching about how you don't look like Henry Cavill with a 10" soda-can schlong an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:21 PM
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31 here Range is 26-32 I have nothing in common with 21 year old women and want to blow my brains out talking to them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:26 PM
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Rather be confident than not confident, care about what you can control and that's pretty much it honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:09 PM
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If you find yourself crying over trivial struggles you're probably depressed or extremely stressed out. A woman should be worried but not judgemental at this level. If you do nothing to address this then she should leave since you are not ready for a relationship. Obviously, this gets more leeway the longer and more serious the relationship is. If she judges you because you cried when a close family member, friend, or pet died well then she's just a piece of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:51 PM
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I'm a small dude at 5'4" and have a fantastic relationship with my 5'0" GF. So, sure you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:04 PM
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Source: this 4chan post
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:38 AM
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It's because I'm not 6'4", 10% Omni-Chad with a 10" dick. Literally the bare minimum to even be looked at by women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:33 AM
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They also can't love you or build any meaningful connection. You're fucking rubber my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:19 AM
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There are 3 types of "nice guys" #1: The guy who lacks confidence and will act polite because he is too afraid to act like his genuine self. He doesn't rock the boat for good or bad and comes off as boring and fake. This is a guy who is only described as "nice" because he has no other discernible features. #2 The guy who acts "nice" in order to get what he wants, usually in relation to sex. This guy is really anything but nice and usually has a personality disorder of some sort. He will blow up …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:07 PM
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Someone, somewhere will always think you're too high. Just find someone who you like and doesn't care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:28 PM
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Okay cool, what's your conclusion then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:55 PM
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It just brings out people /14anddeep
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:04 PM
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Finally, some good fucking foo- reading...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:00 PM
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Most people here seem genuinely miserable and jaded with the opposite sex so probably not. I'm just here for the bantz.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:47 PM
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Judgemental, disloyal, financially irresponsible, abusive, trashy or any combination of these traits
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:40 PM
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I'm not based and red-pilled enough to die alone lol Anyways, let's keep fighting the good fight by yelling at people on the internet. Have a magnificent day you beautiful bastard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:18 PM
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Who would've guessed being judgemental and bitter would make you increasingly unattractive and subsequently very lonely? Many men are really overthinking this. Pair up with someone who meets your standards and don't bother or judge those who don't. I'm a short dude at 5'4" and I've never resented women as a whole because they usually prefer taller dudes. According to this sub I should be in a leper colony exiled on the outskirts of town for daring to be so unwanted. What do you know I've never h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:57 PM
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5000+ is a very high n-count
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:43 PM
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Bro, if you're riding on horseback with a bow to kill your prey instead of using a spear up close and personal you're straight bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:39 PM
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Apparently so, what man worth his salt gives a flying fuck what other men think about his relationship? A judgemental person will always find a reason to judge. I'm happy, she's happy, guess I'll just go be happy. I can think of a few worse fates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:05 PM
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My gf has a higher body count than me, don't care she's a fantastic woman and we treat each other very well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:59 AM
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Justifying morality is a tricky concept for non-religious people since there's no objective doctrine to adhere to but the best argument I've seen is that "I must embody the virtues of the society I want to live in lest I be a hypocrite". A healthy relationship is a beautiful part of life and the way you have chosen to live your life is what I would deem the opposite of that. Your actions will only bring temporary pleasure, distrust, and hollow relationships with everyone you know. I couldn't ima…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:12 PM
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This reeks of 13 year old on Xbox live Imagine believing someone can't think both are repugnant
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:03 PM
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Yeah, that's probably true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:01 PM
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If I looked back at my life and this is the kind of man I had turned out to be I would blow my fucking brains out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:50 PM
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Could I get a better looking girl if I was rich? Probably, but looks fade and my gf (soon to be wife) has proven to be a phenomenal women that I wouldn't dream parting with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:14 PM
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Do they not teach Maslow's hierarchy of needs anymore? https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.html
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:13 AM
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Because it's a hyperbolic scenario showing the distinction between someone who has put in a lot of effort and someone who hasn't. In between the two extremes there is a sliding scale of effort and attractiveness. Most people have complete control over how much effort they put in and effort is very attractive. Best Charismatic fit dude with good hygiene and dresses well Charismatic fat dude with good hygiene and dresses well ... All variables in between ... Autistic fit dude with bad hygiene and …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:40 PM
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My point is that I feel much better about myself which made me much better with women. To be your most confident you must realize your idealized best version of yourself. If you feel like you're at your best by being very overweight then going to the gym wouldn't really help you THAT much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:33 AM
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I'm going to guess you're 18ish
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:18 PM
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Average Adam probably doesn't go on PPD and spam n-count threads night and day. That's what he offers her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:27 PM
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As someone whose lost 70lbs of lard, the difference was night and day. Not only do I inherently feel better about how I look but I get lots more compliments (mostly from men though, for full transparency).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:16 PM
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If YOU look better, YOU feel better and more confident. If YOU feel better and more confident, you will naturally be better with women. If you are a lard-ass but ooze genuine confidence and charisma then going to the gym will just pull women who are otherwise more attracted to fitter men and you're starting from a pretty good spot. Unfortunately most ham planets are not very confident. TL;DR Go to the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:13 PM
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If you date someone who lies, then you must wave goodbye. Life's not fair, you just got to figure out a way to navigate the unfairness of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:10 PM
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I'm glad someone saw it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:02 PM
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My wisdom is undeniable
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:56 PM
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Being on Reddit is unforgivable, pretty much the worst people post here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:29 PM
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Actions have consequences. Doing some actions will eliminate a portion of the dating pool. Date someone who doesn't care and will accept you instead of shoehorning yourself where you don't belong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:33 PM
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Real men boof Krokodil
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:40 PM
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An individual has a responsibility for their own mental health and a partner has an obligation to be supportive in times of need. If the individual is being irresponsible with their mental health or the partner is not being supportive then the relationship is destined to fail. No one can be optimistic 24/7 and expecting to perform no "emotional labor" in a relationship is extremely callous and selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:56 PM
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Good point, they should stop doing that and do something meaningful
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:11 AM
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This is speaking to people that do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:46 PM
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So which point was I wrong on then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:52 PM
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Definitely cuck stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:03 PM
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Exactly, it's more akin to heroin than anything meaningful. You are no further to your goal then if you had just never installed them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:02 PM
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That's my point. That's, literally, the only benefit. You are spinning your wheels for no reason because it's easier than actually doing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:01 PM
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This is actually a solid reason
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:59 PM
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Would I rather fight a prime Mike Tyson or a rando club boxer? No, hence "disproportionate" If you're paying for people you don't even know, you're doing it very wrong If in-person dating is consistently negatively affecting your mental health do some soul-searching Gotta risk it to get to the biscuit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:59 PM
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Here's some actionable advice: Don't let anyone dictate your preferences and don't dictate your preferences on to others. You don't need validation in order to have a preference. Though, your preferences will have consequences. (E.g. a short man dating a tall woman, a black woman dating a white man, these people will be ridiculed) Choose people that make you feel loved and respected and reciprocate to those that do. Being in-shape and interesting is NOT a prerequisite for love but it makes it a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:34 PM
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Being yourself is the best advice possible. A lot of guys try to pull women they don't even like but find attractive. Go do something you actually like to do with people who also like doing that and you'll naturally have something to connect about right off the onset. This coincides with taking care of yourself as this should just be the default for men anyways. Be the most fit guy at the DnD table is a life mantra.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:59 PM
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"Nice guy" is a colloquialism for a specific set of behavior not an actual nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:22 PM
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You can only give so much before people start taking a mile when you give an inch. So, give an inch and if they try to take advantage of you set a boundary. This is what men should do, not shut down being kind and generous because you got burned once. That's what immature children do. If you keep getting burned then you really suck at being a judge of character and need to do some serious introspection. ​ Dont fall for this worldly commune shiet lol. Nobody, and I mean nobody is going to help yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:09 PM
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I'll make sure to bring you a beer *adjusts pants*
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:26 PM
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Yes yes people only do nice acts to get themselves off on being good. I've heard it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:48 PM
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If you only do kind acts in hope for a desired outcome, you were never nice in the first place, you are a disingenuous asshole. At least the overt asshole is confident enough to be an overt asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:07 PM
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The difference between a "good man" and a "nice guy" is that a good man does kind acts because that is his moral prerogative regardless of the outcome. A "nice guy" is either an asshole, in the sense he fakes kindness to reach a desired outcome or a coward because he lacks the confidence to show his true self for fear of rejection. Act like yourself in an environment you truly enjoy and people that find you attractive will naturally be drawn to you. It's really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:03 PM
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It's sowing, you're not hemming plants
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:45 PM
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95% of full-bore red-pillers are just inexperienced in relationships and grasping on to anything that can rationalize why their last relationship failed or why they have a lack of success in dating. I.E. "My last gf wasn't just a bad person who cheated on me, it's just that all women are whores who will dip on you the nanosecond they find someone who makes them tingle a little harder" Some real dating/relationship advice would be improve yourself as much as you can, hold yourself to a high stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:22 PM
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Sex isn't the only determinant for "worth" in a partner. My gfs had more sexual partners than me so I'm statistically probably not the best one she's had, though our sex is very good. Likewise, my ex was a super-freak in bed but she was an AWFUL gf overall. I can't change either of our pasts but my current gf is a fantastic woman and we make each other very happy. If your partner treats you right, fulfills your needs, and stays loyal what's the beef?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:59 PM
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It just feels like women are embarrassed by their desires sometimes. Most people aren't rampantly confident and if a behavior is shamed enough then people will keep it on the down low. Take this oft posted example on PPD: Woman: I enjoy having casual sex like any other man who does PPD: Women who have casual sex are worthless and should die alone Woman: Well shucks, guess I won't broadcast that I like having casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:13 PM
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No but inversely just because we are humans doesn't mean we are excluded from the natural order of things. Humans might be the best fighting against that order but we are still beholden to it at some level.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:23 PM
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If you view your partner as someone who can just come and go because they had better dick in the past, then you don't believe someone can truly love you for you and is just with you for how much pleasure you can bring them. Relationships are multifaceted and sex is just one component of them. You don't care that she's had past sexual partners, you just feel unworthy of her love if you're not her best sexually. If it's any consolation the vast majority of one-night stands suck since the other per…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:05 PM
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This is how I envisioned this interaction: https://imgflip.com/i/6xrlog
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:12 PM
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Read can't stop me by David Goggins. You need a whole attitude on life adjustment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:50 PM
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I just chalk it up to "that's the way the world is" so I'm not gonna get hung up on people that don't want me. Women tend to like taller men Men tend to like thinner women That's life, don't be mad/bitter about something you can't control because you literally cannot control it and if you CAN control it and are still mad/bitter about then wake the fuck up and do something about it. ​ Source: 30yo 5'4" man whose had no problem having dates/LTRs his entire life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:25 PM
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