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I took BC for ten years. It didn't seem to cause any major problems, and I'm very thankful I didn't get pregnant during that time. However. A few years after I quit BC I started getting pain in my abdomen. It didn't line up with period symptoms. It got worse and worse until I demanded a scan and they found cysts all over my ovaries. There's no way of knowing what caused it. But after reading up on hormones, what they are, why your body needs them, what they do etc, I was so angry that it's consi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:27 PM
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idk, they found one woman already...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:02 AM
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At least a few of these are also "If women would just stay down, we wouldn't have to put the boot on her neck, it's her own fault"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:52 PM
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Ahhhhhhhh my ex husband did that! I had forgotten about it. I was only 19, god help me. He crashed my first car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 08:04 PM
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These kinds of Christians will say "Jesus said you can get divorced if there is adultery!" only if the wife was the cheater. If it was the husband who cheated, that was the wife's fault and she needs to get right with God and also forgive her husband and also be sexier/a better wife. Religion has its uses, but the modern evangelical culture is an absolute trash heap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:11 AM
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On the plus side, now you aren't tied down in a relationship and you can get a job anywhere!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:26 PM
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How about the time my ex yelled at me for the duration of an hour-long car drive because he though someone's t-shirt said one thing and I thought it said something else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:31 PM
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This is not exactly meant to be in defense of Mitch McConnell, but his wife Elaine Chao was once the Director of the Peace Corp, was the former Secretary of Labor, and is currently(ish) Director of Transportation. I'm pretty sure they're a standard DC power couple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:42 PM
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What's the saying- there's no difference between people who can't read and people who don't read. Writing is a technology of civilized humanity. (What could we have accomplished in human history without writing? Nothing.) Now that we take it for granted and it's considered feminine for some reason, many men don't bother doing it well-- ironic since women haven't always been taught to read...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 10:29 PM
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"My daughter is sitting next to me right now and she's fine" What? Is this supposed to mean?? Somehow that is the most telling part of this pathetic story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:28 PM
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The whole point of the holidays is to take a break from normal life and do fun stuff together! Exactly! I know holidays can be sad times for people, I feel it too sometimes, but you can still find something to do that's a little bit extra.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:27 PM
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I was married for ten years and I can't remember a single gift he gave me. ("single" gift lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:15 PM
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This is a bit off topic but- I plan vacations that I take with my mom. My mom is the sweetest, and she deserves it, but it is exhausting. By the time we are actually there I sometimes struggle to enjoy myself. So then I was thinking about where we ought to go next after Covid, and on a whim I searched for "surprise vacation." AND IT'S REAL. Like, I'll fill out a form, they tell me the weather forecast, I get on a plane and go, all plans made, itinerary printed, hotels reserved... What a miracle.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:22 PM
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How awful. I'm so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:40 PM
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and a souvenir for his mom 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:39 PM
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This reminds me of Cathy Hay's story (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUmbVJDNRI4). She literally lost her voice because of an ex criticizing her confident voice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:02 AM
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she fucked his landlord? I was like .... HANG ON, NO, I DO NOT KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN?? WAIT?? DO I??? 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:55 AM
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they do have a support system, but are embarrassed/reluctant to tell them about their relationship problems I was afraid to tell my support group because I knew they would tell me to stick it out, pray for him, it's probably not that bad, it must have been something I did, I should forgive him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:52 PM
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dating needs to be seen in a more transactional way in the beginning, until enough trust and investment is built up to where if he hurts me, it will hurt him just as much. I like the way you put this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 08:18 PM
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I think in addition to sex, "looking for fun" also means "looking to be entertained"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 08:17 PM
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I was waiting for the punchline 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:11 PM
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Second of all the government doesnt want to pick up your financial slack just because you dont wanna. As my sister put it, "the state of California didn't knock me up."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:13 PM
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It's basically a cheap/manufactured version of salt-water taffy. It's a fruit flavored chewy-soft candy. The only way I can think to explain it is... If it's Halloween, and you're evaluating your trick-or-treat bag at the end of the night, and you had a lot of laffy taffy, it would not be a great haul. It's a pretty low-value candy (where I come from anyways lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:10 PM
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If this was really about men having children, there are a number of ways they can do that without forcing a woman to bear a child to term. But we know that's not what this is about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:05 PM
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a type of bacteria called Serratia marcescens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:01 AM
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my ex once "had to" log in to a MMO website to check the rankings while we were at a big holiday party. This was before cell phones so he had to actually ask the host to borrow the computer, they had to log him in, he had to explain what he was doing... I tried to talk him out of it... everyone mocked him for the rest of the night lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:53 PM
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It would probably be ideal to focus on your career and education now, and remember that the men you would naturally be drawn to would be doing the same thing. In other words, the only people with the time to date during college are the ones who aren't focusing on their school- right? And you want someone focusing on their career. Look for networking opportunities and extra trainings if you have time, or just stay focused on school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:56 AM
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I feel like if I ever get to leave the house again I might try a paid app, that should weed out the shit dudes, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:48 AM
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Honestly just having any idol at all is, let's say an orange flag. I don't care if it's Abraham Hicks or Jesus Christ. Your self-improvement strategies and goals are not exactly something you talk about on a date. Plus at some point it has to be about YOU, not the motivational speaker who got you there. Like Tony Robbins is great and all, but if he helped you so much, why are you going back to the conferences every year?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:21 AM
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Oh she should definitely break up with him immediately. I know this streamer type, he is awful. I was making a comment on his idiocy, and what a reasonably decent man might have thought of instead of ignoring his "girlfriend".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:24 PM
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If he's bored while he's streaming, odds are nobody is watching him. He's not entertaining. He has nobody to interact with. He's trying to make it big. Too late buddy, the pool is already full. Play FIFA with your girlfriend. Here's an idea-- play FIFA with your girlfriend and stream together. What an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:09 PM
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he talked a big game about honesty and loyalty So did my cheating ex.... hmm... Vetting is a continual process. He doesn't get to pass some test 3 months in, or 6, or 12, or ten years. Not only because people hide some aspects of themselves, but because people change. Honestly? You'll change too, and maybe he won't be able to handle it and treat you differently. Sounds like you're on top of things- you might have been fooled by a good actor, but you didn't hesitate or excuse it when you found ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:48 PM
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I am so sorry that someone did all those things to you. He is abusive and cruel and enjoys hurting people who love him. Try not to spend time and effort wondering why-- he did it because he's cruel and abusive. It's not your fault and it's not your problem. You don't need to understand him. What you can do is 1. remember the fact that some people are cruel, 2. remember the signs are twofold: how he acted and how you felt, 3. act immediately if you run across one of these people in the future. Yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 07:04 PM
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Great job!! So nice that you have practice with the "registered Nurse face", I bet that will be coming in so handy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 06:44 PM
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It's so difficult and exhausting trying to work out my own thoughts-- how draining it is to sit around wondering "what is he thinking? Why is he doing this?" Who fucking cares. How do I feel? What do I want? Is this situation bringing me happiness? or at least some kind of satisfaction and pleasure most of the time? It's hard though. Looking at myself means that taking action is up to me. I have to see myself as the one that can make decisions about my life. That's a lot of responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 06:25 PM
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I don't even know what I just watched... it took me three tries and I think I got it?? Nevermind, I am incredibly okay with being uncool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:41 PM
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Wow... I hope you had a good time at least!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:03 PM
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