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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 46 | If women aren't allowed to post please delete, but I wanted to thank you | Ok-Forever | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/21 10:18 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | 34M - Burned Out, Checked Out, and Trying to Find a Way Out Without Destroying EverythingDon't know if we should immediately encourage protecting custody time for someone who is drinking and popping pills. A couple nights at a bar, ok. Someone who mentions they broke sobriety and went with alcohol and pulls? Maybe not | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/25 11:23 AM |
| 5 | Estranged wife says “other parents” don’t want a man in the house during a sleepover.Are you kidding? She answered from his phone pretending to be him | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/25 08:23 PM |
| 2 | SoberlinkI think you are right to be concerned. The children need protection and addicts are liars. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/24 06:41 PM |
| 0 | Solo income/budgetsDo you have children together? | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/24 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Help me understand this response.Pp9 p | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/24 07:42 PM |
| 1 | DependentsOh. I thought you said the court ruled she can claim them both. If it's just an agreement between you two then alternating or each claim one is the fastest resolution. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/24 09:25 PM |
| 1 | DependentsRight, which is why the court decided for you guys. A lot of times the courts will rule that one party claims on the even years and the other on the odd. Does your decree give it permanently to her? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/24 07:16 PM |
| 3 | DependentsBecause to claim them you are saying you provided the majority of their expenses. You can't both cover more than half. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/24 07:06 PM |
| 42 | Should I wear a "Lock Her Up" shirt to my ex's DUI hearingI think a DADD Dads against drunk driving would make the point and be less offensive to the sensibilities of the court | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/12/23 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Child supportWow. That sucks. Sorry to hear that | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/23 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Child supportHow did it go? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/23 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Alimony and child support cost in MIThe only thing to think about with her going back to work is you will be responsible, in Michigan, to the same percentage of day care costs as you determined rate of support. So when they factor your income and hers if it is decided for example you should pay 65 percent of expenses and she is at 35 percent that will be used for day care. So 1000 a month? 650 on you | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/23 02:34 AM |
| 25 | My wife is divorcing me in another state, California.Take the kids with you when you go back for work. Back to the family home, get them back in school. Leave her behind | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/23 04:13 PM |
| 11 | CancerIn that case who cares about the money and debt. Your kids know you fought like hell for them, got time with them and the money you owe? Fuck it. What are they going to do about it now? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/23 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Deal with the devilSell the trip. Or at least your half | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/23 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Fiction books for fun?A strong single dad, dealing with crazy constantly changing situation. Showing real emotions and struggle but not giving up. Bad ass | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/23 03:46 AM |
| 0 | Fiction books for fun?One second after | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/23 02:51 AM |
| 4 | (29M) - my wife (30f) went through my phone while I was asleep, and found conversations between myself and other women, that were inappropriate. I know I was wrong, but I need advice.. We have a 5 month old child as well.There are other lonely depressed people in the world who don't cheat on their partners. So now you have excuses and playing the victim. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/23 12:03 AM |
| 1 | 3StepDivorce MichiganWe used Michiganlegalhelp.org. Super easy. Easy to work through, paperwork was correct and accepted, no issues | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Extra incomeWhat about babysitting? A lot of people would pay giant money for help. Even every other week. Kids the same age as yours? Fun for them, cash for you, help a fellow parent out? It would be great | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/22 03:37 AM |
| 6 | Help understanding parenting orderHoliday time always trumps regular time but yes, after your time saturday for holiday you get to complete the weekend time if it was your regularly scheduled weekend | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/21 11:52 AM |
| 5 | Found out she bought lingerieMaybe use this as a "well, I guess we really are over" moment. It sucks. And hurts and isn't fair. You didn't deserve to be in this situation but you are. She is done and obviously not looking back. Your turn. Your feelings are normal and valid though. Go ahead and feel them and work through it but know you will be ok. It will get better. You can do this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/21 10:39 AM |
| 3 | Childcare expense for teenagers questionIn my state the courts say no after the child is 12 | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/21 10:17 PM |
| 2 | It’s complicated. But she’s missing everything.And he may also need to focus on what he wants and needs. Take them to fireworks, buy sno cones and have fun. Does "family" movie night on fridays break your heart? Dont do it. Play mario party and have popcorn music and laughing. She is doing her selfish whatever she wants. You do you sir. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/21 01:13 PM |
| 3 | If women aren't allowed to post please delete, but I wanted to thank youWow. I didn't say that at all. I was saying I never imagined someone would lie and be evil to someone they used to love. Not that I don't believe men, just have a hard time with people not being good kind souls doing the right thing in the world and find it unbelievable that such things happen. Sorry if I somehow offended you. I didn't mean any offense. I will excuse myself from your mens reddit area. I was honestly just trying to let you all know that you are making a difference and creating aw… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 07:54 PM |
| 1 | If women aren't allowed to post please delete, but I wanted to thank youEven though I said I appreciate your threads eye opening information and appreciated the sharing so I could gain a new understanding of things as before I always assumed people were generally nice and reasonable? I am not offended by a downvote... but if you want to bring these issues to light and somone says you are doing just that and you get mad because they should have known earlier... it's an odd stance for an advocate | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/21 02:06 PM |
| 6 | If women aren't allowed to post please delete, but I wanted to thank youA lot of women I would like to think feel the same. I am all for women's equality but by the definition of the word equality I want equal rights but men also deserve equal protections. Fair is fair | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/21 05:08 PM |
| 1 | If women aren't allowed to post please delete, but I wanted to thank youI love trust but verify. I have even asked my ex before we got serious to see his military discharge papers to verify honorable discharge. Lol. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/21 05:07 PM |
| 5 | If women aren't allowed to post please delete, but I wanted to thank youI know it's hard to admit relationship failure if the blame is you because you cheated but why not just say personal differences. Why lie about abuse or rape? That's kind of... evil. And i understand hurt or anger during divorce...trust me, but not being evil to someone you loved | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/21 02:59 PM |
| 2 | If women aren't allowed to post please delete, but I wanted to thank youI am sorry for what you went through and are continuing to struggle with. It blows my mind that someone can be put in jail from just words someone says with no proof during a high conflict divorce type situation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/21 02:57 PM |
| 1 | This entire post dedicated to diluting men’s issuesI guess the only mens issue I am unsympathetic to is that men have to register for selective service and women don't. I guess this is because I see selective service as an outdated concept and expect it to be abolished in the next generation or so. And since it isn't really utilized as a draft currently nor do I see it starting up again soon. I do feel bad if you feel like it means you are more expendable but it was supposed to be because in general you would be more physically capable of protec… | /r/MensRights | 29/03/21 08:48 PM |
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