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| 161 | 'I just don't want children': Some American men are turning to vasectomies after the Supreme Court's decision to overturn Roe | Marriage/Children | Ok-Hamster5571 | /r/MensRights | 16/08/22 04:36 PM |
| 24 | Anti-abortion activists in Massachusetts are trying to 'modernize' the pro-life movement: 'We think men should be responsible' | Social Issues | Ok-Hamster5571 | /r/MensRights | 21/08/22 03:18 AM |
| 3 | Her Ex-Husband Is Suing a Clinic Over the Abortion She Had Four Years Ago | Social Issues | Ok-Hamster5571 | /r/MensRights | 22/08/22 01:46 PM |
| 1 | ‘Because of the stigma of abortion, men don't want to talk about it’: Roe v. Wade reversal has life-changing effects on male partners | Marriage/Children | Ok-Hamster5571 | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 12:24 PM |
| 0 | Men and abortion: Three couples share their stories | Social Issues | Ok-Hamster5571 | /r/MensRights | 26/07/22 10:11 PM |
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| 9 | Freely available sex may be the issue of a lot of problems in societyMarriage is a more recent invention than sex is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Why Andrew Tate is so popularhttps://www.gq-magazine.co.uk/culture/article/andrew-tate-tiktok-fame-men-2022 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 02:13 AM |
| -5 | In Canada we have an Amber Alert system - where if a child goes missing - everyone is notified. We had one earlier this week and this is the father’s response. Very poignant explanation of misuse of the system.Peace be with you, bro. I hope you get some help with your anger issues. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | In Canada we have an Amber Alert system - where if a child goes missing - everyone is notified. We had one earlier this week and this is the father’s response. Very poignant explanation of misuse of the system.From the Halton police in Ontario: An AMBER Alert will only be activated if: police have confirmed that an abduction has taken place; and the victim is a child, or a person of proven physical or mental disability; and there is reason to believe the victim is in danger of serious physical injury; and there is information available that, if broadcasted to the public, could assist in the safe recovery of the victim. —- There is no requirement (anywhere) that a child needs to be “abducted off the st… | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 03:57 PM |
| 8 | The days I do not have contact with my kids are the darkest. I stare into an abyss over and over. Relief comes best from the yearningly awaited moments around them. That is my life. My heart breaks over and over from the thoughts of the challenges ahead for my babies. What must I do for them?This is difficult. I’m sorry you are going through this. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | In Canada we have an Amber Alert system - where if a child goes missing - everyone is notified. We had one earlier this week and this is the father’s response. Very poignant explanation of misuse of the system.Schools and daycares usually ask tor court orders. Canada largely uses a 50/50 custody split, so it may be a difference of context if you are in a different country. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Switcheroo on the dating tablesWomen have the right to not be used as vaginas. Men have the right to not be used as wallets. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 05:27 PM |
| 16 | Switcheroo on the dating tablesAccurate | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Pregnant but no contact. Misandry by the truckload.I read it. You’re right | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 04:50 AM |
| 10 | Pregnant but no contact. Misandry by the truckload.Every human does have the right to find out if they are a parent. I agree with that, even if 230 people did not. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 04:43 AM |
| 1 | 'I just don't want children': Some American men are turning to vasectomies after the Supreme Court's decision to overturn RoeThanks. That was not a term I was familiar with. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/22 12:13 AM |
| 15 | 'I just don't want children': Some American men are turning to vasectomies after the Supreme Court's decision to overturn RoeMarriage, as an institution, was to build an economic alliance between families, as well as a system of granting property. It’s no longer about economic liaisons. It supposed to be about love, commitment, companionship. So I’m not sure what you mean by “low resolution take” but the function has shifted recently. And I agree with the comment about shaming people who don’t want to get married. | /r/MensRights | 16/08/22 05:24 PM |
| 30 | 'I just don't want children': Some American men are turning to vasectomies after the Supreme Court's decision to overturn RoeMarriage is an outdated institution. | /r/MensRights | 16/08/22 05:07 PM |
| 116 | Confession timeI can understand why you would divorce a partner who made this choice | /r/MensRights | 15/08/22 02:08 AM |
| 3 | The media sponsored hatred of men knows no bounds. Attacked author is on a ventilator and now is a good time to print an article like this.Wtf is this article? | /r/MensRights | 14/08/22 03:12 AM |
| 0 | When someone is debating over financial abortion, some people argue against it saying that they should just not have sex. But for normal abortions, they don't say that.Yes, for “normal abortions”, they do say that. Here’s one example. So many many many many more out there. Usually they focus on how the woman is a hoe, a whore, should have kept her legs closed, should be exercising abstinence, needs to be responsible for her actions, etc. https://www.reddit.com/r/VaushV/comments/wjqr4h/abortion_discussion_on_antifenimist/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/MensRights | 09/08/22 12:54 AM |
| 10 | What is the point for men to have their own kids with a woman and bear the burden of child support upon divorce if their right for custody/visitation is at discretion of mothers?There should be automatic 50/50 custody awarded. Either party could contest, but the standard should be an even split. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Are male only spaces seen as sexist ? What the logic behind only having mixed and female only places ?Men’s fraternities | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 03:03 AM |
| 3 | Are male only spaces seen as sexist ? What the logic behind only having mixed and female only places ?Yes, that is true. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 03:02 AM |
| 1 | "Men should not be making laws about women's bodies" is full of fallaciesThat was very recently not the case in North America. And it’s still not the case everywhere in the world. So I don’t know if “grateful” is quite what women ought to feel. But it’s definitely not something to take for granted. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 02:54 AM |
| 10 | "Men should not be making laws about women's bodies" is full of fallaciesWhat are we talking about? Military conscription? | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 02:53 AM |
| 28 | "Men should not be making laws about women's bodies" is full of fallacies“An individual woman has the right to make decisions about her own body in consultation with whomever she chooses” is a much better way to phrase it. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Can men be oppressed?Individual men can be oppressed. Ask a black man. Ask an indigenous man. Ask a homeless man. Etc | /r/MensRights | 04/08/22 09:09 PM |
| 3 | What are the most gender-equal countries?Visit r/dating and or r/relationship_advice or literally any forum on here and seed a question. There was a thread the other day where women said men needed to pay because it’s more expensive for a woman to get ready for dates. It’s not hard to find on any dating conversation on FB, IG or Reddit. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/22 12:16 PM |
| 3 | What are the most gender-equal countries?This is not where I’m “pulling from”, but offers support for precisely what I wrote: https://www.forbes.com/sites/kimelsesser/2020/02/12/who-should-pay-for-dates-how-chivalry-contributes-to-the-gender-pay-gap/?sh=108fb5e03fa3 | /r/MensRights | 03/08/22 12:14 PM |
| 6 | What are the most gender-equal countries?That makes sense to me. Women in America want equality but believe, and will argue to death, that men pay for dates. There are variants of this. “Whoever asks pays” but an associated belief that men must ask “I offer to pay half but only if I’m not attracted to him” “I offer to pay and if he lets me I lose interest”. Requiring a man to pay sets up a power structure that most women don’t actually want, then are confused by as the relationship progresses. So I suspected your answer would be exactl… | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 08:29 PM |
| 3 | What are the most gender-equal countries?One thing I find outrageous is the entitlement or American divorcees with children. Many women spend years or decades fighting for “child support,” blaming men for cheating or trying to get more. I’m flummoxed at how educated, professional women are not prepared for the 50% possibility of divorce. And even more flummoxed at how the American courts entertain years of legal battles. While I agree that it’s a joint decision if a woman stays home to raise the children, she should have 2-5 years to r… | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | What are the most gender-equal countries?Do Swedish women also pay for dates? | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Quick questionGo to a school, hospital, PR firm, marketing agency, or medical office. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 07:14 PM |
| 16 | Either the US Military Draft needs to be done away with, or women need to be required to register for it.There are 1000 holdovers from another time and place that still exist, and this is one of them. Modern warfare isn’t what it used to be, and nor is society. These hangovers reinforce that men are the “protectors” and keep everyone stuck in gender roles that make no sense. Israel has equality in this area, it’s a good country to look at if you are curious how it works. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 07:11 PM |
| 12 | Illustrations and Animations around Men’s Mental HealthMen in roles other than “provider”. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 02:32 AM |
| 4 | Neckbeard Subreddits Bother MeThere’s a lot of work to be done in the dating world, especially for anyone who is in North America, using online dating. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 02:31 AM |
| 13 | 4 years after Kentucky passed two landmark child custody reform bills, family court caseloads and domestic violence rates have both decreasedI’m an extremely strong supporter of automatic 50/50 custody and removal of child support in scenarios where both incomes are in the same basic bandwidth cutoffs. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 02:30 AM |
| 9 | Circumcision protest held in West Springfield SaturdayI honestly don’t understand his this issue hasn’t taken more priority. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/22 02:28 AM |
| 9 | We seem to be at war with /rTwoXChromosomes.It’s like being in the wrong group in junior high. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/22 01:30 AM |
| 52 | We seem to be at war with /rTwoXChromosomes.The biggest mistake on Reddit is trying to convince other people of anything. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 10:48 PM |
| 23 | We seem to be at war with /rTwoXChromosomes.Then the war seems to be over for you. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 08:35 PM |
| 95 | We seem to be at war with /rTwoXChromosomes.Unsubscribe from the sub. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | I posted a post on the feminist reddit and didn't get a replyI deleted my comment, because I was providing a response to the OP. And you somehow made it about me. I’m out. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/07/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | I posted a post on the feminist reddit and didn't get a replyIt’s not a “take”. I’ve seen moderator auto responses saying those topics aren’t allowed. But ok. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/07/22 09:04 AM |
| 3 | Feminists are under a distorted perception of reality which makes them regard actual equality, as discrimination, and hence to act in practice to replace what is in fact a balance, with what is actually discrimination in favor of women.Women contribute to upholding the patriarchy. Often more than men do. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 03:59 AM |
| 4 | Why is it selfish to want sex?Sex is a biological urge and need, in the same way food and air are. It’s not selfish to want sex, that’s inaccurate. Any given individual woman doesn’t need to be a willing partner. So it’s a good time to talk about leaving, opening the marriage, therapy together or therapy for her. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/22 03:58 AM |
| 2 | I posted a post on the feminist reddit and didn't get a replyI’m pretty sure it’s still in your post history. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/07/22 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Supreme Court rules not wearing condom against partner's wishes could lead to sexual assault convictionI recently asked a sexual education centre and most female condoms are used by sex workers. So I honestly don’t know what the ratio of production is. Layperson purchase: obviously most condoms go on penises. So: yes, I agree. And also: this applies to men to men sexual encounters as well. We could make the same point, to be sure. The vast intention of the ruling is male to female penetration, due to numbers. Yes. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/22 11:29 PM |
| 6 | Supreme Court rules not wearing condom against partner's wishes could lead to sexual assault convictionThat would be easier than the case in today’s ruling. Pharmacies have records of filling prescriptions. Doctors have records that include birth control methods. These could easily be subpoenaed in a federal ruling. Were it me, I would also leave a paper trial via text summarizing: “just so we agree: you are on the pill and ____. Her answer will be available by way of subpoena from the phone company. And that’s a pretty lock solid case. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/22 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Supreme Court rules not wearing condom against partner's wishes could lead to sexual assault convictionYou are absolutely correct. This ruling is based on a 2017 charge, so someone in Canada will have to charge a woman and escalate it to the Supreme Court | /r/MensRights | 29/07/22 11:18 PM |
| 33 | Supreme Court rules not wearing condom against partner's wishes could lead to sexual assault convictionCompletely agree. Women lying about IUDs or the pill are non-consensual acts also. 100% | /r/MensRights | 29/07/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Supreme Court rules not wearing condom against partner's wishes could lead to sexual assault convictionWho’s to say it’s not sex between two men? | /r/MensRights | 29/07/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Supreme Court rules not wearing condom against partner's wishes could lead to sexual assault convictionIdeally someone takes that to the Canadian Supreme Court. That’s equally non-consensual | /r/MensRights | 29/07/22 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Supreme Court rules not wearing condom against partner's wishes could lead to sexual assault convictionNothing in the ruling specifies gender. So I’m not sure this one is fully against men, as it includes female condoms (sex workers, for example), male on male sex, etc It’s just broadly about stealthing, which isn’t ideal | /r/MensRights | 29/07/22 11:13 PM |
| 2 | So "luring men to their death" is not violating Reddit rules? I wonder what would happen if I make a female version of this🤔That doesn’t seem like an optimal sub for you to browse. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/22 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Which men's issues would you like to have more information about?The psychology of men as “providers”. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/22 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Lauren Saint George was found guilty of infanticide. But the judge decided against prison time, saying, ‘It is quite clear to me that you were depressed." Ten-week-old Lily-Mai suffered a brain injury, 18 rib fractures and severe bruising. Lauren shook her daughter so hard she died three days laterI hope she was sentenced to significant therapy, then? | /r/MensRights | 28/07/22 08:10 PM |
| 8 | Reddit Recap for 2021.I have no idea what’s going on. Or what you are reading into or interpreting. I answered a post because it seemed like someone had a genuine question. I didn’t understand the comment about 30% made under my comment, but it seemed potentially rude so I was clarifying. I’m quite honestly not sure how that’s now being perceived as arrogant by you. Or why you are even involving yourself. Have a good night. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/21 05:22 AM |
| 8 | Reddit Recap for 2021.I wasn’t trying to be. I was merely commenting on the discrepancy I noticed in my own report. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/21 04:11 AM |
| 8 | Reddit Recap for 2021.I am too. Here’s hoping for a more accurate report in 2021. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/21 03:48 AM |
| 25 | Reddit Recap for 2021.It’s not a particularly insightful or accurate report, since it doesn’t include the sub where I spent the most time. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/21 01:22 AM |
| 204 | Brave man refuses to sponsor a dead beat woman who asked him out. So she went to the press “My date only bought food for himself because I had no cash, I wasn't impressed'She had money for those fake eyelashes though. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/21 12:03 PM |
| 3 | Ontario woman defamed for posting a video of her and her boyfriend play fighting. This is about the mob who took the time to attack her for one single screen cap.Wow. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/21 06:15 PM |
| 5 | Ontario woman defamed for posting a video of her and her boyfriend play fighting. This is about the mob who took the time to attack her for one single screen cap.Anything that’s filmed has the potential to destroy anyone | /r/MensRights | 20/10/21 06:07 PM |
| 7 | Ontario woman defamed for posting a video of her and her boyfriend play fighting. This is about the mob who took the time to attack her for one single screen cap.My god | /r/MensRights | 20/10/21 06:03 PM |
| 5 | “Women and families/children”Movember | /r/MensRights | 13/10/21 03:28 PM |
| 8 | “Women and families/children”https://menshealthfoundation.ca/mens-health-services/ | /r/MensRights | 13/10/21 03:28 PM |
| 9 | California is the 1st state to ban 'stealthing,' nonconsensual condom removal. It doesn't seem to explicitly cover women poking holes in condoms or lying about birth control. Another sexist law that mainly protects women but still leaves men vulnerableNever rely on someone else for birth control. That removes the possibility that someone could lie. And if you want to protect condoms, use your own. You can take those protections for yourself. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/21 10:30 PM |
| 40 | Why do men not care about male genital mutilation?It is an issue, and needs to be addressed. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/21 03:50 AM |
| 3 | "If a man uses protection but the woman still gets pregnant and decides to keep the baby, what are his options if he doesn't want the child?"Right? This is one of the most blatantly false statements I have ever seen on Reddit | /r/MensRights | 04/10/21 03:30 AM |
| 5 | "If a man uses protection but the woman still gets pregnant and decides to keep the baby, what are his options if he doesn't want the child?"Ah. Thank you. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 11:12 PM |
| 3 | "If a man uses protection but the woman still gets pregnant and decides to keep the baby, what are his options if he doesn't want the child?"Good tip | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 05:07 PM |
| 16 | "If a man uses protection but the woman still gets pregnant and decides to keep the baby, what are his options if he doesn't want the child?"There are no single mothers out there? That’s a completely false statement. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 05:07 PM |
| 18 | "If a man uses protection but the woman still gets pregnant and decides to keep the baby, what are his options if he doesn't want the child?"There is absolutely no legal difference whether a man does or doesn’t use protection | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 05:06 PM |
| 3 | "If a man uses protection but the woman still gets pregnant and decides to keep the baby, what are his options if he doesn't want the child?"Not in my jurisdiction. The father has to sign the birth certificate. So, that’s part of the challenge with this question. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 04:54 PM |
| 3 | "If a man uses protection but the woman still gets pregnant and decides to keep the baby, what are his options if he doesn't want the child?"Yes. As clearly noted in my comments. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 04:22 PM |
| -2 | "If a man uses protection but the woman still gets pregnant and decides to keep the baby, what are his options if he doesn't want the child?"It depends on what jurisdiction. But the court can’t force guardianship or custody. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 03:45 PM |
| -6 | "If a man uses protection but the woman still gets pregnant and decides to keep the baby, what are his options if he doesn't want the child?"Not really. The man can: not show up for the birth, not sign the birth certificate and then not show up for the court case establishing guardianship. She doesn’t have to agree to any of that. His lack of participation is seen as legally waiving his rights and responsibilities. Finances are a separate issue. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 02:56 PM |
| 2 | "If a man uses protection but the woman still gets pregnant and decides to keep the baby, what are his options if he doesn't want the child?"He can waive guardianship. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 01:54 PM |
| 3 | I really hate how the news talks about Afghanistan.Some on Reddit never miss an opportunity for a drive-by downvote. lol. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/21 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Scared to dateConsent can be removed at any time, so I’m not a lawyer but I don’t think this would hold | /r/MensRights | 22/09/21 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Scared to dateFalse accusations out of the blue are statistically very rare. That said, the #1 advice I would have for you is to be EXTREMELY mindful around alcohol. Many people (including males) do not have a proper memory of time, consent, or sequence of events. Nightclubs in North America are going to be one of the safest venues on earth because they have every millisecond recorded from multiple angles. But avoid drinking and leaving the premises with an intoxicated woman you don’t already know, particular… | /r/MensRights | 22/09/21 07:34 PM |
| 4 | I really hate how the news talks about Afghanistan.That’s a very good point. Human rights are human rights. Thank you for pointing that out | /r/MensRights | 22/09/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | I believe if women have the choice of abortion then men should have the choice of financial abortion.Completely. What an interesting thing to think through! Great topic. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/21 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Need Advice: false accusation of sexual assault is hurting my college lifeSince almost every person backs their phone up to a cloud (Google, iPhone), these can be recovered | /r/MensRights | 22/09/21 01:40 AM |
| 2 | I believe if women have the choice of abortion then men should have the choice of financial abortion.100%. After 12 weeks, she can’t change her mind. So the man would have to do it far enough in advance of that that she would have time to abort | /r/MensRights | 22/09/21 01:16 AM |
| 1 | I believe if women have the choice of abortion then men should have the choice of financial abortion.Good point. I believe that would create a hurdle. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/21 01:15 AM |
| 2 | I believe if women have the choice of abortion then men should have the choice of financial abortion.Many men don’t cleanly abandon. A financial abortion = clean, definitive. That’s often not how it goes down. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/21 11:32 PM |
| 5 | I believe if women have the choice of abortion then men should have the choice of financial abortion.You are right. And he should have a lesser window to decide this than a woman. So she can make informed consent about carrying to term. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/21 11:31 PM |
| 1 | How come guys always have to 'work on themselves'?Yes. Exactly | /r/MensRights | 20/09/21 01:12 PM |
| -1 | How come guys always have to 'work on themselves'?People also give identical solutions to women to what the OP described in the post. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/21 01:11 PM |
| 0 | How come guys always have to 'work on themselves'?Ok | /r/MensRights | 20/09/21 10:13 AM |
| -2 | How come guys always have to 'work on themselves'?Not sure why it was downvoted, and this also applies to women. I agree with you. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/21 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Is "Incel" the new universal insult when you don't like somebody's opinion?Yes. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/21 03:16 AM |
| 4 | How come guys always have to 'work on themselves'?Facts | /r/MensRights | 20/09/21 12:22 AM |
| -4 | How come guys always have to 'work on themselves'?I’d agree. Women are often called “crazy” if they reveal anxiety, or “hysterical” for crying. And anger makes her a “bitch”. (This comment is getting downvotes, but there’s no reason why. It’s not a statement that men are not subject to the same-but-different. It’s simply a comment about women. Which takes nothing away from men) | /r/MensRights | 19/09/21 09:31 PM |
| -20 | How come guys always have to 'work on themselves'?Happens all the time in relationships. Women are told to “do the inner work”. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/21 09:28 PM |
| 0 | How come guys always have to 'work on themselves'?Simple reason for this is: it allows the person to feel like they gave you a solution and they don’t have tp deal with your emotions. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/21 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Feminist Here: Maybe I Don't Agree with Feminism AnymoreThis | /r/MensRights | 19/09/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?Absolutely. So I was looking for an explanation on the data behind motives. Do men believe women would make this choice or are women actually making this choice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 05:21 PM |
| 1 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?Source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 12:05 PM |
| 1 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?Noted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 12:04 PM |
| 1 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?That isn’t everyone’s idea of a good job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 05:44 AM |
| 5 | 37YO who has dated mostly jerks found the perfect man...but still thinks she can do better.Why did she start dating this guy? “No” chemistry is obvious. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/09/21 05:40 AM |
| 3 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?Point still stands. Parenting with a staff sounds gems. Parenting on its own: work is more satisfying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 05:20 AM |
| 2 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?I was talking about cleaning in the comment above. Which has no correlation with helicopter parenting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 01:43 AM |
| 1 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?Whoa, cowboy. Who says I think I “know it all” based on a one sentence comment on Reddit?!? This piece isn’t about “broke” women. These are Ivy League educated women who often had powerful careers (I read about one yesterday who made $1m per year before becoming one of the women in the piece.) We aren’t talking about “broke” women or “baristas”. So I think we are having two entirely separate conversations about entirely separate situations. At NO point did I suggest that I knew it “all”, so I’m … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 12:08 AM |
| 2 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?Same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:59 PM |
| 1 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:47 PM |
| 4 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?When kids are at home all the time, it’s a full time job. If they are at daycare, someone else is managing that for 6+ hours a day and the mess is not in your home. So: no. You don’t have to do it anyways. The scale is entirely different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:47 PM |
| 5 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?I have a friend who is this woman. Her husband earns $23 million per year. She has: a housekeeper, a nanny, a private tutor, a gardener, a pool guy, etc. She dedicates 6 hours a day to cooking, because it’s a personal passion. She has a prenup that assigns her a bonus for each year of marriage. She does cook, but none of the cleaning, yardwork, childcare or education detail work fall to her. She’s essentially a manager. This is not a “stay at home mom” in the way most of the rest of America woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:45 PM |
| 0 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?These would be multimillion dollar divorces anyway. So I’m not sure it matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:41 PM |
| 2 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?Even better: their spouse runs a hedge fund | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?This is definitely a top 1% option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:39 PM |
| 2 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?Makes sense. Avoids micromanaging how she spends the money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:38 PM |
| 2 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?This is a rock solid comment. And explains why so many Ivy League NYC women are doing this. They have a Harvard degree, worked in finance and actually didn’t have any passion for that life. Your point explains perfectly that the best option for these intelligent, highly educated women is to not work, but to be philanthropists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:37 PM |
| 1 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?Facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:34 PM |
| 4 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?Because cleaning the stove and repetitively doing laundry is the functional equivalent of being a janitor. And not every man would be intellectually professionally satisfied being a janitor. With a hobby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:33 PM |
| 2 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?They are? Maybe in 1940. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:32 PM |
| 2 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?Where? Not in my country. It’s 50/50 unless there are intense reasons (he’s in jail, he’s missing, he’s dead…lol) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:31 PM |
| 5 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?Women are biologically designed for child bearing. That’s different than child rearing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?Who’s oppressed? It’s an active choice to be a SAHM. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:29 PM |
| 2 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?This is going to be a good time when he’s a SAHD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:29 PM |
| 3 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?Data shows this. Working parents today spend more time with their children in a week than stay at home parents did a few decades ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:28 PM |
| 3 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?I am a working parent. Other people have not “raised” my child. It isn’t one or the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:27 PM |
| 6 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?Evidence shows most women don’t want to take that route. 74% of women with kids over 6 in the US are employed. So, yes, most women would want to if they also had a chef, nanny/nannies, private schools, personal trainers, interior decorators, sleep trainers, specialty doctors and could spend the day lunching with friends and running the staff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:24 PM |
| 3 | NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life?New York City is a place where many hold off on having kids until it’s a “reward” for other achievements. That is not representative of most scenarios. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]I think there are studies that align with your theory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]I don’t relate to their experiences but was just curious. It makes sense that it’s self selected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Modern feminism and sexual liberation is ultimately detrimental to women. Men have more dating and relationship power than ever. [CMV]So why are men all over the dating subs complaining of the very opposite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Is the 2 year “drop” real?I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Is the 2 year “drop” real?I’ve never once heard or experienced this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 12:59 AM |
| 5 | Has being feminist just become "being exactly like men?"“When the hell did men become the gold standard”? That made me laugh out loud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Oh lovely, just what I need, a curra na bod telling me how to be a “real” man. You’re not exactly in a position to lecture me about being masculine, given that you’re a 20-year-old Cardi B worshipping striapach with a seadán!Doesn’t the entire world use kilometres, other than the US? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/09/21 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Oh lovely, just what I need, a curra na bod telling me how to be a “real” man. You’re not exactly in a position to lecture me about being masculine, given that you’re a 20-year-old Cardi B worshipping striapach with a seadán!I looked again. Why do you think she’s Canadian? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/09/21 01:03 PM |
| 5 | Oh lovely, just what I need, a curra na bod telling me how to be a “real” man. You’re not exactly in a position to lecture me about being masculine, given that you’re a 20-year-old Cardi B worshipping striapach with a seadán!Proof of her version of masculinity. More than likely: “pay for me,” “take care of me” | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/09/21 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Meet one of the most swiped men on tinderHe’s attractive but not intimidatingly so. I’m surprised that this guy is in the 99th percentile except he’s someone who’s attractive enough, yet not too attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | How did the genders get to this point?You too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | How did the genders get to this point?Ok. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 03:21 PM |
| 2 | How did the genders get to this point?Yes. Thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | How did the genders get to this point?I made a relatively simple comment while passing by on a Reddit thread, and this has now officially gone way past my level of intellectual or emotional interest. So it’s not about “admitting” anything, I just don’t care THAT much. That said, thank you so much for the info, its good to know, I haven’t seen that before. And I appreciate you sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 02:44 PM |
| 1 | How did the genders get to this point?That’s fair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | How did the genders get to this point?I’m not talking about the 26% of women who are stay at home moms. That’s obvious. I’m talking about the 74% who are employed outside the home. If both parties are employed and both work 40-60 hours a week, the unpaid domestic load should represent an equal split. It currently doesn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 01:37 PM |
| 2 | How did the genders get to this point?3rd - I guess it’s not “oppression,” it’s trauma | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 02:35 AM |
| 3 | How did the genders get to this point?2nd part - agree, but then there should be equal split between men and women. Research shows that’s not the case at all. So that could use correction and it is actually oppression that one gender does free labor and the other does hobbies and has free time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 02:34 AM |
| 1 | How did the genders get to this point?4th part - in fairness, I heard that on a podcast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 02:34 AM |
| 2 | How did the genders get to this point?Facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 02:26 AM |
| 0 | How did the genders get to this point?This is true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 02:25 AM |
| 3 | How did the genders get to this point?Access to abortion in Texas is oppressed. Inequality in terms of domestic and unpaid labor Rape and sexual assault Everything in Afghanistan The US is 199 years from full equality, so it may not be “oppression” but it’s not equality. The examples remain issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to not acknowledge the sheer amount of power they hold over straight men?Lack of awareness due to lack of power in other areas of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 09:53 PM |
| 2 | A different perspective on how to be attractive to women.I liked this video | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 05:39 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Ugly truth: the only good mother is a self-sacrificing antifeminist mother.It is very clear that you have no childhood trauma training. This is not accurate, and citing Google.com as a source is not providing helpful material for continued dialogue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 01:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Ugly truth: the only good mother is a self-sacrificing antifeminist mother.Interesting. Because there are studies that show that more egalitarian structures are better for her mental health, happiness and outcomes. Self sacrificing is not creating the best outcome, in either the mother or the child, sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 01:32 PM |
| 14 | When do you think it's "too late" to find a good partner?It goes downhill in men as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 01:19 PM |
| 11 | When do you think it's "too late" to find a good partner?This is propaganda, not reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 01:19 PM |
| 2 | When do you think it's "too late" to find a good partner?My deathbed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 01:17 PM |
| 13 | Is online dating declining?There are no trends to support this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 05:37 PM |
| 3 | A man who demands that his partner stops using sex toys is accused of everything from being insecure about his size to being an abusive partner, yet women who police their partners use of porn are seen as reasonable, proactive, and victims in the situation. Why?I’d have to agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 04:44 PM |
| 3 | She wants a Provider, Protector and a LeaderIt’s surprising how many men want to | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/09/21 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Is a balding man equivalent to an obese female in thr dating hierarchy?I’m commenting on the idea that it “will probably lower with each passing year”. Nope, the odds are in a bald man’s favor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Is a balding man equivalent to an obese female in thr dating hierarchy?Orrrr increase: “Of the 44% of women of age 35 to 44 that find bald men “attractive”, 19% find them “very attractive”.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Women now make up 60% of college students. The number is expected to grow to 2 women / 1 man in a few years. How will this affect the dating market?Women out-earn men in 40% of US households | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 01:29 PM |
| 4 | Why do women want to get married?Cultural validation/status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 01:17 AM |
| 2 | "Things" happen for "reasons" (duh) that are none of my responsibility!!That reason is S-e-x | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/09/21 12:47 AM |
| 3 | There's so many "I'm completely insane, emotionally unstable, fat and psychotic" women out there trying to date us by openly telling us this, that I think they deserve their own term by nowI must have missed that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/21 04:50 PM |
| -1 | There's so many "I'm completely insane, emotionally unstable, fat and psychotic" women out there trying to date us by openly telling us this, that I think they deserve their own term by nowWhy are you calling her “fat”? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/21 04:13 PM |
| 2 | I am seeing how subreddits like r/ dating is filled with bunch of hypocrites and people who have double standards.Have you seen Renaissance paintings? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 12:00 PM |
| 11 | I much desire to learn how her screen of dicks is progressingShe doesn’t want kids, just dick. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/09/21 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Four Girls - Same First ResponseThere’s no specific meaning. It means: “I’m not busy, just watching Netflix”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Please apply hereWell, at least she wants someone under 6’2” | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/09/21 07:09 PM |
| 4 | (updated removed location) Post wall wonders where have all the really really attractive men have gone.100 likes? She must be tired. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/09/21 04:20 PM |
| 4 | Lying about her age, separated for 15 years with a daughter that is probably from another man, and now ready to settle down for a "real relationship".Legit comment: she looks like she has a current or former addiction | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/09/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Sperm donor needed. You give up all rights and will never see the kid but you still owe 20% of your income in support. Form an orderly lineInterested parties: or you could donate sperm (for free/be paid for it) and not be legally obligated to pay child support. One of the two. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/09/21 12:49 AM |
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