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| 2 | Horrible night clubbing aloneSounds like you know what you did wrong here - you were so far into your own head you probably made things much worse for yourself than they were. If you ever find yourself in this situation again, consider switching venues if possible. A new crowd and a new venue can help you “reset” internally. But you have to keep working on the inner game and confidence. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 02:30 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]If the connections you are making are solid when you are going out, then you don’t need a clever one-liner text. The fact that you are following up indicates interest. She should remember you and know who you are. Even a simple, “what’s up?” works fine | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 02:22 PM |
| 2 | [FIELD REPORT] First time pulling from a day clubAh Vegas. Easiest town to pull in the world | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Not getting signs of interestSounds like you have some great stuff to work with! Remember to keep your conversations light and fun. Don’t wait for “an opportunity to arise” in the conversation, you have to lead - be the SOURCE of her fun time. You: “Hey, quick question. Were you in SF on July 4th last year?” Her: Yes, no, whatever You: Check this out - the funniest thing happened to me. . .[and you’re off] | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Not getting signs of interestOkay, got it. This is all helpful information - so it sounds like your “lack of success” is because you are not attracting women from the outset before becoming friends. In old school Mystery Method parlance, you are engaging in “comfort” before “attraction”. You have to demonstrate value when meeting girls for them to become attracted to you. Examples: Do you have a great story about the time you crashed a random house party while backpacking through Italy? Are you running a 5K in ten days time… | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Not getting signs of interestDo you know what IOIs to look for? Are you coming across as anxious, or stilted in these conversations? Do conversations flow naturally? Try focusing on freely giving value to others in your interactions. Now here’s the counter-intuitive part: you have try to not be so outcome-dependent. You want girls you are interested in to have fun when they are with you without seeking anything in return. That will make girls want to hang around you more. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 06:26 PM |
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