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| – | Red Pill and SheraSeven Content Are More Similar Than DifferentI'd argue if you're a smart manipulator all she's doing is shining a bright light to the type of people who are easy to take advantage of. You dont go to alcoholics anonymous because you can handle your booze. Same reason I feel men who constantly worry about gold diggers are easy marks. Just have boundaries and say no. I have never worried about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women.Men on the Forbes 400 list (richest Americans) have an average spousal age gap of seven years younger, significantly higher than the 4.1-year average in the general U.S. population. For remarriages, this gap increases to an average of over 22 years younger. The average to bottom tier men bring the age difference average down tremendously. Making the guys point above. The men richer than your have better options than you. Simple as. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 03:11 PM |
| 0 | Many mothers condition their sons to accept being seen as a resource by women.You and your fiancee are not the same. Me makes an extra 50k per year than you. You wouldn't date someone that only makes 80k. You would call that a different social class :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 03:06 PM |
| 1 | What *specific* social missteps are common among romantically struggling men?I showed this list to my chad friend and he just laughed. Then he said its embarrassing to have to do all that. Womp womp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Just because someone doesn't want to do things your way or in your timeline, doesn't mean they don't like or that they are the bad guys.Agreed. If women get fucked over by those men its just natural selection. Just like short ugly men getting the outcome they deserve. Simple as | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:59 PM |
| – | Just because someone doesn't want to do things your way or in your timeline, doesn't mean they don't like or that they are the bad guys.When you say there will be more pro social people to offset me not caring. It becomes the subject at hand that the anti social people are doing more damage than your "cool" society off setting my antisocialness. Im glad your little bubble is filled with butterflies and goodness. Most of cool society isn't. Your little jab at me falls flat when in reality. Evil is winning and it's winning "bigly". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:34 PM |
| – | Just because someone doesn't want to do things your way or in your timeline, doesn't mean they don't like or that they are the bad guys.You sure about that? With trump being a rampaging lunatic and Peter Thiels endless funds and elon musk starving hundred of thousands of African children to death with the shutdown of usaid. Doesnt feel like good guys are winning. Check your privilege. Ignorant moron | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:02 PM |
| – | Just because someone doesn't want to do things your way or in your timeline, doesn't mean they don't like or that they are the bad guys.I don't feel bad for rich men who get played. I also don't feel bad for social capital rich women who have bad outcomes. I'd rather be a sociopath than be a peasant that feels bad for the the royalty fucking each other over. Short ugly men deserve their outcome. And so do you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:12 PM |
| 6 | Just because someone doesn't want to do things your way or in your timeline, doesn't mean they don't like or that they are the bad guys.Women deserve every outcome they get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Why aren't red pill men actually adapting anymore?Sexually active men are more dangerous to women than incels. Quit judging the group by the actions of a few | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Did getting into a relationship change your views/approach?He doesn't have to be a incel to be incel minded. He probably already had those thoughts long before meeting you. Not sure. If he treats you well overall. Maybe just treat it like a weird tourrettes tick. Except it's verbal sperging incel thoughts. Nothing can really change in this area unless he cares to go to a professional. He cant unlive his life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 03:35 PM |
| 6 | Did getting into a relationship change your views/approach?Not everyone becomes incel minded from browsing on the computer. All you need is a tall good-looking friend you go out with often to get incel experiences that lead to the incel mind. A few months with a Chad friend will do more to establish redpill than 3 years of red pill podcasts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 12:00 PM |
| 0 | Women clown on lonely men for turning to porn, but are also hostile to the idea of men going out and approaching themYou're dumb men wishing they were gay has been around since women existed aka always. You are the one that spent too much time on the internet silos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?If it was one or the other. I'd rather maximize the development of my hypothetical child. While your dad might be bummed you don't call him or whatever. The fact that you're sufficient and successful is probably enough to soothe the wound. Personally and I don't expect this to be a popular take on any Facebook parenting groups. I would feel selfish to prioritize my feels over making sure iq, height and whatever other potential is maximized. Bunch of crabs in the bucket. Besides life isn't black … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 02:29 AM |
| 0 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?A poor dads child involved with his life will have poorer life outcomes in all areas vs a rich dads child who's barely ever around. Paycheck isn't all of it. But it's most of it. The growth of the pre frontal cortex of a child into adulthood can be predicted by the socio economic status of the mother by the time the kid is 5 years old. I think emotionally it's nice to see and belive a father who's around all the time but not really that rich is better but in reality it's not that important in co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 02:15 AM |
| 1 | I've found that, contrary to what women say, one's ability to be friends with women and one's ability to be romantic with them are unrelatedYes they do and No I don't think hookups means women allowing themselves to be disrespected. They're more likely to cheat but they're also more likely to be in demand which probably means the woman is more likely to stay despite the cheating. So I wouldn't be able to tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 03:24 PM |
| 8 | I've found that, contrary to what women say, one's ability to be friends with women and one's ability to be romantic with them are unrelatedThey fuck the most women. Durrr. Including the good ones that would totally never allow themselves to be disrespected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 01:10 PM |
| 0 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.Just a heads up the average dating bootcamp is like 5k. Finance potential doesn't equal dating potential. It isn't broke boys buying all those bootcamps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 09:14 AM |
| -2 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Are woman collectively rtarded? Men care about getting to fuck. Men wouldnt give a fuck about your approval or respect if it wasn't necessary to fuck. For some men it is so they have to pretend to care about your opinions and approval. Other don't have to so they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 02:32 PM |
| 1 | That stat about women initiating divorce 70% of the time is misleadingGenerally people of higher socio economic status have better outcomes in all areas and have higher quality "problems" than the poor. Everyone has worries. Not all worries are the same. Just poor people cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 03:01 PM |
| 3 | So what is the alternative??Brother you are never going to get women to understand that things don't just happen and the guy who was super smooth probably had some sort of plan in mind to make things happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 06:52 PM |
| 7 | Men should avoid dating sexual assault victimsI would 100% warn a woman about people with ptsd from war. People with extreme trauma come with problems. Not everyone has to deal with them. Specially if you're trauma free. Rape victims are one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 01:05 PM |
| – | Someone explain this to meIn pill spaces women(FEMALES) who pick tall men also claim that they're above their biology and picked just because they were figuring themselves out. Clearly she defied all stereotypes of the value equation with her natural just going with the vibe choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 04:27 PM |
| – | Are passports bros horrible people ?I'll start taking muh economic class difference seriously when women start going after pro athletes, famous people, rich men in Western countries running through all the middle class and lower women. Until then idgaf. I'm not a passport bro but generally anything that helps average mans dating strategy for real is hated by mainstream peeps and women. Men should do what works. Fuck em. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 05:44 PM |
| – | Can guys please get over themselvesNormally I don't call bluepills delusional. But this is no better than guys blaming CHAAAADdddd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 02:47 PM |
| – | Can guys please get over themselvesNah. You know how men treat ugly or fat women like trash? That's what most men are to most women. So a percentage of those women are going to treat a percentage of those men like trash. There are 3 genders High status men Women "Low status" (most men) men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Gender misconceptionsThse fucks are going to gaslight you. But only "listen" to who they spread their legs for and with regards to men to what type of woman they open their wallets for Stated preferences are the biggest flash flags of all time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:01 PM |
| -3 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on themUnless she had a history of fucking her friends. You played your self. Dumbass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?Is this some cope? A balding 5'10 skinny fat white dude could have the tinder of a Chad in south America. This is Coming from a latino with said skinny fat white friends. Yes they actually do throw themselves to them. I k lw you want them to fail for whatever reason but they would have to try to not get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 04:49 AM |
| 10 | the ultimate force that is shaping womens' frustration with dating is the engine of hypergamy raising her standards without her concious awarenessI'm sorry if you think famous male tiktokers don't leverage status to bang their groupies. Are you new to the world or something? Yes even the one you respect that would totally never 🤣🤣 No I'm talking extremely good looking/high status/clouted/top financial performing men using social media to scale their reach and fuck tons of women they would've never been able to otherwise. No women don't do this to the same degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 04:00 AM |
| 5 | the ultimate force that is shaping womens' frustration with dating is the engine of hypergamy raising her standards without her concious awarenessI think people should start saying instagram/tiktok. The high status guys aren't using dating apps except for maybe Raya back in the day. Instagram or tiktok is their tool for hot pussy acquisition. And I'm sure you and your peers use 1 or both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 03:51 AM |
| 8 | “Be nice” was NEVER code for “Being nice to women gets them wet for you”. Nice guys lie to themselves.The real world. There is always a benefit of some sort. You are just unaware It's good that there is benefits for good behaviour. Even if it's only within one's own brain feeling good about it. What shitty world wouldn't provide benefits for good behavior. Except for dating of course that's a lil different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 02:56 AM |
| 1 | We overestimate the effort needed from women to date elite men while also undereatimating how difficult for men to date beautiful womenComes to a reddit where people discuss social dynamics. Calls people who admit there are social hierarchies weird (modern academia agrees btw). The weird maladjusted one is you. You can be happy while acknowledging realities of human behavior. Weirdo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 06:15 PM |
| 1 | We overestimate the effort needed from women to date elite men while also undereatimating how difficult for men to date beautiful womenOf course you can. Doesn't mean said reflection is accurate when you try to present it in a manner that would be unique to the entirety of human existence. Good luck and lmaooo 🤣😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 02:14 PM |
| 2 | We overestimate the effort needed from women to date elite men while also undereatimating how difficult for men to date beautiful womenClearly not as recognizing normal human hierarchies would exhaust you. Showing a extreme lack of clean air for energy. Lmaooooo 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 02:04 PM |
| 5 | We overestimate the effort needed from women to date elite men while also undereatimating how difficult for men to date beautiful womenHumans have always had social hierarchies. How do you breathe with your goose head so deep in the sand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Even ignoring the RP/BP doomers, how does anyone not becone cynical about long term monogamy when working in an office setting full of cheaters?Is there data that claims religious couples have less affairs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 09:50 PM |
| 1 | What are realistic options / solutions for men who can not compete in today's dating market?He's alive just boozing and working. Not a happy ending. He could pick it back up but old timers are softer and are very bluepilled about live and stuff. He'll probably be heartbroken for a long time. He's older. Very possible he offs himself. Early 40s divorced. It's the demographic. We will see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many men obsessed with being the top guy when they know most men will never be the top guy?Intrasexual competition is happening. Consciously or not. People are not above their biology when they can't even stop themselves from eating to obesity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Why are so many men obsessed with being the top guy when they know most men will never be the top guy?Yea bro and the women will totally not all go for chad all else equal. k | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 07:09 PM |
| 7 | What are realistic options / solutions for men who can not compete in today's dating market?My dad's friend married a Vietnamese chick. 5 years in a ex of her made it big in business and was a friend of the family. She flew over there without him for Christmas and the ex was there. Cheated and left my dad's friend. It doesn't bode well for your techie friend that she is in the us in a long term horizon imo. He's inexperienced and not exciting at all(based on what you said.) Hopefully it works out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many men convinced statistical analysis, pattern recognition, evo psych and other analytics can give them an advantage in dating?Not all books are written in a attempt to get rich. Specially boring academic ones. Black and white thinking is a sign of autism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many men convinced statistical analysis, pattern recognition, evo psych and other analytics can give them an advantage in dating?Def didn't get rich. It's a boring book written by a boring academic. Not everything about human mating strategy is roses and flowers. He also has a book called "why men behave badly". No reason to be a science denier because you don't like the conclusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 09:41 PM |
| – | Why aren't large age gaps the norm in relationships?Control for models and people who make money from their looks and I bet the stats changes. Young mids date other young mids. You see large age gaps in the best looking women cohort. Stacies at Miami swimweek not cute Becky from my accounting class | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 08:36 PM |
| – | Why aren't large age gaps the norm in relationships?Only a few men have enough leverage to date in a large age gap. Forbes top 400 have a average 7 year age gap in the first marriage and 15 year age gap in their second. In the average person dating market men have no leverage at all and date what they can get. The average dating market only represents what happens if women have the leverage over the men. Hypergamy is also a balance of value with comfort not just value. The best man they can keep around. . This reality sets in at the average marry… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many men convinced statistical analysis, pattern recognition, evo psych and other analytics can give them an advantage in dating?Tell me how the evolution of desire was written by Dr David buss as a way to get rich? The guy who wrote the textbook for Harvard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many men convinced statistical analysis, pattern recognition, evo psych and other analytics can give them an advantage in dating?Not sure bro but you approaching and only taking in data from that has its own set of problems in sampling. The scientific method exists for a reason. Check out the 37 culture study there are things that continue to exist despite cultural influence. It's interesting to read. Disregarding data and just approaching bro is how you get out competed for the hottest women by people who focus on mate choice copying instead of annoying random starters 😇 It's also not just all about yourself learning abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 08:26 PM |
| – | What's your hot taking about dating? Something you believe based on things you've experienced, but would typically go against the grain of what people say here?Having sex with 1 person 1 time a year isn't "having sex" Men don't go from the bottom 30% of no sex at all to consistently having sex with one person. For most its just getting lucky. Of the women who even aren't participating in the causal sex scene. Their sex distribution is also going to the top men. It's a fallacy to assume the man whores only have sex with other woman whores. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 02:32 PM |
| 1 | What's your hot taking about dating? Something you believe based on things you've experienced, but would typically go against the grain of what people say here?The median n count being what it is does not equal average man having as much sex as the average women. While the numbers are similar when calculated. The distribution isn't the same. Women are more evenly spread out Men go from barely anything at all until you get to the top of the bell curve and they have a ton The top of the bell curve is different by about 70 bodies. Women being around 30 men being more than 100 They paint different pictures. If you can't get what I'm getting at from this th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 05:56 PM |
| 1 | What's your hot taking about dating? Something you believe based on things you've experienced, but would typically go against the grain of what people say here?I never said men didnt have a higher body count than women in the median. They do at the top of the bell curve by a tremendous amount. I said the average bodycount wouldn't be so low for men if they could regularly get casual sex. This statement also applies to the median. 6 for a guy with regular access to causal sex is like a month. A week easy if he tries. I'm not disagreeing with the data in any way. You're fighting ghosts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 11:10 PM |
| 2 | What's your hot taking about dating? Something you believe based on things you've experienced, but would typically go against the grain of what people say here?If that many men were able to get casual relationships the average male body count would not be so low. Ok the more men have given up the more fun the top guys to have. Arguing that 33% of men dropped out only strengthens my argument. Less options for women yet the average male body count is still extremely low compared to the top 5% of guys. It's not that men haven't found the right woman to settle for. They don't find any at all because they suck and can't. I think you're just out of touch old… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 08:16 PM |
| 3 | What's your hot taking about dating? Something you believe based on things you've experienced, but would typically go against the grain of what people say here?Is this from the guy that tries to pass off Twitter polls as studies? At the tip of the bell curve the top 5% of men have over 100 partners. For women it's around 30 33% of women report single vs 66% of me reporting single. There is data that a small subset of men are having majority of the sex. While this also applies to women the body count difference at the top of the bell curve is enough to say it's not the same. They only have similar number of sex partners on average, when talking about th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. The double standard is ridiculous.True. Well then good luck. Wish you the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. The double standard is ridiculous.Well love starts shallow and gets deep overtime. I get that you want a man to love you for you as I do with women. But it's really just a unnecessary chip on your shoulder. I used to be overweight too and also born poor. I now am the opposite. I had similar thought processes as you but got over myself and now live much better for it. A man can fall for your intellect but generally a man who is smart enough to contend and appreciate someone with doctor level iq is also going to be pickier looks w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. The double standard is ridiculous.Honestly you're doing yourself a tremendous disservice by not just focusing on losing weight. I get that it's blackpilling for former fat people that actually do it. But it's reality that you would probably be married or at the very least have had multiple proposals if you were skinny by now. Why not adapt to modern times and use dating apps. The numbers are in your favor as it is filled with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 11:15 PM |
| 0 | Women asking to be "treated as human beings" are really just asking to be treated as royaltyAre you unaware of the woman who larped as a man for a year. Then killed herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:35 PM |
| 1 | What will be the impact of intelligent life-size realistic artificial partners on the dating scene?No I'm talking about gacha games. It's not gacha gaming. I should've clarified. I forgot gacha gaming was a game itself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 05:32 PM |
| 3 | What will be the impact of intelligent life-size realistic artificial partners on the dating scene?Gacha gaming were people roll for characters that grow to "love" you( the self insert charactet) make billions of dollars per year. A prototype version of this is already mainstream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Women judge men based on how popular they are with other women which leads to a cycle where a few fuckboys get to pump and dump many womenYou're just really ugly or something bro. Mate choice copying/pre selection is a well established fact. Sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:07 AM |
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