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| 2 | What women really wantThese women sound like they have very low self esteem. I don’t care if Henry Cavill himself approached me, I would never be okay with hot and cold games. A peaceful reliable partner sounds sexy to me right now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 08:36 AM |
| 2 | What women really wantRepeating my other comment again. The purpose of this group is for both genders to see what their possible blind spots are with regard to both pills. I’ll admit that maybe some women are more materialistic and into ‘bad boy’ behavior than we’d like to admit. But every guy here is so set in their beliefs that they refuse to see that there are genuinely women who have healthy attachment styles and would never entertain assholes. Most happily married couples around me are made up of nice men and wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 10:04 PM |
| 2 | What women really wantThe purpose of this group is for both genders to see what their possible blind spots are with regard to both pills. I’ll admit that maybe some women are more materialistic and into ‘bad boy’ behavior than we’d like to admit. But every guy here is so set in their beliefs that they refuse to see that there are genuinely women who have healthy attachment styles and would never entertain assholes. Maybe there is something else that you don’t have and you’ve convinced yourself that it’s because of yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 10:02 PM |
| 1 | What women really wantBut if someone doesn’t pick up on subtle cues, he doesn’t have the EQ he claims to have. Just checking things off the list “I initiated” “I spent money on the date” doesn’t mean EQ. EQ is being able to understand and adapt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 08:21 PM |
| 3 | What women really wantI would never reprimand someone for not doing things my way unless I had communicated it multiple times and they still refuse to cooperate. I want a nice man too. I’m not gonna win this by being a bitch. I understand that men aren’t mind readers. You can show a man that you like things to be tidy a certain way or how meal prep works. But you can’t train them to be sensitive to subtle cues. I’m a non-drinker and I mentioned this to a date. He planned an elaborate date at this hip bar. Yes, he was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 07:58 PM |
| 1 | What women really wantIdk man. This depends on age too. I did give personality and character a free pass if I found him attractive when I was younger but don’t do that anymore. No sensible woman is going to let looks blind her from his personality Looks may get his foot in the door (my criteria isn’t high because I don’t care about physique or height) but the way I feel treated on dates is how I make my decision. I occasionally match with very charismatic men who look better than me but I can tell from one date that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 07:37 PM |
| 2 | What women really wantCan you give an example of ‘don’t do it the way you want them to’? EQ is EQ. If I want a man who communicates and takes initiative, there’s no discrepancy on how that is done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 07:31 PM |
| 0 | What women really wantAt first glance this seems like a low bar. I’m sure men think “This lady is lying”. But most of these are becoming really hard to find in one person (along with cultural, location and goal preferences like wanting kids and staying in the same city). I can think of the last 4 dates I had and all the men lacked one or more of the criteria here. Guy 1: Stable Career, solid charisma and a decent communicator. Found out on later dates that his house was filthy. Man can’t cook or clean to save his lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 07:28 PM |
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