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Oh these are lovely and definitely the idea I had in mind! Thank you so much 💛
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 09:54 PM
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Do you have recommendations on where to find good sundresses online? I feel a lot of dresses in stores are either too revealing or there’s always some kind of hole or cut out in it 🙄
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 09:44 PM
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I never thought of it like this, but I do think this might be my problem! I don’t leave my place unless I seriously have to and I don’t have a very active social life, it’s a bit sad but most of my friends live in other countries so I don’t see them often! I do agree that I tend to become hyperaware of everything in public because of that but I’m trying to start getting out of my comfort zone, and exploring with fashion a bit more so I’d like to start with my style ☺️ I’m not from the west origi…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 08:28 PM
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How will OP put blame on her boyfriend if something goes south? I don’t see anywhere where she implied or hinted to anything like that…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/23 12:02 PM
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If you know that your boyfriend is more important to you then the most obvious answer is to slowly end contact with your ex anyways. And that sucks I’m sure because you care about him, which is great, caring about people is a lovely thing! But I think by staying friends with him, you’d be unintentionally causing more pain for him and make it more difficult for him to move on from you. At this stage, it would be impossible to have a genuine friendship with your ex because he still has feelings an…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/23 06:27 AM
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I’m speaking very personally and not objectively here; but I believe men and women can be friends. I have a small circle of friends and one of them is a guy from my childhood who I’ve known for basically my whole life. I love and care about him very much - platonically. We have never dated, he has a girlfriend who I’m also close with and he lives in another country, I really only see him when I go back to my home country but we text and call often, I would never cut him off for a guy I was datin…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/23 05:41 AM
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this was very unromantic and vulgar :/ most women do not speak about sex in this manner and the dynamic in which you describe sex is completely untrue for a lot of women rolls eyes
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 09:00 PM
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Ooh that’s interesting because I have a friend who is from India in my college, her parents got married young in an arranged marriage. They don’t really like one another, and for the past 2 years they have ceased talking to each other, although they live in the same house… which is bizarre. I’m sure there are unions that are happy and do work but I think it is a gamble and don’t think it’s much different from a love marriage in that sense, except in a love marriage you fall in love first and hop…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/23 02:58 PM
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True. And most men who have reached such an age and are still not married never planned to get married anyways. Most men who reach their 40’s with no relationship history were not very desirable to begin with. I actually think most marriage minded men who want kids get married young, at least what I have seen
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 04:24 PM
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A man in his late 30’s-40’s who are single are undesirables. There’s a reason women don’t want them.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 04:21 PM
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No we broke up unfortunately but our relationship truly showed me how gentle and beautiful love can be with a man who accepts you and makes you feel seen. It changed my perspective on how I view relationships and what’s really important and matters the most. And in an alternate universe, I would 100% choose him again 😊. I think people give advice from experience or stories they’ve heard but it doesn’t make it the truth on how things go. You should take the advice as something to 1. speak to your…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/23 03:47 PM
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I was in your exact same position a month ago. Dating a muslim man, talked about marriage, how many kids we want, a future together etc. and I think you’re having a case of the grass is greener on the other side Muslim men are very traditional and family oriented and they want to take care of the women they are with. So it makes sense that he has this mindset at his age. It’s hard to find that now and especially in our early 20’s. You just have to find the good ones and not the ones who control …
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/23 03:10 PM
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I don’t think it’s naive but I do think finding this kind of dynamic will require you to be more patient and intentional and proactive with the men you date. It’s not impossible and there’s lots of youtube videos about people in this type of relationship. Look at it from the perspective that if you have this mindset, there’s definitely a couple thousand other people who also think this way. You’ll just need to find them! And if you find a man who is on board with this too then go and be happy.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 08:41 PM
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I would have to agree with you haha. I’m not from the west but I do currently live here now and from my perspective, I don’t see a lot of attractive older men very often.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 01:23 PM
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That’s your prerogative but this isn’t about you and you are not the OP’s partner. How does this response help the OP navigate her situation?
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 12:17 AM
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My hot take is that for all we know, your boyfriend could be a totally compassionate understanding man who accepts you and your past and understands that humans are complex and make bad choices sometimes AND doesn’t want to leave you. People telling you to "prepare for the worst!!!" and "If it was me, I’d leave you!!!" aren’t very helpful or productive. Clearly your boyfriend has a bad past and skeletons in the closest too, that he was honest about because he trusted you enough to let you in. Gr…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 11:42 PM
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Babe if a man wants to cheat, no matter how many trackers you put on him, he will still find a way to cheat. You can’t prevent him from cheating. If he truly cares about you and has any sort of morals, fidelity would be second nature to him by virtue. You didn’t give him the opportunity to fully consent to being tracked because you were not forthright with your intentions and that’s kinda manipulative. Your insecurities are valid and given what you experienced, totally understandable too but don…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 07:46 PM
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I think he just was not the guy for you tbh. It’s good to know you don’t need these things and you probably have a very solid secure attachment and seem to have your mind set already. Although I hope eventually you’ll reconsider some of the things on your list Sorry adding this because I just read the last part of your comment and I’m curious to know if this list could possibly be you trying to protect yourself from something? or feeling like in the past you were asking for too much from a man? …
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 01:57 AM
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Would you really classify eating habits and health as surface level? Those can have long term consequences and really affect your life if taken for granted.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 01:31 AM
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I think you need to raise them 😳. This list feels like the "cool girlfriend" who requires 0 effort at all and it will actually be a good thing for lazy opportunistic men who probably don’t want to put in the work anyways but would like to reap the benefits of sex whenever he wants and delicious home cooked meals. I believe a man looking for a True connection will probably not feel inspired enough to commit to such a relationship for the long term.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 01:25 AM
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100% agree. I want to have all my kids with the same man and don’t like the idea of him having two "families" to provide for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:19 PM
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I’m a young christian woman (22) - so I guess I can add my 2c from a more religious perspective. I don’t have a high body count and I intended to wait for marriage but I slept with my ex boyfriend. For many reasons; I trusted him, I was deeply in love and wanted to make him happy and he just made me feel things i’ve never felt for a man before but mainly because I thought that we would get married within the next two years and I see now how this was very naive of me but I can’t change what has h…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 07:04 AM
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I’m a young christian woman and I didn’t wait. I regret not waiting but I dont necessarily regret being intimate with my ex, but looking back it would have been much wiser not to though and I feel a lot of "christian girl guilt" about it. However In my next relationship, my goal is marriage and I WILL be waiting 😊 and if he happens to be Christian, he should want to wait too, even if he didn’t before but he must be willing to wait again. If he doesn’t want to wait, he’s not my guy and I would ha…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 06:21 AM
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Because we cannot be together and I feel that it is counterproductive to continue to speak to each other so I would rather do no contact to help me move on
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/23 01:54 AM
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It’s not a valuable moment of mutual trust and vulnerability because he was not sharing any information with her. She was the only one being questioned.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 09:33 PM
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Not necessarily but if they are ready to they would be dating with intention and looking for men who want to settle too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:17 PM
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But by that logic, the women who are settling in their 30’s are not dating the men who are experimenting to figure out what they want because said woman have already settled down. So the man experimenting in his 30’s is experimenting with women who are not looking to settle down
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:11 PM
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I resonate and agree a lot with your comment. I especially like the last sentence about staying in your own world with your husband and it’s definitely an admirable disposition and one I’ve been trying to cultivate the last couple years. It’s very exhausting to have an opinion on everything that happens in the world.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/23 08:27 PM
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I can’t really say what boundaries you should implement, that’s one of those things you need to figure out for yourself that aligns with your values and morals and again, your goals. But my opinion would be that I think kissing is okay when/if it feels right, that might be on the first date or 5 dates in because at the very least you do want to see if there is physical chemistry before proceeding with anything further. But I would say that anything that involves getting naked should be put on ho…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/23 08:14 PM
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Casual relationships will not fulfil you in fact I think it will take you further away from your goal of marriage. To control your desires means you need to have discipline to not sleep with a man who hasn’t expressed a desire to marry you through CONSISTENT ACTIONS over a long period of time. I know many will disagree but Words are easy to say. Your desire for physical intimacy is normal and natural but it doesn’t mean you need to act on it anymore with temporary men. You have nothing to feel b…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/23 07:50 PM
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But you’re not OP, she clearly states she’s using it for DJ bookings or post…. How can you jump to conclusion that she’s using it for other things too?
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/23 10:14 AM
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awh So special! 🥰 I hope I will be able to do this with my future kids when the time comes!!
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/23 09:39 PM
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This sounds like it is a great balance and works for you! I like how the perspective of leaving your daughter with her grandparents so she can bond with them. I never really had the opportunity to bond with my grandparents as a child and it’s something I long for and really wish I got to experience.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/23 07:58 PM
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Thanks and yes you are right. Nun mode is definitely the mindset I am in right now ☺️. I hope you will find someone soon!
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 09:58 AM
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Yes, definitely not a good idea! It’s not that I wanted to sleep with random men but just have some sort of distraction, but I know it would all just be in vain. I will be working on myself instead!! I purchased an embroidery kit and will start that to be more creative, it’s something I have always wanted to do so I am excited to final start. Thanks for the advice ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 09:58 AM
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Definitely! ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 09:56 AM
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Thank you! It does suck and I’m sorry you had to experience it too but things will get better soon, for both of us! ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 09:56 AM
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True. Nun mode activated 😎😊
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 09:55 AM
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Oh wow, that video made me cry! But the one thing I took away from it is that it gets better with time. I’m excited ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 09:55 AM
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Thanks and I will listen to this advice. I went out with a friend last night and it felt so good and cheered me up a lot ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 09:54 AM
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Thank you! I’m sure i’ll be okay soon. I Just purchased an embroidery kit to start learning and be creative again! ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 09:53 AM
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This was a lovely comment!
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 09:06 AM
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I see. I misunderstood, thanks for clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:25 PM
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While I can acknowledge that these aspects might make someone struggle. I don’t agree that this is the only thing that is keeping them single.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:22 PM
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She isn’t his only option. He’s just impatient.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:07 PM
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Very unserious people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:06 PM
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Limited options is not a good excuse. If a particular man keeps attracting the wrong women that means there’s something about him that gravitates towards these women It’s a him problem he needs to sit down and reflect and figure out what it is and take some responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:05 PM
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It was euphemism to mean, Hold onto him for dear life = treat him well and respectfully and don’t take him for granted because the possibility of not meeting someone else of his caliber is actually pretty high. Sure, people fall out of love all the time but no one gets into a relationship expecting it to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:51 PM
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Lack of sex doesn’t make one a victim. I don’t know how men expect people to take them seriously, if this is the reason they consider themselves victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:46 PM
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When you find a good man, you better hold onto him for dear life… basically most of the good decent emotionally available marriage material men are already taken and in relationships and truthfully, Good for them they deserve it. The ones on the internet that claim to be high value (Whatever that means) but are still single are deceiving themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:34 PM
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Yup. They love to pacify and make excuses for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:39 AM
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You don’t have to care, that’s 100% your prerogative but Acknowledging the grievances of unattractive women wouldn’t hurt. The cruel treatment goes beyond a man just being "mean" to a women. It’s not easier for unattractive women even if that’s what you’d like to believe, it’s untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:21 PM
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If unattractive men exist then unattractive women can too. I have no clue why men think being viewed as good enough for sex only is supposed to be some sort of consolation for these women. Sex is cheap and most men are willing to have sex with anyone. It doesn’t mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:50 PM
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"ugly women still have it easy than ugly men" Is a dismissive and lazy statement. It’s also untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:38 PM
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I was referring to the fact that OP has to mention his move to thailand so often as if he wanted reassurance that he did the right thing. Good luck on your endeavours. Are you going overseas to look for conquests or to look for a wife? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:52 AM
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Lol did you just blame women for being in abusive relationships? 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:06 AM
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But you were attracted enough to sleep with those 6’s and 7’s , no? Nobody was forcing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:09 PM
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Strong believer in God and following Andrew Tates mindset doesn’t make sense. A strong man of God will heed to the Word (Bible) and follow instructions from Him not Andrew Tate. This is not how the bible instructs a man to lead his (future) wife… God does not class women as inferior to men, nor does he command men to exert dominance over a women. There is a difference between a leader and a dictator.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/23 06:52 PM
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While I do agree with you that both are the prize in the relationship. It changes the dynamic for a woman to take the lead and chase the man. A man should be an intentional pursuer (In a respectful cordial manner)
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/23 03:19 PM
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Didn’t you know, they want women to stop being superficial and look at their hearts and personalities because deep down they are actually the goodest people who deserve a chance with the hottest girl because they are so kind and sweet and just want to be loved… it’s what’s on the inside that counts, so they say. Don’t be mistaken though, they only want to be loved by the hottest women ONLY (the women they actually do approach). Bring a woman they are not attracted to who will love them, watch ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:33 PM
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5’9 is really not that tall, if you want to cry about it then with all pleasure do so but it’s really not an objectively tall height 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:23 AM
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Eh whatever, you clearly can’t read. I said it’s tall for a woman but it’s not an OBJECTIVELY tall height in general. Men who are 5’9 are not tall people so If a 5’9 man and 5’9 woman stood next to one another, without the bias of man vs woman, they are both not THAT tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:54 PM
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It’s not tall though? Its above average height for a women but it’s not an objectively tall height 🤷‍♀️. That’s what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:42 PM
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5’9 men aren’t tall. Maybe to a shorter woman yes but for me no. 5’9 is tall for a woman, yes, but it’s not an objectively tall height.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:51 PM
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I can believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:49 PM
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I am 5’6 (5’7 in shoes) tall woman, I feel very tall and used to be insecure about it, not so much anymore. A few people have told me I am actually the perfect height for them, they were taller than me of course Also 5’9 is not even that tall tbh and there’s something mesmerising about a tall woman. Lots of men date tall women are VERY attracted to them. Don’t say "men" just say YOU aren’t attracted to tall women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:44 PM
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None of this shows any personality at all and it’s a bit boring. Try portray who you are at your core in your responses! Example, If I had to write a dating profile with your answers. It would be something like: About me section: I’m a caring, loving and loyal girl who looks to see the bright side to every situation 🌈. I think my optimism is one of my best qualities! hobbies/interests: I love to listen to (name favorite artists) and paint because it stimulates my creativity. I cook too, nothing …
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/23 04:15 PM
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nah fr men are indeed the funniest gender 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:39 AM
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Believe it or not it doesn’t feel good to only receive likes from people who want to have sex with you and never speak to you again. It’s demoralising. Maybe the comparison was bad but it’s a lose lose situation on both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:33 PM
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Likes mean nothing. You can still get 100 likes and none of them could be looking for a serious relationship. You’re still in the same position as the unattractive man, no real options.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:17 PM
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RP men being able to NEXT women is a good thing no? Isn’t that the power you have all wanted to badly? I struggle to see why it’s a problem. I’m shocked this isn’t making men happy, it’s what you have wanted for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:15 PM
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this is actually great news, now all the sexless men can stop crying because “WoMeN oNlY pIcK tHe ToP 20% Of MeN oN dAtInG aPPs”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:56 PM
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so everything is chad’s fault basically
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:56 PM
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As a younger woman, I think it’s okay if older men want younger woman, it happens sometimes, it’s a real thing and I won’t shame you for your preferences, truth is I don’t really care. If i’m not interested in a guy, I’m not interested in who he dates. I think normal range age gaps are okay and occur often. I have a friend (22) in a relationship with a man in his late 40’s with 2 kids but she’s also still talking/keeping her options open and talking to guys around her age. I don’t support cheati…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:12 AM
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Keep being picky. You might eventually find the person you’re looking for or you might not. No point in being in an relationship you don’t really want to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:51 AM
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you seem like a deeply unpleasant individual with bad intentions. scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:48 AM
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I know a woman who had her last born child at 42, he’s a thriving happy little boy (turning 9 this year) and he’s healthy and insanely intelligent. To be fair, they started having kids pretty young, her husband is a year older but they are very healthy. But Absolutely I agree, A child has a higher chance of being born with down syndrome due to ageing sperm. I’m a young woman who wants have kids young too, but I am not about to have kids with a man in his 40’s due to potential risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:44 AM
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I’m really happy things worked out for you and I hope you’re kids will get to enjoy much more time with you that you didn’t get the chance to with your mother. I sort of feel the same way with my grandmother, she passed when I was 7, I never really got to spend enough time with her but as I grow older I sort of wish I did have the chance. I pray my children will be able to spend plenty of time with my mother (and father) and get to know them and grow older together!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:40 AM
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Absolutely! I’m a young woman who wants to have kids young too, best believe I am not about to have kids with a man in his 40’s year old man. I would like to enjoy seeing my grandchildren grow with my husband beside me. I don’t want to be a nurse for an old man and raise kids at the same time. and A child has a higher chance of being born with down syndrome due to ageing sperm. Yeah no thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:36 AM
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Right???!!! I sometimes wonder why people care so much about how other people choose to live their life and what they choose to do, it’s so strange to me. Why do you care so much about a woman who is not your wife and what age she gives birth? Why does it bother you so much? Her husband/partner is okay with it, he’s the one that got her pregnant after all. I would like to have kids (Minimum 3, Max 5) and I want to start young, I want to get married young too I refuse to live with a man or have k…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:30 AM
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it’s not sad. not everyone wants a traditional relationship and that’s okay. continue to stick to your values and find people who align with them, it’s futile to insinuate it’s the "right way" to do it. i believe in traditional gender roles (i’m christian) but i also believe in modern gender roles, they are both acceptable ways of living. everyone has free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:20 AM
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I never claimed that it was a new idea I came up with. I was simply reinforcing that women should continue to date the men they find most attractive men, doesn’t mean he’s in the top 20% of men and if he is, so be it. Why would any woman want to be with a man who is settling for her because he’s miserable and horny and thinks so low of her? It’s abusive and hurtful. Some Unattractive men are definitely the horrible terrible people they claim the attractive men are and women shouldn’t have to dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:58 AM
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Women can’t get themselves pregnant, for starters. It’s men who lack the discipline to take care of their offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:45 AM
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There’s nothing shameful of being a virgin and sex isn’t a necessity. You’re not going to die. Try Put more effort into cultivating friendships, that’ll be more beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:25 AM
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Thanks. From this post it’s clearly a necessary evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:21 AM
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yup, it’s all just crocodile tears. they are disingenuous and enjoy to victimise themselves. they think not being able to have sex with all the hot girls is an injustice and should be a crime punishable by law.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:15 AM
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So any woman who isn’t "slim and pretty" should assume most men that approach her think she is unattractive, therefore = easy and desperate enough to date a man who doesn’t even like her and he’s settling because he couldn’t do better and will leave as soon as he finds a prettier slimmer girl who will give him the time of day (unlikely but not impossible) anyways, so, according to my calculations, my conclusion is that it’s true, men are only as faithful as their options 👍. Basically, women shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:05 AM
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Maybe you can start preparing to help the baby fever? Example, start reading books on parenting and think of what methods you would like to adopt. Also eating healthy, balanced, nutritious food to prepare your body, take your vitamins, exercise and get essential doctor appointments to make sure you can have a very healthy and beautiful pregnancy/pregnancies. also just enjoy present reality you have with your boyfriend. Do things and build the love, because kids need a loving home. Mmmh also take…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 10:15 PM
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Thanks for sharing this. You are living my dream life and hope I get to experience this one day with a good man! I find it hard to find men who I believe would be worth all of this because I’m from a 3rd world country but live in the west now and cannot do this for a lot of western man I meet because I find they are too feminine or do a lot of future faking but I know deep down I would without a doubt submit to the right man and take care of our home 😪
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 10:09 PM
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you should fix your picker and choose better women then… i mean isn’t that the same thing men say to women, to choose better? women with bad social skills do get held accountable, behold… i introduce you to FAW.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:29 AM
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A man that truly wants you will pursue to. pursing is not a feminine trait and you will forever be in the position of the pursuer. He hasn’t texted you because doesn’t want to. personally i hate this saying but it’s held very true in my experience: If he wanted to, he would. So don’t force it. Believe me I’ve tried many times before, it will leave a bitter taste in your mouth.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 06:15 PM
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"the fact the guy didn’t hit you or just demolish household items shows he controlled himself" is that not what you said? your point isn’t very clear and can be interpreted in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:14 AM
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you said that a man not hitting a women or destroying household items is an indication that he was able to control his anger, which isn’t true. i read your response multiple times. i understood it and i still have the same sentiments. i was just stating an opinion. slamming a door is violent and so is banging your fist on a counter. you can express your anger without all of that. if i am sad or anger, i might cry and express myself emotionally but i don’t raise my voice or become theatrical or s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:20 AM
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i’m sorry but i don’t care how justified a man is in his anger, i grew up with a father who couldn’t control his anger and would throw/break things/get physically violent. it’s scary. if he cannot control his anger enough to NOT slam a door or bang his fist on the table, that is not a man any women should ever want to be with. you can take that anger out and throw things at the gym. if he would like to express his feelings he is free to do so in a non-threatening way and i would be more receptiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:00 AM
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if she wants to change her appearance out of nowhere. eg: start losing weight, dressing differently, wearing make up everyday etc…. it’s over & she’s planning on leaving you nb: of course this isn’t always 100% accurate but i know it’s what i did when i no longer wanted to be with my ex, but then again, i was a teenager so it depends really.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:45 AM
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no no you made a mistake, it’s find a hot young 20 year old with a banging body who cooks and cleans 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:02 PM
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he forgot erectile dysfunction exists lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:00 PM
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OP - young women here. i agree with you. and so do a lot of my friends. women are waking up and seeing men for who they truly are!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:22 PM
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i smell an intruder 🤧
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/23 12:39 PM
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I agree. I can empathise that men feel lonely and desire to feel loved and like no one cares but people do care. Maybe not every random random stranger on the internet but some do and i’m sure there are people in your life who definitely do. Checking out will just increase the loneliness. It’s counterproductive. Find something meaningful in your life, your life cannot only be based on trying to get a woman. That shouldn’t be the only thing you seek but nonetheless from the bottom of my heart, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:44 AM
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Exactly. They should work to afford the basic cost of living and be able to take care of themselves. They are struggling to find women who want to be with them already and now want to take it up a notch by having incredibly bad breath and hygiene too? Good luck to them!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:32 AM
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Interesting. I wasn’t aware of that so thank you for the correction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:25 AM
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True, you’re right. I’m neither an economist or political scientist but the world will adapt. The world won’t stop. Sure, things will be different but everything can be rebuilt - differently - and not on the backs of men, probably robots. AI is the future and we will have to adapt then as well. Anyways, my point was men are not entitled to wives. I don’t even know why some would even think them working means they are owed a wife. Men who sign out of society are throwing a temper tantrum but life…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:01 AM
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There is a certain demographic of men who truly believe that removing themselves from society will cause this great collapse. It’s a fantasy. Male children are being born everyday, there’s a fresh group of men entering adult hood everyday - who also seek to find employment. Men who want to work will work, the ones who opt out will opt out and their positions will be filled. As humans we tend to think we are more important than we actually are. Everyone is replaceable. Man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:43 PM
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Keeping yourself groomed is attractive. It wouldn’t necessarily turn me off him, but I would second guess his grooming habits. I would also kindly ask him if he could trim it a bit. It wouldn’t be some huge issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:36 PM
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Men aren’t entitled to wives. If men don’t want to work then they shouldn’t, I don’t think anyone cares really. The men who want to work will continue to do so regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:31 PM
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you’re borderline abusive. she’ll realize it eventually and leave you. but enjoy the power you have while it lasts, i guess edit: also this is coming from a woman with no social media (besides reddit) and even if i did have social media, highly doubt my boyfriend would be this insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:03 PM
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