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| 2 | How forward/direct/sexual should you be?With experience you will feel what’s appropriate and what’s not in each specific context. Until then, just trial and error. You will know when you fucked up and reflect on it, hopefully. Or don’t, and become the pua scum everyone laughs about | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Reaching a point where I'm starting to resent women / Feeling depressedIt’s a challenge. If you are not up for the challenge, wait a few years, maybe you’ll grow up to it Men don’t fucking whine. We win or lose, but whining is for children | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 04:41 AM |
| -1 | Dating apps for men are a game of chance where the odds are against you, even for attractive menO wow, I guess this was not obvious about 15 years ago, right? What’s the point of these posts? Complaining? Hopelessness? If you are not happy with your conversation rate, move to a place where young men are dying in large numbers, like ruzzia. Otherwise, step it up. Be better than your competition. Online or daygame or night. That’s what men had to do for 1000s of years Jesus, the softies these days… | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 03:47 AM |
| 3 | 7 Things Women Secretly Desire In The Bedroom (BUT Are Afraid To Say)-Leave YouTube to not see trash content like this -Trash content follows you to Reddit | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 04:36 AM |
| 1 | There is an over competition between men today thanks to social media. Is it possible to escape it ?Move to a shithole where guys have weak game and presence? I mean I’m only half sarcastic. There are mid way solutions out there | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 06:42 AM |
| 2 | My mood has been severely affected by my belief that society is obsessed with youth (and mostly youth in women.)Wtf post lol Youth is objective value. Beauty is objective value. There are idiots at work trying to force these values away or at least make them subjective. Sorry, not going to work. Deal with it | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 06:34 AM |
| 11 | Tons of rejections.This kills me slowly and torturouslyMost likely you have no baseline in looks, language and social grace. Until you have this, it’s pointless. Start by going on dates with fatties from tinder. This will give you practice. You are probably 2-3 years away from doing daygame | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 05:53 AM |
| 4 | Tons of rejections.This kills me slowly and torturouslyThe stupidest advice you can give to someone in this situation lol | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 05:51 AM |
| 1 | why am I successful in online dating but can't get dates when approaching girls in person?Online they are profiled (eg already looking to date or sex). RL they are random. So you have 90% of failure just cause most of them would only go out or have sex with Brad Pitt (someone with huge quality gap above them). As a thought experiment, find a single land whale RL and she will put out most likely. It’s not that you can’t magically attract women withot tinder , it’s just that most of them aren’t profiled for dating or sex unless there is a huge quality gap. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 02:43 PM |
| 2 | why am I successful in online dating but can't get dates when approaching girls in person?If you are a 9 male and fucking 7 females they are low quality. No high quality woman is easy, and the higher you go the less of them are online - that’s a fact. But that’s besides the point- you asked why you can’t translate your success with easy women online into real life. Pretty much everyone with time and experience hits this wall online. High quality woman (relative to you) becomes very rare and you have to find another way to even try to date them. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | why am I successful in online dating but can't get dates when approaching girls in person?Because you are profiling low quality easy women online. You can’t do the same in real life | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 02:26 PM |
| -2 | What makes a woman a perfect “10”?A 10 is mathematically a woman that is rated in 90-100 percentile by a statistically significant number of men (assuming linear distribution), or 95-100 in Gaussian. And no, beauty is not in the eye of the beholder. That’s a myth from fatties and uglies. Beauty is absolutely mathematically proven. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 11:37 AM |
| 9 | Are there pretty girls or handsome boys out there who find dating hard, I mean really hard? How do you deal with it?You are only pretty relative to your surroundings. Start hanging out with celebrities and their posse and you will quickly be the plainest in the room. Problem solved. If you live in an average American uglitown where 75% women are overweight, you can be a 5 and be considered hot. Go to Belgrade or Warsaw and you instantly become a 3 relative to women there. In other words, if you want to not attract attention, change your social surroundings to be more equal with you. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 08:43 AM |
| 0 | This Is Why You Must Have A “Do or Die” Attitude If You Want To Get Good At Cold-ApproachAhh the good old overcome rejection by reduction of meaning argument. Nihilists love it. Except they also commit suicides due to meaninglessness of existence they work so hard to prove. Rejection matters. It hurts. That’s a fact. If it doesn’t - might need to get checked with a psychologist. The real path to overcome the hurt of rejection is to outweigh it with success. If you have enough success that eventually outweighs the failure - you win. This is why shitty pua trainer tactics don’t work. … | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Girl ignored me on our date.Even if you have money to eat at 5 star restaurant every day it’s not a good idea to put the additional pressure on a girl. If she’s worth dating she won’t take that well | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Girl ignored me on our date.Absolute max you should buy a girl on first date is a coffee. Anything else she pays herself. That’s a hard rule, no exceptions | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 06:24 AM |
| -6 | I'm good looking, funny, respectful, have a good job, have hobbies, talk to plenty of women. then why can't I even hook up with one woman?If you have to say all that about yourself you are probably none of those things. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 02:46 PM |
| 20 | Dating is pretty bad right now, dont beat yourself up for lack of sucess.Anecdotal evidence of wide blanket statements, nice! | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 10:39 AM |
| 9 | I get dates but girls almost always ghost me afterwards. What am I doing wrong?Without a full video recording of your dates it’s impossible to say. Probably some part of your personality is repulsive to women and you are not experienced enough to be self aware. Or you are not as good looking as you think. Women get repulsed by smallest shit, often. There is no formula. You spend a few years of bad dates and even bad lays , plus studying the art of socialising to build up experience and natural grace where you know how to behave around women. And even after that you will ha… | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 06:40 AM |
| 6 | I get dates but girls almost always ghost me afterwards. What am I doing wrong?awful advice. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 06:34 AM |
| 1 | What are bad or boring subjects you should not talking about it with girls?You can make any subject exciting or boring. Test your audience and adjust | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 06:33 AM |
| 3 | I am deeply terrified that I missed out on the human experience in life. I have never hugged, never kissed, never had friends, never done anything that didn't have an "economic" value assigned to it. Virgin at 30.How is this a question for seduction lol? But the answer to these sorts of questions is quite simple. Start working out. Hard. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 06:32 AM |
| -1 | Bruh girls only like white boysOk let’s assume you are right. What are you going to do about it? Move to a no-white country, or keep whining without any benefit to anyone, least of all yourself? Because option 1 is actually valid, but if you aren’t taking it - that’s on you, not the unjust world of white male superiority | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 07:04 AM |
| -1 | Bruh girls only like white boysOk so move to a country without white people. Jesus, what is wrong with people who write these sorts of posts… | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 06:58 AM |
| 2 | Will having no social status ruin my chances with women?What is it with these black and white questions? Like what is op expecting to hear: “yeah you will be a virgin for the rest of your life, or only sleep with land whales”? Life is full of intricacies and there are caveats to any rule of thumb. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 05:37 AM |
| 4 | Just do not think its worth it anymoreCompletely normal. For some men game is an instrument of growth. For others it’s lifestyle/hobby. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 05:40 AM |
| 3 | Have you ever hooked up with a women on a first date who told you she is not looking for hookups and is looking for something serious?It’s a shit test. That said women looking for hookups on first date are typically low quality in one way or another | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 07:33 AM |
| 2 | How do you be an asshole without being an asshole?You are confusing being a rug women wipe their feet on with being an ass. You can be perfectly nice, respectful and polite and not be a rug for women to wipe their feet, you know. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 09:44 AM |
| 32 | How To Be An Attractive ManHonestly I don’t know who these posts are aimed at. While technically correct, they are too broad and redundant. Mid level players won’t be helped by them. Newbies need more basic and more specific advice. I get that I’ll be downvoted for talking down a guy who made effort to write up this wall of text. But imo these types of posts/videos are just muddling down the information that really needs to be on top, and have been doing this for years now. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Girl visiting my city ghosted me after going to the restroomShe didn’t like your looks or how you talked. Work on that | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 07:13 PM |
| 0 | The thing i hate or resent the most about men always having to approach women is the risk of being labeled or perceived as creepy, weird, making the woman uncomfortable.There is a solution to this. Don’t look creepy. Dress well. Have manners. Never touch without consent. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 12:45 PM |
| 1 | I’m male 22 years old, 9/10 face, I’m fit overall, defined muscles and I’m boxing a lot. My wardrobe is on point, my money is on point. I have abundance of everything expect women…You sound whiny. Women feel that instantly. Start by working on that. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 12:43 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls keep going to the toxic guy who ruins their mental health but not the one who is willing to take care of them?That’s a loaded question. You are misreading | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 10:51 AM |
| -1 | What keeps a girl loyal to you when they have tons of options already?If you feel like she has too many better options than you, then you are with a wrong girl. Choose someone who’s your equal, or slightly below your social status and if you are consistent you will have her for life | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Advice (simple and blatant as possible please)Dont look for short term success. Be consistent over long term. If you believe that being brown is a limitation (it probably is but so are many other factors like height, facial structure, money, etc), then decide if you want to do something about it (like moving to SEA). If you can’t do anything about it, no excuses. You work with what you got. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls come back to my place but leave instantly?Could be your place is not like mr. Bigs | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Advice (simple and blatant as possible please)You sound whiny and entitled, that’s probably an issue with your attitude that girls also read. So you’ve had a bad night. Try again another time. If you want more specific advice you need to ask more specific questions. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 11:58 AM |
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