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Ok-Professional3832/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:51 PM
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In this case a dude wore his overalls with paint and stains on them to go along with his man bun and tshirt. I’m sure it’s a style, but the overalls were more fitting on a blue collar construction worker and the overall aesthetic was fit for a bar not a nice brunch. The other guys they were with were wearing similar sloppy outfits.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 04:55 AM
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I’ll second the Miami variable. It was much easier for me to hook up with extremely good looking women in Miami. The insecurity thing is very real and their own perception of themselves changes because they are no longer the big fish in a little pond of beauty. Actually, I just remembered that I was in Chicago last weekend eating breakfast by myself and noticed a very beautiful woman at a table with dudes that looked like yuppie hipster bums. She noticed and gave a very seductive wink and smile,…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/23 02:31 PM
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I kinda like it here. I like American women. I enjoy my life alone or attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:47 AM
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If I were a woman I would love a hand flapper 👀 I bet you could figure out how to use it to your advantage 👉👌 start making a joke about it. Tell them you give the most extraordinary shocker on the planet. Laughing at yourself can go a long way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:29 AM
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That’s the most common thing I hear among women for the real reason they only want an attractive man. Their own experience has led them to not being treated any better by an uggo than a good looking guy. More likely, good looking men have more confidence, experience and understanding of what women want. It doesn’t guarantee a better outcome but would you rather get treated like shit by someone attractive or ugly? (That was something I had to figure out for myself) I didn’t get treated any better…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:22 AM
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Nice edits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:14 AM
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Inflation pops like a bubble too. You can see this in the price of “non essential luxury goods” already taking place. The stuff has been made, it’s cramming up the warehouses. They discount it and move on the the next season. Your best bet to beat inflation is take care of your credit, save cash, live frugally. I just got pre approved on a car loan. My rate 2-3 years ago with a worse score was around 7%. This time it would be 10% But I can offset that by putting money on a cd at around 4-5% so m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:51 AM
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You love to call everything abuse. It’s sickening
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:47 AM
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Bullshit, what percentage of men are assaulting women every day because they were rejected? At least quantify what you’re saying. I agree that no one should ever be assaulted because they rejected a guy, but to put a blanket on men as a whole because of the actions of a few show your own shortcomings. People need to quit dramatizing and blowing things out of proportion online too. You can make your point without clouding reality. (Personally I believe this is coming from the political spectrum w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:46 AM
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*the government will pay for the artificial pussy because that’s the least they can do. In other countries disabled men are given a stipend to have sexual relations with escort’s because civilized governments know that the disabled need to be taken care of properly. /s Admittedly, most things I do is because I love women so much. I have a fair amount of interests, and I don’t let chasing women become destructive. We can’t help it really. Our biological impulses tell us to breed. We don’t fault t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:40 AM
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Please explain. You don’t just get to call a duck a cow and say because you said so. This is not either of those. Would you say the same thing if it were her parents? Or a teacher? No. He doesn’t have authority over her like other people might. That is a key differentiator to start. I’m assuming they don’t live together. They’re dating. She doesn’t rely on him. You’re reaching here, real abuse is awful. You can’t compare this to actual abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:07 AM
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You’re just wrong here. The law wouldn’t define this alone as abuse. It is not the same as verbally abusing them, or physically abusing them at all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:08 AM
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You can always ask Ro see her dms if you’ve asked her to stop messaging other men. If she doesn’t want to show you it let’s her and you know where you’re at
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:57 AM
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Please quit abusing the op. He just asked for honest opinions. Alternatively, calling op or you abusive here takes away from the meaning of the actual term and takes away the impact of real claims of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:54 AM
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Ive noticed it more often in minority couples of the same ethnic background that the men are more attractive than the women by a long shot. I kind of concluded that it was the result of a long term relationship where the dude was grounded in his partner as a whole, and he took more of an interest in building his body, or maintaining his look/youth/health. I agree that if anyone can be called the uggo, it’s usually the man and probably for similar reasons, she’s looking past the exterior and sees…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:55 PM
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Hot take: Sarah didn’t get the proposal because she had sex with other men. She just fails to looo in the mirror and see her other shortcomings. She should take an active interest in her hobbies, finances,see a therapist, and take a retreat to guadalafuckinghara for some self reflection and ig opps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:38 PM
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🤷‍♂️ there are things within our control and things outside of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:08 PM
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Personally, I agree partly with your post , and while we aren’t playing the same game $ wise, I would recommend emphasizing someone with financial savvy over money. As long as she isn’t interested in spending your money who cares if she works hard and doesn’t live beyond her means. Character becomes the easiest way to describe what you’re looking for. Personally, I would just stay non committed with that much money. If you find someone with a net worth equal to yours, I’m sure they would be happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:02 PM
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That’s fair. I would only recommend staying off dating apps. The more men that avoid them, the faster women will come back to reality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:16 PM
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Try me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:13 PM
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What have you done to give yourself the best opportunity to have a more successful dating life?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:11 PM
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What have you done to give yourself the best opportunity to have a successful dating life?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:10 PM
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Without trying, you’re proving my point. If you notice, I said “landing in an unskilled position at that age is a choice for the majority of them. As someone with a disability, you fall outside the majority, and you still managed to succeed. So, what about the rest of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 12:59 PM
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The day I stop seeing 30 year old men happily bagging groceries at the grocery store I will start to agree with you. There isn’t anything inherently wrong with being happy with that job, but they are our prime earning years. The system is in place for anyone who wants upward mobility beyond that. The same can be said for any convenience store position, most retail jobs, fast food, etc. Landing in an unskilled position at that age is an active choice for the majority of them. You could argue that…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:13 AM
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I think it depends more on how much my partner is living up to my imagined potential when we met. How much they have realized that potential through the course of our relationship. If when we met, she described her dreams of going to college while working at the super market, and I believed she had the intelligence to do so, but she wasn’t doing anything to make it happen, your scenario is much more likely. If she quit talking about her dreams. If she was generally being lazy, and some other wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:17 PM
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This isn’t repugnant if it spurs a healthy conversation regardless of op’s stance. You’ve got both men and women on equal sides here. It’s morally gray no matter where you stand. If one young dude comes in here and decides hooking up with drunk strangers can lead to rape accusations, it was worth the conversation. If one young woman comes in here and is more careful of how much she drinks with a stranger or in general it wasn’t a waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:20 PM
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All I can say is “we live in a society… We may not like the rules, but we do have to be aware of them whether they are written down or not. I’ll get off my soap box, I respect your opinion, but don’t see either of us changing our view here. ***edited to add: If you really believe we live in a world where we are innocent until proven guilty, where discrimination doesn’t take place, where small towns aren’t full of crooked lawyers, police, judges and juries, where justice prevails, and all that ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:19 PM
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*taking responsibility for our own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:16 PM
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Op had ample opportunity to avoid all of this by leaving. I’m not saying it wasn’t a hoax. I’m saying in todays society with all of our news coverage, debates, and knowledge, he made the choice to stay. Op has had many other trysts with other women, and in his words none of them acted like this. He described regret after the fact. He described doing before the fact. Life is not always about securing a small victory (fucking because she enthusiastically consented) and living to fight another day …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:15 PM
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I don’t like putting myself at risk unnecessarily. I prefer partners that don’t need to drink to have fun. I broke up with my ex primarily because she drank too much casually on a Tuesday knowing I don’t drink and that I had a problem with it in the past. I’m not saying I’m not afraid of assault because I carry a machete. I’m saying I’m not afraid to talk myself out of a battle that can be decided with words instead of fists. I am strongly in favor of men’s rights. My experience has proven that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:02 PM
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If you were you would have never asked the question. Js. I think we’re both on relatively the same page though, and what matters is that you are comfortable with yourself and your relationship. Some guy on Reddit can’t answer that question for you. In general, my response was me putting myself in your shoes. Good grief it would probably gut me if my girlfriends described their ideal one night stand lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:54 PM
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Don’t ask questions you don’t want to know the answer to. Let the women do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:25 PM
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We both know how much frat boys can drink. you don’t have to be the frat boy. If you don’t mind sitting down with detectives and sharing stories, having lawyers on retainer, and you enjoy it knowing the risks in todays society, that’s fine. But you have been cautioned, you’ve already felt the squeeze of questionable judgement once. And as we say in Texas, fool me once and you can’t get fooled again. -gwb
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:09 PM
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My common thought while reading the first part is that regardless of whether it’s rape or not, you don’t want the police involved in your sex life. And then you started talking about the police being involved in your sex life. I’m not going to judge what happened between you and the drunk girl. I’m not going to read between the lines as to whether you are trying to justify your actions or reasons for why you didn’t stop. I would make an appointment with a therapist to help you through the emotio…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:54 PM
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I had sex with a woman who was in a relationship less than 30 minutes after we met. I was her Uber driver. I even asked her before we had sex if the guy I saw her storming angrily away from was her boyfriend. She said no. She admitted it was after the fact. Women, just like men don’t need to feel love to feel and want an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:23 PM
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She doesn’t trust you enough to tell you the truth of the matter. She’s sensing an insecurity about describing something you are not. You’re playing a silly psychological game you can’t win. Get her drunk. She’ll tell you who she would fuck… or just not give a shit because it’s your turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:20 PM
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I could argue that women cheating isn’t as bad as men cheating because women are provided with more opportunity to do so. In this argument, men have to work 7.5x as hard to get sex, and women have orbiters following them around just waiting for her to fall on their dick. I’ll keep it rational though. Neither side is less guilty when it comes to cheating. Men don’t do it for a bit of fun on the side, they do it because they can, and hope they don’t get caught. Same with women. You could argue peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:15 PM
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This doesn’t make sense. I don’t know what you’re getting at here. We weren’t in a committed relationship. Her surprise was a pregnancy and that I had a vasectomy. She immediately knew who the dad was. I don’t know what any of this has to do with hep c
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:00 PM
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Op framed the topic in a way that suggests women just date for free shit and to feel good about Valentine’s Day. At least single men save money…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:15 PM
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If a single woman just wanted free dinner every night she would be better off being single and swiping on tinder. I would think the average woman in a decent sized city would be able to line up dates for lunch and dinner with 2 different people every day if that were the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:46 PM
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Same. Imagine her surprise when I told her about the vasectomy lmao. Reverse uno bitch. You got two surprises
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:39 PM
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They need the security of oceans, passports and sending them back to a poor country with the aid of our government to keep their investment properly in line with their expectations. They need to offer something as valuable as American citizenship in order to attract their victims while dangling the carrot in front of their face. It would be way too easy for someone from the Appalachian’s to simply connect with another male or women when they have the advantage of knowing our language fluently, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:40 PM
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This is what the red pill refers to as “hamster wheeling” You’re just spinning your wheels here bud. A close mind when presented with evidence that loudly suggests you are simply parroting what others tell you to believe makes for a sad existence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:14 PM
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I didn’t write the study or interpret it. I just copied and pasted what your experts presented on the subject. I read fast🤷‍♂️ when I got to the part that disqualified what you said I stopped reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:13 PM
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Your only post in men’s rights asking where you would have more favorable living conditions clued me in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:10 PM
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From the abstract: The most commonly discussed explanations for the gender gaps are discrimination and socialization These include relatively large average sex differences in career and lifestyle preferences, and relatively small average differences in cognitive aptitudes This is from the paper you just sent me 😂😂 You’re a 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:03 PM
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You’re right… and if you had critical thinking skills you would have realized that Amazon wasn’t started in the 1980s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:01 PM
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You sent me a link locked behind a paywall. It says women are more empathetic and men are more analytical, but that doesn’t suggest that because of their increased empathy it means they no longer have the ability to think critically. You’ve presented a case of case where causation does not equal correlation. You are right about begging women to get into stem. I remember back in the early 1970s how Microsoft started an ad campaign advertising how great of a field computer science would be for wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:53 PM
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Imagine starting a rant by calling someone naive and then continuing with saying something so stupid to follow. Where exactly do you get the idea that men and women have different abilities to think analytically or critically?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:18 PM
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Social security contributions. Filling a workforce. A population that continues to increase its lifespan. Anti abortion laws are just the beginning of an attempt to fill the above. The system is a great big Ponzi scheme that relies on continuous growth to survive. Without growth, the whole house of cards comes down
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:01 PM
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This approach can be broadened into quit giving in to desire and develop a more focused discipline mindset. We all fall victim to the allure of instant gratification. We are told to spend money frivolously, eat shitty food, jerk off, etc all in an effort to enslave us in a never ending loop of desire and addiction. Through discipline, we learn that by ignoring the easier more obtainable path, it opens us up to achieve more. In one of my favorite examples of this is “what if…you spent $400 on App…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/23 02:57 AM
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Without fixing the issues that cause suicidal tendencies while alone, you are increasingly dependent on keeping yourself in an unhealthy relationship because it beats the alternative. You aren’t able to behave as the best version of yourself if you are fearful of who you become when she isn’t around. Fix your problems at least enough so that you can be comfortable alone. It will allow you to live without fear of judgement from your partner (because if they leave 💀🔫)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:38 PM
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If you were suicidal outside of a ltr that just means you are codependent and need to fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:22 PM
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I agree with what you are saying for the most part, but IN GENERAL, a 30 year old can be as attractive BOTH in terms of attractiveness and AS A PARTNER. IN GENERAL, a 10 at 20 is a 9.5 or a 9 at 30. The scale doesn’t tip that much based on age. HOWEVER, that doesn’t mean the 18-24 year old is LESS ATTRACTIVE Much of this rhetoric is pushed to encourage less promiscuity and stronger bonds that form deeper at a young age. Who do you think will have a stronger bond, those that meet at 32m and 30 f …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:19 PM
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I agree and that’s why we broke up. I’m open to a mixed bag of attributes that still encompasses genuine attraction, and compatibility. It’s not just looks, its the majority of women I meet just don’t have a lot going for them. Bad credit, or unhealthy money habits, obsession with reality tv or consumerism, drama from ex’s or busy lives coparenting, still in the finding themselves phase or just unavailable. In reality, it means I need to improve myself to meet the requirements I expect, and I’m …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:47 PM
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Same old shit different day. Reddit has a hard time pulling context out when it’s not directly laid out for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:37 PM
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This sub isn’t a consensus of the majority of the population. We probably have very few members who are married, and in a healthy normal relationship, so the opinions here are going to be slanted. I would say the majority of men don’t consider themselves to be settling when they are in a relationship with someone their own age. Most men might be more attracted physically to a 20 year old, but that doesn’t mean he has the social skill or desire to attract them. A good percentage of 40 year old me…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:32 PM
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My last girlfriend was 15 years younger, a paralegal, working on getting back into law school, funny, charming, commanded a presence, and attractive. She had her issues, like all of us do, but now I’m looking around and thinking…why would I ever want less than someone like her? She kind of set a bar in my mind, which excludes a large percentage of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:11 PM
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At least 70% of people enjoy being told what to do. Think about it not from a dating perspective but from a work perspective. You work in a warehouse that delivers 1 million items within 2 days. There are thousands of item pickers, forklift operators and stockers. For every 100 of these they answer to a single boss who assigns them which task they do for the day. That person answers questions and solves basic problems like being out of a certain size box for packing. This supervisor answers to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:47 PM
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Where do you rate yourself in the dating market? How does the dating market being messed up effect you? What is your goal of this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:34 PM
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It depends on what the red flags you’re considering ignoring are. None of us are perfect, but being too critical of others could be your own red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:17 AM
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That shows a lot of growth. More power to you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:11 AM
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Has any of that changed from when you initially started dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:05 AM
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Extroversion- I like my partner to be able to socialize without me needing to be there. I want her to be comfortable in social situations, I do not want or need someone that has the desire or does things to be the center of attention. Neurosis- I like a wild mental ride and prefer me tal stimulation. I don’t mind dealing with a normal range of emotions. If there’s a reason to be, then be. Agreeability- I prefer a partner that isn’t afraid to challenge me, push me, as long as they are willing to …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:01 PM
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How did you protect yourself and still able to find a partner? Did you just take more time to get to know the person before committing? Did you notice specific red flags about your previous partner? Sorry you went through it, glad you came out ok
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:17 PM
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I agree, Being happy alone is the first step to a better next relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:03 PM
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I’m with you. I have learned to spot the red flags in the beginning, rather than gathering them all up in a bouquet, trying to fix them, and then when things went sideways standing there looking stupid asking my friends “how does this happen?”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:01 PM
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I would say that you raised your standards in shared interests! I think it’s a good thing! Personally, I wouldn’t like someone having to pay my way. I’m pretty simple as well and I’d rather have a few big things (like healthy credit, and an opportunity to buy a house some day over expensive experiences more often) but museums are not necessarily expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:59 PM
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I understand that things change, I’m not asking for confirmation of my example. I’m asking you for your specific experiences and reasons. You don’t have to participate if you don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:50 PM
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The question was….what caused you to raise your dating standards. If your dating standards haven’t changed, the question isn’t directed at you. For example: a guy sharing an apartment might have been fine in college or shortly after, but eventually you started only considering partners that were able to survive on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:33 PM
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What did you change about your dating style or who you would accept for a potential partner? (And thanks for being the first commenter on my post)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:22 PM
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I can assure you it isn’t your cleanliness, especially if it was consistent before you lived together. My mom is kind of what you describe yourself to be. I could spend all day cleaning the kitchen and it would be spotless, she’s still coming in behind me to do it again. What she’s really telling me is that I didn’t do it well enough for her standards, and if you insist on doing everything yourself, you are telling your partner the same thing. You’re focusing on one aspect, not the entire pictur…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:17 PM
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It seems like an odd place to call out his hypocrisy, yes. Do I like some of what he says, also yes. Do I respect him for fighting the fight of addiction, that probably more than anything. It’s hard to argue the man is anything but brilliant if you’re comparing him with the average person who walks the earth, whether you agree with everything he says or not. He’s highly intelligent, educated, and very well spoken. More than anything, having to defend something like clean your own room, is agitat…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:10 PM
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Hey, if you have that picture on speed dial any time someone mentions his name, I guess you’re right it is hypocritical to tell people they shouldn’t do something but doing it yourself. On the other hand, no one says the same thing about a recovered drug addict telling people not to use drugs because he used drugs in the past and had negative consequences. If the only thing you were able to glean from the clean your own room first is that it’s hypocritical, I don’t think you and I having a discu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:52 PM
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The man never pretended to be perfect, that doesn’t mean the advice is not good, or valid specifically in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:42 PM
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Just for clarity, I read what the op suggests as making half a million in income, not revenue for a company. Not that it really matters much, but it might change your position on the value of half a million.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:16 PM
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Jordan Peterson famed the quote to clean your own room first. He argues that a clean environment is the basis for a clean mind and that if you start each day by making your bed, you’ve already accomplished something and it makes the rest of the day easier to accomplish your goals. Traditional red pill and pua advice follows the same pattern of thinking. Before going out to the club with the intent to hook up, it is recommended that you have your house in order first. No one wants to come back to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:11 PM
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This sounds like a take from a guy with a messy house and who has trouble with women. I’ve had plenty of women visibly surprised by how I kept my place, more than a few times they asked me where my girlfriend was who kept it clean. All of them slept with me. Being clean is not going to keep you from getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:50 PM
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K. You’re dismissed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:21 PM
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You didn’t actually give advice to anyone but me. If that gives your life meaning more power to you. I don’t even think you lack the knowledge to help someone, we all have our own lives experience that can be used to offer anecdotal advice, but bruh, that doesn’t make you a qualified professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:06 PM
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Who me? I’m just an asshole on the internet with an opinion. For I think the 5th or 6th time, I’m not an expert, but I don’t pretend to be one. Making notes on a grad students published thesis on creepiness does not qualify as having done a lot of research unless you read a few manuals and started calling yourself an avionics technician. I’m sure you had a formal education, and it takes years of formal experience in the trade before you would tell someone you were a master tech. I hate to tell y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:54 AM
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Creep and any term of slang has multiple definitions and is not going to have a static definition. It is going to mean different things to different people. What are you qualifications as a researcher? Did your research start and end with your ppd question that you posted but was removed? I am not an expert, nor did I say anything that alluded to that fact. I gave my best real world advice based on my own life experience. I am not being called a creep, by anyone as far as I can tell. We can summ…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:31 AM
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See, now you’re just making assumptions. I’m not some kind of sperg who makes a list of how many people I should have a conversation with to “practice “ I talk to people when I feel like talking and when I decide I’m done with the interaction I end it. Like this…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:20 AM
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I suppose if I’m being completely honest, my casual conversations have a goal in mind. I like to make people smile, laugh, and I give meaningful compliments. My interactions with people I’m not attracted to are basically practice for the times I do have an interest in getting to know someone or to hook up. I’m not outcome dependent on any interaction though. Some times I really do just talk to talk…but if I think you’re cute, and you are giving ioi I might take a shot, but sometimes it’s fun to …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:50 AM
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I may very well be mistaken, but I don’t recall anything after “especially strangers” I somewhat remember that it ended with communication has a purpose behind it 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:43 AM
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Personally, I like the red pill advice of not to listen to women when it comes to dating. One persons creepy is another persons charming and often it comes down her level of attraction towards you anyway. So, take this for what it’s worth. Quit listening to what women tell you about interactions they really aren’t a part of. They’re doing their best to visualize this happening and it’s through a negative filter. No offense but after reading this, I have formed a picture of what I imagine you to …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:27 AM
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I have two examples to give. My mom and dad were married for over 30 years before my dad passed. They were legit best friends. My father was a mix of alpha and beta bucks. He went above and beyond to provide for his family. There are things I can reflect specifically on that by themselves make him seem beta, and an equal number of things that we would classify as alpha, dominant or the decision maker. They even ended up working together throughout the later years of his life. My mom was basicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:56 AM
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Oh, I’m definitely with you. I’m pretty happy single, and it would take a lot for me to commit to someone. I didn’t add the /s to my last comment, but hopefully the tone came through. I think that is something many people here struggle with. Our increasing ability to survive without romantic partners. Women can earn more money, and men have access to more casual encounters and neither side should be judged for that. Add porn, escorts, sugar babies etc, and neither side really needs the other. Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:56 PM
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Also, nice edit to your original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:50 PM
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You avoided the main point to poorly make another. No one suggested talking casually to every single person you pass or come across
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:49 PM
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Damn, that sounds healthy….next!!!! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:57 PM
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They say the average salary is like 40k a year too. Outdated info imo. My training class was 50/50 at a company with a 30-35% fleet of women. I would guess 15-20%. You have to remember that there is also a 3-400% turn over in the first year regardless of gender. I’m guess as you go deeper into experienced drivers (when it was primarily a male profession) would be at 7% or less for 5-10 years of experience plus
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:34 PM
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However, there are lots of women truck drivers. It’s like the female version of Mgtow. For the most part solitude, living independently, a good living, opportunity for decent experiences, and most are pretty uninterested in men. They just be doing their own thing and want the respect they deserve. No women drivers are out here begging for a man to check their tire pressure or solve the problems of the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:51 PM
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Ok ok. So would you rather die alone or date a nice guy m’lady asks sheepishly and looks at the ground
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:44 PM
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You’re fooling yourself if you think that pumping hot cum into a robot is the same level of happiness that comes from a good relationship, whatever you decide that means. You’re denying your own biological impulses to impregnate and spread your genes. If no one wants those genes, and you have a few minutes of pleasure with xxxlexa Alexa’s naughty ai counterpart, by all means, enjoy yourself. It won’t make men happy. The same as escorts can’t truly make you happy. Discipline and improving yoursel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:04 PM
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Sex bots might make undesirable men happier than they are, in turn, making the rest of us happier, in turn speeding up the course of evolution. Natural selection at its finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:57 PM
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The audacity of the question is what keeps me around this sub. Most posts can be categorized as men shaming women (awalt type posts and comments) Blue pillars trying to convince women that they should be happy with substandard men and choices. Or weird hypotheticals like this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:16 PM
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I do talk to people without expectations or because I want something in return. In my eyes, part of being a man, is being able to offer more than I take, and being able to have casual conversation with people is part of that. Just talking to people without “hitting on them” or asking for their number when I’m finished is part of what makes me different than what a lot of women describe here. There are plenty of people I interact with through mostly forced, natural interactions. No, I don’t appro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:33 PM
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So she only stopped to talk because she wanted something? Is that what you are saying here?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:58 AM
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As much as anything, the message was not to take a rejection personally. People in general have a lot on their plates, and we never know what they might be going through. The rejection itself might not have anything to do with you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:06 AM
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I think we’re still in the beginning stages of such a bold hypothesis and more research should be done before drawing such conclusions. Way too early in the game…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:21 PM
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So you’re saying that there are differences in the way people react and that they can’t all be neatly summarized into the same predictable behavior. Very interesting find. I would also gather from your insight, that the same woman might even react differently based on external events that have nothing to do with you. I bet if she just got a promotion, or just got her hair done, she will ALSO act differently than if she just received word that she got laid off and she had cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:58 PM
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🤦‍♂️😇😂🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:01 AM
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You sound like a democrat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:10 AM
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It’s true. When I go without getting a haircut and my neck looks like a hairy ape. No attention. Get a cut, like a good barber cut. Suddenly women are paying attention from the checkout line while you walk by. No, I’m not that good looking either. I’m average by all definitions. I’m confident, I walk with purpose, I’ve had good relationships so it’s not like I’m timid. I’m definitely the hand up Mona Lisa’s skirt 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:03 AM
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Start playing the same games women play. It’s amazingly fun😂 when it’s clear she wants you more than you want her it’s a blast. When she’s better looking than you and she still tells you no one has ever curved her that way….she doesn’t know how to handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:00 AM
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Good grief. Are we dating 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:55 AM
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You asked if there was something you could do to tip the scale in your favor. Haircuts. The key to attracting attention is a fresh cut. I have studied this part in great depth 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:52 AM
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See, I tell you a story, you tell me a story, and suddenly we have a story to tell later. High five
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:49 AM
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A guy that fucks a girl but won’t admit to has community dick? That’s news to me, I don’t tell people about most women I’m sleeping with. It’s not anyone’s business really🤷‍♂️ til I am community dick because I have a sense of humility
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:48 AM
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The below average guy can control what he can. Healthy weight, dressing well and for appropriate situations, he can be easy to talk to, make women feel safe, have interesting hobbies, work on developing theirselves and having a mission in life. It’s easy Ti say workout, but there is more to it than that. Be well rounded. Be able to talk to women and men from different statuses and backgrounds and relate to them. If you struggle with that and are kind of lost in life, go sell cars. It takes zero …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:45 AM
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I find this to be extremely untrue 😂 girls love hearing about sexual adventures and sharing their own. The majority put you in the category of safe to fuck and not get too attached, the ones that call it community dick, are no different than men that shame women for their promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:39 AM
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I thought red pilled guys were tricky, but you cracked the case detective.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:19 PM
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So wait, you just made it really clear what to watch out for. Wife beaters, prison records and face tattoos. Thank you for your service.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:07 PM
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There is a difference between being ambitious and spending 10 years and 150k-250k (or more)studying criticisms of 13th century European poetry just so you can tell everyone to address you as dr. regardless of gender. There is nothing wrong with pursuing an education. But, pursuing a field of study where the best career choice ends up being a professor…let’s just say most of those people are pretentious at best. There could be situations where a woman with a lot of ambition would be seen as a neg…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:48 PM
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*With a different toxic work culture They do it for the honor, we do it to survive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:58 AM
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It doesn’t change that much. Approaching women in 2023 works just as well as it ever did. Maybe even better because so many people are focused on digital approach, and spend so much of their time in a digital world that they almost aren’t used to conversing with strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:09 PM
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I have a really good friend I worked with. She is easily 5ft 10 and 350 lbs. she has a good job and a pretty face. She gets matches on line all the time. One guy messaged her and said he wished he was laying next to her because he was just knew how tantalizing she smelled. She got picked up by a dude and fucked him in the grocery store parking lot. I mean, good for her, and I only care that she is happy, but most men are not having that same experience Edit: probably closer to 300
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:32 PM
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It depends. If you went out looking for a whore and married her, you can’t be mad when she defaults to the same place you picked her up at. What’s understood doesn’t need to be discussed. He should have been paying attention well before the marriage and baby. If she liked clubs before they met, and he knew this, the conversation should have been had a long time ago how he would feel if she were to continue going there. As a relationship matures, the conversation needs to change, and that include…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:01 AM
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High value is just a different way of saying they want to date up, which means the scale is variable. Let’s just look at one facet, credit worthiness. Why would someone with a 700 credit score want to date someone with a 520? The 700 is going to have to carry the mortgage approval, hell even just an apartment approval, they buy a car together, the 700 will pay a higher interest rate for having the 520 on the loan. On the other hand, someone with a 520 score will want access to the benefits the 7…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:41 PM
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Women like to compete with each other. They get dressed up and look their best so they can talk shit about the women that don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:35 PM
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I think a lot of men, maybe even myself included, feel like “you didn’t want me at 21-25 so why do I want you now” Speaking for myself, I’m a better overall person character wise, and looks wise than when I was 20-30. Its surprisingly easy to date and get attention from women 10-15 years younger than me, yet I don’t get a lot of attention from women my own age. If I have to choose between someone 40 with 2 kids and someone 25 without kids, an active social life, and still has that spark of joy a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:30 PM
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If anything it would be the other way around. I imagine a future with a dwindling population, and incentive for married couples to procreate. If we don’t have babies, the social security Ponzi scheme collapses, if we don’t have a growing population we suffer, because we need able bodied workers in an era of longer life expectancy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:40 AM
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Mi amor, lo siento. (I edited my comment if you want to take another look) I hope you found someone who passionately travels the world Edit: the mi amor is simply to say something in another language. I don’t speak French. It was funny in my head lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:19 AM
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Agreeable in general means not causing an argument and escalating thing’s unnecessarily. It’s only okay if you can whisper what you want seductively into his ear in your language of choice. He won’t specify which secondary language you must whisper with, but whisper you must if you are to be feminine. Way to cherry pick an easy target op lol I would prefer someone agreeable though. I don’t mind having adult conversations with a partner, but there is a time and place. It’s not at a restaurant cau…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:14 AM
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I don’t care if you have it, but I’d rather not know it exists. I don’t want to see what you post. I admittedly read too far into the text posts that an ex used to post and like. “Some relationships lead to marriage, some lead to new favorite restaurants” Her: ❤️ Me: 🤔 I don’t have time for that shit, so I don’t understand the concept of even liking someone else’s posts or following pages that post those. I decided it was easier to focus on our actual interactions than trying to live inside her …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:32 PM
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Which percentile does your penis fall into?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 10:44 AM
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The last paragraph we can agree on. I think if a woman were interested in having a traditional relationship, she should do her best to act traditionally. I think both men and women have the best shot at a successful long term relationship if they meet when they are both young, when they have the opportunity to grow together as people. Once you hit 30, the chances of finding the love we all desire decreases dramatically. Part of that has to do with the unspoken reality that the people who are sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:25 AM
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You’re doing you’re best to sound smart, and coming off as someone who shouldn’t be speaking for “all” or “most” men….at all. The elegant words don’t impress me, when you have a hard time stringing them together in a sentence. Since we are doing the tl:dr thing. Speak for yourself, and for your own experiences. If you are failing to provide an exciting “first time she’s doing things with you” that’s on you and not her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:05 AM
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Ffs, you sound like an ape. Orgasms are as much mental as physical. (The next part is doing my best to sound like you) I know I’ve given more orgasms than you have with my perfectly average dick in the 55th percentile in length and 60th percentile of girth. It’s because I don’t care how many dicks she’s had before me, she hasn’t had this one and I’m about to show her something she hasn’t seen yet and I focus on making sure she has a good a time as I do. Obviously your girl friends were simply tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:57 AM
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I disagree with this theory. I understand the idea of wanting to show someone the ropes (which is what you’re describing) and how much that would turn YOU on. Do you feel as you’ve gained experience it’s harder for you to orgasm? I don’t. If anything, men are the ones who experience more difficulty getting themselves off, but that has more to do with desensitizing themselves via porn and masturbation and needing more and more extreme visuals. I think most men, who want an inexperienced woman bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:46 AM
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4* bigger. Let’s not get carried away dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:09 AM
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This right here. Ban him. Mods!! I make stupid jokes that are seen as inappropriate. The best you can do the next time you see the guy is thank him for bringing it to your attention, and let him know that you aren’t perfect, but you always do your best. Ask him if he’s made stupid jokes or mistakes.(obviously he has, everyone does) By including him, you’re disarming him. And if you are seen as the bigger person, and seen together chatting from time to time, it’s going to make it harder for him t…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/23 01:55 AM
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You can be insecure all you want….but you either need a therapist to talk these things over with, or a group of men you can confide in. My dad’s favorite phrase growing up….”don’t tell your mother about this”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:59 AM
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Someone who can make me laugh, someone who cares more about things other than the latest sale at Sephora, and reality tv, someone who has a versatile enough personality and demeanor to know when to be submissive and sweet and challenge me to better myself. The girl I really like is as red pilled as I am and is not afraid to mention the things I need to improve on if I were to keep her. As it is, that means I was her side piece and current friend. Tl:dr if she isn’t pushing you with constructive …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:57 AM
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I’ll add to this with the understanding you’ve picked a pretty narrow subset of age gap relationships. My last girlfriend was 25 and I’m 40. It didn’t work out. She liked me because I didn’t cum after 3 minutes. She liked me because of my charm, and my “ I get what I want attitude. She didn’t like that I wanted more quality time together. After we broke up she told me she wanted a guy that would make her cum and would leave her alone (she didn’t want clingy) If you’re going to narrow it down to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:13 AM
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I agree with what you are saying, but I was just trying to get the assburger op to do something funny. If he didn’t understand what he was telling her subtly, maybe if it was reframed in the way I suggested it would suddenly make more sense why she got upset. Except what I did is lost on someone with Asperger because it’s still too subtle. Reading the thread many people were able to help op understand and give good advice. Hopefully a few of us were able to get a chuckle at my answer, and your a…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/23 12:54 AM
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Just text her and tell her you don’t want to be seen in public with her.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/23 08:21 PM
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I’m not well versed in the happiness levels of the trans community nor do I really care. Thank you for your discourse on the subject
/r/TheRedPill13/01/23 08:38 AM
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My real belief though is that I believe the trans movement came along as part of a bigger problem of the courts siding with women/women trying to raise men and not knowing how. So basically, the destruction of the family is what brought us here 2 generations later. First the divorce rate spiked, now we have a had a generation of single moms raising these “men”
/r/TheRedPill13/01/23 08:36 AM
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I mean there are also plenty of people who have gender changes and realize they made a mistake. The real point is that often times there is an agenda being pushed and then when the agenda is met no one actually is happy with the result.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/23 08:30 AM
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Not necessarily. I lived in Florida where there are lots of gay men. Some present as blue pill, some as red🤷‍♂️ haven’t really thought too much about it as I tend to live and let live. To each their own.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/23 08:15 AM
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In reality, I’ve accepted that the blue pill is winning the war on just about everything. Let them have their safe spaces, their pronouns, their implicit desire to be different, their gender changes, and their anti-depressants. I’m gonna keep on watching the world burn from the driver seat of this semi truck not giving a fuck about most anything. We are watching evolution take place in real time. The more men in this generation who DO NOT have access to passing their lazy, soy boy ways and ideal…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/23 03:30 AM
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Have you ever had the conversation in your head of that clever thing you could have said in response to a situation, an insult, a question? It’s called a shower thought. Have more of those, and that will lead them to the front of your mind when the situation actually calls for it. Try reading instead of watching YouTube. Someone else’s Creative writing can inspire you to have your own creative thoughts. Learn to tell stories. Craft them in your head before you start practicing. One of the best s…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/22 03:27 PM
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I’m a bit confused as to how you even saw the post in a poly forum. Were you just looking for something to be upset about?
/r/TheRedPill25/12/22 10:03 AM
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I don’t think having to emphasize your words using caps lock is very alpha. It screams insecurity and attention seeking.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 09:41 PM
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You don’t even have a cool Greek name or refer to yourself in the third person. I cannot take any of this advice seriously
/r/TheRedPill18/12/22 04:42 PM
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I’m 40. Basically, you learn to see opportunities and to create them. It isn’t magic. Being a man gets easier as you age. There will be girls that just want to bang an older dude m, especially if no one in their age bracket finds out about it at first. Then there will be girls with daddy issues, and girls that see you as mature, and girls that see you as stable, girls that see you as fun, girls that appreciate you not bitching about taking them for fast food because you’re perpetually broke in y…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 05:03 AM
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Everyone betrays you in this world. You’re on your own kid. The only one looking out for you is you. People can give you guidance, but in the end they do it because giving you something benefits them more. This is a red pill truth. It’s not just the women that will take advantage when and where they can. It’s everyone. People will still teach you and help you, but there is something in it for them. You may not understand what they get out of it, but if they didn’t get compensated or a warm fuzzy…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/22 11:12 PM
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Work on fucking with her emotions and don’t worry about giving her yours.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 07:49 PM
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I tell mine that I’m putting her in time out. I sometimes treat them like a literal child and tell them why they are being punished.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 02:51 PM
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I would say that the suggestion of binge watching reality tv is the least red pill thing I can think of.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 02:07 PM
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Mostly just laundry, and yeah it’s easier to pay someone to do it. It’s about 90 bucks a month. I like to cook anyway so keeping a clean kitchen is a must
/r/TheRedPill20/06/21 10:14 PM
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Jesus the worst part about being a batchelor is figuring out how to have enough time to do “womanly” house chores, work, and still have fun. Just not enough hours in the day without being 100% focused every waking hour.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/21 05:47 PM
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