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Well, I'm not looking for guidance or course correction, so that's where you're hitting a wall. I would say that understanding the men's perspective is pretty essential, since they started this whole thing. Also, I'm ONLY getting pushback from EC/Mods, while getting up votes and DMs from members. It seems like this forum is more about hierarchy, control, and ego stroking than positive guidance. But please, prove my point by banning me or continuing the mod mobbing. I'm a woman with long term exp…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 08:10 PM
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Maybe TRP men should be the mods here, then.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 08:03 PM
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I doubt I will ever become an endorsed member, despite being around and informed since the MEN'S rep pill movement started. I've got a feeling I'll be banned for having opinions that don't reflect this particular sub's take on the philosophy. That's okay, though. There are plenty of healthy communities in which to discuss these things. Hopefully this sub isn't your member's only source of information and guidance.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 07:54 PM
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Your comment was directed at me personally, telling me how to think, behave, and communicate. If you want to disagree with someone, you simply state your opposing view. Disagreement is a very different thing than censorship. As far as men not being willing to put up with not texting during the dating phase.... There are many men out there who have realized that online dating and text based connections are toxic, and are reverting to Luddite dating strategies. These are the men who are heavily in…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 07:49 PM
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I'm sorry that you have a problem with my cultural expressions. Where I'm from, we call everybody darling. Insinuating that I'm autistic is much more disrespectful than calling you darling. That certainly wasn't a cultural misunderstanding. As far as your "I haven't been here long enough comment", I'm not engaged in a competition with you and I don't really care about your status in a subreddit. It seems that you believe you can use seniority and bullying to intimidate me and make me go away. I'…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 07:28 PM
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Men who don't have time for games don't play games. These aren't games, they're standards. I'm describing the fastest and simplest method for a marriage minded HVM to acquire a quality wife. This method will weed out a lot of men who might be HVM, but who either aren't marriage and leadership minded or just aren't that into you. It won't weed out the man you're supposed to marry.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 07:10 PM
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Please consider that the dating climate today is nothing like the dating climate 17 years ago. Your way isn't the only way, either, darling, and it's severely outdated.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 07:00 PM
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People have the responsibility to be critical thinkers and choose their own philosophy. I'm not watering down my perspective, my experience, and my philosophy. I don't think that helps others at all. Back to something I said in one of my recent comments. Holding men to a standard shows that you respect them and believe they can meet that standard. Similarly, expecting others to not be brainwashed by whatever comments they read on Reddit is basic respect. It would actually be disrespectful and ha…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 06:58 PM
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With those details, you sound like you're in a good situation. Build that nest egg!!!
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 05:59 PM
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Yes, happily married for four years. He did meet these standards, and saw me as wife material partially because I held these standards. Women who have prepared themselves for marriage don't date men who are looking for girlfriends. Being willing to be treated as a girlfriend instead of courted as a potential wife is actually a turn off and a sign of immaturity to a man who is wife hunting. My husband had been wife hunting for about two years when he met me. He was sick of women with a girlfriend…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 05:31 PM
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It's better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. The goal is not marriage. The goal is to be the best version of yourself and, if you're lucky, to attract a man that is WORTH marrying and surrendering to. Definitely, we should not be applying the "he's got to be conventionally gorgeous, make six figures, have a big dick, and drive a sports car" standards in our dating life. We are not looking for Chad. But you must be aware that the majority of the dating pool in these days is filled w…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 05:16 PM
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Do NOT move in and quit your job before marriage. I understand that you are swept up in the fairytale, but you're not even engaged yet!!! For all you know at this point, he's future faking. Until there's a proposal, announcement, wedding date, and active wedding planning you are NOT engaged. This sounds like a classic setup by an abusive man. Love bomb a woman with issues and low self esteem, establish dependency prior to commitment, keep her trapped as a bang maid forever. Protect yourself! It'…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 04:34 PM
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Here's the point I'm wondering about ... why are you giving this guy a boyfriend level texting relationship when he's not your boyfriend? Why are you having girlfriend level communication and accountability about your personal life at this stage? I don't see why you're in the position of needing to answer to this man about your daily whereabouts and plans. What did he do to earn that privilege? A lot of men use texting to create a false sense of intimacy and commitment. It's a very low effort an…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 04:01 PM
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Oh honey, you need to look for a HIGHER value man. He's a drunk, a liar, a cheat, and he doesn't provide. Matching luggage is one thing, but this is NOT a match. He is much, MUCH lower value than you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/24 09:55 PM
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