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| 1 | Attraction is not a conscious choice or something that can be bought. By constantly sacrificing yourself in an attempt to please or win over a woman, you are not earning her love but instead losing her respect.Your notion of relationship phases is curious. Are they colour coded for some people to easier understand? Jesting aside, it's such a strange concept of a relationship. Do all relationships contain such distinct stages? How can anyone buy an abstract concept like 'women's attraction ' anyway? | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 03:03 PM |
| 3 | I asked a girl out and she said yes, but she changed her mind.Once doing nothing is more valued than acting on impulse, it becomes the opposite. 😎 | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 11:17 PM |
| 2 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityHaving a good cry though. 🤣😂😅 | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 10:49 PM |
| 2 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityForgive and never forget. | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 06:48 PM |
| 4 | Attraction is not a conscious choice or something that can be bought. By constantly sacrificing yourself in an attempt to please or win over a woman, you are not earning her love but instead losing her respect.I don't get this logic . This using the idea of sacrifice as some sort of aspect of psychological power play. Some men fulfil their desire by going the extra mile. Whether it is unwarranted or not is entirely his business and his self respect. Dude gives gifts, world doesn't end. What do we do next? Let's post on Reddit. | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Gonna make an approach tomorrowGood observations. One method I have liked is to offer the girl choices of say, a Saturday or Sunday meet. They get to pick one and it just feels more like making a natural arrangement instead of manly supplication ! | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 01:31 PM |
| 1 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityCertainly one method that requires less effort is to develop an interest in fashion. There is an endless supply of free inspiration online. Clothes maketh the man of course. | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 05:19 AM |
| 1 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityI think the self empowerment message is very fashionable right now. Even post a global pandemic. Its weird. Like we should be copying some 2 million subscriber YouTube video philosophy about self improvement. Hello, circumstances vary. | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 02:14 AM |
| 1 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualitySometimes what we say we want isn't what we want. Like those who say they really want a relationship and then their next sentence goes, "but, I think I ll just get another cat". | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 02:02 AM |
| 0 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityImproving oneself isnt a responsibility. Its a bone that a man can chew on the rest of his life. It may be possible but desirable? | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 01:55 AM |
| 1 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityWomen aren't interested in men. Sure they get with men. But women have got it going on for a whole lot of stuff before men are really of interest. | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 01:47 AM |
| 0 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityI love the certainty of this comment. Its really a fine thing to behold. The error game. Environmental factors eg staggering male to female ratios? How about the compound effect of demoralising experiences? It isn't the lack of sympathy, it's the lack of reflection to actual circumstances that creates your comment. | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 01:38 AM |
| 1 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityThere are no games. Its a bum deal. | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 01:27 AM |
| 1 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityI don't understand making pronouncements on the market as a whole. Its kinda vain. So some men and some women have strong preferences? Well that's their deal to relax. Having a delusion just means you get left alone with it. | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 01:24 AM |
| 1 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityThe ability to make others laugh is shared by most human beings. One wonders exactly where the "distinctive character" can be found if the emphasis is always placed on the most common characteristics or qualities ? | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityI'm questioning this. Is attraction a thing? I have seen it said that the decision whether to sleep with someone takes just 4 seconds. So for me, it's a rapid mental calculation that can take by surprise. Simple example, gaining a strong interest in someone "not normally one's type". | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 01:04 AM |
| 7 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityYour focus, your choice. Dwell on blame, or concern yourself with constructive choices. | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 12:59 AM |
| 1 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityThe cult of personality ? "Someone to make me laugh" ad nauseum. Its mind numbing. Are we personality machines? | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityYou are not the market. I think frequently feelings and factors aside from immediate experience contrive to unbalance thinking on this subject. Some women genuinely prefer another guy for reasons beyond what kind of looks he got. Most women wouldn't look at me twice but, I have been rejected for other reasons, my behaviour for example. | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 12:43 AM |
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