Ok-Willow-9145 Archive

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42	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same?	Question for RedPill	Ok-Willow-9145	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 09:01 PM

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1	Need advice after 3rd trial. It sounds like you’re saying that you don’t want to spend time taking care of your child despite having a very flexible schedule. At the same time, you don’t want to pay child support. It sounds like you want to contribute nothing financially to maintaining your child’s life and you want your ex to also do more of the actual childcare. Are you interested in raising this child?	/r/Divorce_Men	20/08/24 03:59 PM
1	Please Help Us Reform Archaic Family Court Laws in South Carolina - Eliminate Permanent Alimony!!! No fault doesn’t mean there aren’t substantial reasons for divorce. No fault divorce just means neither party has to prove what the other party did in court. That’s a separate issue from maintenance and equity in marital assets. I don’t think that marriage should be an inescapable trap for anyone. Married men live longer, do less unpaid work, and tend to have better mental health than single men. Married women lose life expectancy, pick up extra hours of unpaid labor, and have worse mental healt…	/r/MensRights	03/08/24 09:39 PM
-1	Why do younger women seem to teach each other to see any and all men as a threat? There’s nothing wrong with emotions all humans have them. You’ve been having an emotional breakdown because strangers didn’t want to be around you and it hurt your feelings. Seems pretty emotional to me.	/r/MensRights	02/08/24 11:44 PM
0	Why do younger women seem to teach each other to see any and all men as a threat? I have exited spaces where I didn’t feel safe many times. I, like most women, will choose safety first. If I choose wrong once I might lose my life. I value my life over the feelings of a stranger.	/r/MensRights	02/08/24 11:25 PM
-3	Where’s all the empathy and emotional intelligence at now? Men decline women’s requests all the time. Do you feel obligated to accept any and all requests from random strangers?	/r/MensRights	02/08/24 10:21 PM
-5	Why do younger women seem to teach each other to see any and all men as a threat? As I explained, women are generally cautious when alone with men they don’t know. You should try putting yourself in the other person’s shoes.	/r/MensRights	02/08/24 09:55 PM
1	Please Help Us Reform Archaic Family Court Laws in South Carolina - Eliminate Permanent Alimony!!! If no-fault divorce goes away, I think marriage rates will decline precipitously. Marriage is already a bad deal for women. Once marriage becomes an inescapable trap, many more women will forgo marriage altogether.	/r/MensRights	02/08/24 09:50 PM
-7	Why do younger women seem to teach each other to see any and all men as a threat? Ten years ago you were 16, women would view you differently. Women have the choice to not share space with you if they don’t want to. Women have to be very careful in choosing to be alone with a strange man. We don’t always get a second chance to avoid danger. Most women apply the better safe than sorry rule. These incidents seem to be causing you a significant amount of emotional distress. The feelings are real. A therapist might be able to help you work through the pain and perhaps suggest som…	/r/MensRights	02/08/24 09:45 PM
-3	Where’s all the empathy and emotional intelligence at now? They have the right to decline strangers unsolicited requests.	/r/MensRights	02/08/24 09:34 PM
-13	Where’s all the empathy and emotional intelligence at now? It comes across like a man had an idea for a project then attempted to farm the actual work of doing it to random women.	/r/MensRights	02/08/24 08:45 PM
-8	Where’s all the empathy and emotional intelligence at now? He must have men in his life that he could start with.	/r/MensRights	02/08/24 08:41 PM
-1	How and When did women become this favored? By tamed do you mean subjugated? Women are just getting to equality with men. In the workplace women still make less than men. I don’t see the “favor” that women are getting. As for college education, more men are opting out. That’s on men.	/r/MensRights	02/08/24 08:31 PM
-4	Why do younger women seem to teach each other to see any and all men as a threat? In each of the instances you described the woman was probably alone or would have been alone in the space with you. Most women would not feel safe and they would leave. That’s what they did. Unfortunately, you can’t tell what someone will do by looking at them so most women will err on the side of caution in order to remain safe.	/r/MensRights	02/08/24 08:25 PM
1	How do you feel when women are interviewed about their ideal date and the first thing that comes out of their mouths is a six-figure income?	/r/MensRights	02/08/24 08:12 PM
-10	Where’s all the empathy and emotional intelligence at now? Why didn’t he just give men flowers himself? He could have had a nice moment with his fellow man. Approaching random women doesn’t make sense in this context.	/r/MensRights	02/08/24 08:06 PM
1	asking a girl her true intensions of why she wants to date It’s not bad if she leaves, it really saves a lot of drama. You’re screening for someone who just wants sex. In the long run you’ll save time and energy.	/r/seduction	05/07/24 08:36 PM
1	I think men are being gaslighted when they're told that a man who has his shit together cannot find a younger woman to date. People with shitty personalities are fairly easy to leave. That’s why you see so many posts from them complaining that their partner left them. Abuse is fairly common. The victims of intimate partner abuse are often isolated, financially dependent on their abuser, or physically constrained from leaving. It can take the victim time to gather enough resources to leave and stay gone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/24 12:11 AM
–	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? Suicidal ideation is not the same as suicide. Antidepressants have saved lives. They’re not a magic bullet but it is possible to find the right combination.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 10:37 PM
1	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? Feel free to investigate that yourself. I suggest that even if it’s just a few thousand women, men can still use them as a model for their own versions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 10:30 PM
-1	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? Consider exploring the idea as it is practiced in the real world. It might be a viable option for some men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 10:23 PM
2	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? Feel free to use the search engine of your choice to read up on the various types of communities women are creating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 10:20 PM
1	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? There might be an issue if the majority of people were actually segregating themselves by gender.. The women who are building these kinds of lives don’t segregate themselves from men, they just don’t live with men, or have men at the center of their lives. Leading completely separate lives isn’t realistic for either sex. That’s not what’s happening in the real world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 10:14 PM
1	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? Yes, we pass on these things without really examining what we’re doing. Until, it’s highlighted like I did with my friend we don’t even realize we’re doing it. The conditioning is invisible to us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 10:08 PM
1	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? I was responding to the comment above mine that actually did what you’re talking about only they blamed the mothers exclusively. As a society, we socialize and indoctrinate all children with the requirements of performing masculinity and femininity. There are bad patterns forced on all genders of children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 10:06 PM
2	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? I didn’t get that impression from your original answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 02:54 AM
4	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? Wouldn’t it bother you to wear a mask all the time in what is supposed to be an intimate relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 02:29 AM
6	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? That sounds like a terrible way to live. There has to be a better way. We all feel the pressure and pass it on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 02:02 AM
12	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? I simply observed that women are creating communal living situations for themselves. My question was about why red pill men, who seem to have a lot of criticism of women, aren’t doing the same. There was no judgment of either gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 02:00 AM
5	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? That’s not a problem, men aren’t invited to live in the women’s communities. They do have lots of different kinds of pets though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 01:54 AM
3	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? Their father’s enforce the performance of masculinity too. It’s an ugly aspect of American society. Things could be so different if we taught men that it was ok to ask for help, to cope with their emotions in healthy ways, and that it’s ok to cry from the time they were small boys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 01:52 AM
6	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? I didn’t mean to imply that one group is more depressed than the other. Lots of people are depressed. My point was that we set little boys up for tragedy because of the way we socialize them. Let me give you an example. A friend of mine told me about an experience he’d had with his son who was a toddler at the time. The little boy as about two and he and my friend were having a daddy and me day. They went to the park and the little boy fell down and started to cry. My friend felt like he had to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 01:46 AM
3	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? Ok that’s one thing that you don’t want. What would you like to experience instead?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 12:10 AM
2	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? Consider that the women you’ve dated have also dated a lot of men. They’ve had experiences that have formed their opinions. Hence, they were available to date you because they left the other guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 12:08 AM
8	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? It’s a societal problem. Women and Men force “manly” behavior on little boys and punish them when they fail to perform masculinity properly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 12:06 AM
21	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? If the men that “succeeded” had gotten some antidepressants they might still be alive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 12:04 AM
22	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? Is that really why? Or did they break Reddit’s terms of service? I suspect it was the latter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 12:01 AM
0	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? Ok, those are valid desires, you could hire a sex worker for sex and hire a surrogate to give you children? Both can be had relatively inexpensively. Once your baby is born, you’d have full custody and you could raise your child as you see fit. Would a situation like that meet your needs?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 11:58 PM
19	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? Yes, more women are on antidepressants. Women tend to seek help for their depression and other mental health issues more than men do. Sadly, that’s part of why the suicide rate among men is so high. I think a lot of that is the way society demands that men suppress their emotions from the time they are little boys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 11:32 PM
6	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? If that’s not in your intimate relationships now, what do you think is blocking you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 11:27 PM
16	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? Yes, I think most people would be happy with that. This brings me back to my original question why don’t red pill men build lives based on that for themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 11:25 PM
15	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? Most women who will marry want a man and children that respect them too. What does respect look like to you as a man?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 11:05 PM
8	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? What do you think that most red pill men want?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 11:02 PM
10	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? How I wish that was true, I was rudely introduced to FICA when I got my first job in high school. This year I had to write checks to both the Feds and the state taxes. Believe me, women pay taxes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 10:58 PM
11	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? It seems like people who choose a different life path get heckled whether they’re men or women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 10:40 PM
11	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? They haven’t walled themselves off from the world they just live in different household configurations that don’t include men. Red pill and black pill men claim that women are untrustworthy and hateful. Why not form a community with people you can trust and care for?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 10:35 PM
1	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? You have a start now you can continue to search to find resources. There are plenty out there if you’re interested in forming a community of your own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 10:32 PM
11	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? Wouldn’t a relationship like that leave you in a position where you are married, yet still lonely and unloved?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 10:31 PM
16	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? I imagine that’s a common fantasy. Not even the top .5 percent of all men actually achieve anything close to that. What’s your idea of a happy life in the real world?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 10:29 PM
10	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? A family is one of many kinds of supportive communities. If a man can’t find a marriage partner should that exclude him from having a good life with people who love him and who he loves in return?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 10:23 PM
0	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? ‘Mommunes’: Mothers Are Living Single Together - The New York Times What is a 'mommune'? The key to single parenting https://feminismandreligion.com/2016/07/08/cohousing-as-modern-matriarchy-by-kate-brunner/ » Say hello to co-housing: the women living together Older Women Living Independently in a Community? Senior Co-Housing Options You Need to Know \| Sixty and Me Our Purpose - Women for Living in Community	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 10:10 PM
18	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? I’m so puzzled by that idea too. Do you think it’s social conditioning that makes some men think that there is only one path to a good life? I admit there are women that think that way too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 09:56 PM
9	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? That’s a fair point. What do red pill men mean when they envision a happy life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 09:48 PM
5	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? Men don’t want to build happy lives?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 09:38 PM
23	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? Why do you think it is that men, who don’t have romantic relationships with women, can’t decenter women and build good lives for themselves?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 09:27 PM
1	A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same? Why do you think that’s the case? The women I have seen living this lifestyle don’t seem to have problems with men. They just seem to pursue their own interests and goals. Romantic relationships with men aren’t central to their lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 09:25 PM
1	I think men are being gaslighted when they're told that a man who has his shit together cannot find a younger woman to date. Don’t you think most people reject people with “shitty” personalities? Wouldn’t you reject a woman with a shitty personality?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 09:09 PM
15	Older women over 30 and revenge fantasy Men don’t reach out for help as often as women do. That’s why on the other end of the spectrum men commit suicide more than women do. They suffer through the cycles of depression until they become insufferable/ dangerous and it goes down hill from there. The men who are in the most need of help end up dead, imprisoned, or homeless. They are severely under counted in mental health statistics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 08:35 PM