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I think I know her and undersatand her better and I like that she is honest with me. Would I have married her if I knew? Not sure. The drinking is more of a problem than the other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:54 AM
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My wife is definitely an outlier, but she was 29 when we met, and had quite recently got out of a relationship, and had moved back home with her parents. She was drinking a lot and hated being at home in the evening, so would used hookups as a distraction. She had 7 guys on the go who you could I guess call friends with benefits, and whenever they weren't available she was going on Craigslist to find a guy to hang out with (and sleep with) for the evening. She estimates she was going with Craigs…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:55 AM
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Thank you for being the only one talking sense in these comments!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:46 PM
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My wife lied about how many guys she’d been with before me, by A LOT. We have been married several years and she only started being honest about it over the last 6 months. And even then that honest has only come bit by bit. I’ve asked her the same question multiple times months apart and each time she forgot the previous lie and so she gave a higher and higher number of guys as she got more comfortable with the truth. She admits she has no idea what is the actual number of guys that she has slep…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:50 AM
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Sure. But what you have to remember, as others have pointed out, is that men can get REALLY angry when a women just want to leave a conversation, situation or relationship. To a lesser extent, you are and example of that with this post. So, for a women's personal safety, sometimes it's easier just to walk away. Just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:56 AM
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Women don’t owe you their attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:20 AM
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My wife was EXTREMELY promiscuous in her 20’s. We met when she was 29. We had a few years of less sex while we were having kids, but now we are having sex multiple times a day. I actually think she might be a sex addict. The answer to this post, as is the answer to almost every post in this subreddit is: Not all women are the same! There is enough variation in behaviours and attitudes, as to make any generalisation pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:22 PM
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No, but it was a shock!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:05 AM
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My wife lied about her body count when we first met. We’ve been married 7 years and I probably would never have known, except that I realised she’d mentioned more guys than the number she initially said. I asked her again how many guys she’d been with, and she admitted she lied about it when we met. She had no idea what the real number was, only that it’s in the hundreds! But, yeah, if she had continued to lie about it, I would never have known.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:11 PM
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Well, I'm trying not to feel humiliated by it. I actually think she might be a sex addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:43 AM
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Agreed. And I never claimed otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:49 PM
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My wife is tall, slim, blonde, and already had big boobs for her frame, before she had a boob job to make them even bigger. She is well aware that most men what to bang her. She has admitted that she likes knowing that a guy wants to bang her she they see her. I think, with her it’s a power and control thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:36 AM
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Thanks. Appreciate the support
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:47 PM
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8 years
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:46 PM
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Yeah, I see that now. I understood why she lied about it. I believed her because I loved her. I still do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:07 PM
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What a generous offer, but no, I wouldn’t want to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:59 PM
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Respect the attempt. But despite what she has done to me, I’m not outing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:47 PM
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I honestly believed that someone could have slept around A LOT, but then move into a different phase in their life and be faithful. I think maybe I still do believe that. But also, if it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck, and fucks like a duck… maybe she is a duck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:46 PM
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Yeah. I’m actually going to do this. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:43 PM
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I take back everything I ever said about how women can change, and how a high body count doesn’t mean she will cheat. I genuinely believed that. My wife lied about her body count before me. But I understood why. She was VERY promiscuous in the past. But that’s ok, I’m sex positive…. A few weeks ago I found out she is cheating on me, and very likely has been cheating on me the entire time we’ve been together. Currently collecting evidence. Feel like an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:20 PM
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So... stop speaking you mean? I just answered a comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:54 PM
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It's crazy how easy it is for them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:52 PM
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Frankly, I think she is a sex addict. She said she did keep many guys around for weeks, but would ghost them if they got too into her. She was hooking up with more than 1 guy a week, but approx 1 guy a week was a new guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:17 PM
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No. I removed it because of the abuse I'm getting in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:15 PM
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Well, I didn't realise there was, until I found out my wife was one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:04 PM
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Yes. This is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:00 PM
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1 new guy a week, on average, for over 10 years. Means over 500 guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:58 PM
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I already said that I accepted her past. But that was when I thought she was being faithful!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:56 PM
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Yes, and I was ok with her body count. But I also assumed she was being faithful!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:55 PM
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Don't really know what group memory is. Is that a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:39 PM
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I think its more that she admitted there have been a number of groups of friends where she has ended up sleeping with most or all of the guys in the friend group, and things got weird, so she just basically ran away from the situation, and started somewhere new. It's possible that there have been so many that she just started compartmentalising them and grouping them. So she doesn't think about individual guys but more "I slept with the group of guys", "I slept with all those guys that I worked …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:29 PM
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I asked about every guy I could remember that I'd been introduced to, or we had run into in her hometown, over the years. After about 15-20 "yes"s, I stopped asking. We actually went through her Facebook friends list and the number of guys on that list that she had slept with was... substantial. Even more crazy were the number of guys were she wasn't sure or couldn't remember if she had slept with them! Imagine having sex with SO MANY men, and sex being so casual and forgettable, that so don't r…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:46 PM
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Not upset... more shocked. Then there is the realisation that every single guy I've met from her past, is someone she has slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:23 PM
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Well, given the scale of it, and how judgemental most men are, I can understand her being nervous to tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:04 PM
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I have slept with 5 women. I'm mostly ok with it. I'm sometimes just freaked out by the scale of it!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:51 AM
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It just sounds like an INSANE number, but when I start adding up the things she has told me, it’s what I end up at.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:41 AM
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I do actually think she might be a sex addict. She has a VERY high sex drive. I said to her that she might be a sex addict and she laughed it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:39 AM
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She started being honest with me about a month or two ago. That first night I found out her count was "over 100". Over the weeks since then, with the things she's admitted, it's become clear it's probably several hundreds, and maybe as many as 1,000. Well, I wouldn't want to make any rash decisions, but she hasn't cheated on me, as far as I know. I love her, and we have kids together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:59 PM
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Yeah, it is actually a ridiculous amount of guys, when I sit down and think about it. The way she told me sort of came bit by bit, each new thing she told me was a shock, but it's only putting it all together makes me realise the scale of it. Every time she admits something new about her past, I realise she's been with even more guys than I realised! She basically slept with most of the guys in her hometown, then moved to the city and started making her way through the guys there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:38 PM
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She was 29 when we met.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:32 PM
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No. It's easier than you think for an attractive woman to rack up a high body count
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:31 PM
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Bit extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:30 PM
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My count is 5
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:26 PM
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I actually agree with all of this. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:22 PM
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I actually think that her total number could be in the region of 1,000. From age 18 to 29 (which is when I met her), she told me she didn't like to spend the night alone. So any night she wasn't hungover, she found a guy to be with. She had a very long list of guys she could call on, so it wasn't a random guy every night, but she said that if guys got too into her or caught feelings, she would ditch them. It would only need to be 2 new guys a week for her number to be over 1,000, and I think tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:20 PM
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How did you react to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:03 PM
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Not just 100 dicks actually. Hundreds…plural. I started keeping track of every guy she has been with that she has mentioned by name, and also the details that she told me about incidents and things she has done. And adding all that up comes to over 130! That doesn’t even include all the random hookups, which I know there were a TON of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:01 PM
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How do people answer when they don't know? My wife would really skew the data. She lied about how many men she'd been with when we met. After years of marriage, she only recently started being honest about it. She said she has no idea how many guys she's been with because she never kept count, but admits it's "over 100". Based on things she has told me, it seems it's less "100" and more "hundreds"! To be honest, it's something I still coming to terms with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:21 PM
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