OkBlueberry3088 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soon Toxic masculinity doesn’t exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/23 08:18 PM
0	Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50? Women secretly resent men that make them go 50/50. So I would pick the 21 year old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 12:03 PM
1	Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age. I can definitely agree that most women look like shit at 30 and continually get worse. But I don’t agree that they inherently know that they start declining at 25. They usually don’t realize they’re not hot anymore way past the point they hit the wall. Which is why most single post wall women struggle with dating. They still think they’re as hot as they were at 25. They refuse to lower they’re standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/23 05:18 PM
1	Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age. Y’all take some of these redpill ideas as laws when they’re not. 25 is definitely not necessarily the wall. It can be any where from 25-35 depending on the woman and how well she maintains herself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/23 04:02 PM
3	CMV: It's ok to leave your husband even if he's a great guy That’s a valid point. Moving in with a women will also drop the mystery which leads to less attraction. That’s why we as men must stay busy with work, hobbies and friends that we spend time with without our women. Makes her miss you and helps maintain the mystery in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/23 05:40 PM
7	CMV: It's ok to leave your husband even if he's a great guy In other words “he treats me perfectly and doesn’t cheat but doesn’t give the excitement that a bad boy would give me”. If you don’t give a woman that rollercoaster of emotions, she will become bored in the relationship and leave. Stay in shape, work hard, dress well, be charming and if she perceives you as having options then she will never be bored because she will always have that competition anxiety that excites her… women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/23 08:57 AM
3	Why are people so obsessed with age gaps when it's such a niche issue? This topic gets brought up a lot… on reddit. In the real world nobody cares unless someone is underage. And even if they do care, they tend to keep their opinions to themselves. Who are we to tell 2 consenting adults that they’re wrong for dating?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 02:37 PM
30	Theres a 'wall' for men as well, the wall of incompetence, where you fall behind in comparison to your peers and men your age Came here to say this. What the OP stated as “the wall” for men can’t really be called that. The wall is something that is unavoidable and irreversible. Being behind your peers or having mediocre success can most definitely be reversed and is avoidable for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/23 02:20 PM
2	My boyfriend saved a nude photo from a subreddit dedicated to nudes A simple google search validates my point.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/08/23 08:39 PM
1	My boyfriend saved a nude photo from a subreddit dedicated to nudes https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s13178-022-00720-z#:~:text=Current%20studies%20estimate%20that%20the,et%20al.%2C%202020).	/r/RedPillWomen	27/08/23 08:38 PM
4	My boyfriend saved a nude photo from a subreddit dedicated to nudes I agree but doesn’t change what I said	/r/RedPillWomen	27/08/23 12:11 PM
3	My boyfriend saved a nude photo from a subreddit dedicated to nudes Believe what you want	/r/RedPillWomen	27/08/23 10:20 AM
4	What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone? Couldn’t have said it any better	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 06:36 AM
13	What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone? Friend zone isn’t exactly being used as a ‘friend object’. It’s more of being used as a utility. A woman will ask a friend zone’d man to do all the things a boyfriend would normally do (change her tire, move heavy furniture, listen to all her problems, pay for her lunch) except without the sex. It’s a one-sided relationship with nothing in it for the man in most cases. Both are dehumanizing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 06:21 AM
5	My boyfriend saved a nude photo from a subreddit dedicated to nudes He saved some nude pictures from some random girl in his phone. Doesn’t seem like a big deal. Would you have an issue with him viewing porn as well? If so, then have a discussion with him about that. Most men view porn whether in a relationship or not.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/08/23 03:31 AM
1	Do you think men's fashion really matters in attraction? I’ve met women while dressed in gym shorts and a T-shirt. It doesn’t matter too much as long as you dress in a way that’s congruent with your personality/lifestyle. Ex: Don’t dress up like a biker bad boy if you’re a tech geek. But you can never go wrong being dressed nicely in a button up with nice jeans and clean shoes no matter what you’re personality is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 01:33 AM
2	Why don’t men just do what women do? What did that have to do with my comment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 08:50 PM
5	Why don’t men just do what women do? Ok. Well if you and your friends all like to “talk about your feelings” with each other and that makes you happy, then I’m happy for you man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 11:15 AM
22	Why don’t men just do what women do? You can’t understand because you’re not a man. It’s as simple as that. We’re not the same and don’t want the same things from our male friends. That doesn’t make our friendships unhealthy or any less valuable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 08:37 AM
12	Is complete vulnerability a relationship killer? I’m a guy and I don’t pass gas around my partner no matter how long we been together. I don’t do that in front of strangers so why would I feel more comfortable doing that in front of someone I love and want respect from. That’s just childish. Also I like to have my privacy in the bathroom, no open doors. And I gym and diet consistently to maintain myself. I would expect the same from my gf or wife. Effort and a little mystery is sexy. I don’t believe in this notion that in order to be in love, …	/r/RedPillWomen	26/08/23 05:14 AM
1	How do red pillers explain the average guy being in a relationship? Very well put.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 09:39 PM
–	Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from? Yes it would be impossible. A 5/10 looks with 10/10 personality and 7/10 money can get any girl he’d want	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 04:38 AM
11	At what age did you first receive sexual attention from adult men? Next door to the White House.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 01:27 AM
9	Men should choose better women Again.. accountability. We have a choice to act on our lust whether or not it’s easy to do. If we had no choice then every man would be a r*pist and that’s not the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 02:07 PM
12	Men should choose better women A man always has a choice to not choose at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 11:49 AM
15	Men should choose better women Accountability… nobody’s forcing that man to be with that woman. If his only option is shit, he still has the choice to walk away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 11:47 AM
-6	I don’t like that my boyfriend is a gamer. I definitely think it’s a huge waste of time and one of the lowest effort least productive “hobbies” a grown man can have. At least sports have a physical aspect to them.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/08/23 11:27 AM
2	For those who believe in redpill dating should be the last of your worries 100%… redpill has some value to it but it’s mostly just incels that hate women because they never had luck with any.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 07:03 AM
4	AF/BB is a bad strategy for women. People take this redpill stuff way too seriously. Dating and love isn’t a math equation with a formula. It’s different for every situation. Do whatever works best for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 01:32 AM
1	Assuming traditional gender norms in dating, what do women offer in the initial dating stages? On a first date… yes. Sometimes less. First date we’re just going to grab coffee or 2 drinks at a bar. Not going to spend $200+ on a fancy dinner date with a girl that I don’t know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 11:35 PM
0	Assuming traditional gender norms in dating, what do women offer in the initial dating stages? If a man can afford to pay $50-$100 for a first date then his priorities are messed up. Focus on your finances before you think about going on dates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 09:07 AM
0	Guys who lie about their height vs women who lie about their weight U can get away with cheating your height up by 2 inches most times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 01:34 PM
-2	I’m overweight need to be skinny to be allowed to travel and get married. That’s a lot of weight to lose in a short period of time. Can be done in about 4 months with dedication and discipline. Look up intermittent fasting and give that a shot. It’s the best way to lose weight fast.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/23 08:54 AM
1	Why you shouldn't feel bad about wanting a provider I agree 100% on all the points you made. We shouldn’t feel guilty nor should we shame each other for what we’re wired to do.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/08/23 09:40 AM
3	Cheating Dilemma: do you let your partner know that you know? If you plan on staying then I agree that telling him could definitely negatively impact the relationship and could trigger him to end it. Maybe just work on improving yourself for now and reevaluate whether it’s worth the confrontation in the near future. If you absolutely cannot go on without addressing it, be prepared to handle any outcome it may bring.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/08/23 11:47 PM
0	How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count? We want women that are wanted by other men but only want us and we want to be her first everything (or at least as close to first as possible). While women tend to want the man that is wanted by other beautiful women and also has plenty of sexual experience.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/08/23 09:42 AM
6	How do I deal with a negative, pessimistic and constantly complaining partner? If he’s been that way since you met him then he probably won’t change.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/08/23 11:47 AM
-1	RedPill women who used to be on the “liberal” sides, what made you open your eyes? Thanks for sharing. Glad things turned around for you and that you guys could work things out for your family.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/08/23 10:26 AM
1	Is it bad to only like super clingy girls? I was this way when I was younger. I loved the validation at first… but after a while it went from cute to just annoying and overwhelming. The clingyness became a problem when I started getting questioned every time I went somewhere without her, even to the gym. And she would invite herself when I wanted to hang with the boys and if I said no it would be a huge argument. Broke up with her and now that I’m older I realized that it wasn’t normal and now I won’t deal with women like that anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 06:04 AM
1	Q4M: Would you date a mediocre woman? If I found the woman “mediocre” according to my standards, then no. Why waste time engaging with someone who’s not your ideal partner. The time you waste in dating the mediocre person could be spent finding someone you’re more into.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 07:48 AM
-1	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? Misogynist means HATRED OF WOMEN. People throw that word around without knowing what it means. In your case, you’re not necessarily a misogynist just because you pay for sex. You’re just a good customer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 05:53 AM
1	Q4W: in a scenario in which the man is providing financially 100% for the family and the woman doesn't work, what would you consider to be the justest way to split house chores and child rearing? Man pays 100% than the woman handles 100% of chores and handles majority of the child rearing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:32 AM
3	Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys' Misogynist is a word that gets thrown around entirely too much. Misogyny is the HATRED of women and guys that are Chads don’t hate women at all. The word womanizer would be more accurate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:24 AM
2	Would you rather have sex with a fat 20yr old or a fit 50 yr old? The 20 yr olds by a mile	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 05:35 AM
6	Why do women keep children by men who don’t want to be fathers ? They don’t believe in abortion yet they allow unprotected sex with these men. Condoms, plan b, and birth control are all valid options for a woman that doesn’t believe in abortion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 03:18 PM
3	Should the man still pay the bill if a woman asks him out on a date first? You shouldn’t ask him. You should make yourself available to him though and show interest in seeing him so he will take the initiative. If he still doesn’t ask you out then he either isn’t interested or doesn’t have the balls (confidence) to ask you. Either way, is that the kind of man you would want to waste time with?	/r/RedPillWomen	08/08/23 03:13 PM
22	Female women, what kind of man makes you feel lust? I read that and laughed.. but then I remembered in 2023 you actually have to specify between female women and male women	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 06:46 AM
-2	What are the benefits of marriage for women? In the US, if a marriage of 5 or more years ends in divorce, then the higher paid spouse can be ordered to pay alimony through the courts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 12:51 PM
-3	What are the benefits of marriage for women? The man usually is the breadwinner in most families. So women get the benefit of financial security. If the relationship doesn’t work out then the women walks away with half and alimony payments in most cases. I’d say that’s better than her walking away empty handed after a 10 year bf-gf relationship that didn’t work out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 12:25 PM
3	Can women be “squares” Honestly that sounds boring. You would have a hard time finding a woman that would be okay with absolutely no excitement or new experiences to share with you. I’m sure there’s one out there that would be content with that for a little while but I would think that she would eventually crave some adventure, if not with you then with another man. Edit: changed wording to prevent from making my comment personal on the OP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 12:12 PM
2	Agree or disagree? Women peak earlier than men. I’d say peak for a woman is more so around 25-30. By then a woman is mature enough mentally for a peak man and yet still young enough to have their beauty and looks still intact. Most women below that age seem to not have themselves figured out yet. They haven’t yet learned how to dress and present themself in the best way that compliments them. And woman into thier 30s start to decline due to relationship baggage and declining looks. But I’ve seen women well into thier 30s and even 40s that mai…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/08/23 03:37 AM
1	Impact of Mental Health in Relationships People with trauma and poor mental health are usually not worth it imho. I would tread lightly for a few more weeks while you decide if it’s worth it. If he’s making a conscious effort to get the help he needs then maybe it would be worth your time. Otherwise it’s an uphill battle. I’ve been there and done that, wouldn’t do it again.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/08/23 03:36 AM
0	Gaining trust after infidelity I was a lot younger at the time. We grow and we learn	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/23 09:48 PM
3	Gaining trust after infidelity I’m a man. This subreddit just pops up on my feed a lot so I like to add input from a man’s perspective from time to time. And I’m not assuming that she did absolutely nothing wrong. I’m just saying the fact that he cheated doesn’t necessarily mean it was something she did wrong. If you’ve ever had an extremely attractive woman throw herself at you while you were in a relationship then you would understand. I’ve been in that situation before and unfortunately I folded to the opportunity and late…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/23 12:56 PM
3	How to Win Back a HVW So you left a good HVM for a alcoholic bum. Then had a kid with this man and became engaged then later separated. And now as a (struggling I’m guessing) single mother you expect him to take you back and provide for you and your kid?? You are absolutely delusional. Leave that man alone.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/23 06:19 AM
14	Gaining trust after infidelity Yes a man could cheat for absolutely no fault of his woman. If a man is put in a situation where a women who he finds attractive is making it easy for him then he will cheat, even with a perfect loving partner at home. Not all but a high percentage.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/23 06:04 AM
3	How do women help men grow? You’re amazing and he’s lucky to have you	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/23 05:49 AM
6	How can I accept the fact that I'm a whore? Tbh most guys won’t ever ask you directly. I’m 30 and have dated a lot in my life and never once asked that question. We’ll usually estimate based on your behaviors, personality, looks (tattoos, dyed hair, piercings) occupation and social life (your friend group and how often you go out to bars, clubs, parties). Surround yourself with quality women, maintain a healthy and attractive appearance, and work on using your femininity to your advantage. If by some chance he does ask just say you’ve had…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/07/23 10:36 AM
4	How can I accept the fact that I'm a whore? Coming from a guys perspective, if your body count is really that high then keep it to yourself when dealing with a man and lie about it if asked (srs). Even if it happened at 16 you most definitely WILL be judged by that even 10 years later by most men. Also if you’re in a small town with a small selection of man and you have a “whore” reputation then I would suggest moving to a bigger city with a bigger dating pool and bigger selection and a fresh start. Good luck to you	/r/RedPillWomen	30/07/23 07:01 AM