OkBug9012 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	Prediction: More and more men will opt out of pursuing LTRs with women because it's not worth it (unless you want kids and a family) A lot of those posts feel less like I’m stepping away from dating and more like please notice I’m stepping away from dating. People can choose whatever they want, but nobody owes anyone a reaction to it. Just live your life and date if you actually enjoy it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 06:05 AM
1	If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more. I think the argument mixes up not being entitled to something with having no reason to care. People help others all the time without owing them a date or relationship. A healthy society needs both boundaries and basic empathy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/26 09:18 AM
1	Many men on Reddit who seek long-term relationships claim that OLD is not working out for them (barely any likes, matches or dates), many women on Reddit who seek the same thing claim that there are almost no good men to choose from (most matches seek casual sex, are incompatible or creepy) Yeah both systems kinda miss the mark in different ways. Apps are too random and shallow. Matchmaking can feel like you are outsourcing chemistry. Real life still beats both but it takes way more time and effort. Most people just end up somewhere in between anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 02:42 AM
1	Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like it Yeah I get what you mean. People often confuse confidence with correctness. Just because it’s said bluntly doesn’t make it a fact. I think the useful part is separating how it was said from is it actually true, and most of the time it’s just opinion with extra attitude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 09:27 AM
2	Most of the time, Women wont do certain things is not because of coercion, Its because of attraction. and Using extremes to answer tor the whole phenomena You’re mixing a lot of assumptions into one argument here. People’s sex drive and comfort levels change with context, trust, and time. That’s not a moral statement about attraction. If someone feels mismatched long term, that’s valid to address, but turning it into gender rules won’t get you far.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/26 04:39 AM
3	Women choosing abusive men is a skill issue That framing is pretty reductive. Abuse isn’t about bad choices or rational scoring like a game. It’s manipulation, control, and often slow escalation that can trap anyone, not just women. If it were just skill, abusers wouldn’t exist or repeat patterns so effectively.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 01:05 AM
1	Self-proclaimed "nice guys" are not nice guys Yeah I think it’s less about looks and more about mindset. Some people use nice guy as a label for approval and it gets weird fast. But plenty of quiet, genuinely kind guys just never announce it. The label itself is usually the red flag.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/26 06:20 AM
2	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 That framing is pretty off. Real relationships have always been about connection plus stability plus shared effort, not some single currency. Reducing it to transactions misses how messy and human dating actually is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 03:33 AM
4	Men love and respect pick mes That pick me label gets thrown around a lot, sometimes fairly and sometimes just as a dunk. Either way, most of it comes from insecurity more than anything strategic. Easier take is to just focus on behavior that feels healthy to you and ignore the rest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 02:51 AM
6	Cold approaching? Yeah this matches what I’ve seen too. Cold approach exists but it’s rare and low yield. Most people meet through repeated exposure or shared spaces. It’s just easier when there’s context. You’re better off building a social circle and letting things happen naturally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/26 04:14 AM
–	The majority of women can’t make men feel as desired as women who engage in casual sex with them. Sounds like it worked because it stayed light and fit both of your lives at the time. That doesn’t make it less real. But I wouldn’t turn it into proof that all long term desire fades. Sometimes the setup was just uniquely easy for that connection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/26 02:57 AM
6	Men present a false narrative in dating A lot of them want traditional girlfriend benefits with modern split bills and zero real accountability.....That’s why so many women opt out. It’s not that men are being unfairly ignored. A lot of them are offering a worse life than being single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/26 05:18 AM
–	In their victimblaming men deny other men the agency and ability to make decisions, have character I completely get what you’re saying, and it’s such an important point to recognize that men like anyone have agency, personality and the ability to make choices, because reducing behavior to a predictable reaction to a woman not only oversimplifies reality but also removes accountability, and acknowledging individual responsibility makes conversations about relationships and respect far more honest and empowering for everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/26 11:44 AM
3	Women approaching men should be the norm. I think it’s a mix. College is just a more social environment, so people are naturally more open and outgoing. The gender ratio might’ve helped a bit, but it’s probably not the main reason 🙂	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/26 11:37 AM