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I guess you missed the part where she called 99% of Indian men as incels, unwashed, and implied they are rapists. Marital rape is just as bad as any other rape, but that is not the point of her post. She is saying that men are threatening to abandoning marriage if marital rape becomes a crime. This is the part which is a lie. As far as I remember, courts have been refusing to put it in the Penal Code because they don't know how they will be able to convict anyone under this charge. It requires c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:34 PM
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It does, it's sad and shouldn't. But her post is suggesting that almost all men rape their wives and are refusing to get married if they can't rape. A bunch of other adjectives included. Do you think that could be true of any demographic?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:28 PM
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On of our kind woke up and decided to take a giant shit on Indian men on /r/TwoXChromosomes I am honestly surprised how acceptable blatant misandry is on Liberal spaces. What she is talking about has literally no legs to stand, a conversation I have never heard happening in real life. She's pulling it out of her ass and they let her call 600 million+ men as unwashed, rapists, incels and promote the post on /r/all Do you all want men to be your allies in your efforts to create a safe and equal en…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:08 PM
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promiscuous What do you think this word means?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:02 AM
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pencil sharpener analogy to be pretty silly because it completely misses that point. Pun police 👮‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:50 PM
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Don't go for it man, if you catch it the it will severely limit your sexual options.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:53 PM
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Cold sores means herpes, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:49 PM
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I could be wrong but from Humans' POV males of a probably every animal and bird species are the ones we find more impressive. They are look at dogs, roosters, peacocks, lions, Elephants etc. For some species they are sometimes indistinguishable like Tigers, bears, but a full grown male tiger is still more impressive than a full grown female tiger, when placed side by side. So if aliens were looking at us, they might find human males to be more impressive. BUT human females definitely impress hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:37 AM
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I love the slight overlap on the front two tooth. Super adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:26 AM
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Of course! Most comfortable position you can be in is when you are choosing. But from man's POV it's not great to choose from those who choose us. Because they are so few and not up to the par. So we have to go after what we like and keep improving and trying until we get what we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:41 AM
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It’s misandrist to assume the worst of men from get go. That if they are dating someone younger then they intend to control, manipulate, and exploit them. This makes them guilty until proven innocent. I do not want the unearned burden of guilt on men just to assuage neuroticism and paranoia of some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:06 AM
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Perfectly reasonable, I’d do the same. See, it’s not that hard. As long as we treat each with respect and follow the laws of the land, we are all golden. If LGBTQ community has earned the right to love whoever they want under the assertion that what two consenting adults do with each is no one else’s business, why doesn’t that extend to couples of legal age? I am all for healthy boundaries in every relationship but saying that men dating younger women are predatory in aggregate and individuals w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 10:45 AM
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I thought we were talking about bar/nightclub environments. In day interactions with strangers I always start with situational remarks and go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 10:11 AM
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“How are you doing” is a form of greeting, Jesus Christ, where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 10:01 AM
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Well, if he is a dumbass who doesn’t know how to treat people with basic human decency then he deserves everything that befalls. But if the women are responding to perfectly respectful approaches like “Hey, how are you doing?” with disproportionate hostility then it’s entirely on them and the man must not concern himself much, for they are ill-mannered brats.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:19 AM
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Because men didn’t build this civilisation by waiting in the corner and hoping for things to happen to them. If they want something, they go after it. Also, if men listen to women how they should behave then invariably they will be told to behave in the manner that suits women primarily. They are essentially agreeing to go stand in the corner and let the women choose them. Mighty good arrangement for women, not so much for men. You have to understand that neither men nor women are blameless in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:07 AM
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Fair enough, your lifestyle is indeed not compatible with majority of older people. But would you concede that there may be people your age who are not like you and they will get along better with older people?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:42 AM
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What is your vibe and idea of fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:28 AM
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We probably watch different things on TV and have totally different ideas of fun. Is this an important aspect for determining compatibility? When I think about my best friends, I realise that we all have different interests, listen to different kind of music, watch different things. It is that our value systems and personalities are compatible and it’s a lot of fun when we hang out together. Therefore I have never put any stock into what kind of things my partner is in, I view it as an opportuni…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:54 AM
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Thank you for your kind words
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:32 AM
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Q2: I’d want him to be happy. I request the character traits not the state of mind. Dumb as rocks people tend to be the happiest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:27 PM
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“a smooth sea never made a skilled sailor” - Franklin D. Roosevelt
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:26 PM
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I am beginning to realise why women find confidence and social skills attractive. First, even men like such men. Second, traversing the life with shit ton of self belief, optimism, positivity, go-getter attitude, resilience is something that will help him in all aspects of life. The vessel his spirit resides in may be unremarkable but if the spirit is indomitable then people who realise that can’t help but admire it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:19 PM
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Vanishingly small. If men don’t adapt to the realities of the day then their genes will not be passed on. Work with what you have, both on personal level and society level. Adapt and overcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:52 PM
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Q4W: Q1: Would you rather fuck a hot guy with average social skills, charisma, confidence or an average guy with great social skills, high confidence and charm? Q2: Describe the kind of man you would want your son to be? Q2.1 Someone being born blessed and never having to face much adversity thus remaining soft-ish or someone who has to overcome a lot of adversity to become one of the baddest son-of-a-bitch to walk on this planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:50 PM
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The whole argument is based on an incorrect understanding of what is called "game". "Game" is not being a lying, cheating piece of shit. It is mainly about deploying the charm and charisma which lies latent in every man and comes out with people he is comfortable with. I am naturally a good conversationalist, charming, socialble etc but in the beginning I had difficulty in getting out of my head. Now after talking to so many girls I can present my true self from the get go. That's game in my cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:42 PM
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In this case I think she should have it alone and the guy should be able to sign their rights away. Agree. An additional issue arises where neither want the child and abortion isn’t allowed or they don’t have access - then I think each have to share responsibility equally Agree. We also would need to ensure men can’t change their mind after a woman has got past the point of pregnancy where abortion is no longer allowed Agree. —————— All of these are perfectly reasonable and I don’t think there w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:05 PM
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True, as they should. Let’s consider a case where a woman gets pregnant and following are the combination of situations: She wants to abort, man doesn’t want the child either. No problems. She wants to abort, man wants the child. Still okay, considering she doesn’t want to bear the child. She wants to keep, man wants the child. Great. She wants to keep, man doesn’t want a child. What do you think should be done in this case?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:59 PM
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Because it is woman’s bodies bad women’s health that are impacted I am terribly sorry but I don’t follow the point you are trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:51 PM
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Surprisingly your post will not receive any replies. The whole argument against age gap is based on strawman, gross simplifications and generalisations, once you start picking them apart all the critics are nowhere to be seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:49 PM
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I think the word is misused a lot. I think the current generation is overeager to use it. This one time I was coming home from the club and a girl-friend wanted to put her bag in my bike’s basket, I said that the basket is broken and it would not be able to hold the heavy bag. Her friend accused me of “mansplaining” and I was like WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:58 AM
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I personally think that we all, men and women alike are attracted to attractive people and attractive behaviours. I think that a well put together, well spoken 32 yo man has same or better chance with a 24 yo woman as her equal age male peers. The second last girl I dated was 24 and I was 27, by her own admission she was open to the age range of 27 to 35. Despite being 3 years older I was on the bottom edge of her range. So our lived experiences are bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:41 PM
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Last I saw them in May, they were celebrating their 1 year anniversary, I met her last week, they were still going strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:36 PM
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This is what happens when I don’t listen to my own advice. It’s totally on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:55 PM
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While I know a 35 yo who married a 25 yo, a 31 who is sleeping with a 20 yo and a 32 yo in a LTR with a 20 yo. Make what you want of it. You are just making ridiculous assertions. I remember being 18-19 and lusting over women in late 20s and even late 30s provided they were attractive. I fail to see why women would be any different. If you are hot then you are hot and will have a wide range of takers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:53 PM
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India has historically been a very monogamous society, while the whole discussion is about promiscuity. Indians COUPLES were having 8 kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:47 PM
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I am replying primarily to clarify the narrative surrounding India’s overpopulation. India has been historically much more populous compared to most other parts of the world and the primary reason being North India having MASSIVE amount of flat, fertile land with plenty of rivers, annual rainfall and favourable climate year round for crops. Before agricultural machinery the amount of food you could extract from the land was primarily limited by how much effort you were willing to put. The abunda…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:35 PM
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Some arguments are so dumb that you realise that the person you are arguing with is not of sound reasoning and you will be wasting your time trying to convince them. — OkConcentrateNow, October 2022
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:24 PM
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Do you think it was possible to rack up numbers in the pre-birth control era? Not to mention the STDs. Dealing with people with such high number of sexual partners is a very recent phenomenon and the only group of people who are not repulsed by it are the people who are in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:08 PM
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I think it's pretty much the same reason why women respond with insults like incel, puritan, misogynist, insecure, jealous instead of just saying "OK, you do you". Both sides need the validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:28 PM
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That's very true. There is no need to control anyone either. Let everyone do as they please and select for people who act in the manner which aligns with your preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:16 PM
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If someone isn't okay with that, then it's on THEM to broach the subject. And then being lambasted for being insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:02 PM
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Western and Northern Europe are generally reluctant to talk about uncomfortable topics for the fear of judgement and resulting seclusion. This has been my personal observation in Sweden. A lot of people who keep silent or sing the prevalent tune in public let it rip in trusted and private spaces. To test a preference, put everything else equal and just vary the parameter of interest. For example, I think both blondes and brunettes can be attractive. But all else being equal, I would prefer the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:43 AM
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I know right? I have read Red Pilled material and have heard a lot of counter arguments as well. I have also been going out consistently for over an year and have seen and heard a lot from my own eyes and ears, respectively. They are indeed on point regarding a lot of things. After you have put in a lot of work and still experience everything you mentioned, you realise that there is a tremendous amount of gaslighting going on in this realm and you just stop lending your ear to it because you exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:41 AM
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I have been grinding at it for over an year and I 100% agree with you. People who are dismissive of this have clearly not been on this side of the equation and women here simply cannot fathom it. While for them sex is like walking into a supermarket and buying meat off the shelf, they think for men it’s like catching a chicken in the backyard, a bit hard but something you can do with bit of an effort. While in reality it’s like killing a gazelle with a pocket knife. You have to put a LOT of effo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:55 AM
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Roger that captain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:09 PM
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I don't get butt hurt if someone doesn't want my 5'9" ass. I shamelessly flirt with women much taller than me. Last Friday I was hitting on a girl who must have been at least 6'5", she was probably the second tallest person in the club. She's German and said that German food is better than Swedish to which I replied that I won't take anything you say seriously going forward. I was obviously joking but she apparently got offended and stopped speaking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:04 PM
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So about an year ago I saw a girl at my campus who I thought was Aphrodite reincarnated. Absolute 10/10 stunner. Few weeks later I saw her working at the bar and spoke to her for a bit. Today I matched with her on Bumble. Well, I think she wouldn't actually text but not gonna let that prevent me from flexing. 😅 https://imgur.com/a/qOisaXm
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:59 PM
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I did that, told her friend “I like your friend and I am taking her out for a coffee tomorrow, let me get her number and then you can take her” at that point the girl herself didn’t want to give the number 😣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:23 PM
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Indeed I was just curious if there was a phenomenon at play which makes the friends come in and take their friend away.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:07 AM
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Makes sense, if she wanted to she could have told her friend to wait a sec, she didn’t, so she wasn’t actually interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:54 AM
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Perhaps you're dragging her from her friends or she's speaking to you in between moments on a night out with her friends. This. But still that doesn’t completely make sense to me. If my homie is speaking to a girl then I just fuck off and leave them alone. These girls can also hang around or even chip in if they don’t want to leave her alone but what the fuck is up with dragging them away by the arm? Like last night I was telling a girl that I think she’s super cute and I would like to take her …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:24 AM
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Perhaps. But shouldn’t it be the girl shutting the conversation rather than her friends pulling her away by the arm?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:13 AM
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The number of times I am speaking to a girl and her friends pull her away for seemingly no reason is too damn high that it’s not funny anymore. Lay it thick on me, is it me being the wrong skin colour? Or what? I don’t believe I have been inappropriate with anyone, yes, I flirt sometimes but I don’t say anything that I would be ashamed of if my mom or sisters overheard me. If it was the girl herself walking off then I would totally understand that she wasn’t into it but what the fuck is up with …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:47 AM
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If you have the opportunity to learn to drive then do it instead of waiting until you can afford it. Same is with game and cold approach, you can start it today and hone your skills while simultaneously working on other aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:24 AM
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Which is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:02 PM
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It's like saying I will learn driving after I can afford a ferrari.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:34 PM
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I mean it would be pretty dumb to not continously work on the first three. We live in very competitive times, perform or perish is how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:32 PM
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Looks, money, and status are the quality of the product, while cold approaching and game is marketing of the product. You would be surprised how many buyers are out there for your product in the current state. So, would you rather market to best of your abilities and drive the quality improvements based on customer feedback and the revenues generated, or work in isolation?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:30 PM
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Exactly, putting that nipple in my mouth would not be appealing for the risk of hurting her, hygeine issues, and overall ruining the experience. Then some might say that they did it for themselves but why? What is it about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:57 PM
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Q4W: Why do you get nipple piercings? Q4M: Do you like them? I personally dislike them and think that the girl who has them has a crazy screw in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:49 PM
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It is very kind of you to spend your time writing those words of encouragement, thank you very much :) I had a tinder profile for a month made exclusively out of just selfies, I was getting 5-10 matches a week. It was good. I will give it another go with better pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:40 PM
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Yes, all logics are defied in my opinion. Like this is the guy who walks with a bowed head, when speaking in a group he can't look people in the eye and mumbles in his mouth with sentences trailing off, he speaks as if he is saying something very embarrassing and don't want people to hear what he is saying. Can't do 5 push ups to save his life. He is a good guy, good person but doesn't have a personality that is even moderately sexually appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:29 PM
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Men jag bor her, så jag kan. You are free to DM though if you want to discuss something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:28 PM
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Jag är inte Svensk, jag kom till Sverige till pluggar, och jag inte bra på svenska.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:23 PM
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Like I have been called handsome dozens of times in my life. I have a close circle of friends who I have known for decade and 2+ decades, my family members, my extended family members, my siblings, my cousins, they all adore the shit out of me so much so that I struggle to satisfy all their communication needs. So it cannot be that I am hedious or a bad person. Then one might say I lack game. I have a bona-fide playboy friend and he loves going out with me because in his own words I am a super f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:21 PM
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A very funny quote in Hindi which summarises it perfectly, it very roughly translates to: If you are destined to be fucked, then how will (can you) get good things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:09 PM
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Today I have finally concluded that my dating woes are mostly due to my dogshit luck and destiny. Funny thing is that astrological prediction based on my birth chart suggest significant struggle and delay in this area. It also suggests that I will be well off and move to a foreign country. Right on all three counts. But this is not what brought me to conclusion. There is other Indian guy I know, overweight, least amount of social confidence you can imagine, I don't consider him good looking eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:01 PM
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Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 09:55 AM
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Bro I fucking swear this girl was DTF. Like I was dancing by myself on an near empty dance floor, she came and started dancing in front of me. I immediately took the hint and got physical, she didn’t resist at all and kept talking to me, at one point I kissed her near lips (yeah weak, I know but I feel squeamish about kissing strangers) and suddenly her friend swoops in and pulls her away. I go to the friend and I am like “are you okay? What’s your name?" And she answers them well, so it wasn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:29 AM
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Ladies, is there some pact among friends that lets you cockblock your friends with impunity? The number of time a conversation is going well with a girl and her friends pull her away for no fucking reason is too damn high.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:15 AM
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Lemme share my perspective on dating in white countries as a brown immigrant by comparing to a racing game I play all the time. Each car has a Performance Rating (PR) number, the higher it is the better. The speed, acceleration, braking distance, and downforce determine the PR number. Some events have strict PR number requirements and some have recommendations. If you enter an event with a PR number quite a bit lower than recommended then it is extremely hard to achieve the objectives and you ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:37 PM
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Hey, I have a question regarding tampons, I have seen one from distance but never touched one, but if it’s made out of fabric then wouldn’t it be very difficult to insert? I mean to insert something in vagina, it should be properly lubricated but a fabric is essentially lubrication sucker so it would be even more difficult to insert.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:45 PM
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I refuse to believe that Bonobos; devoid of human capacity of speech and complex thinking have a social order that is even remotely as complex as human. Just because they have one doesn't mean that it's comparable and even to suggest that is simply disingenuous. Bringing obscure tribes that have had minimal impact on the world is again, disingenuous. Talk about ancient Egyptian, Greek, Roman, Aryan, Mayan, or east Asian civilisation and tell me if promiscuity among normal folks was rampant and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:21 AM
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Do the bonobos have a complex social structure where females usually don't want to have 15 kids with 15 different fathers? The society as we know it was built on the bedrock of family unit with monogamy at its essence. That man had the motivation to work hard to provide for his family. A clear purpose to get out of his bed every morning. Sex had consequences for the entirety of human history barring the last few decades, people still fucked and bore the consequences. Now the consequences have la…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:55 PM
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Do you think the hookup culture would be a thing without birth control and modern medicine? All your assertions go out of the window as soon as you take those away and people suddenly start keeping it in their pants as they have for the most part in the human history
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:33 PM
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Look at Blake Lively
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:02 PM
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I think there is a perspective shift for both men and women after a certain age, when I was 22, 19 was too young for me. It still is at 29, but 21 is not. But I would largely prefer 23 and above. That means the hypothetical 23 yo I want to date now was 16 when I was 22, again total no go. But right now she is a grown up woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:29 AM
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You can be 5'8" with 6'6" energy and would come across as equal to 6'2"
/r/seduction16/09/22 06:09 PM
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Bruh! I am 176 cm, live in Sweden, and I seldom think about my height. Sure a lot of women may have rejected me for not being 188 cm (gold standard here, 6'2" in freedom units), but I can't get myself to give a fuck.
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:07 PM
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Sorry poppy, Angelina Jolie in that state is not attractive, but she has been heavier and then she was very attractive. Men like women in healthy weight range, stick figures are not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:03 PM
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Life circumstances, genetic gifts or lack thereof, they influence our starting point. All the hard work we have to put is to nullify their effect. Like having dashing good looks and top notch social skills means you start way ahead of others.
/r/seduction14/09/22 06:52 PM
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One can employ seduction in a relationship of any length but women are not agents to satisfy our urges, if she doesn't wish to participate then let her be. It is very simple.
/r/seduction14/09/22 02:03 PM
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I mean it's not hard, she's another human being, if she says no then you stop, if sex is a priority to you then you find someone else and let her go. If she is worth waiting for then you wait.
/r/seduction14/09/22 01:33 PM
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That is true and looking back, you realise how spectacularly you used to fail and now you are failing near the finish line, that means that I need to keep trying, keep improving.
/r/seduction14/09/22 11:00 AM
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I am guy A, but sometimes I do feel worn out by all of this. But I never blame women for it. Just like I want what I want, they do too. I wish to be better not for it to be easy.
/r/seduction14/09/22 07:30 AM
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I think a guy stressing over n count and being inexperienced dating wise is a proportional relationship. Let’s be real, if they could smash chicks left right and centre they would be, and because they can’t they are more concerned (jealous?) about a potential partners sexual history. This is close to truth but not completely, as a guy with n = 1, given the choice I would still prefer pairing up with a nice woman and staying than just fucking around. Therefore for me someone with a similar mindse…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:14 PM
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I think it affects men more than it does women, men had always been able to provide for themselves and oftentimes women were pairing up with those men because of their ability to provide compensating for their lack of physical attraction and chemistry, now that women make their own money, they can simply wait it out until the man who ticks all boxes shows up. Since this generation of men grew up watching everyone being paired up, while being normal and doing normal things, they thought it would …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:54 PM
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Yeah that's overthinking, a lot of women have drank from my glass and bottles.
/r/seduction13/09/22 07:19 PM
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What would be the right way to go about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:00 PM
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Raaaawr 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:33 PM
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To get some insights and/or encouragement
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:27 PM
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Tbh, I will probably ask her out, I vastly prefer to shoot my shot than living with regrets of inaction. I just want to hear how good or bad of an idea it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:21 PM
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The more developed a country is, I think the less people need each other, that also means men and women don’t need each other except for sex and intimacy, so it all tends to boil down to most fundamental aspects, which is attraction + compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:17 PM
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Would it be a good idea to ask her out again? https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/xamjci/daily_community_chat_megathread/inylmjl/ Tbh, my gut feeling is that she was interested considering how she was behaving until I asked her out for lunch and how she had accepted it without hesitation, but then it got weird due to that guy overhearing us and she probably got self conscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:05 PM
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I have already done that. I had a summer fling with a woman I wasn't into. Felt like such a dirty imposter. It's a fucked up thing to pretend to like someone while they are sitting there falling for you. I will never do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:19 AM
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Yeah, I would like to be in a relationship where there is mutual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:11 AM
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I feel fine now, I am quite used to these outcomes. On the flip side, I can move on to the next one and do this all over again. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:09 AM
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I think it is human to feel low after a setback, but my drive is very innate and I don't think I will ever give up while living.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:04 AM
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I do my best then destiny comes and kicks the bucket. Then I mope for a while and do it all over again. Rinse and repeat. It is wearing me down but I take solace in the fact that one day we all die and this shit show will definitely end.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:18 AM
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Like he's an old fat guy, he stood between us, he did this " looked at me - looked at her - looked at me - looked at her" thing with his head. I just laughed and asked "what?". Probably they had a discussion afterwards, or she felt self-conscious due to that. I see no other reason, she seemed super into me until that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:09 AM
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So last night I asked out this really cute coworker of mine for lunch today (Sunday), she readily agreed saying that she doesn't have any plans and it would be fun. But then a coworker heard us talking and he was giving us funny looks. For the rest of the shift (1.5 hrs) she avoided eye contact. I wasn't getting a good feeling about it and I was dreading that she'd cancel. Woke up to the text from her saying that she just realised that she has other plans so has to cancel the lunch. There was no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:38 AM
3

I mean whenever 50% divorce rate is brought up, that's the standard counter argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:12 PM
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But also the divorce statistics are influenced by people having multiple divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:03 PM
1

It was a weird thought I had, otherwise I support a woman having her career as much as I support a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:42 PM
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Just saying, it would be much easier to divorce a working wife than a SAH wife, for the man neither has to deal with the guilt nor the alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:18 PM
1

I would like to date/marry a girl who's between 170 and 180 cms. Ideally 175 cms, I am 176 btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:20 PM
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I like tall fit girls because it requires an above average amount of self confidence to lead them in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:17 PM
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6 months isn't ages but 50 kg is not a lot of weight either. I hope to almost linearly progress until 60 kg but that hasn't been the case. Here are some of the factors which have held me back. Never doing volume work. I have exclusively stayed in 1-5 rep range. Repeated shoulder, neck strains. Which sets me back 2-4 weeks. Eating plenty of protein but not enough calories. When I started training I weighed 76 kg, at one point it went down to 70 kg, now it is back to 76 kg. So I have replaced some…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:30 PM
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I am stuck on 50 kg x 5 x 3 OHP for 6 months despite eating 180 gms protein on most days. 29M, 176 cm, 75 kg
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:57 PM
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That's good to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:21 AM
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I am not, I am working towards establishing myself but I am not there yet. A younger woman who is not there yet would be more forgiving than an established woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:33 AM
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That means I am not into unhealthy age gaps. But the impression I get is that a 29 yo should be dating only 26+, which is fine but if you as a man is still finding his feet then it is much harder to woo 26+ crowd because they expect a lot more than you in terms of relationship skills and personal success.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:38 PM
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Reasoning based on pre-frontal cortex doesn't make much sense to me. So I will echo your thoughts. First counter is the obvious one, why do you let 18 yo buy homes, cars, join military, make porn, drink, etc. Or 23 year old fly fighter jets worth $100 million. You let them willingly bankrupt themselves, give them means to kill themselves or others, trust them with expensive equipment, go through sex change surgeries, there are underage criminals getting tried as adults. When it comes to them hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:11 PM
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I personally like the half plus seven formula. I am 29, so that's 21.5 for me. Anyone who's 21+ is totally fine to me. About being in different stages of life. I am still in grad school, so I have more in common with a 21 yo college student than a 27 yo woman working for 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:02 PM
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You are not, neither did I say you are. I would have said “you" instead of “OP”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:52 PM
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OP writes a 1000 word essay about how "men bad" for not wanting to LTR sluts and now this. Dude no one’s telling you to date or marry anyone you don’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:28 AM
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Would the inverse be true? Men who LTR high n-count women generally make for a good partner? I think your problem is that you are trying to impose your liberal views on sex to men who don’t view sex that liberally. Since you are being so haughty and logical about it, tell me if we’d be having this discussion if it wasn’t for the contraceptives, anti-biotics/virals? Humans evolved over 100s of thousands of years and barring last 5-6 decades which is essentially a blip in evolutionary terms, sex a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:22 PM
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How a man treats his mom is a good sign on how he'll treat any significant other. Nice, I have excellent relationship with my mom and always treat her with respect, love, and care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:14 AM
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Ikr
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:01 PM
2

What exactly is trollxchromosomes? I thought it is a sub that mocks Twoxchromosomes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:17 PM
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You can see a woman's orgasm coming from a mile away, men's is like crashing into a boulder after taking a turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:16 PM
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The way I see it, you missed the chance to smash a dumbass. .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:09 AM
2

I never really got around to using pick up lines because they are corny, so I either go with "Hi, how are you doing?" or make a situational comment
/r/seduction18/08/22 09:39 AM
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What do you do for your back? I mostly stick to weighted pull ups
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:58 AM
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Upturned nose is not weird though, is it? It is a conventionally attractive feature. But short, straight nose like Monica Barbaro's is what I find quite attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:55 PM
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I made this comment earlier, for me it's slight underbite. Slight overlap in the front two tooth. Also, a short nose. Interestingly, I have slight overbite and had large gap between front two tooth. My nose is long as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:53 PM
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Have you seen Sweden or Scandinavia? They are NOT fat. They bike a fuck ton and don’t eat trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:57 PM
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I am 100% okay with her working 40 hrs a week and doing whatever the hell she wants to do in those 40 hrs, but if she's putting in 60-80 hr work weeks regularly to climb up the corporate ladder then we won't be a good fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 03:21 PM
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Those who parrot "correlation does not mean causation", drill one thing into your heads. Correlation is a necessary condition for proving causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:57 PM
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I remember this comment by a woman here saying that you don't need to be too buff, just Michael B Jordan type physique will do. Which was akin to saying that you don't need to be 7'5", just being 6'8" will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:00 AM
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am I a happier person with my partner in my life? Would you like to comment on the phenomenon of screening men by their height, muscles, dick, income, looks, ethnicity etc before they get to the quoted part? The screening is where most men fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:37 AM
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It's my dad's favourite color as well. Not mine though, I am all about Navy Blue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:42 AM
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It was a comment on the general narrative, not you in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:32 PM
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Well, I am glad that you admit it because the popular narrative is that women do it for themselves. But I will reiterate that no matter how a woman is dressed, she must not be harrassed. That's our responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:22 AM
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It’s on a spectrum. On one end is the comfy baggy pjs, on the other end is the least amount of clothes you can get by. Let’s not pretend that these are the only two options that exist. Like consider the bar/club environment, I have seen women wearing tops with their tits almost hanging out and also women showing up in loose linen shirts and full pants. Do you think both women will receive the same quality and and quantity of attention? With the former, I want to know if she’s DTF, with the latte…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:07 AM
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Let's say you have a private instagram and a public instagram. If a guy slides into your DMs in the former case then that is simply by the virtue of you being a woman. But the number of guys sliding into your DMs if you have a public instagram where you post half naked pictures will be significantly higher, even though you are the same woman. Because in the latter case the attention is being courted actively. Then coming out and saying that "Hey, guys slid into my DMs when it was set to private …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:46 AM
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Sometimes some people are indeed courting attention and then they spin it off as for convenience, function, availability, expression and shit. No those booty shorts don't keep you any more cool than those loose mid thigh shorts. No those bikini briefs don't help you play better beach volley, run faster, jump higher or longer. It is primarily for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:40 AM
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As citizens of free society, I want women to wear whatever they want. From nothing at all to burqa. What I don't like is lying about what you are doing and why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:27 AM
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I attract unwanted attention in pajama pants and a baggy shirt Would you attract more attention if you: dress MORE provocatively
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:07 AM
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Bullshit. Among all the chicks hanging out in bikinis yesterday, the one I found most attractive was hanging out in T-shirt and shorts. Men are not blind, they can see the face if it's beautiful and the body if it's in the healthy weight range, you don't need to put it to full display before we make up our minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:43 AM
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Make this post on popular dating subs and report with the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:38 AM
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Yeah, because it's rather hard to have sex with them with an average sized tool. Speaking from personal experience. Those thick thighs, they get in the way. That fat pad, it adds to the difficulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:30 PM
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A man would be crucified if he took an issue with a woman having large number of male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:26 PM
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Average should be looked in your age bracket. If you are 22, look at what an average man between 20-23 looks like. That's mainly your competiton.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:19 PM
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Something like this https://images.app.goo.gl/cyhXuEuumuPNPsh66
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:16 PM
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Attractiveness is indeed subjective, yes there are conventionally attractive people who appeal to a wide range of population but all is not lost for people who differ a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:29 PM
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Does anyone else find slight underbite on women super attractive? I had slight overbite so our kids will be perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:30 PM
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6
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:31 PM
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No, I don’t want to give them hopes and then break them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:29 PM
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One woman who I got along with super great, we had nothing in common in terms of likes and interests but our values, sense of humour were compatible. It was amazing. I discovered new things, she discovered new things. A lot of men have rather obscure hobbies and interests, they don't expect to find women who share those interests. If I were to find a woman who likes lifting weights, reading military biographies, playing flight simulators, listening to aggressive music, weapons nerd then it will …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:55 PM
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2, it’s usually 2 imo going out for nearly an year every weekend. When a woman likes you, she helps you make it happen. Other times you are left wondering what you did wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:54 PM
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Damn, how nice it would be to say "my wife", "girlfriend" just doesn't do it for me. Come home to someone I love, someone who loves me. Maybe a kid or two, who are happy to see their dad come back home after a long day. Lying on the couch, watching my wife playing with the kids on the carpet. I don't want to bang 5 dozen Stacies, give me a reliable Becky Pro Max and I'll quit the game forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:44 PM
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People have varying tastes. I have asked opinion on pictures of regular girls who I find 10/10 and people rated them 6-7, then some instagram models get shared who is not my type and the tables are turned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:08 PM
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He should wait 3 more years before his pre-frontal cortex is fully developed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:23 PM
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Then let’s say that I was naïve.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:12 PM
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Too late, probably post 22 yo. But I come from a very blue pilled culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:45 PM
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You are overlooking the fact that puberty hits different for different people, for some people it hits them like a ton of bricks and they have a full beard by 16, for others it’s a slow burn and they manage to retain their youthful look much longer. Then there is the economy, health, fashion, social skills, confidence aspects of being attractive. Some guys figure them out much later and that’s when they start achieving their full potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:22 AM
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There are extreme age gaps like 40 yo dating a 20 yo, and mild age gaps like early 20s dating late 20s, early 30s. I am mainly going to talk about the milder age gaps because the extreme age gap relationships are quite rare. Age gap dating discussions are viewed one dimensionally. Even no/tiny age gap can have nearly all the issues that are listed for age gap relationships. Ultimately it is a matter of two individuals interacting and the dynamics that form between the two heavily depends on what…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:32 AM
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So you want to be short AND weak? Just like women don't dress up for men but for themselves, similarly any man who has put considerable time and effort in the gym does it for himself. When you put weeks and months to add a kilo to your PR, you are not doing it for women, for neither your physique will change nor will the optics of you lifting. It's a purely personal thing and a lot of men really enjoy working towards such goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:14 AM
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The first guy has been with 130+ women. First guy acknowledges how fucked up dating and relationships are nowadays but I haven't heard him say outright misogynistic things. Yes, he sometimes criticises women and I don't believe they are above criticism either. But the second guy has some mental issues, he went too far into Fresh and Fit rabbit hole despite being quite successful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:04 AM
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Our dicks have their own heads and sometimes they don't stand up for us so it's out of our hands
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:29 PM
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Oi oi oi, you are a champ. But really, we need to take off the stress of performance from our shoulders and have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:26 PM
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SpaceX has made reusable rockets and brought the cost down of payload delivery to space by a huge margin. Their Raptor engine, full flow staged combustion engine using Methane and Oxygen had never been done before. Which is an engineering marvel in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:42 PM
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Let's say you are a man, you have a functional dick, you can pee, you can cum, it feels good for you, so it is doing everything it is intended to do, for you. Comes in a woman, being the gentleman you are, you do your best to please her, with hands, mouth, and your dick. This is where your jobs end. After that you don't give a fuck and she can stay or leave. You literally must not care if it is enough for her, afterall that's all you have and you can't change it. A while ago I was with a woman a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:24 PM
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Well, he is a curious case. He's handsome, has a good job, has slept with over 50 women, and got married yesterday to a 25 yo virgin woman. Yet he holds deeply misogynistic views, it's like if red pill and islam had a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:41 AM
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It's insecurities mainly, I have a buddy who's 5'8" and he has legendary confidence. I have another one who is about 5'8" and every second sentence is him whining about how women want tall chads. Being tall is nice but all you can do is make the most of what you have or whine about how unfair it is that you got handed bad cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:11 AM
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I am 5'9" man but I don't feel short no matter how much I hear about women wanting tall men. I work out, walk with my head held high and never pass on a chance to flirt with a girl who is even taller than me. I wouldn't mind dating a taller girl at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:58 AM
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Have perky big boobs and butt Normal or small boobs are perfectly acceptable to most men. Butt muscles can be trained and enlarged. -Have a good hip to waist ratio Unless you were fucked over in a major way by genetics, this again is not a problem as long as you're healthy weight. -Be skinny but toned Don't eat more than you burn, work out regularly, that's basically it. Whatever that gets you is perfectly acceptable to most men. -Be young 18-25 Yes, young women are attractive, so are those who …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:23 PM
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Goddammit, you really think like that? That some people are below you? I mean I rule out chicks if I am not attracted to them but I don't think of them as "below me", they are a flavor that I don't want to eat, not dirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:42 AM
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See there isn't much to work with for most profiles but I have written some thoughtful first messages and they have been hit or a miss. The raunchiest one I sent was incidentally successful and she came over eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:16 PM
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I wish everyone did it like you do, but a lot of people don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:36 PM
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Okay, maybe it's just you who disqualify people if they say outrageous shit but I don't get replies from 75% of my matches and I promise, I don't say anything I wouldn't say to them to their face, oftentimes it's polite without being boring
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:23 PM
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Nah, most men don't care nearly as much about boob, ass size. It becomes a problem when they are practically flat, otherwise not. You will see sooooo many supermodels who are less than endowed in boob/ass size
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:35 AM
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$265k for "any CS grad 3 years out of the school" is ridiculous amount of money, even for someone in 75 percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:06 AM
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It's unaffected because I don't have one, lol. But the current girl I am shagging up with, I don't text her unnecessarily but when we meet up I treat her super nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:05 PM
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I am Man B who behaves like Man A, prolly even worse. I hate texting and only text if asked a question, have a question to ask, or want to plan a meetup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:56 PM
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I was looking at this Youtube channel Ultimate Man Project, the guy said that he has slept with 500+ women. He was tall and had a 7-7.5 face. This made me have a realization. You are a product, the acceptance of a product depends on how good a product is and how well it is marketed. A guy like him would organically sleep with maybe 15-20 women but instead he choose to pitch the product (himself) to a very large number of people and had consequently found a large number of people who were buying …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:53 PM
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While I hate Tinder with the fury of a thousand suns, I also think that the further away you get from Tinder model of dating app, the less successful it will be. I have accounts on Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge. I think for every 100 women that sign up on Tinder, 5 sign up on Bumble, and 1 on Hinge. Part of the reason may be because Tinder is synonymous with OLD and has the largest user base, but the other overlooked part is the large amount of freedom you get on Tinder. You don’t need to write a bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:44 AM
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You are on to something, I turned 29 a little while ago, earlier I used to dread getting older now I am like “meh”. I think at 28-29 you sort of plateau
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:30 AM
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Given we have been oppressed everywhere and for all time Are women born with consciousness that has been alive for a million years and hence carry all the pain and trauma from subjugation of a million years? I don’t think so. A girl born in a first world Western country has it as good as it has ever been, even when compared to men from third world country. And despite that if they choose to feel victimised then that’s largely their choice. Yes, in some aspects they get short end of the stick but…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:22 AM
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Would you agree with the following statement: "All women like tall men, some are okay with equal or slightly shorter too"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:38 PM
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It’s all muscle, he must have like 12-13% body fat. He has a square jaw, clear skin and a head full of hair. He trains MMA, meditates, outlifts most guys at the gym and is an ex-gangster. But he’s a top notch dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:41 PM
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I think if you don't have a lot going on for you then you have to squeeze out every last bit of advantage you can. If those tiny improvements all add up and help you reach a threshold then they were all worth it. Good haircut, nice teeth, well fitting clothes draping a well built body, cologne, nice shoes, moisturised skin, trimmed nails, groomed facial hair. You gotta have it all, some of these take little effort, others take a lot. But that's the difference between being a 4 and a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:55 PM
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Short sons? What if their son inherits their height? Nearly all of my friends are taller than their fathers. What grinds my gears is not the preference, but the dumbshit post hoc rationalisation. Like own it you like something and move on with it than invent stupid reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:58 PM
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I am not saying that jacked 5'7" is equivalent to lanky 6'2". I am saying that jacked 5'7" is significantly better placed than a skinny fat 5'7", which may sound rather obvious but OP was saying that it's not worth, which is what I am disagreeing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:53 PM
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Your argument goes out of the window when women say that they like tall men because they feel safe and feminine with them. So clearly, they do care about it. Well developed muscles somewhat offset lack of height. If you are 5'7" and dainty then you are fucked. If you are 5'7" and built like a tank who can whoop an average 6'2" ass then you are much better placed in the hierarchy. I have a buddy who's around 5'8" and 90-95 kg, all muscle, trains martial arts. His self confidence and swagger is le…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:59 AM
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😂 Do you realise that Michael B Jordan's physique is near the highest level a non-steriod user can achieve? Something that will take 5+ years of rigorous and consistent training. Like you can look at several fitness youtubers like Omarusuf, Candito, Alpha Destiny. They are all super strong guys training for a decade or more, while they all look muscular, none of them look nowhere as good as MBJ. MBJ physique is like saying, just don't be short, 6'8" will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:43 AM
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I don't know man, as a straight dude that fella looked fine as hell. Yes he could use a man makeover but the tools he is working with are top
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:29 PM
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Dammnnnnn! I want that in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:17 PM
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I had an interesting conversation with a girl last weekend, she basically said that while she loved her ex-BF and still does 3 years after the breakup because he is such an amazing guy, yet she feels zero physical attraction towards him, which is why she broke up with him after dating him for several months. This phenomenon is so common, some women have courage to break up such relationships while other spend years and decades secretly resenting their husband and fantasising about other men. Whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:57 PM
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The end game is looksmaxxing and then finding a woman who's genuinely into you physically, it's pretty easy to tell if she's into you physically. She doesn't recoil at your touch, intiates sex and often, compliments you and such. In addition to that, if you happen to have a great interpersonal chemistry and can see yourself coexisting for a very long time then you can wife her up. But too many women settle for men they aren't physically attracted to and this is something every man has to guard a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:29 PM
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I will not share any photos of the women I have flirted with, but imagine conventionally attractive white women. Someone most people will put in 7-9 range. If have to take the initiative of walking up to them and talking then I go only for who totally catch my fancy and physically I am 100% into them. It is exhilarating. It is better to aim high and fail than aim low and succeed because then you are stuck with someone you feel meh about. Nobody deserves that. And I don't feel any resentment afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:19 PM
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There has been a very strong push back to change the narrative regarding age gap relationships. Yesterday I saw a thread on /r/AskRedditafterdark regarding who was the youngest/oldest you hooked up with, overwhelming majority of them were significantly older (35-45) women hooking up with 18-21 yo guys. Flip it and you have got a mini scandal on your hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:14 AM
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It is indeed the case. One of the two guys has very misogynist views on women, yet he is getting married in a couple of weeks to a woman who is virgin. The way he talks about her, I don't think he love-love her, and it seems more like he's fulfilling his goal of being married and having children, that woman just happens to be the agent. So when people tell you about their friends who fucked around plenty and are now in happy LTR, you also have to find out if their partner is someone they genuine…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:20 PM
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Just don't collect any identifying info, only demographic info. But people lying even in such cases is likely if they want to push a narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:09 PM
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That's true. There are flat earthers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:02 PM
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Just investigating people's attitudes regarding their partner's sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:52 PM
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Shall we crowd fund a study to settle the N-count and age gap relationships debate? It will cost about $2500 to survey 2000 participants for 5 minutes each.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:44 PM
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Also, I forgot to add. The two older men I spoke to about this with N = 50 and 130+ respectively, said that find it rather hard to emotionally bond with a new woman after having been with so many different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:40 PM
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It would be an interesting survey covering people across cultures and ethnicities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:34 PM
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I have discussed this topic with exactly 4 men, their body counts being 20, 40, 50, and 130 (ballpark). All 4 of them said that they wouldn't LTR someone with high N (>10), also their age ranged 20-35.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:40 PM
1

I agree with everything you said. I just want to add that this wouldn't even be a point of debate if promiscuous people (especially women) just said "this is what I wanted to do and I did it, if it doesn't work for you then you can look for someone who fits your criteria". Instead, it's always met with hostility, shaming, and rationalisations. Which tells me that they don't fully own it like they suggest, they still want validation and acceptance for their decisions. My closing remarks would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:51 PM
1

Fair enough. As a young woman, what is your opinion on the discussion surrounding N-counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:14 PM
1

Find out what type of vials the local sperm bank keeps, acquire large number of such vials. Jerk off into them and freeze them. Raid the sperm bank, replace all vials with mine. Profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:59 PM
1

Both are perfectly normal. What would the conversation be like if either of the two said 30 or 60?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:48 PM
1

What were the respective answers?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:44 PM
1

Interesting, are you a man yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:42 PM
4

Next line, age gap relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:35 PM
1

My childhood best friend got married and had a son before I could go on my first date ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 10:15 PM
1

I agree, the emotional attachment further guards from straying
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:36 PM
230

You are going to help me fold my laundry
/r/seduction08/07/22 08:53 PM
1

India, China, and other countries that do not have extensive dating culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:17 PM
1

This is indeed true, my grandpa has told me about his times and safe to say, I am not quarter of the man he was. I have done some good shit too which he is proud of, but deep down I know it pales in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:20 PM
2

Congratulations 🎊🎉💐
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:08 PM
1

No shit! Bad jokes by definition are not funny. But nobody can consistently come up with good jokes. And sometimes we blurt out things that we ourselves find funny. If the sense of entitlement runs so deep that you can't be arsed with half a joke to save your life but expect only the finest to grace your ears then you can politely excuse yourself permanently.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:54 AM
2

In Eastern societies AF doesn't exists or at least is not that common, but it's changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:21 AM
2

Jeez do you carry a measuring tape or flat out ask dudes how tall they are? Eyeballing if a dude is 6' or 6'1 isn't reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:12 AM
1

What are bad jokes? And what's wrong with sexual innuendos with a woman you are romantically interested in, of course they should come when you have established a rapport. But your whole list seems like you want a well behaved puppy and not a warm blooded human male.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:04 AM
1

Do you think that despite all of this, all the men who are surviving without drawing any attention are mentally tougher and resilient?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:51 PM
2

I think the sorry state of affairs should give men some consolance that they aren't missing out on much. If you are sad about your situation 2 times a month, then on the flip side you don't have to deal with any bullshit for 28 days. Not a bad deal I would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:02 AM
1

Or make it donation based like Wikipedia, if people are actually finding people there then they would be more inclined to donate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:03 PM
1

Let’s say you are rich and wants to hire a chauffeur to drive your kids to school, how deep of a background check would you do? What findings would rule a potential candidate out? Drunk driving? Road rage? Speeding tickets? Car crashes? Alcoholism?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:18 PM
1

Does causation exists without correlation outside of some very obscure situations? So while correlation doesn’t mean causation but it is a necessary condition for most practical purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:33 PM
3

Dmitry Klokov has the best physique I have ever seen. He looks like he's made out of granite and his lifts corroborate with that. Never liked bodybuilder type physiques. I am all for optimisation, be much stronger than you look. Like I once saw this jacked gym bro struggle to clear even his head up the pull up bar with additional 20 kg around his waist. While I make short work of it. There is another guy who's shorter, he looks fit but not jacked and he's even better than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:49 PM
4

See, if you can communicate here, you can communicate there as well
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:55 PM
4

The actual mechanism was described in a rather tongue in cheek manner but you are free to draw your conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:36 AM
1

I think it is mostly American men who are obsessed with tiny women (as I gathered from a /r/askmen thread), in rest of the world a tall woman is seen much more attractive but people also believe that the man should be equal or taller in height. In my conversation with two 6'2" guys, they said ideal range is 5'7"-5'9" but they would rather be with a 5'11" than a 5'3".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:05 AM
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Nah, men are much more lenient with regards to career, housing, car, finances, etc because they don't expect their women to provide for them, although her sharing the load is well appreciated, it doesn't have to be 50-50, anything over 20% is totally fine for men who make their own money, have home, car etc. Like a tech bro making 150k would be totally okay with an artist making 40k but reverse will almost never be true. Both are doing what they love but making different amounts of money. I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:01 PM
1

How can a single man have a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:28 PM
4

I think you are one of the smartest guys around here. I am always keen to read what you write.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:43 PM
11

I think RP is spot on when it comes to what it says about how dating works and what women want and are like, but I really hate all the plate-spinning "enjoy the decline" shit. It's pure evil. Pretty much the same boat I am in. I would be okay with sleeping with a woman who in her own explicit words wants “no strings attached sex”, but will have to drop her if I start seeing someone I am romantically interested in. No Multi fucking. But leading women on just to get sex? Fucking never.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:40 PM
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As you said, these are difficult ethical questions and any stance is easy to pick holes in. I like the way they do it in India, up to 15 weeks one can abort and only woman's consent is required. After that abortion can be done if doctors determines that it is dangerous to mother or child will be born disabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:37 PM
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Of course fetus is alive, which is why it can be dead too. I am just okay with the right to choose. The act of abortion is a bit sad though, I think women who have gone through it can corroborate. The act of abortion is a specific aspect of the broad term "body autonomy", which I think should be a constitutional right. The woman doesn't want to carry a child? Okay then don't. I don't see the point in life of child who's not wanted by his own mother. If mother abandons its offspring in the wild t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:58 AM
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Read a Reddit news post about how the states that allow abortion as asked their state government agencies to not cooperate with states that disallow abortion in the context of abortion related prosecutions. Now, I personally think abortion should be allowed to whoever wants it. First, mother’s life > fetus’s. Second, an unborn unwanted child better not be born and lead a miserable life with parent(s) who don’t want them. But that’s not the point of this post, I just wanted to get this out of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:25 AM
1

They didn't even reply
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:12 AM
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They do realise, like I do realise that nothing would come out of most of my tinder matches. But it is a nice feeling that someone swiped right on us even if they have no intention of following through.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:44 PM
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I don't understand how the blame is placed squarely on women when it's men who are giving them unearned attention. I have slid into DMs twice in the last few months, if as a consequence those two girls think a little better of themselves then where are they wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:57 PM
1

27/36, 54% better than others. Every fucking thing about me is smack on top of the bell curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:56 AM
2

Lol true, there is a girl in my corridor who said she’s 178 cms, I am 176 cms and she’s shorter than me. She’s probably like 172 or 173 cms
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:12 PM
1

You are suggesting that all men are rapists and those who don't, they don't because of the fear of retribution. This is a paranoia ridden and bad faith argument that has no reasonable counter because the argument itself is not reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:20 PM
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She just might not be mature enough to be knowing what she's getting into when she has sex with a 32 yo because she's inexperienced. If it's a purely sexual relationship then is having sex with an older man more dangerous than man near her own age?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:26 AM
1

since there isn’t much pushback with the idea of an 18 year old guy having sex with a 30 year old woman Just for "token consistency" people will say that it's not okay either, but we all know they don't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:25 AM
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I remember this wildly upvoted post on Twoxchromosomes where OP said that the primary reason a man can't get laid is because they are misogynist. Totally wrecked my brain. The only time misogyny can hinder someone from getting laid is when they are misogynist + dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:09 PM
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I don't remember where I read it but the way a relationship ended largely determines the recovery outcome. If it was a clean break, like both parties agreed it wouldn't work out, or or broke up in a kind and considerate manner, then people can usually recover fully. But it was ghosting, slow fade, cheating etc, basically a breakup without consent and closure, then it's significantly harder to move on, unless someone much better comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:02 PM
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Let's put it this way, being misogynist is neither a help nor an impediment for short term casual encounters. The woman who pretended to not hear the guy who said Hi to her at the bar didn't do it because she accurately assessed his levels of misogyny, it was because he wasn't looker enough. The woman who slept with the misogynist guy didn't know it, either because nothing of sort was talked about which could highlight the misogyny, or the guy is simply smart enough to say the right things (or n…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:56 PM
1

All the best! How long will the recovery take?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:14 AM
2

Dude is being perfectly reasonable, he's saying that a full feet+ height difference is weird. It is different from demanding a 12+ inch taller boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:32 AM
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Wouldn't your arms rest further up on your side and look all weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:27 AM
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Honestly I think I’m one of the most accurate raters of looks here Would you be willing to help me with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:03 PM
9

Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:01 PM
2

I haven't seen that movie but have heard good things about that sequence
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:35 PM
1

Precisely. When he was describing the mission and that you will be on the verge of GLOC when you climb out, and that's when you will start getting the SAMs lobbed at you, I was like okay, so what's the plan then? Sounds like we are going to be roast meat then. The plan was to outrun 16 SAMs, fuck off Maverick
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:58 PM
1

I was really hyped about the first Top Gun and it was a let down as well. With this movie they blurred the lines between sci-fi and action.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:28 PM
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I think I was ambiguous in my review. No. It’s a stupid movie. And that’s coming from a fighter jet nerd. Top Gun wasn’t any good either. The best combat movies are those which are based on real life events because then you know it has been done, and not sit there and be… oh come on this is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:19 PM
1

For me it’s cleaning the lint filter in the laundry room of our student housing. Nobody is watching you, if you leave it dirty then the next person will have to clean it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:16 PM
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6.5 at the outset but the kind of woman you can fall in love with if you get to know her and she turns out to be an amazing human being, then she’ll look like an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:11 PM
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I had been waiting for Top Gun: Maverick for years, saw it today, goddamit! It’s like Top Gun and Mission Impossible had a baby in 2022, just ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:04 PM
1

Can you also explain why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:31 AM
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God these people! My father is 5'6", my mom is 5'2", I am 5'9", and I probably could have been taller if I had gotten good nutrition during puberty and wasn't sick for 1.5 years. Heck my youngest sister is same height as my father. All my friends and cousins are turning out to be taller than their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 07:36 AM
3

I genuinely thought women can be referred as Wen. Men and Wen, instead of men and "wo"men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:13 PM
3

Is Wen a new word?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:06 PM
1

A group trip where you don't have an uneven split of gender and have seperate beds once or twice a year? Tends to be fine with me. I get your point and I agree with you, I will probably be okay with it too. As I said, don’t put it the trust to test too much, too often. Like in your case, you didn’t plan to share the room with your friend and it just turned out to be like that. It seems okay. Your straight opposite sex bff who you spend a lot of time with and share a room with on trips? Probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:31 AM
2

Sleeping in the same room is a private, behind the closed doors affair. Anything can happen and nobody in the world would know. Yeah one should trust their partner but at this point it’s completely blind trust. I think trust, patience, will power are all expendable, if too much is demanded too often then they will run out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:19 AM
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About the last paragraph, I think it’s necessary to trust your partner fully but I believe that it is also our (and partner’s) responsibility to not test that trust too much, too often by getting into this kind of situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:02 AM
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Lol no, you gotta trust me on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:01 PM
1

They were talking before as well while I was putting my stuff in the bag. So no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:00 PM
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Walked into the store, new haircut and freshly showered. This 35-40 yo, 5’3” blonde lady walks in and she’s eyeballing me hard, like total unambiguous eyeballing, like you shouldn’t be holding eye contact that up close to people you don’t know. I say a barely audible Hi in the passing, she responds. I meet her again at the cashier, still looking at me. I am like, okay, either I have a booger hanging out of my nose or she wants it. At the exit she looks at me again and I go “how are you doing?”, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 06:32 PM
1

In a very long while I had good sleep. No violent dreams, or waking up a million times. How well do you all sleep? Also, any veteran weightlifters here who would like to critique my lifting program?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:31 AM
2

The kitten is lovely but I am more in awe of the video quality. What did you use?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 07:02 AM
2

I think the confidence with which you approach a weight is quite important. There is definitely a mental aspect to lifting. After all it’s the mind directing the muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:54 PM
2

I am doing rack holds with 1.25x 1 RM to build a solid base.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:58 PM
1

I am obsessed with OHP but I am not progressing like I should. My entire upper body training is geared towards helping with OHP. I bench with fairly narrow grip, like my index finger is where knurling starts. I also do strict dips, push press, DB press, shrugs, LU raises, and a shit ton of pulling. Recently graduated from +20 kg x 5 x 5 pull ups. Any tips for increasing OHP?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:47 PM
2

You need to open your heart to abundance
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:36 PM
1

Yeah, sometimes that happens with overhead press. It’s like going up really slow and I am like up up up, inch by inch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:34 PM
1

Oh yeah. It’s very true. We rarely even get to 40% let alone surpass it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:32 PM
2

You have to bury a living dog. Life sprouts from life. Dead dog is dead seed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:31 PM
2

Yeah, I don’t think I would have been able to do it if I had known.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:28 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:27 PM
3

You get the tree from the seed, not the casing. Bury the dog to get a woof tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:26 PM
2

So I am trying to bench press 75 kg for 5 reps and 3 sets, been stuck at it for a while, last week I managed 4, 4, 3. Today I did 4, 4, 4. I was like, okay, not quite there yet but some progress, I will take it. But then I found out that I had accidentally put 77.5 kg on the bar and had actually pressed 77.5 kg for 3 sets of 4 reps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:23 PM
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I am not paying for them, they are provided by the university and are free. So, I'll let her do her thing for the first few sessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:11 PM
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Yeah, I can imagine. I was completely drained after it. Listening to people's problems must be at least half as hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:48 PM
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Yes, it was the first session. I don't know if she'll do the CBT, but I did listen to a CBT audiobook "Feeling Great" by David Burns, it did help me tremendously but when I laid everything bare in front of the therapist today, I figured this is not something I can fix by myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:41 PM
2

I went to see a therapist today, all she did was listen to me for close to an hour but didn't offer any solution, she scheduled me for another appointment 2 weeks later. Is this how it's supposed to go? Will she formulate counselling plan in the meantime?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:21 PM
2

This is very interesting, illustrates that the guy needs to be bold and take the initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:22 PM
2

Care to share some things you learnt?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:34 PM
1

Hmmm... if I remember correctly wright borther's aircraft was longitudinally unstable. Also, one of the reasons why modern fighters have negative static stability (SS) is because an aircraft with positive SS is flying brick at supersonic speeds, so they build them with -ive SS for subsonic flight but they are longitudinally stable at supersonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:58 PM
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Good points. It's no man's business to tell a woman how she should date, but beyond a certain point, she should be clear with what she's doing. It's basic decency. But most people make up their own rules. "He didn't ask to be exclusive", "what are we gf/bf now since we went out a few times?", "It's most efficient to evaluate multiple candidates simultaneously and pick the one I get along the best with".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:48 PM
1

I liken it to aerodynamic instability I would like to hear more about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:33 PM
1

5+ for less than 25 yo, 10+ for everyone else. Also, it matters how soon the number was accumulated. We are barking up to the wrong tree here. Those who want to sleep around will do and those who don't want to won't. You must not restrict people from doing things, rather, see what they do when they have full freedom. Exhibit A: Doesn't litter when people are around for the fear of judgement. Exhibit B: Doesn't litter because they appreciate the cleanliness and want to maintain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:35 PM
1

3 liters is good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:35 PM
1

That's not even counting the three 600 ml smoothies. So, total fluid intake is north of 7L I live in Sweden, but I developed the habit of drinking so much water back in India. It's been close to a decade now that I have been drinking so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:34 PM
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Q4All How much water do you drink in a day? I have been awake for 4 hrs and have already chugged 4 bottles (600 ml each), I think I drink 5+ liters every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:47 AM
1

Here are some Swedish cows for your viewing pleasure: https://imgur.com/a/YKAVm8T
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:34 PM
1

That is so nice of you. I have an uncle who's incredibly dedicated towards saving cows. Outside of his regular day job, he spends most of his time working with/for cows.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:21 PM
1

That's nice, is it expensive to keep those cows? Who pays for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:04 AM
1

Was that one of your cows? How many cows do you have? Do you raise them for milk?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:46 PM
2

Why would that relationship progress to such an extent if we didn't have interesting conversations on regular/semi-regular basis? My point was that it's not necessary to have interesting conversations all the time. Sometimes you/your partner want to be left alone with your/their thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:49 AM
2

I am right handed but have always wanked with my left hand, just to even out the strength imbalance, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:11 AM
2

Well, I personally don't see anything wrong with this conversation. I am not in the mood to talk for at least half hour when I get home. I think it's a good thing to be comfortable in silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:09 AM
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I am absolutely not. As I said, the standard has to be that both partners do their best. But it is impractical that both partners make sacrifices of the same nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 08:21 PM
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I am absolutely not. As I said, the standard has to be that both partners do their best. But it is impractical that both partners make sacrifices of the same nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:51 PM
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Any further discussion is fruitless because we clearly have a different value system. I just want the reader to take a note and decide for themselves if they would like to start a family with someone like that. This also reminds me of military ethos. In the team you are expected to put yourself in harm's way to protect the guy next to you and to do whatever it takes to complete the mission. It is being part of something larger than yourself. The team, the mission comes before you. I wouldn't wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:29 PM
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this generation has grown up to be incredibly self-centered, they don't have what it takes to be part of something larger than themselves and make it work, even if it requires some sacrifices. ^ "What's in it for me?" has permeated all the way down to the idea of having kids. I remember reading a reddit post a while ago in which the wife demanded that the husband pays her full salary she'd be missing out due to being pregnant and childcare. Which to me basically summed up the attitudes I am talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:47 PM
2

Yeah, a lot of people smoke too and don't get cancer, a lot of people drunk drive and don't kill anyone. Kids can be introduced to alcohol in a healthy manner so that they don't go off trying it on their own and fuck up, but it is of utmost importance to disassociate alcohol with fun. And this what irks me the most about the university here in North Europe. Alcohol is deeply entrenched in student life. They can't even say hello to someone unless shit faced drunk and it's passed off as a cute pec…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:20 PM
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In countries that don't have a big drinking culture (South Asia, Middle east) it never changes, people actually know how to socialize without using alcohol as a crutch. But if you give the proverbial crutch to a kid he will probably not learn to walk without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:15 PM
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Bring back a strong family unit for kids to grow up in and you'll solve a lot of problems. But it is highly unlikely because this generation has grown up to be incredibly self-centered, they don't have what it takes to be part of something larger than themselves and make it work, even if it requires some sacrifices. This is not a man problem or a woman problem. We all are fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:55 AM
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Is all sexual conservatism “Puritanism”. I still believe that self-restraint and being mindful of your actions are better ideals to achieve than encouraging people to do whatever they want whenever they want. I don’t see any upside to 14 yo kids drinking alcohol and having sex. But it’s not surprising considering that hedonism equals happiness in these cultures. I am especially not a fan of how ingrained alcohol is in the European society. People simply don’t know how to socialise or have fun wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:40 AM
1

But I am special
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:18 PM
1

Burn 🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:06 PM
1

I don’t understand the tastes of people on the Internet. Yesterday I was watching a YouTube video where people were salivating over a black dude who looked no more than 4/10 to me. Now the girl in this post looks reasonably attractive, I would totally date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:56 PM
1

2/10
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:52 PM
4

I have done no fap for 18 months, it's bullshit. You get no superpowers and only get massive loads of jizz in your wetdream spoiling the sheets and your duvet, necessitating a wash.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:30 PM
1

It works for me in the opposite way. Fapping doesn't kill my desire to interact with women, rather it clears the fog of horniness from my brain and I can be my real, charming self instead of a horndog. Like today I went out to get a package a short while after wanking and I felt totally ready to talk to anyone if the opportunity arose. But if I had stepped out all horny, I would be too much in my head and not do anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:28 PM
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My original comment was a remark that if the statement "In real world men don't care about N-count" is said enough times then some men who believe otherwise will either start believing it or start doubting their position. The truth is more nuanced than "men care/don't care", but it leans much more towards "men care" than most women would like to admit, also they wouldn't vehemently argue with men if they truly believed that it doesn't matter. The whole push back is to gain acceptance for their l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:17 PM
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Say a lie 1000 times and it might start sounding like a truth, or at least sow seeds of doubt. Also, look at who's advocating for what, it's likely that they are safeguarding their interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:55 PM
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I haven't "picked up" anyone, but as a guy, have you ever striked up a conversation with another man and enjoyed the conversation. Had this thought how cool it would be to their friend and then asked them for their contact info to stay in touch and then followed up? Now do this with a woman in any environment. You see a woman you can imagine yourself dating, you start talking to her normally, find out what she's like in the course of your conversation without absolutely no intention of asking he…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:10 PM
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Do you consider a public instagram a red/orange/yellow flag? I personally think it's an orange flag. Attention seeking behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:25 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:24 PM
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Fedora Donning Simp
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:23 PM
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I listened to the audiobook "Feeling Great" by David Burns, which is a book about Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for the treatment of depression and anxiety, and I must say, it has helped me tremendously. I would recommend it to anyone who wants to make living with themselves easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:21 PM
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Do people talk like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:34 AM
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Girth matters in both the novel and irl FML
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:48 AM
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As I told you, I had done it for 1.5 years, and multiple multi month stints, I think it's all bullshit. Using that willpower in eating right and working out regularly will have more tangible results than not rubbing one out a few times a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:50 PM
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At one point I went 18 months without fapping, I gained no superpowers and I was getting wet dreams anyway. So why not have fun by nutting when you're awake?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:20 PM
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While I do think it takes significantly more effort for a man to obtain sex, I don't think it's praiseworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:09 PM
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They just don’t agree with it. Not agree with what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:03 PM
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That has basically been my lesson from online and real life observations. Assume the worst and work your way down because thinking too highly of the person you're dating makes you fall too fast and hard for them, then the discovery of such things is very painful and makes the exit difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:19 PM
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All I ask for is a reasonable work-life balance, like 40 hrs work weeks and no more, in those 40 hrs she could be a librarian, an engineer, a surgeon, or anything else she loves to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:11 PM
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But how can he know? So I guess it's just safe to assume the worst and then mend the assumptions as more information comes to light.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:08 PM
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You had explicitly stated that you want a virgin wife. Indian women in general don't partake in casual sex due to cultural conditioning and logistical nightmares. As far as them being virgin in mid to late 20s is concerned, is it reasonable to expect that they never fell in love with a guy, had a relationship with him, and had sex? Because that's typically how it pans out in India. Especially out of upper/upper middle class circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:28 PM
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Well, I know the life is not fair so I am pretty certain that you'll eventually find a virgin wife, that is not the point. The point is to grow mentally and start seeing women having an inner life just as rich as you do, with dreams and desires like you do, they don't exist simply to serve man's interests. But I can understand why you're having difficulty with that concept because in Indian culture a woman's purpose is indeed to serve man's interests. I am not trying to stand out as one of the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:13 PM
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Hello fellow Indian brother :) I think you're a moron because I am fairly certain that you'll partake in the casual sex scene if you can, but since you can't you want to police those who can. I do concede that there are a certain downsides of the hookup culture but still I do not advocate any sort of "ban" on it. Those who want to do it and can do it, good for them, those who want to do it and can't, take the L and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:43 PM
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Okay so I went out two nights in a row and and on both nights I got told by drunk guys that I am "a very beautiful man". I have a long standing struggle with self image and self esteem but for the first time I chose to believe in myself that yeah, maybe I am not as bad as I think I am. Then with suppressed levels of self-doubt, I went in the club for only 40 minutes in which I striked up conversation with 4 different girls, and scheduled a date with a cute blondie who's probably like 6'- 6'1" (I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:16 AM
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ratio closer to 6:4 iirc 3:2 FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:24 PM
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I do think nearly every guy cares about it when it comes to LTR, they just never say it out loud fearing social ostracization and being called all the names they do when they are found out caring about these things. Also, it is such a private question that a well adjusted person would hesitate asking another man, let alone the woman he's dating. So, to summarize, the risk of social ostracization, name calling, awkwardness of asking, choosing to be blissfully unaware are the primary reasons why t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 11:00 AM
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thots and their payers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:20 PM
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Right now I don't have hobbies because I have neither time or money but if I had both then I would like to do following: Fly fighter jets in DCS Build drones in home lab Play volleyball a few times a week Go on long hikes (20+ miles) Shoot guns
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:30 PM
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I agree with this line of thinking. Some people are travelers, they want to see all the new places and some want to find a nice and cozy corner for themselves in the world and live there happy and content. If both of these are to be married then they will drive each other crazy. So a traveler should find another traveler and the settler should find another.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:14 PM
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While I broadly agree, I think if you do only compounds and not enough assistance work to strengthen the small muscles, ligaments, tendons from different angles then injuries are inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:26 PM
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Oh yeah me too. I don't train biceps in isolation but hammer the shit out of pull ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:12 AM
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Met a girl through a mutual friend, she had trouble remembering my name and kept recalling gibberish names and I kept saying no, no, no, then finally I said Daddy, you can call me Daddy. She said keep dreaming and ran away. Then I spotted her on the dance floor and asked her "what's my name?", Daddy she said. Also a bunch of medical students were dancing, I asked one of them "Are you my appendix because I want to take you out", she said haha no, and I left it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:11 AM
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I mean when a friend asks you hang out, it is implicitly understood that we will be paying for our food, unless the friend insists for paying for us. I think this is how it should be in the early stages of dating, after you are in a relationship this whole thing goes away and the man should be okay with paying for his girlfriend's food because they like family.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:51 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/t87tpd/nobody_in_real_life_cares_about_body_count/hzn0k1e/ https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/t87tpd/nobody_in_real_life_cares_about_body_count/hzn1nmb/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:16 AM
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I give zero shits, if an older man can get a younger woman to date him then I think it's due to his own merit and that girl's preferences, I have no role to play. But some people be tripping about it. And the brain doesn't stop developing until 25 is the biggest piece of horseshit I ever heard. The brain development is not linear, it doesn't go from 72% to 100% at 25 it is more like 97% at 18 to 100% at 25. You can let 18 yo vote, drive a car, drink alcohol and make all the bad choices under its…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:14 AM
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Lol obviosuly, this is one of the things that is super easy to hide, so she's essentially saying that she hasn't had any consequences because she didn't disclose this information, which is hilariously dumb line of argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:57 PM
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Have you disclosed your number to a long term partner/anybody?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:55 PM
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People care but most don't have guts to pose a direct question "How many people have you slept with?" because "don't ask questions you may not like answer of", but if that information is known upfront you'd be shocked how many men would either completely steer clear or not take the woman in question seriously aka pump and dump. Also nobody in their right mind expects a virgin at 29, that's a strawman who's been beaten to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:48 PM
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why would you not believe that after they invaded a sovereign nation. I don't support the invasion but I understand their reasons and I also understands that west's parroting of freedom and justice comes AFTER they have secured their strategic interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:53 PM
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That report about Russia attacking the nuclear power plant? You had just witnessed the other side of misinformation campaign. The land mass on which the nuclear reactors are located is still classified as "nuclear power plant" but it's humongous and the critical infrastructure may be occupying 1% of that land mass. I don't believe Russians are that dumb that they'd risk damaging the reactors by fighting close to it, nobody stands to gain anything from it and if damaging the reactors is their obj…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:19 AM
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Why did this begin in the 90s? If there is a reason? Just a theory, due to economic reforms, rise of communication and transport facilities, more and more people getting white collar jobs and moving into middle class, I think spending on weddings increased. I hate to ask but do you think this is one of the reasons couples abort female pregnancies, due to the wedding cost burden? Indeed. In fact the rise in female infanticide coincided with the rise in the wedding spending. But now the infanticid…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:14 PM
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It's all ego love. People are living in a very unconscious state and want to seek fulfillment through consumption, other humans are just the means to that end. Which is why you see so much hurt being inflicted on each other. I have never been in romantic love but I think I know what love is from loving my mom and my cousin (brotherly love), with them I understand the meaning of truly secure attachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:51 PM
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Because "tying up the loose ends" is very criminal speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:37 PM
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Like dispose the body?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:32 PM
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It is a rather recent phenomenon (90s onward) that people started doing these lavish weddings. My grandfather and father had very modest weddings. Right now my sister can't be married because we don't have enough money to buy her prospective groom a car, household appliances, and host a dinner buffet for 500-1000 people. Now don't hate the prospective groom because he doesn't exist, this is just the expectation placed on every father that he'll be doing all this. If the father hints that he won'…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:30 PM
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The hysteria around Russia attacking Sweden or Finland is completely unfounded, and is an American ploy to get them in NATO by altering the public perception. Russia has everything to lose and nothing to gain by attacking either of those countries. If Russia attacks Sweden then Norway gets involved, if Norway gets involved then NATO gets involved. And if Russia wants NATO to get involved then they don't need such a long winded approach, they can just attack any of their NATO neighbors.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:53 PM
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But there will never be an ideal world and there will always be plenty of people who would rather say white lies to avoid hurting others' feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:23 AM
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Yeah some people do get lucky, good for you. A friend of mine has been in 5 years long relationship with his first match on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:59 AM
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It’s kindness on their part that they let you down easy and make some excuse. Yeah, I agree, it lets both parties save face.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:48 AM
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Nah, I am fine with white lies because I understand the sub-communication. It is probably the dumb asses who need everything spelled out for them. When you corner someone with a proposal for a date, it's a gentlemanly to allow them a graceful out as well instead of forcing them to do the dirty work of rejecting you blatantly and burning the bridge. For example, I asked a girl if she'd like to go to nightclub with me, she replied that it sounds fun but she is having a movie night in her dorm. Now…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:45 AM
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the guy before that at the bar on a night out Can you tell me how that story/interaction unfolded? It's always fun to hear about how it started and one thing led to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:35 AM
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the inherently courageous thing he did was actually stay in Ukraine I concede that, but he's no more courageous than thousands of Ukrainian men who are actually choosing to be in the line of fire, and definitely not worthy of the reddit fanfare he's receiving. Like I remember reading this comment from a "37 year old independent woman" who "was feeling things that she had never before" due to his bravery. LOL. Go and check out /r/nextfuckinglevel You know how what else he could have said for unit…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:56 PM
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Absolutely, get ready for movies/books deals and highest civilian awards from a few countries for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:48 PM
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Heck I don't even know what Yemeni crisis was, I just know that there was one but not the details and I have been on reddit since 2015. Right now Reddit is saturated with pro-Ukraine posts, and their president is made out to be the ultimate hero with tungsten balls which I disagree with. Remember how just a few days ago he was talking about how "this is the probably the last time you are hearing me speak" or that "Russia has sent 400 member hit squad to kill me"? These are not the words of a bra…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:38 PM
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