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2	I'm starting to believe that the "women are only attracted to the top 20% of attractive men" rule is only true for Autistic males It's not just the hoops, it's that you can never jump through enough hoops and be done with it. Women have men on lifetime probation, needing to prove their worth and masculinity and viability every single dat, and one failing can torpedo a relationship. It's like women look for a reason to dump a guy. I don't think most really, truly love men. Also, it's 'fewer' hoops, not 'less' hoops.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/25 10:34 AM
–	Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ? No. Movies present fantasies and heightened ideals. They're not necessarily direct reflections of reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 06:30 PM
–	Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ? You sound like just the worst.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 06:29 PM
–	Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ? Not just attractive, though – VERY attractive, with about 37 other traits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 06:25 PM
–	Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ? That singular story from one woman means literally nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 06:22 PM
–	Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ? Bullshit and more bullshit. There are exponentially more men than women who are cripplingly depressed and isolated, and the only single women are those choosing to be. Any woman who wants to be dating, in a relationship or fucking guys is doing so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 06:20 PM
–	Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ? Boys historically are raised with messaging that says girls don't care much about looks and really like boys who are sweet and sensitive and caring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 06:15 PM
–	Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ? I have no understanding of why he's considered hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 06:13 PM
–	Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ? Margot Robbie isn't super my type but she's absolutely gorgeous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 06:13 PM
–	Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ? See Spanglish for non-retarded, romantic Sandler.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 06:12 PM
–	Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ? Citing movies is pointless. Virtually every actor and actress is attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 06:07 PM
–	Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ? I'm a far leftist and would never. I'm trying to figure out if Sydney Sweeney actually is a conservative, because despite her being one of the sexiest girls I've ever seen, and an actress whose work I enjoy, if she really is then she's dead to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 06:04 PM
–	Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ? Watch no women respond to this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 06:01 PM
1	Almost every man is capable of being a top 10% man Thanks	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 07:40 AM
11	Almost every man is capable of being a top 10% man Preposterous. Very few of those things, if any, are "100%" in every man's control.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 09:39 PM
–	If you have to cold approach, that’s a sign it’s time to throw in the towel I don't "go for" anything other than what I find attractive, which is *a lot" of different women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 01:02 PM
2	Why do women do this? Yet you absolutely do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 01:01 PM
–	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? These two "clarifications" are precisely as contradictory. You keep saying "women don't care much about looks (which is pure bullshit, btw) so men have to make sure they look really good." Make it make sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 12:59 PM
1	If you have to cold approach, that’s a sign it’s time to throw in the towel Oddly enough, though I'm gross, I've seriously dated several really attractive girls. But I'm very sure that if I'd met them in person as opposed to on the phone/online that they'd not have given me a chance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 09:42 PM
–	Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ? I don't think Seal is unattractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 09:37 PM
2	Why do women do this? Well my question is why are you doing it for the 20th time in a row (even though I already know).	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 09:37 PM
2	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? Your last 2 points are contradictory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 09:35 PM
–	Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ? Right but just because none of your small group of girlfriends would like 10 out of 100 (1 of 10) men, doesn't mean there couldn't be another handful of women who would like that 10% (or some of them).	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 09:33 PM
–	Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ? – Yeah, I've been in that situation. I'm not sure how thats relevant. Most girls I'm not attracted to likely are attractive to tons of other guys. – I don't buy that women are that way to 'a much lesser degree' at all. I think most women find very, very few man attractive, whereas most men find a ton of women attractive. – I'm not going to meet 4 billion women. I've met a fair number of people in my life based on being from NY, moving a lot, having way too many jobs, attending or living at 5 dif…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 09:29 PM
6	“Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist” Same. I'm far left, but old-school rational far left. Like I'm super anti-religion, but if I express particularly critical sentiment about Islam, I'm assumed to be a conservative bigot (because people are conflating Islam with POC) when I'm very reasonably damning the actual, terrifying fucking bigotry and oppression common to much of the Muslim world. Similarly, as a man I'm not allowed to push back on women's increasingly bilious invective about men – despite contemporary feminism supposedly b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 06:44 PM
1	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? I do. Life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 03:20 AM
2	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? Again, how do you think people used to meet at concerts, at clubs, at the park, at the beach, the mall, a café etc.? Obviously most of the time they would not have been acquainted or had any familiarity. Or do you truly think people didn't meet that way? Also, I'm 52 (53 this Wednesday). I'm not the key demo for social media/smartphones/dating apps. I can and do (or did) go up to women (or men, just to strike up friendly conversations) all the time, and I was charismatic and communicative and en…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 03:17 AM
-2	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? I don't have to because I was alive and sentient.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 03:08 AM
-2	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? Guys didn't encounter girls in everyday settings and chat them up, get a number, call, talk at more length and then date? Are you really saying this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 02:35 AM
1	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? I think you're talking about "cold approaches" per the definition connected to PUA /male dating coaches, numbers games etc. This isn't at all what I'm referring to. I'm not talking about a guy going up and flirting with tons of strange women like it's a job or a sport. I'm talking about a regular guy, encountering a girl he's attracted to "in the wild" (e.g. on the street, in a store or a coffeehouse, at a concert, on a train, etc.) and trying to strike a spark of interest. This would also, defi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 02:26 AM
–	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? You're insufferable. Bye.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 02:10 AM
1	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? It absolutely has.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 02:08 AM
3	Let's be honest: men also have different rules for the women they're attracted to. Either you have comprehension issues or you're trolling, because I didn't say, nor do i think or feel, a single one of the weird, shitty things you want to believe i think and feel. I don't have the energy at this moment to respond in kind again, but I probably will tomorrow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 02:07 AM
0	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? Cool. You're one woman out of bajillions. It means literally nothing. But not very long ago – in my lifetime – that was how it happened an overwhelming amount of the time and it was considered totally normal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 01:30 AM
2	Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ? No, i have no idea what that is. But ONE example doesn't prove your assertion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 01:27 AM
2	Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ? How so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 01:25 AM
0	Let's be honest: men also have different rules for the women they're attracted to. fat women, ugly women, disabled women, old women do not hold near the same “power” you claim “women” have With the probable exception of old women, yes they do. just like ugly or fat or old women don’t have DMs full of men looking to date her See above. It’s not like men have to say yes to any woman who approaches Women don't approach men. Men have no one to say yes (or no) to. If you want to date someone you have to go for someone attracted to you I have no reason to ever believe anyone is attr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 01:22 AM
4	Let's be honest: men also have different rules for the women they're attracted to. I didn't say not wanting to fuck any particular man is maltreatment. I referred the (gleefully emasculating) manner in which you decline to fuck us. And I'm not saying women who have male friends who they wouldn't fuck are regarding those men as nonexistent, but all the men who want to fuck you, who you consider sexually void, you also consider existentially void.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 01:09 AM
2	Males should be told to dress better I, like most men, have gotten like 6 compliments from women in my entire life. I'm particularly unattractive, mostly because I'm obese and have repeatedly succeeded and then failed at fixing that. But as starved as I may be for nice things to be said about me, I wouldn't want it from a girl who has zero interest in me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 12:43 AM
0	Males should be told to dress better Then you probably shouldn't do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 12:33 AM
–	People are attracted to attractive people, but women's idea of attractive is very narrow compared to men's Gross men, yes. Most men aren't that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 12:32 AM
1	Males should be told to dress better I meant your comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 12:30 AM
1	Why are you on this subreddit? Yours are pink	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 12:22 AM
-3	If a guy cold approaches you, do you want to get to know him a bit before he asks for your number or once you go on a date? If men ceased to do this, the human race would go extinct.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 12:18 AM
11	Being lusted over by people who hate you is worse than not being sexually desired Probably by shaming them based on their lack of sexual attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 12:17 AM
1	Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize them What about "i think you're very pretty" or "That dress looks lovely on you"? Those seem innocent and are usually delivered in a gentlemanly way, but in essence they're also sexual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 12:14 AM
10	Why do women do this? But if some women encounter this repeatedly – and there seem to be multitudes of them who do – doesn't that suggest that those women might be informing that phenomenon?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 12:10 AM
10	Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ? No matter how ugly you are as a guy, there's at the very least a handful of women in the world that find your specific look and personality attractive. You have literally zero evidence of this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 12:07 AM
0	Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ? That would suggest that every man can find some women who find him attractive, and that just isn't so. I promise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 12:06 AM
1	Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ? Other than fetishists, no women are truly attracted to significantly fat men. Trust me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 12:04 AM
13	Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ? They are?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 12:01 AM
10	Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ? And you're right – you actually all like the same, like, 5% of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 11:58 PM
6	Let's be honest: men also have different rules for the women they're attracted to. Most everyone treats pretty people better, even unconsciously. Scientific research has even shown that babies respond more positively and enthusiastically to people with more technical attractive faces. The thing that women seem to either forget, ignore or miss altogether is that while men and women may both be less kind or less forgiving of less attractive members of the opposite sex, men don't have nearly the power or opportunity to do so as women do (in the realm of dating/sex/etc. – other sp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 07:31 PM
0	People are attracted to attractive people, but women's idea of attractive is very narrow compared to men's Bullshit. The "standards" argument is actually insulting and degrading of men. Most men aren't just willing to fuck most women, we're actively, legitimately attracted to a majority of women. That's not because men are "better" than women in terms of supposed shallow-ness – yes, ultimately, most people are most attracted to people who are 'quantifiably' most attractive. But most people are also mostly attracted to heightened exemplars of typically gender-coded aesthetics (i.e. women are primarily…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 09:14 AM
1	Males should be told to dress better This sounds lkke something a girl would say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 07:03 AM
2	Males should be told to dress better I'm not too cool, I just have no interest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 07:00 AM
1	Males should be told to dress better lol...compliment, but not fuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 06:57 AM
3	Males should be told to dress better no they can't, not in a way that's congruent to the ways women can.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 06:54 AM
2	Yes, women do like assholes more than nice guys, its not just because they're physically attractive I feel like women fall fot bad-boys/"assholes" because they're fairly obsessed with guys being 'cONfiDEnT', the problem with that being that they seem to believe confident means "UNSHAKABLY confident.' like for me, for instance, I think I'm pretty confident, given the many obstacles I have regarding attracting women. I know how smart and funny and interesting and passionate and creative and romantic and caring and principled I am, I can talk to a girl whenever I choose to, regardless of how beau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 08:44 AM
0	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD But she's a stupid cunt, so...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 02:08 AM
1	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD What do you think is the biggest difference between physically unattractive men who find relationships and physically unattractive men who don't? ...having one or more of the other things women are significantly attracted to –being tall, being well-built, financial success/stability, "confidence"/a "positive" outlook, being famous or something like it, etc. or being from a culture where women don't reject short/fat/ugly/poor men as extensively (be it via their own open-mindedness or how they're …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 02:07 AM
2	If You Were A Woman, How Would You Date? same lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 01:42 AM
1	Do you ever feel bad seeing how some people talk about struggling guys or even incls? it's not uncommon when you're at my level of utter unattractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 06:13 PM
0	A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need women doubtful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 06:08 PM
0	A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need women I said they're repulsed by most men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 06:01 PM
0	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Stop being alive and the world will get much better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 05:59 PM
1	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD I'm fat (obese) and short and seemingly ugly (and poor and depressed and now old) and apparently T-deficient, and I absolutely "postpone" dating, mostly because I can't get anyone anyway, and even moreso because I'm at a stage where if I somehow miraculously got a girl to go out with me, and intimacy was in the offing, I probably wouldn't be able to perform I'd be mortified about my body, too much so to be nude with a girl. So I'm quite literally involuntarily celibate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 11:02 AM
7	A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need women I look at it the other way – women used to be a lot nicer to men, because they depended on men to take care of them...but once they became more able to support themselves, they didn't need men anymore, and then began to air all their truest feelings about men. This, to me, effectively revealed that women don't really like a the overwhelming majority of men, are repulsed by them, and value them primarily for their utility (and have long used them for it).	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 10:41 AM
4	A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need women this is basically exactly me, except I don't hate women and don't wish harm on them. but I am very jealous and resentful of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 10:25 AM
3	I think women don’t lower our standards because we are expected to act like we didn’t. Thoughts? I think the disconnect and frustration is this: (1) women whose 'raw materials' (i.e. their natural physical characteristics) are average or even somewhat below average can, especially with the help of zillions of different beauty aids and fashion accouterments, still be very popular, attract tons of men, and have access to dating, romance and sex virtually on demand (2) equivalently average/below average-looking men are much less broadly desirable than their aforementioned counterparts and thus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 08:23 AM
2	There is no such thing as an "invalid" or "shallow" reason not to date someone, every single dating preference is valid. I'm white and grew up in a black neighborhood and love black people and dated and lived with black women...and I'm just not romantically/sexually/'chemically' attracted to black women. It's not rooted in racism. I just don't. Much like a ton of black folks aren't attracted to white people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 07:33 AM
1	There is no such thing as an "invalid" or "shallow" reason not to date someone, every single dating preference is valid. that's because women only match with men who fit their most shallow attraction metrics, and those men are not likely to be interesting or smart or nuanced or anything else she really wants on a deeper.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/25 07:21 AM
2	Do you ever feel bad seeing how some people talk about struggling guys or even incls? I'm Gen X and I haven't had any sexual contact in nearly a decade, none before that for another 7 years...and I've had actual sex with one woman ever (many times, but one person). Just FWIW.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 09:25 PM
1	Ironically, progressive women are still obsessed with status in men I'm 53 in 2 weeks, obese, broke, alone. Done. Every bad way it seemed like my life might go when I was young has come to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 12:28 AM
2	Being horny is not being lonely. same, except none of even the little bit of good you mentioned.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 03:03 AM
2	Being horny is not being lonely. what if you want both?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 03:02 AM
1	Being horny is not being lonely. you gals really do enjoy making guys feel bad, huh? you have it in your head that you've been so aggrieved by men and just have to get back at them whenever you have a chance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 03:00 AM
–	Being horny is not being lonely. you're an idiot. having no access whatsoever to romance, sex, intimacy, affectionate touch etc., is a particularly crippling strain of loneliness. It's incredibly dispiriting. It makes one feel subhuman, particularly if you're a really passionate, amorous, loving person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 02:57 AM
1	Why do men assume gorgeous women will have a bad personality ? Why judge a woman unfairly and harsh ? I know they do lol. it was rhetorical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/25 08:05 PM
–	Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men. um...yes? they absolutely are?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/25 03:08 AM
2	People who are jealous of women, no you are not. you're mental. I'm a guy who is super sexual and adores women but who fucking hates when guys, for example, refer to intimacy with women as "getting pussy." it's grotesque to me, and I push back on it when I hear it...and while I'm a pretty singular kind of male, when I do "not talk like that" per your description, I don't come off like some 'wHiTe kNigHt' or 'SOyboY' when I do. it's my 'natural self' and I can't get my mind around how guys like that function (and even more so that women actuall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 10:54 PM
3	Women understand male sexuality. It’s just there’s miscommunication and lies by men about it. I'm not at all a typical guy (just trust me), yet i don't like being friends with guys either and have virtually no male friends. All my close friends have been women, for decades. It has absolutely nothing to do with sex, and I've had very few instances in all my years where I had any thought of turning a friendship into a romance. I just find men generally boring and cringy and not enjoyable to converse/'vibe' with. And I'm old and not privy to spaces that would spur social development, and I'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 10:43 PM
31	Why don’t you approach men as a form of empowerment? no, women don't approach because: they don't have to. they don't want to deal with rejection, because the never get it (the irony being they still wouldn't get it if they approached, almost ever). they don't feel as feminine and pursued and submissive as they want to if the guy doesn't make the first move, ask her out on the first date, plan and pay for that date, go for the first kiss, make the first sexual advance, etc. they're not interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 10:33 PM
–	Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men. men would be way more likely to do that if women didn't make them feel unsafe if they do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 10:29 PM
–	Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men. I can only imagine what kind of guy would ever date a girl who makes reference to 'pussified' men. Christ.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 10:27 PM
1	Why do men assume gorgeous women will have a bad personality ? Why judge a woman unfairly and harsh ? seriously don't know what the fuck you're talking about. what about what I'm saying sounds 'heated' to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 10:21 PM
2	I feel unattracted to my husband who earns less than me why is no one commenting on her NOT LIVING WITH HER HUSBAND???	/r/RedPillWomen	16/08/25 10:13 PM
1	If men benefitted women's lives then men wouldn't struggle in dating see i hear these kinds of accounts more and more lately...and i sincerely hate that I don't believe them. but I don't believe them. I don't buy these narratives that depict a man who the woman had no good reason to suspect anything problematic about, who went from seemingly wonderful to an absolute abusive nut. just statistically – an occasional guy who somehow convinces a girl that he's a sweetheart and then turns unhinged? sure. but scores of guys being that way? for that to be true it would b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 10:02 PM
1	Why do men assume gorgeous women will have a bad personality ? Why judge a woman unfairly and harsh ? [go away]	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 09:56 PM
2	Do women even want to meet men? what's the point of dating or a relationship if you're not hoping for it to become an entwined, defined coupling? I can't even picture a relationship where I don't live with the other person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 09:55 PM
0	Why do men assume gorgeous women will have a bad personality ? Why judge a woman unfairly and harsh ? I'm not the slightest bit 'heated' lol. you're misreading tone. but what's the point of being critical of one side doing something if you agree the other side does it too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 09:53 PM
1	If men benefitted women's lives then men wouldn't struggle in dating and what happened?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 06:35 PM
4	If men benefitted women's lives then men wouldn't struggle in dating are you functionally illiterate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 06:34 PM
1	Why do men assume gorgeous women will have a bad personality ? Why judge a woman unfairly and harsh ? no, the "source" is the fucking human race.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 06:34 PM
1	Why do men assume gorgeous women will have a bad personality ? Why judge a woman unfairly and harsh ? Tomlinson*. I've said something like this too, like "Ariana Grande is preposterously pretty and is a gifted actor/comic talent/impressionist and a thoughtful, articulate speaker and activist...oh, and she's also the most dynamic vocal talent of her generation. This proves there's no God, because if there was, it would be insanely unfair to give one person all that and make another fat, short, sickly, poor and depressed."	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 06:29 PM
1	Why do men assume gorgeous women will have a bad personality ? Why judge a woman unfairly and harsh ? and women don't do this with men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 06:24 PM
1	Why do men assume gorgeous women will have a bad personality ? Why judge a woman unfairly and harsh ? or they're just really stereotypically feminine in their fashion presentation and like looking really pretty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 06:24 PM
2	Why do men assume gorgeous women will have a bad personality ? Why judge a woman unfairly and harsh ? women who care a lot about makeup and other notions of traditional femininity (i.e. girlie-girls) are (a) more often than not attractive to begin with, and (b) appealing by default to a very sizable cohort of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 06:21 PM
1	Vincent doesn't represent men's struggles, she represents trans people's name/private profile check out	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 06:15 PM
1	Do women even want to meet men? then what's the point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 06:11 PM
1	Do women even want to meet men? What do you reckon the ratio would be of men who live totally independently versus women who do?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 06:09 PM
3	Do women even want to meet men? Men find a much higher percentage of all women to be "on the spectrum" of attractiveness. Women find a tiny fraction of all men attractive, and even the ones they do find attractive then also have to pass 35 other tests to really have a shot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 06:07 PM
1	Do women even want to meet men? they think it because it's what women actually do, whereas your alternative take is what women say they do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 06:05 PM
1	If men benefitted women's lives then men wouldn't struggle in dating Stop defiantly choosing only the tallest, cutest, richest guys you can attract, because those traits are 0% predictors of all the more fundamentally important traits you claim you really want in a man. You're welcome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 06:03 PM
2	If men benefitted women's lives then men wouldn't struggle in dating Women literally become fish?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 06:01 PM
2	If men benefitted women's lives then men wouldn't struggle in dating well...this is not cartoonishly rife with generalizations at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 05:57 PM
6	If men benefitted women's lives then men wouldn't struggle in dating being ugly or fat or broke and grossing a woman out isn't "abuse."	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 05:56 PM
4	Ironically, progressive women are still obsessed with status in men no, on Earth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 01:13 AM
9	Ironically, progressive women are still obsessed with status in men This is something I figured out very young, much to my dismay. First, I learned, early enough, that the more stereotypically pretty, girlie, popular types of girls were not going to be attracted to a boy like me, like just no chance, despite what we were usually told when we were little about girls (i.e. that they were these sweet, guileless angels who only really needed to be treated well and appreciated to at least give a guy a chance, that they didn't care as much about looks and status as bo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 01:13 AM
5	Ironically, progressive women are still obsessed with status in men the overwhelming majority of women are sexually and even socially submissive. it's not a 'kink', it's the intuitive default of most women. there are very few women who don't want/like/expect that guys are going to be more take-charge, more assertive, more confident etc., both in and out of bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 01:00 AM
2	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. What if literally no women are attracted to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 12:53 AM
3	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. but their preferences and desires constitute an infinitesimal cohort of men on Earth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 12:48 AM
2	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. men have exponentially fewer tools and 'cheats' at their disposal to use in any prospective "effort to look good (yourself)."	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 12:46 AM
2	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. sure, but fondness based on parental love is a little different than fondness based on "ooh, that girl is pretty."	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 12:33 AM
2	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. I definitely do, on a surface level, in certain moments and contexts. But I don't treat women I don't find attractive poorly, I'm just a little more extra with women I do like, a little more eager to please and to charm. But i wouldn't not do something kind or protective for a woman just because she was physically off-putting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 12:31 AM
12	Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women) women are at least as shallow as men about looks, while also being demanding about 36261094638 other facets that women don't have to satisfy themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 12:27 AM