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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Male VS. Female Attorney? Couple more things I learned the hard way. You have to do your own research. You have to push your lawyer. You are in a war and your ex is the enemy. Prepare for battle. It will be harder then anything you have ever gone through. Keep records of everything and never ever text your ex. (She will text to push your buttons, her lawyer will be chomping at the bit to get a domestic violence charge against you) Block her. Only communicat via email and ALWAYS be careful of every word you say. It WILL b…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/22 09:48 PM
20	Male VS. Female Attorney? I had a female attorney. She was a bitch. My ex’s was female and a bitch. I went with her because she had a good reputation and I went after my ex wife scorched earth so I didn’t want the man card played. The key to not losing your ass in a divorce is to get her to settle A.S.A.P. The longer in drags out the more fucked you are. If it goes to trial you are gonna get decimated. I didn’t let the lawyers hash it out to keep costs down. I just kept sending proposals to my ex untill she agreed. I was…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/22 09:27 PM
3	Think i'm going to court No, that’s not a threat. Don’t agree to anything without talking to a lawyer. She is not the same person that you once loved. She is the enemy. I know it sounds harsh but you need to accept that.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/22 01:32 AM
4	Think i'm going to court One more thing, don’t ever yell at her, threaten her or be alone with her. Always have a witness. They are all the same. She will try to get domestic violence/restraining order. Also be very careful about what you write in a text, better yet block her and only communicate via email. She will text and call to push your buttons to get abuse charges against you.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/22 01:25 AM
7	Think i'm going to court Get a lawyer, you are in a war now. It will get ugly. You can not reason with her. Protect yourself. You should have had a lawyer and a game plan before you told her the relationship was ending. Get you shit together, prepare for battle, plan offensively or get wrecked. Good luck. It’s gonna be rough but it will eventually get better. Don’t give an inch. Fight for everything.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/22 01:18 AM

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