OkEstablishment6463 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	How do I 26f fix this mess of a life I have built so far Can you go back to your father’s house?	/r/RedPillWomen	11/02/24 08:17 PM
1	Sex is truly the key 🔐 Yes. Just because you aren’t okay with subjecting yourself to discomfort doesn’t change the fact that life is largely subjecting yourself to discomfort. It seems like you might be the problem and could benefit from trying to figure out the reasons behind why you’re so uninterested and constantly suffering in sex.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/11/23 03:14 AM
1	Do you think it’s really a terrible thing for women to leave unhappy relationships/marriages? Fair enough. I don't agree with the modern notion of marriage, but also understand I am the minority. By performance, I mean the action of carrying out the task of, in this case, the vows. Here's the most basic traditional vows: I, ___, take you, ___, to be my wife/husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until parted by death. There are no contingencies here. The transfer is made and tha…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/23 11:41 PM
1	Do you think it’s really a terrible thing for women to leave unhappy relationships/marriages? Right but his performance isn't the foundation of the marriage because by definition, that would negate the permanency of the union. Humans do some really hurtful things, and we have plenty of historical data to show us just how dark the human soul can get (including yours and mine). It's just normalized in our culture to can your spouse when they don't preform. Splitting physically doesn't make you any less married...unless you think the state, performance, or feelings initiate and sustain marr…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/23 09:34 PM
4	Youth Struggling with Sexual Sin The Christian faith is very friendly towards intimacy and sex. Helllllo Song of Songs?! What are you doing to find a husband? Sounds like you need one asap. Is your dad around? Brothers? Can they help you find a good man? Please protect your virginity!! I know men who truly think it’s priceless!	/r/RedPillWomen	04/09/23 04:41 AM
0	Do you think it’s really a terrible thing for women to leave unhappy relationships/marriages? Stepdads are usually predatory and weak. Who would choose to NEVER have authority AND to raise some other man’s children? Yuck With stepmoms, authority isn’t an issue so the family hierarchy isn’t damaged.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/23 09:32 PM
1	Do you think it’s really a terrible thing for women to leave unhappy relationships/marriages? She could just stay with her husband and she wouldn’t have this problem. If she’s so stable and equipped to raise children, why is she running off?	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/23 09:30 PM
1	Do you think it’s really a terrible thing for women to leave unhappy relationships/marriages? Why wouldn’t you let them vet your man? What evidence do you have to support the claim that you are more qualified to choose a husband than they? It’s not contradictory at all. Marriage is for life or don’t get married. Just date until his behavior makes you sad then put him in the cuck chair. Why call it marriage? How is the foundation damaged? The woman’s feelings are damaged but if he’s still providing and raising his children, what exactly is damaged?	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/23 09:28 PM
4	Do you think it’s really a terrible thing for women to leave unhappy relationships/marriages? Yes. If he doesn’t want what you want, don’t spend a single minute longer with him. Find that answer before the 3rd date by simply asking him. You cannot change a man. It’s best to allow your father and/or brothers to vet your man for you. It’s best to only look for a man who has other good men who will keep him accountable because you won’t be able to. I think once you’re married, you’re in it for life. The modern world says if he cheats then that’s justification for destroying your children’s …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/23 09:31 AM
0	Have you changed anything in your appearance to better your relationship? Just do what makes your husband hot for you. Don’t think so much about it	/r/RedPillWomen	31/08/23 09:34 PM
2	Dealing with a man who is ex-criminal who won’t leave that life completely? Next! Too many men in the world to be on that nonsense. He can be a superstar for the next one. There is no ‘approaching’ a man to incite change. He either is what you want or he’s not.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/08/23 08:35 PM
1	reconsidering professional school You need to have a job for sure but I don’t understand the point of taking on debt to secure a career when it seems like you’ll just put it on the back burner upon meeting the right guy? It’s important to know which is most important. If the career is most important and you truly feel like it’s a vocation then do that. If having a husband is most important then you need to be preparing yourself to be a wife.	/r/RedPillWives	06/08/23 04:55 AM
1	Feeling Lost and Seeking Help It’s a conflict because you’re making it be one. You think your way is best and you’re holding your convictions with firm resolve while doubting in the very thing that makes him a man at all. You know your husband best, but it sounds like your idea of a traditional relationship differs from his. You might have to learn to be okay with letting go of the concept of ‘conflict’ all together, or you’ll pay the price of driving him away. Conflict shouldn’t exist in the traditional relationship in whic…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/08/23 04:22 AM
1	reconsidering professional school What do you want most? A family or a career? Do you want to stay home? Would you want to send your children to public school? Private? Homeschool? What kind of man would you want to be with? What values does the ideal husband have?	/r/RedPillWives	06/08/23 03:35 AM
8	I have 1 last chance to be normal and I’m scared I’m going to ruin it. I think looks are the least noteworthy concern here. Personality development and confidence seems to be of utmost importance. Unfortunately, you’ll have to go seek interaction with a variety of types of people and make the mistakes and get over it. Most women in their 20s who travel, go to bars, clubs, concerts, games, etc. aren’t happy. Happiness is nearly completely arbitrary. We do need social connection and I completely sympathize with your pain. The only way out is through. Limit your time …	/r/RedPillWomen	06/08/23 03:06 AM
1	At what point is one just too old for the Sorry...long post but it deserved it! Therapy is good. Reading on attachment styles helped me to get a life and stop putting my unhappiness on my man. It's sad but sometimes we have to almost re-parent ourselves in order to get rid of the lies we, at some point, accepted as true that shape our reality. My point is that YOU are the one letting it strain the relationship. You are the one defining the dealbreakers and you are the one bringing the conflict. We all have standards and if you'd like to…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/23 04:58 PM
3	Gaining trust after infidelity Yes. How did you find out?	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/23 09:10 AM
1	At what point is one just too old for the Why can’t he just be his own person? These preferences don’t seem like deal breakers to me. If it were me, (assuming he’s a good man otherwise) I’d just learn to find joy in the differences. You can’t date you. You’d get sick of you anyways! I’ve found it really easy to step out of my lane and once I do that, my peace is deeply disturbed. Remind yourself that he can be cranky or happy or sad, he can have preferences you despise, he can care about different things, and he can have his own perspec…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/08/23 08:09 AM
1	How can I accept the fact that I'm a whore? Sure you can! That’s a lie of the modern world. Not being fat, not being a whore, and finding joy is a pretty good standard for taking care of oneself.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/07/23 02:30 PM
31	How can I accept the fact that I'm a whore? Stop being fat. It’s likely that will greatly diminish your rejection by men. Stop being a whore. Keep it moving. There’s a lot of men out there. Be better. Find joy. Is your life centered around you or around serving and uplifting others?	/r/RedPillWomen	29/07/23 10:39 PM
2	What Is Your Opinion On 50/50 Relationships? :) That’s precisely my point! People commonly blame feminism because that’s what red pill tells us to think, but it’s just a word that was created and attached to a real grievance proposed by Charles Fourier in the early-mid 1800s. The word literally wasn’t even used previously! The media created an entire movement and sold it to women. Complete smoke and mirrors. Feminist ideals are a response to the very real implications of the transfer of power from the family to large corporations. Okay, we…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/07/23 02:48 PM
33	What Is Your Opinion On 50/50 Relationships? 50/50 doesn’t work because women typically end up doing the majority of the housework anyways due to her higher standards of cleanliness and organization. Even my chickens are concerned with beautifying their nesting boxes. It’s just in us. Women want their skills and gifts to be used for the purposes of generating real quantifiable value, so the sentiment behind 1st wave feminism is a valid grievance. With the implementation of industrialization, came the transfer of production of goods from th…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/23 08:04 PM
1	Looking to keep fit as a mom Getting fit doesn’t take MORE time and energy, I’ve found actually the exact opposite to be the case. Don’t consume modern weight loss recommendations because OBVIOUSLY it’s not working. The food pyramid is a hoax. Calorie counting is a waste of time. If you must research nutrition, look into archaeological diets and traditional foods. Although it is beneficial to overall health, exercise has little to do with weight loss and is not necessary for simply losing fat, so that should take at least s…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/23 07:38 PM
3	Advice Understanding your role in a man’s life and pursuing it in action seems to be fundamental to inciting real change. It’s so cringey to see all these fake femininity influencers that simply teach women how to develop layers of masks to secure a man via the application of surface level behavioral tactics that ultimately crack under pressure. These are Christian books but if you want a traditional marriage, they are helpful for achieving that. Trust or Control - Dorcas Stutzman Created to be His Hel…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/23 07:07 PM
6	At what point is one just too old for the This question is not helpful, not specific enough, and incapable of giving you information that may lead to growth. What are the possible answers? It’s too late now or you have obviously just until your eggs dry up? What good does that do? You have the freedom to grovel in the misery and acceptance of defeat, but we aren’t about that here. A much more productive question to ask is: Why are my relationships not succeeding? Analyze your behavior, make actual changes, and go into the world to apply…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/23 06:58 PM
1	What do marriage-ready men talk about on dates, and what does their vocabulary consist of? Same question for women HA! I’m in TX and to consider it VERY conservative is shocking. Very conservative is Iran. Every time I go into the city I’m flabbergasted by women’s whorish clothing, obnoxious behavior and attitude, and overall fakeness of it all. You should be initiating conversation about marriage, children, and the timeline associated with that BEFORE you even go on a date. The purpose of this is to not waste your precious time or his resources. People matter and it’s your responsibility to ensure your desi…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/23 05:46 PM
3	3% of women are virgins/wait to have sex before marriage A rule of thumb that’s helped me is to not take advice from people who don’t have the life I want and/or aren’t experts on the subject. Your virginity is such a prize and he’s a lucky man to be able to receive that! It will help you stay with him, bond, and be satisfied. There’s going to be so much opportunity you don’t have to be stressed at all! You’ll have the opportunity to learn and grow together. You won’t be the only one learning! I would just completely reserve that for your husband. I d…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/07/23 12:51 AM
1	I’m confused on what’s going on here f18 m23 There’s lots of older men who are both not creepy and would feel beyond esteemed to be with an 18 year old. It’s not about age. Also agree with the majority of the other comments. Don’t project your dreams onto another person. Most men in their 20s are still in the streets. Assume that’s the case for every young man until he provide concrete evidence that indicates otherwise which is not confined to hanging out, having sex, or giving you attention.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/07/23 10:02 PM
3	Should I try to shag hot hulky dude at hostel? No…. Where’s your father?	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/23 07:41 PM
4	“He wants to take things slow or is he just not interested” dilemma? After you’re done being offended, give it an honest moment of consideration. I know it’s not fair…but it’s still true. It’s not about perfection. It’s about accountability. We are responsible for our own emotional state. You can feel whatever you must, but it’s no one’s obligation to come placate you. It’s your job to bring people joy and pleasure! It’s fun! Why wouldn’t you want that? I don’t have to know you to recognize the same patterns of thinking because I find it in myself. I have to beat…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/23 06:18 PM
4	“He wants to take things slow or is he just not interested” dilemma? What if women didn’t give exclusivity until marriage was on the table? What if they just had their own motivations and life satisfaction and went about their own business in a sweet and submissive way? Would that not attract precisely the man she ought to be with? To answer your question, stop trying to ‘fix’ things and get a life. You are a disservice to yourself by getting consumed by self-sabotaging analysis. Do you have joy? Confidence? Dare I say…FUN? No man wants a worried, anxious, stress…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/23 05:50 PM
1	Is therapy good enough of a reason to go into nun mode? Fear and Control by Dorcas Stutzman You should learn while in a relationship. Nun mode for 6mos is my advice, just don’t be surprised when you get in a relationship and find out nun mode didn’t ‘fix’ you.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/07/23 07:14 AM
5	want attention from other men? Age gap 🥰	/r/RedPillWomen	05/07/23 02:27 AM
2	Am I wrong to heal my trauma before settling down (and face hitting the wall) ? You’ll get the right man! Your heart is already in the right place ❤️	/r/RedPillWomen	05/07/23 02:25 AM
6	Am I wrong to heal my trauma before settling down (and face hitting the wall) ? I don’t subscribe to the modern notion of healing. It’s such an abstract concept. When has a person healed? Why is that a requirement for relationships? Can a person ever be healed? What about the when we’re in a relationship and get hurt? Do we break up and go on a journey of self discovery and ‘heal’? There’s a weird frantic dynamic that can come with being overly concerned with self growth and it puts a huge burden on the man and creates loads of unnecessary anxiety. It’s funny how things are…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/23 07:39 PM
17	Am I wrong to heal my trauma before settling down (and face hitting the wall) ? Wrong question. A well developed male won’t choose a chaotic woman regardless of age. If a man settles down with you and you have apparent trauma that sabotages his life, then he’s not a ‘HVM’. A better question is will the man you want choose to settle down with you? I’m not entirely sure why women think they control access to relationships. Focus on being feminine and doing the next thing and if a man wants you, he will choose you whether you’re ready or not.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/23 06:17 PM
4	Where to find a committed man when you’re in your 20s? Date older men. Go to local events to find them. When you do, be concerned with finding out his timeline for kids and marriage like nearly immediately. If it doesn’t fit yours, on to the next. Don’t get feelings until it makes sense to.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/23 06:08 PM
1	Talking about sex Options: A. Give him head B. Start being feminine and about doing feminine things C. Just chill it’s only been 3 weeks, have a life Maybe a combo of all of these would be best.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/23 05:57 PM
5	What is realistic to expect? Yes. You’re asking for too much. Perhaps even the wrong things. Being adored is a position to be earned. If a man gives it out for free, you’ll resent him for it anyways. Probs why you weren’t ‘attracted’ to him. You need to be looking for someone who will marry you and care for you for the rest of your life. Don’t choose men based off of feelings. They can grow later. Romance is Roman conjecture and is totally unnecessary for a workable and joyful marriage. Capitalize on the man who has the hig…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/23 01:54 AM
-2	Seeking Advice On Multiple Wives Do it. Who else will help you peel hard boiled eggs?	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/23 04:54 PM
24	I'm 27 and Never Had a Boyfriend... Yes. You’re wallowing in your own lazy self sabotage. If you want to be comfortable then be that and don’t complain. If you want a man to choose you, then do the work that would make him want to choose you and don’t complain.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/06/23 12:23 AM
1	How can I protect myself in a relationship/dating in general? Snatch him up girl what are you thinking!?	/r/RedPillWomen	30/06/23 12:21 AM
17	I'm 27 and Never Had a Boyfriend... Stop hating it. Do the work to make yourself appealing. There’s no shortcut.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/06/23 12:17 AM
2	Soybean Oil Destroys Oxytocin. Could this be one of the reasons when it comes to certain women not able to pair bond? Yes inflation sucks right now. There are creative ways to still get good foods. It won’t be organic and clean, but it’s something! Chicken, pork, and tuna are still cheap and are a lot better than carb based diets. Far more expensive now to eat fast food than to get boring grocery store foods!	/r/RedPillWomen	30/06/23 12:04 AM
2	Soybean Oil Destroys Oxytocin. Could this be one of the reasons when it comes to certain women not able to pair bond? Agreed. I eat mainly meat, dairy, and eggs. Lots of butter. I drink raw milk kefir blended with blueberries almost daily. Couldn’t care less about veggies and am thoroughly convinced they are unnecessary for a healthy diet. I’ve noticed a huge change since adding kefir to my routine! Here’s a link that talks about correlation between microbiome and oxytocin levels: couldn’t get it to link for some reason.. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8517432 #:~:text=Oxytocin%20is%20highly%20cor…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/06/23 02:38 AM
5	Confused about call with my bf Stop it. Sometimes people are just weird. Not everything is worth an investigation. Trust if he needs something, he will communicate it! I have to remind myself of the same exact thing!	/r/RedPillWomen	27/06/23 02:30 AM
12	Confused about call with my bf Stop thinking. Nothing needs to be worked out in this instance.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/06/23 02:24 AM
2	I keep getting asked “why” with why I don’t want a full time job or career :( Say you work for your fiance. Become unbothered.	/r/RedPillWives	27/06/23 12:16 AM
1	How can I respect my bf more? That's really good to hear that your dad likes him! Understand that your parents are a resource when it comes to dating. They have experience and truly care for you and what is in your best interests. I think you can keep the specifics of your relationship private whilst learning from more seasoned couples. You should be asking your mom, your grandma, aunts, cousins, etc. about what specifically you ought to do to be a good wife. Ask your dad about what it means to be a good man. Listen to his a…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/23 11:53 PM
1	The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexuality Perhaps tribalism...	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 11:38 PM
2	The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexuality I want my man to help motivate me to keep me thin and attractive. I mourn the ever fleeting days of my youth now, at 25. The catch is that women actually WANT to be objectified deep down. They’ve just been brainwashed into thinking they want a man’s job. If men had the courage to treat their women as objects to be used and cared for, I guarantee women would eat that stuff up. It’s no coincidence 50 Shades of Grey basically immediately topped the best seller lists all around the world… We need co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 02:43 AM
3	How to find a Christian partner? This is great! You’ve got the world ahead of you! Do you have a relationship with your father? I always first recommend his involvement because he will know how to see into a man’s ability and intention to care for you! I also always recommend expanding your desired age difference for so many reasons that I could go into if you’re interested. Unfortunately, most strong masculine men aren’t in church today because usually it’s lame and ran by women anyways. Do you have a church you belong to now?…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/06/23 12:45 AM
3	Family/Partner Conflict and Different Expectations It’s necessary to completely detach from our parents. My mom has conditioned us to constantly respond to her emotions. It has devastating effects on children. It’s made me get completely absorbed by my intimate relationships and resulted in extreme hypersensitivity to my physical surroundings and the people in them. It led to the mindset of ‘if the relationship isn’t okay, then I’m not okay.’ Once conflicting desires present, which inevitably, they do, then I’m consumed with both placating the o…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/06/23 11:45 PM
3	How can I respect my bf more? Where’s your father?	/r/RedPillWomen	25/06/23 10:27 PM
8	Should I put on my dating profile that I have a high body count? No. Never even mention it. Ever. Date men that are older than you. Imo like 7-15 years older. They’re wise enough to not ask. A man will most often reject a woman for being domineering, unattractive, boring, and/or too needy. If you are indeed being frequently rejected, odds are he’s not rejecting you for your body count.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/06/23 10:20 PM
2	How many sexual partners is too many for a 31-year-old woman Well no one is concerned about saving you from turning old and dying alone. Women get desperate when they hit the wall and men can feel that energy. Consider if that might be a possibility too! The majority of men already know what you’re looking for. We want babies and security from a strong masculine man who loves us. It’s practically universal. Better off not mentioning it until he asks you. You don’t have to be pushy about it but definitely by the second date, you need to know what exactly h…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/06/23 10:10 PM
2	How many sexual partners is too many for a 31-year-old woman That’s great! It sounds like you’re doing the right things. Are you seeing someone now? I always recommend asking off rip if he wants marriage and kids and what his timeline for that is (assuming you want that too). There’s no sense in catching feelings and wasting time on someone who doesn’t want what you want.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/06/23 09:50 PM
-2	How many sexual partners is too many for a 31-year-old woman A woman is no longer high value past a body count of 0. She can be medium value at best, even with all of the right feminine qualities. Women have been lied by the culture to and left greatly unprotected in our fight for equal authority. What’s done is done. Just pray the question never arises and certainly don’t offer it up! Don’t ask about his body count either. A smart man won’t ask your body count because he knows if you tell him the truth, you’ll either be promiscuous or a liar. He can’t wi…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/06/23 09:21 PM
4	Forced to become masculine You must be an INTJ-A like me 🤣 I don't think you'll have too many problems with independence by itself. Men like when women are grown adults! Bonus points for not making him responsible for carrying the weight of your emotions. The trouble only comes in when you start projecting that onto him. In relationships, my independence/willingness to steer my own life and make the hard decisions has resulted in transference onto my man on some level. Since I'm competent at making decisions, I naturally …	/r/RedPillWomen	24/06/23 04:00 AM
3	Climatizing to being a RPW Timelines don’t work. Especially when you’ve already had his child. You can’t force a man to do anything. If he does comply, he does so out of a sense of obligation. Do you want to be wifed up begrudgingly? Specifically what benefits would you be getting as a wife that you are not getting now? You already get his child, his money, his time, attention, and love… I imagine you’d have the same complaints you do now except you’d feel even more entitled. I can identify the attitude of rebellion becau…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/23 02:03 PM
1	Climatizing to being a RPW Ultimately whose the judge? You? At the end of the day you can’t both be calling the shots. If you married him, you’re stuck. If you are not married, consider first if perhaps your thought processing is flawed and if you’ve thoroughly done that and still find you cannot submit to him then leave. I will proceed as if you are married. Respect and submission have nothing to do with competency. Your husband doesn’t have to do anything to deserve your obedience. He is already a man regardless of your…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/23 01:37 PM
1	Climatizing to being a RPW Thank you!! I love to see this attitude is women! And I’m so happy it works for you. Often we’re so busy standing on our rights we cannot receive blessings! Ironically, it’s not until a woman makes herself submissive that her husband’s natural desire to do more than just show up at work is activated. He wants to lead and protect once he knows you’ll follow. ❤️	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/23 12:43 PM
5	Communication and ‘feminine energy’ You can express them. Pick the battles you have a chance at winning. I don’t believe you have a chance at winning this one. Men aren’t communicators. That’s not their job. The idea that communication is key is a load of crap. Choosing wisely before catching feelings is key. Communication is a woman’s game. Men are about action. You can find a man who will sit around and text you all day but that means giving up your current one and possibly not respecting the new one.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/23 05:08 AM
3	Communication and ‘feminine energy’ You can express whatever you want! I’m just saying in this instance, I wouldn’t. You’re trying to negotiate his attention. You can’t win. I doubt he has no idea that you want to talk to him as I’m sure you message him often. So he knows. Let’s assume that. What are his possible replies? If he says yes I can message more, it’s likely he will do so begrudgingly considering he’s aware that you want to talk. If he says no, which he probably wouldn’t because men don’t want to deal with the drama fill…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/23 05:03 AM
2	Communication and ‘feminine energy’ Okay well it might be helpful for future reference to put your request in caveman langue. In this instance your request is “talk to me more often”. If you were a man on the receiving end of this, how would you feel? It seems like trying to take his attention away from what he’s naturally focused on so that it may be on you instead. Can you see how this would come across as selfish and needy? It’s much better to wait for him to approach and then be pleasant. He will know you like him and perhaps …	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/23 04:55 AM
1	Communication and ‘feminine energy’ That is feminine in structure but I’m not certain that it is wise. It makes me have so many more questions…like how old are you two, what does he do for work, have you told him this before, and what’s the commitment level between you? I’m in an age gap relationship and I wouldn’t dare say that because he’s a grown man who has a life and is busy and I won’t demand to be the center of his universe. It’s unattractive. I have days where I hardly speak to my man. He needs space to think and exist wit…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/23 04:49 AM
1	Communication and ‘feminine energy’ Yes see my second paragraph. It’s okay to communicate your needs. And yes it’s okay to communicate it that way. Not okay to expect he meets the need because what you’re calling a need is actually a desire and he doesn’t have to submit to you. Communicate the desire then leave it be. Men aren’t stupid. They hear you the first time. Maybe could remind him politely once. Anything past that is nagging. I was trying to say that you ought to be really confident that your request is actually both neces…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/23 04:27 AM
1	18 years old and no romantic experience That’s a blessing you’re able to go to college for free. Just be mindful and protect your heart and mind while there. Never accept the ideology that the world is out to get you or that the most important thing is being strong and independent. Those ideas are extremely prevalent today and easy to fall for because they’re so well hidden and they’re sorta true but not completely. We need other people. We are social creatures. People also can be manipulative and nasty but that’s not about you. Only …	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/23 03:41 AM
10	Communication and ‘feminine energy’ First, let go of your need for control. He is every bit his own individual as you are. You cannot live in femininity while seeking control. That means you have to be okay with not getting what you want. The moment you become not okay when he doesn’t immediately placate you and get in your emotional state is the same moment in which you shift back into masculinity. Dominance, control, and assertion are masculine in nature. It’s okay to express your desires and you ought to. In moderation. Underst…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/23 03:22 AM
1	Never taught how to be a wife I’ve read that one too! Not as good as my fav but it’s definitely helpful in learning basics and differences in male v female perception	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/23 02:54 AM
2	Never taught how to be a wife Wives don’t want to obey their husbands despite it being a command. The book is centered around her purpose being confined to helping and submitting to her husband even when he doesn’t perform.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/23 01:08 AM
4	Never taught how to be a wife This one is a bit controversial but I’ve found great empowerment and direction in Created to be His Helpmeet by Debi Pearl. I recommend it to all of my friends! It’s based on the biblical standard of marriage but helpful for people who aren’t Christian as well :)	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/23 12:26 AM
5	Climatizing to being a RPW A traditional relationship to me is one in which the man rules and the woman follows. In all things. Including his standards. A red pill wife is just a modern term for a traditional marriage where the woman submits and she chooses a man based on our natural inclination called hypergamy. Submission is willful obedience. Be thankful he cleans or cooks at all! My man does all the typical man things - makes a mess, leaves the toilet paper roll empty, doesn’t take the trash out often, etc. and I feel…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/23 12:14 AM
3	I don't know if my partner is good for me anymore An unpopular opinion: Men really don’t want to hear your feelings every day. Rich or poor. You seem to have a lot of frantic energy even in this chat. I’d imagine your in person conversations mirror this. Even the best of guys can’t handle meltdowns. They just aren’t wired that way. They aren’t equipped. They shut down. And for good reason. When we get in that fear based emotional state we cannot think logically. A person cannot be simultaneously overwhelmed by emotions and thinking logically. I…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/06/23 09:58 AM
2	18 years old and no romantic experience Wow! This is so amazing to come across!!! You have no idea all that you have going for you. Yes to no social media. Yes to virginity. Yes to no romance. Step one: don’t go to college Ok I’m biased… but still the whole college scene is terrible for women. On average, women major in careers that don’t make much money and take on a lot of debt. They typically use that time to be degenerate by having sex and going to parties to “fit in”. Men I know would take a debt free virgin over an “educated” en…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/06/23 09:06 AM
3	Any thoughts on the RP canon "you CANNOT negotiate attraction"? I don’t agree with this redpill idea - at least not entirely. I don’t think the issue is attraction/desire. I think the issue is the criteria that women set. First, to answer your questions, don’t vet for attraction at all and yes attraction can develop. Attraction is not a reliable variable to vet for because we already select based off of physical appearance. No one is going on dates with men that aren’t attractive enough physically to garner attention. My most straight forward advice is to lo…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/06/23 08:17 AM