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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	Having a very hard time Truly horrible advice given in these comments if you are trying to to save your marriage. I would advise that you do not leave the house unless you have concrete evidence of cheating. That is the one mistake I made that I wish I could do over. Once you're out of the house and she gets to live on her own and start possibly doing better, it will be nearly impossible to reconcile.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/24 04:10 PM
6	Divorce was my fault It's crazy how clear it can all be in the rearview mirror. I have experienced the same. But while we are in it day in and day out, we can't really see how things really are and what we should do immediately to help change the trajectory of the failing marriage. It's a good post you made and hopefully can help somebody self-reflect and make changes before it's too late. Unfortunately, if someone is reading this forum, it may well be too late.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/24 06:15 PM
3	I want to abandon my children This is great advice!	/r/Divorce_Men	05/10/22 08:59 PM
1	I lost the desire to live. I think even if the spouse is gone for good, there is good advice here on how to communicate and act during this chaotic and deeply hurtful time for the newly separated and devastated among us.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/22 03:57 PM
-1	I lost the desire to live. Watch this video asap: https://youtu.be/5Rb1CIgt37I It helped me tremendously 7 months ago when we had a sudden and unexpected separation. Once I started doing the things in this video, things started to change between my wife and I for the better. Still a work in progress and in intense therapy together but in a much better place.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/22 09:33 PM
4	Losing one of my children to the dark side. Some of it was and some of it wasn't. But rather than try to defend myself or question the inaccurate stuff I chose to just take it and it made a difference it seems.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/07/22 12:32 PM
27	Losing one of my children to the dark side. So sorry, man. Been there and it hurts. One thing that happened with my angry daughter was that she wrote me a letter and absolutely ripped me a new one (several new ones). Then, she disowned me and told me not to respond and give her space. So I respected her wishes and did exactly that. Fast forward, 3 years later (now) and we have never been so close. I just let her rage at me and then let her go do what she needed to do and then little by little she started contacting me again and it was ama…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/07/22 12:44 AM

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