OkFuel9953 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	How to successfully date if I have autism, not funny, and have an overly logical and formal way of speaking?	OkFuel9953	/r/ExRedPill	21/05/24 11:44 PM
14	How can I get into a relationship as a male virgin at 25? How should I address this if I get into a relationship? How should I go about that when the time comes?	OkFuel9953	/r/ExRedPill	20/05/24 06:14 AM
11	How to date as a 25 year old late bloomer?	OkFuel9953	/r/ExRedPill	02/06/24 04:12 PM
4	How do I appear confident around dates and women?	OkFuel9953	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/24 04:43 PM
2	I (25M) have a weird voice, sounds like a cartoon character or teenager, and is not that deep, will it hold me back that much in dating?	OkFuel9953	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/24 05:43 AM

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1	How to date as a 25 year old late bloomer? I’ve done online research into this, but it’s hard to apply that stuff in real time as every situation is unique and I can’t think quick sometimes. For example when I was approaching at a club, someone gave me feedback that my eyes were too wide and this was scaring people. This is a change I made and that’s made ppl more receptive to my conversations in general. Another thing someone told me was to be careful with physical gestures and advances at the wrong time, this is also something I’ve tak…	/r/ExRedPill	02/06/24 06:36 PM
4	How to date as a 25 year old late bloomer? I’ve done online research into this, but it’s hard to apply that stuff in real time as every situation is unique and I can’t think quick sometimes. For example when I was approaching at a club, someone gave me feedback that my eyes were too wide and this was scaring people. This is a change I made and that’s made ppl more receptive to my conversations in general.	/r/ExRedPill	02/06/24 06:29 PM
9	How to date as a 25 year old late bloomer? The problem is in my area these days there are no established 3rd spaces with both younger crowds and guaranteed/repeat interaction.	/r/ExRedPill	02/06/24 05:37 PM
0	How to date as a 25 year old late bloomer? Oh I’m 100% sure of that. I know many men my age in similar spot I am with this stuff	/r/ExRedPill	02/06/24 05:36 PM
4	I feel like the guys that exhibit the qualities that people talk about as bad and unattractive to women are the guys women want to be around the most I also have my group of my friends in the same boat as me on this stuff, but have noticed those “asshole types” do well with women. The women are attracted to the swagger, confidence, and good looks of the “assholes”. My take is it is possible for someone to be a genuinely good and genuine man and still have success with women. I’ve seen some men who were good guys also have success with dating and relationships. They were physically attractive, fun, and confident guys and were also nice at the …	/r/ExRedPill	29/05/24 03:48 PM
2	How do I look less threatening to women? You don’t seem threatening from the jump. I’m tryna work on seeming more natural myself (am mildly autistic). I’d say use a natural and clear speaking voice (from the stomach, but also don’t try too hard to force it to be deeper than it is). Make sure you speak not too fast and breathe before you speak. Have a chill smile and nod when listening to people in conversations. Smile and have a level of enthusiasm while you are speaking, but don’t make the smile seem forced or too wide (and don’t seem…	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/24 06:29 PM
14	Is it really true that attractive men often have sex with different partners? Guys like this are out there, but it is more due to their mindset around relationships rather than the fact they are handsome. I knew a select few guys in college who were conventionally attractive and had suave and charming personalities, and they just focused on bedding as many girls as possible and weren’t really focused on relationships. One of them I knew cheated on his girlfriend at the time, and the other guy would always brag about his body count and shame virgins. There were other “hand…	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/24 05:11 PM
5	How to successfully date if I have autism, not funny, and have an overly logical and formal way of speaking? How would that help lol, if my natural personality isn’t like that. I don’t have that stereotypical neurotypical personality.	/r/ExRedPill	22/05/24 04:29 AM
6	How to successfully date if I have autism, not funny, and have an overly logical and formal way of speaking? I have autism and my father is also a more logical and reserved man, and I don’t have older brothers. Didn’t have many friends as a kid. How do I learn to “be funny”, most of my jokes are weird or don’t land and I don’t know how to emulate content in standup shit in real life situations lol. Am too autistic lmao. Usually I make things weird when I try to be funny or break some sort of invisible social rules.	/r/ExRedPill	22/05/24 03:32 AM
0	I feel like I've done literally everything possible in my power to hedge my bets with women and dating and it's never mattered Unpopular opinion: If you are BOTH socially challenged/neurodivergent to a degree where it impacts your dating and not genetically attractive enough then you will have a hard time dating, and there is only so much “self improvement” can do. You might have a better time taking the passport bro route. Either a) passport bro route b) drop your standards or c) keep playing the numbers game until you get a “yes”.	/r/ExRedPill	17/05/24 05:57 PM
2	How do I appear confident around dates and women? I’m a decent conversationalist and have friends, but I struggle w reading social cues and “being funny”. I’ve gotten better at those things but takes some work.	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/24 08:08 PM
2	How do I appear confident around dates and women? I have autism, so social situations I mess up at a lot and are challenging	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/24 05:57 PM
2	I (25M) have a weird voice, sounds like a cartoon character or teenager, and is not that deep, will it hold me back that much in dating? I’d say I am a fairly knowledgeable guy and am decent to talk to people say	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/24 06:28 AM