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No. I’m right. Men wrongly interpret any form of romantic rejection as a sign of hatred or aggression from the female sex, which leads them overdramatizing their circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:47 AM
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They are routinely mocked and bullied, you just don’t realize it because these women are invisible to you. 80%? Men are just dramatic, seriously. They think any woman who doesn’t immediately want to throw her pussy their way automatically despises them, I don’t trust this statistic at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:34 AM
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Gaslighting. You still don’t empathize with those women, you ignore or bully them. Stop the virtue signalling. If school and life taught me one thing it’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:28 AM
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Men still don’t empathize with lonely women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:51 PM
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No. That’s not where it originated. It became a way to mock single suffragettes/first and second wave feminists because they had the audacity to ask for the right to vote and open bank accounts. It’s since been used to mock any single woman that’s been unlucky in love or doesn’t jump through hoops to get a piece of penis. Like I said the hatred of lonely women spans decades and even centuries, only male loneliness is treated like some terrible thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:47 PM
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LOL no they don’t. Men have spent years laughing at the archetype of the spinster and lonely cat lady, they’ve never hesitated to throw this is the face of women whenever they stepped out of line, taking great glee in it. Only male loneliness is considered a “epidemic” that society must bend over backwards to fix because everyone is afraid you’ll violently lash out like disgruntled toddlers if you aren’t appeased. Edit: So you want women to lead men on? What do you mean you are treating her well…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:42 PM
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I mean faked, sorry if that wasn’t clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:19 PM
3

The same can be said about women and finances. A woman can still love you if you are broke but is unable to stay in a relationship due to financial constraints. Women can love at a distance also.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:40 PM
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Not exactly. It’s much more subtle than that. Yes location can be tagged, no it can’t really be gamed. Sometimes men take selfies at home. I look at the background. It’ll be better if he brought me in person. Hobbies and collectibles that require a money to participate in but might not be noticeable to everyone unless you are in the know or are looking. Yes, especially if he was in a frat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:36 PM
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Everything I spoke about was love, all of what I said can be attributed to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:20 PM
1

Apart from knowing his occupation, so many different ways. Location. If I’ve met him at a particular place then I’ll know. His tagged locations on instagram. I don’t bother looking for fancy clothes or items, anyone can rent/fake those. The only thing I will note is his house, especially the interior. Perhaps cars but not the flashy sports cars people are thinking of. His hobbies and collectables School
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:19 PM
3

Almost all of this can be applied to the points OP outlined above.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:02 PM
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This is what I mean the absolute virtue signalling, like just stop. It’s not a large minority it’s a very, very tiny minority, it’s most definitely not larger in comparison to that of women. Almost every woman I know has been cheated on at some point in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:53 PM
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Large minority? This is what I mean when I say you try and virtue signal and try to make yourselves look better. This is the majority of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:48 PM
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Men will cheat at a drop of a hat, even if they’re getting regular sex. If a man has the opportunity to do so he will most definitely act on it. Men are extremely opportunistic, they just love to gaslight women into believing otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:31 PM
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Continue to put words in my mouth. One thing I’ve learned on this site is that you can’t argue with the personal delusions of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:22 PM
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Financially stable was right beside the word well-off, once again if you got the wrong idea it was due to your terrible comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:18 PM
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It’s not lazy, you just don’t understand the proper definition of the word. Don’t get pissed at me for your lack of comprehension. Men have to be brought down to reality one way or another, the virtue signalling is starting to irk me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:12 PM
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What’s wrong with monkey branching? Men wouldn’t hesitate to have sex with a more attractive woman than their current partner, why shouldn’t a woman switch to a more well off male?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:10 PM
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Well-off definition according to the Collin’s dictionary: having sufficient money for comfortable living. Get a dictionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:05 PM
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All human beings need money so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:04 PM
1

So what? I honestly don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:03 PM
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Feminism has given women agency for perhaps the first time in history. I wouldn’t consider myself a liberal feminist but let’s be honest here this is what men particularly dislike about feminism, the fact women don’t have to choose between being some random man’s eternal bang maid or starving/being destitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:03 PM
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Sex doesn’t mean a man loves or even likes you, it means he needs a hole to rut in. There’s nothing genuine about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:01 PM
3

Do I expect a man to provide me with financial stability, no, but he needs to financially stable/well off himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:35 PM
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Men can lie to themselves and virtue signal all they like, doesn’t change reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:32 PM
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This is exactly what I mean. All relationships are transactional and men have specific expectations that they expect to receive, but they love to virtue signal and pretend women are the only ones who have these expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:25 PM
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Yes, especially if you have his kids. He’ll be disgusted by your post-pregnancy body.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:20 PM
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Financial stability greatly impacts the quality of relationships. Wasn’t the most cited reasons for divorce financial issues. Like I said men’s needs aren’t the only ones that matter in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:15 PM
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Isn’t assuming that men need sex like touch starved children misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:46 PM
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Neither are women’s. Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:40 PM

Write properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:40 PM
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For certain women, a man who is willing to provide and do acts of service for you and your children is a sign of affection. Why should your desires be fulfilled and not mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:38 PM
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For certain women, a man who is willing to provide and do acts of service for you and your children is a sign of affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:33 PM
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Sex is a need for men? Great, a financially stable partner is also a need for most women. Are men the only people who deserve to have their needs fulfilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:29 PM
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Women also have a need for financial stability, why shouldn’t she elsewhere if you aren’t satisfying this need? Or are men the only ones who deserve to have their needs fulfilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:24 PM

I could literally say all of this about men LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:58 PM
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I can’t ask a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:54 PM
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I’ve had guys try and message me on Reddit. I found it revolting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:48 PM
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Just a question to the mods. I reported the very last comment but it’s still up? Are rape threats allowed on here? Here’s the link too if you need it. https://preview.redd.it/nytq2r1cj98c1.jpeg?width=1382&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=72f8d26b99f2aee785eb34da86db9a3fd1dd2788 u/PPD-Angel u/GridReXX u/BiggerDthanYou u/SpaceWhiskey
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:43 PM
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I don’t care about lonely men. There I said it. I’ve been on this site for a couple weeks now and I’ve had multiple men who cry about women’s standards and male loneliness threaten me with rape. Some of you deserve to be alone and I don’t feel bad, it’s for the best actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:24 PM
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Yes, but only someone who was high functioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:18 PM
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Money ran out and she was stuck being a depressed hospice wife… And men had the audacity to argue with me when I said the only way I’d be with an older man is if he has a large bank account. The only time the cons outweigh the pros of being with an older man is if he has an extreme amount of money that will be used to support you, otherwise you are seriously down grading.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:33 AM
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I don’t have personal social media accounts where I post pictures and for a long time I was never approached by guys. It never made me more attracted to the men around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:43 PM
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Not all men. A sizeable percentage of you. Continue to cope, you know what you are deep down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:17 PM
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Notice how all the men are suddenly saying that there’s nothing wrong with acting on attraction but that attitude shifts when women are attracted to money. This is why there’s nothing wrong with being a gold digger, you should ignore men who try and tell you otherwise because it’s just their male bias speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:14 PM
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This is all true. Repeating that men don’t commit the majority of sex crimes doesn’t make it true either. To claim otherwise is pure delusion. Continue to cope but deep down you know the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:00 PM
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The only time I’ve ever seen women be truly provided for is when they intentionally seek that out and accept no less from their potential partners, or they are very attractive and it just comes effortlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:31 AM
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I guess. That can be an awkward conversation for some women though. Oh well to each their own idrc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:22 AM
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Why? This is faster, more convenient and easier. Planning is only valuable if it’s done in advance, it’s just to get a rough estimate. I don’t see the harm in it. It’s not like I’m hacking into his bank account.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:15 AM
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Why not? It’s just a quick google search. It’s good to know for the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:35 AM
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It not a double standard it’s fair. If men can judge women based on their age why shouldn’t we able to judge them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:02 PM
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It is a scientific way. Most if not all crimes are a form of deviancy, since they diverge from social norms and undermine social conventions. Sex crimes are a form of sexual deviancy. Men are more likely to be sexual deviants and predators. So what if male rapes are under reported, so are female rapes. Even if all women were rightfully prosecuted, there would still be more male sex offenders because men commit more sex crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:59 PM
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Read the last sentence of the original comment. It’s right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:36 PM
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Why are you asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:20 PM
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Because it is. Sure there are some younger women who find significantly older men attractive but it’s nothing compared to the amount of men who find younger women attractive. It’s precisely why if I decided to date older I would only be with a man accept a who upgrade my lifestyle because I’m more valuable and sought after than he is at his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:13 PM
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She already did, can’t you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:02 PM
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Sex crimes very clear forms of sexual degeneracy. Men are more likely to engage in them, therefore men are more sexually deviant. There we go I just measured it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:59 PM
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Why shouldn’t you be judged according to your age? Men do so with women all the time. It’s not misandry, it’s reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:41 PM
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Almost half of Americans have some sort of kink. Kinks overall aren’t abnormal, some are but not all. I’m just pointing out that sex crimes and paraphilia’s are more prevalent among men, on all scales of what you consider to be sexual degeneracy men greatly exceed women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:35 PM

Being kinky is not the same as being a sexual degenerate/deviant lol. Even if it was, men are still more likely to develop paraphilia’s and engage in paraphilic activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:55 PM
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Money. That’s all they really have to offer. To suggest otherwise is pure delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:16 PM
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Isn’t this basically what I’ve been saying the entire time?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:10 PM
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Yes, age influences compatibility. There’s a difference in life experience and maturity. Older man loudly proclaim their desire to specifically seek out younger women, why shouldn’t we demand something from them to make up for their many less attractive qualities? Like I said this is just male delusion talking. You can scream about how much you wanna bang 20 year olds but the moment she demands something from you, you all start crying about love and emotional connection. It’s almost pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:57 PM
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My ideal man isn’t a polygamist and only interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:47 PM
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What sense does it make for a younger woman to be with a sub-par older man? Your sperm quality, physical attractiveness and health are declining and you don’t have sufficient wealth to outweigh that disadvantage. We all want to snag the hottest person around but unfortunately we have to be aware of our value and be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:38 PM
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I don’t know where you’re living where most older women are losers, this isn’t the majority at all. But for the ones whose lives didn’t turn out how they expected, they openly tell other women not to make the same mistakes. I will gleefully take that advice. You’re a man you just wouldn’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:35 PM
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If older men just wanted love and compatibility they would find a woman their age, so don’t give me that bullshit. If you can have preferences for women in their twenties why shouldn’t I have preferences for wealth? This is male delusion talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:31 PM
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Of course women are capable of doing those things but the fact remains that men do them at double or triple the rate, or even more. Men are overall more inclined to participate in sexual degeneracy, that’s just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:28 PM
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Shiver me timbers! Redditor, RedditIsCenorship2, the super autist has us all figured out ladies! Whatever shall we do! 😭 No one gives a shit bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:18 AM
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Hence the lying. I’ve had friends who’ve been with numerous men but still tells guys they have only have 2-3 bodies, they’re none the wiser. It’s not hard to feign innocence, just avoid giving out in-depth details on your previous sex life all together or bat your lashes and act shy when they ask 🤷🏾‍♀️ If you make the mistake of telling him too much information obviously he’s going to figure things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:13 AM
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Women are sexual deviants yet men account for the majority of rapist, sex crimes and child sexual predators, interesting. Nothing but pure projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:58 AM
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Obviously to people who are sexually attracted to each other are going to interact with each other differently, you don’t have some magical sixth sense because you can figure that out 😂 if you could guess the body count of random passing women on the street then that would be impressive. Until then, I’m pretty sure women are in the clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:48 AM
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I know. That’s why lying is a thing. None of you can magically detect a woman’s body count unfortunately. Thank god for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:18 AM
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I just explained why! Like multiple times!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:15 AM
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Your odds are better with someone who has potential then someone who’s washed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:10 AM
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Womp, womp. I don’t feel bad. That’s what you get for suppressing our nature for centuries, it’s caused it to burst to the surface in an unhealthy way. This is a problem of men’s own making.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:07 AM
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Young men have the potential to grow, to better themselves and create value in their life. They simply just haven’t had enough time to cultivate such. An older man who is low value does not. Most likely his window of opportunity has passed and he will never progress in life. This makes him an inherently worse option due to his lack of potential. Don’t you get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:58 AM
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Yeah, I know. I’m actually from a poorer foreign country (I now live in the west), I know what goes down. That’s how my aunty became a SAHM, she married some old business man from China. She was able to leave her job as a banker because of him. I’m not gonna knock her hustle. If you’re an older man explicitly looking for a younger woman I think you should have something of substantial value to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:26 AM
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I just explained why. You are older! You had significantly more time to mature, and create something substantial for yourself compared to a man who left high school a handful of years ago and hasn’t had nearly as much time to prove themselves. You aren’t young and dumb anymore, it’s childish to want to be judged on the same scale as a man in his mid-early twenties. You have more social expectations and responsibilities, that’s what it means to be an adult! If you are an older man with nothing to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:24 AM
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Doesn’t exactly have to be the top 10% but honestly I kinda agree. I wouldn’t bother dating an older man unless my overall quality of life would increase like moving up the socioeconomic ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:55 AM
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If you’re a low value-average at best older man, you aren’t the best partner available for a younger woman in her prime years. That’s the point I’m trying to make here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:46 AM
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Obviously on not all older men are bitter and jaded with kids but on average many are. Younger men with less baggage are just more common plus they have the potential to grow and have their entire life ahead of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:41 AM
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Did you not read OP’s post? They’re specifically talking about lower value older men who don’t fit into women’s standards. If you’re a grown man with a fully developed frontal lobe, why should you be judged on the same level as a man who left high school just a couple years ago? You had numerous years to mature and build yourself up, you should be held to a higher standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:39 AM
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Did you not read OP’s post? They’re specifically talking about lower value older men who don’t fit into women’s standards. If you’re a grown man with a fully developed frontal lobe, why should you be judged on the same level as a man who left high school just a couple years ago? You had numerous years to mature and build yourself up, you should be held to a higher standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:39 AM
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Aren’t what? What do mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:34 AM
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Older men tend to be more jaded and bitter, especially the ones of lower value. They’re more likely to have kids or be divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:31 AM
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I can’t control his life. He’s could just do better, have a better partner and perhaps a better life if he had the guidance of an older man in his life. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:19 AM
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If a flawed 30+ year old low income woman was chasing after men in their early twenties, expecting them to love her despite her flaws at her big age, then yes I would. Being delusional is not cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:06 AM
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It’s true though. They’re no longer young and dumb, they should be treated like the grown ass men with fully-developed frontal lobes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:00 AM
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Sure everyone has flaws, but I can easily find men of my own age with less baggage and more potential with his entire life ahead of him. Older men should be judged to a higher standard than younger men. You’ve had more time to mature and build yourself, you should have something to show for it. Even if a woman finds older men attractive, doesn’t mean you should just accept any old guy, you should find one that is accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:54 AM
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Younger women just don’t realize their value and how precious their youth and beauty is. Wasting that on a flawed older man is stupid. I recognize this as a younger woman myself. If I were to date someone significantly older, I would naturally demand significantly more than I would the men of my age group or even the average man. I wouldn’t want some older loser who can’t measure up to the standards of women his own age. Listening to older women has made me realize just how precious my prime yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:44 AM
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I’ll add this. One of the top most viewed porn categories by women is gangbang and double penetration. I’ve been reading romance/erotic novels since I was nine, one of the most popular tropes within the genre is the reverse harem trope, where 1 woman is in a relationship with multiple men who are sexually exclusive with the heroine only. Men really have no idea it’s crazy…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:50 AM
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Women being able to cheat is just as “natural” as it for men. From a scientific standpoint, putting emotions aside, paternity fraud makes a lot of evolutionary sense, but it doesn’t benefit men therefore they deem it unnatural due to their own internal bias. I honestly think women are a little more promiscuous than people think. Without threats, oppression and coercion from religious institutions or society they will naturally take on more mates, which is what we’re seeing in the current era. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:38 AM
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I don’t like coffee so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:33 PM
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What does this have to do with my comment though?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:27 PM
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Why are you asking me this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:20 PM
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Everyone should have standards and seek out partners with the appropriate qualifications, that itself isn’t wrong but the way you go about it makes all the difference. To put it plainly the question is tacky and tasteless. It shows you have no manners or social awareness. I wouldn’t go up to a man I just met and ask him bluntly how much money he brings into the relationship that’s rude and classless. If you have basic social skills you can find all that information out without being so abrasive.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:31 PM
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Stop being a snowflake, it was a sarcastic hypothetical joke, laugh. Rape is hilarious to you but you draw the line at murder, pull yourself up by your bootstraps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:38 PM

Let’s be honest here you’d probably be too busy getting brutally slaughtered to rape anyone in war silly redditor, but by all means go ahead I’d love to see it!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:19 PM
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Even if every single woman was rightfully charged, it would never compare to the amount of men incarcerated because they collectively just commit more crime. Why? Because they have a higher capacity for degeneracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:42 AM

That actually sounds so funny. The sadistic side of me wants this to happen just because I’m curious to see how bad the so called “male loneliness epidemic” would get if women stopped having relationships/sex with men en masse
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:37 AM
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Studies show women are more religious. You’re the one making baseless assumptions. Men collectively have high moral standards yet you account for the majority of sexual and violent crime, very interesting. Let’s face it here fathers know what dangers men are capable of because they are men themselves that’s why they fear for their daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:19 AM
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Men don’t have a special moral compass. Have you ever even been around teenage boys/younger men? Most will seek out what is dangerous and reckless for a thrill but luckily for them the vast majority women aren’t truly dangerous. There are far more dangerous men, they might not be the majority but they are numerous and aren’t hard to come across.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:56 AM
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Dangerous and treacherous men are more common and numerous than truly dangerous and treacherous women, so obviously a father doesn’t have to fear for his son in the same manner due the difference in probability.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:36 AM
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It’s not that women are more flawed then men, men are just inherently more dangerous and treacherous. A younger man will be somewhat fine on his own because women generally don’t pose much of a serious threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:27 AM
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Not exactly. This might ruffle some feathers but it’s just some conclusions I’ve come after some time. Women don’t get dirtied by the act of sex but by the man himself, because male nature is inherently corrupt and anything that comes into any form of contact with it becomes blemished. Just see how society fetishizes woman-woman sex acts, I don’t mean to suggest that lesbians/bi women don’t experience homophobia but they aren’t thought to be sullied in the same way a woman who has been deflowere…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:09 AM
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Men are inherently tainted or “dirty” while women are inherently pure like an unblemished like a sheet of snow. A woman becoming sexually involved with a man is equivalent to running a white dress through the mud or cow manure. While a man getting involved with a woman is like being dirty and taking a nice bath. No one knows this more than men themselves. Disclaimer: these aren’t necessarily my personal beliefs but observations I’ve come realize from men and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:45 PM
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None. Public figures lie all the time, ideally a man’s role model would be a good older man in their life. But I understand that not everyone has that. Likewise for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:43 PM
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I often wonder if being a simp is actually men’s most primal and natural state. Like when I hear men speak about women they do so in a way you would an all powerful being, like Satan or God. They approach you with this air of desperation that is so distinct it’s almost palpable, you can see it in their eyes even before they speak. It reminds me of when I was in church and the pastor used to call all the worshippers up to the altar. The anger they feel at being rejected also reminds me of how I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:48 PM
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Because this is reality. When you’re gambling your entire survival on a single man you can’t afford to be willfully optimistic. Shitty relationships weren’t uncommon back when SAHMs were the norm and they aren’t uncommon now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:17 PM
3

Travelling together.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:59 PM
13

Being a SAHM sounds nice but I don’t trust the majority of men enough to have my survival be completely dependent on one with no way out, I’d rather work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:54 PM

Every time I see a post/comment complaining about women’s dating standards I imagine that wojack of a dude angry crying and I laugh inside. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:51 AM
2

Oh spare me the guilt trip. I hate it when men act like virgin women are supposed to be a dumping ground for their shit sex and we should just happily accept their sub-par dick because we supposedly don’t know any better, as if we don’t have any personal desires of our own or we don’t have expectations for our first time. You seriously think it’s unreasonable for someone to be upset that their first time, a pivotal milestone in their life, was shitty? Like get a grip, anyone would be upset
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:14 AM
7

Why do men think virgin women are stupid? We aren’t living under a bridge, we know sex is supposed to be pleasurable. Most of us have masturbated and we’ve consumed erotic content. I’m a virgin but I’ll sure as hell notice if my partner isn’t giving me pleasure or hasn’t made me cum and I’m going to be super upset. Most virgin women expect their first time to be pleasurable experience actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:29 PM
3

It only matters if he’s willing to share that money with me or use it to upgrade my lifestyle. If not it serves no purpose to me, it’ll be there like a shiny ornament; pretty but useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:09 PM
2

Ehhh not really. Most women I know would take a tall skinny/somewhat fit guy over a jacked short/average height dude. Being super jacked helps but it’s not really a requirement for most women it even turns some women off, unlike height. Most women want a guy that’s at least taller than them, I definitely do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:39 PM
2

Most people’s priorities shift at that age. Women become more serious, marriage minded and their behaviour in dating reflect that. They rate more holistically rather than just physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:02 PM
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They’re young and want to have fun before life gets serious, which includes exercising their options to their full extent. And you know what they’re not wrong for doing that, you’re only young once. Date older if you want to be with someone who’s more mature with their priorities in check, like 25-33 year old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:18 PM
3

The money could cover hospital bills, baby carriers, baby clothes and pampers etc… the stuff you need to stock up on before the baby comes along. Also it can cover the mothers rent and groceries since technically the mothers well being=the babies well being since they are inhabiting her body and pregnancy makes women unable to work for an extended period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:07 PM
49

I like this idea. It’s only fair since red states are banning abortion, might as well make unborn child support a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:16 PM
6

Money. That’s all really. Do as the sugar babies do and drain their money while you can, youth and beauty are priceless and they should be charged appropriately. If they’re going to view you as a product with an expiration date you might as well view them as an atm. Don’t get invested, have an exit plan and move on when appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:21 AM
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No. The only way I would agree to this is if I was allowed to have sex outside of the relationship too. I’m not cuckholding myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:19 AM

True tbh. As a young woman I’m admittedly very apprehensive of older men. I’ve seen young women with their entire future ahead of them, ruin their potential by getting wrapped up in some old man’s drama and baggage. They’re sorta akin to parasites looking to leach off of a woman’s youth. Before you know it you’ve wasted your prime years on some old fart with almost nothing to show for it. Also most of them just aren’t attractive, I can’t fathom the concept of younger women finding older men genu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:44 AM
1

I’ve been reading romance novels and watching anime since I was 11. -I theorize my love for youthful men who are sorta feminine in the face comes from anime. -I loved reverse harem type romance novels and anime growing up. If I had it my way I would have 2-3 pretty brother-husbands in a perfect polyandrous relationship, it’s a sexual fantasy of mine. -I like the idea of man who is kinda obsessed with me probably due to all of the dark romance I’ve read growing up. -For a while I genuinely though…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:22 AM
4

I already explained this under another comment. I mean generous as in someone who isn’t selfish, like he has a genuine desire to please me too. I don’t expect him to bang me like a pornstar for the first time but he has to have a genuine interest in learning my likes and how to please me. Aren’t most men in their late teens-early twenties studying in school? Most aren’t working a 9 to 5. Isn’t it normal for men in their late teens-early twenties to be virgins? Everything I’m asking here is super…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:22 PM

I think it’s ok as long as you have some self awareness that you’re essentially looking for a unicorn, aren’t constantly whining and accepted that you might not find what you’re looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:47 AM
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Yeah. I don’t think that’s unrealistic. By generous I mean he isn’t selfish when it comes to sex, like he has a genuine desire to please me too. Just because you’re a virgin doesn’t mean you can’t be a considerate lover. As for the kinks, virgins aren’t sheltered babies most of us have an idea of what turns us on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:09 AM
3

I wouldn’t say rare, it’s unrealistic to be physically attracted to the vast majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:57 AM
2

No. A quarter to maybe half at most or if it’s a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:46 AM
2

Depends on the class and its size.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:43 AM
11

Yes, it is. I don’t think it’s uncommon for men in their late teens to early twenties to be virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:30 AM
2

I already said in the beginning that I’m opening to pretty much anything as long as it wasn’t anything that it didn’t automatically turn me off. As a virgin I don’t know everything but I think I know myself well and I’m open to exploring. I can’t give you an exact number because I was never counting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:15 AM
3

Don’t kinks vary among men? Different men like different things don’t they? I’m a virgin of course I don’t know what actual sex feels like but I have an idea, I know what pleasure feels like. I’ve consumed erotic content I know what gets me aroused and what doesn’t. Like I said I’m not sheltered. Like I said I don’t leave the house. I’m not actively analyzing the faces of people when I do. I mostly leave the house for school. Among the familiar male faces I see there it depends on the class. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:04 AM
15

Too old for me at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:41 AM
8

I tend to avoid eye contact because my social anxiety. I don’t make it a habit to look at or star at people long enough to assess their facial features, especially not men. I’m a virgin not a sheltered child. I understand sex, I’ve consumed a lot of erotic content (novels, BL, movies, porn, etc…) with different types of kinks and dynamics. I know my personal preferences and limits, it’s fairly instinctual, I know what sounds hot, strange, meh or uncomfortable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:40 AM
6

Idk. I don’t really leave my house and when I do I don’t really pay attention to people. What do you mean how would I know? If your partners kink was shitting on ppl, would you need them to physically shit on your chest to know whether or not you would like it? No, you’d just know instinctively that you wouldn’t enjoy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:18 AM
6

-Face: Idk. I don’t rate people out of 10. I sort them into categories: indifferent, meh, cute, pretty and I can’t stop staring. My partner would have to be at least cute. -Height: I’m 5’6ft so that’s only one inch taller than me. The vast majority of men are taller than me. The average height for males in my country is 5’10ft so I feel like that’s reasonable. -Personality: I need someone who will balance my more negative qualities such as my introversion and passiveness out. -Yes I am a virgin.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:07 AM
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-Looks: I need to at least be fairly physically attracted to my partner. So that means he’ll have to be taller than me so 5’7ft+. He doesn’t have to be muscular but at least slim/skinny. Everything else can be pretty much negotiable. Good hygiene + grooming habits is a must. -Age: Within his late teens to early twenties. I’m not attracted to older men. -Job: As of right now I don’t expect the guy I’m dating to be financially stable or even necessarily working but he needs to at least have some p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:46 AM
5

For the vast majority of the time, no. Not being approached by guys hasn’t hindered my worth as a woman since middle/high school. I don’t really care, especially if I’m not particularly attracted to the men around me in the first place. The only time I’ve ever felt inadequate is if there are other pretty girls around getting fawned over then I feel slightly jealous, not because I necessarily want these men but because I envy the social currency/status of those women. I might feel shitty if the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:32 PM
0

They tend to have cultivated better social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:25 PM
3

Maybe idk. 🤷🏾‍♀️ I can see how that sort of archetype might be appealing to some women or be initially attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:18 PM
2

Some girls have a sorta inc*l fetish. I’m not even trying to be funny. It’s a whole thing in the circles I run in where women intentionally want bfs that are “loser-ish”. Their awkwardness can be cute and endearing, I can see the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:00 PM
4

Being single isn’t the best but it’s better than being in a subpar or bad relationship. Things could be worse is my mindset. The desire and frustration is there. I mostly just try and indulge myself in my hobbies. I also don’t project my misery onto other people so you probably won’t even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:47 PM
1

It’s to offer a service and product. Porn for a price. That’s what these men are getting, they aren’t being robbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:22 PM
1

No you just don’t know how only fans works or the business model.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:09 PM
1

No it’s not. I’ve seen people give waiters large tips ranging from 100-300 bucks are they being abused and they do so regularly because they enjoy their company? Are they being abused? This isn’t any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:01 PM
1

Like I said those are accumulated donations/tips over an extended period of time, he gave out of his own free will. He’s not spending $60k in one go. It’s not illegal to tip.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:55 PM
1

Paternity fraud has evolved as a mating strategy for a reason, perhaps because it’s proven to be evolutionarily beneficial at least in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:51 AM
1

How is that any different than your internet provider advertising to you other plans or perks when you call them about customer service or something? This isn’t illegal, it’s a form of marketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:42 AM
1

No it not. This is a flat out lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:32 AM
1

No it’s not. It’s to offer a more personalized experience which will naturally cost more because time is money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:15 AM
2

You can wash your crack but no I don’t think you need to stick your soapy fingers and water up inside the hole. I hope men dont think I’m telling women not to not wash their vulvas. Yes, you should lightly wash your outer lips but you shouldn’t be washing the vaginal canal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:33 AM
8

I’ve come to accept that there will always be a double standard when it comes to promiscuity between men and women. If your a woman who wishes to sleep around your going to have to act accordingly, just don’t tell anybody and keep it on the down-low, you can even lie if you have to. Men don’t have a sixth sense to detect your body count, they’ll be none the wiser. I always role my eyes when women start talking about wanting to be honest about their sexual past to their male partners, it’s beyond…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:30 AM
4

The vagina cleans itself. It’s a good thing women can’t clean the inside of their vaginas, it would cause more harm than good. Just wanted to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:18 AM
1

From my understanding, romance scams when a party actively lies about a fictional scenario to gain money from their victim like their mother being sick. This could be categorized under deceptive marketing or misuse of funds, that I explained earlier. She’s providing a service he’s paying for it, everything is laid out on the table. He’s not a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:48 PM
2

I’m talking specifically about sex work in those first couple sentences. If you pay for porn and you get porn you aren’t being exploited, you are getting exactly what you paid for. There’s no false hope here. As for the rest of what you said I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:42 PM
1

These gurus are only in the wrong when they use deceptive marketing techniques. Personal consultations are a service and a perk that you have to pay extra for in some industries, sex work is no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:40 PM
1

These onlyfans models don't talk to these men for free. He quite literally goes out of his way to pay for this extra service. Once again, she's providing a service for a price. He's getting exactly what he pays for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:55 PM
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No, they don't. Most will claim it's a matter of personal preference, but men insist on asserting it's just their biology as women. I've seen this play out so many times here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:41 PM
8

Many females have leadership roles within animal groups or high social status. But many do take the lead when it comes to child rearing, I’ll say that’s also inherently biological. And spare me the whining about double standards. Men love arguing about biology every day to explain away their behaviour on this app, yet conveniently biology is only bad when it doesn’t suit your needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:33 PM
1

She isn’t exerting influence over him. There’s no coercion here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:31 PM
25

-Looks. Everyone loves attractive people to some extent, no matter how much they like to virtue signal and say otherwise. -Men being simps is as natural as women being hypergamous. -Men like sex. It is what it is. -Women doing most of the child rearing. -This will be controversial but the existence of inc*ls. It’s normal for a percentage of the male population of pretty much any given species to not reproduce at all, particularly among mammals. Sorry not sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:46 PM
2

I’m not defending single motherhood, I’m defending the children. There’s always going to people who are irresponsible, it can be reduced but there no getting rid of it. Unfortunately the government can’t decide who can or cannot reproduce without violating human rights. Single mothers existed before welfare and child support and I think you can guess happened to most of those children. Even though many are still underprivileged, the creation of these programs have definitely helped alleviate thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:29 PM
3

They are only prosecuted when they are deceitful/deceptive in their marketing or use of funds. She’s delivering exactly what is promised, NSFW content for a price. This is not a scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:14 PM
1

You Redpill men are so focused on punishing single mothers for their ‘promiscuity’ you almost always fail to see the bigger picture. If you go out of your way to target single mothers then you’ll ultimately be putting their innocent children in harms way. Taxing single mothers or a complete removal of child support or financial assistance will result in these underprivileged children starving or furthering their suffering, because by proxy you are taking away their already limited resources. Do …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:36 PM
2

Her onlyfans subscription on its own doesn't cost $60000 dollars. Most of that money is probably coming from extra tips and donations, or he's going out of his way to pay for extra content outside of the content she makes available to her subscribers. Once again, this man is going out of his way to shove money into this Instagram models pocket. There's free porn online. He isn't some victim being scammed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:58 PM
5

Sexual fulfillment isn’t a necessity, it is a nice perk though. They aren’t being manipulated they are willingly paying for a service, their own personal issues give them the wrong idea. Like I said restaurants aren’t exploiting the hungry, they are providing a service, a luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:06 PM
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These men are going out of their way to give these women their money. There’s already free porn on the internet. If there’s free water all around you and you go out of your way to buy a $10 dollar overpriced drink are you being exploited? No, you’re just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:03 PM
6

Masks were almost mandatory everywhere, it was practically a necessity to be able to go anywhere in society. Porn isn’t a necessity, it’s a luxury that’s the key difference here. A business having high prices isn’t inherently exploitative unless they are either lying, being deceptive or depriving people of vital necessities where they have no choice but to cough up the money for the sake of their own well being. At this point there’s so much free porn on the internet, these men are going out of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:51 AM
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Sorry can you clarify what do you mean by that? Are you insinuating that women intentionally get pregnant with the intention of getting child support? Then I would say that for most women no. The average man’s child support payments aren’t enough to live a comfortable life off of but it does somewhat help alleviate the financial burden of being the primary caregiver for child, which is its entire purpose. However, some women might be more inclined to take on the burden of single motherhood inste…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:19 AM
3

Most women don’t intentionally seek out single motherhood, it’s almost always an unplanned mistake not a deliberate decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:48 AM
10

Not really. Going to a restaurant is a luxury, a nice treat occasionally but not a necessity. Eating out is often times more expensive than eating in and everyone knows this. Sex and pornography is a luxury not a necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:05 AM
2

😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:58 AM
9

Food addiction and binge eating are both considered mental health disorders. You could say that they are fanning the flames like how drugs do to people who are often times already dealing with mental health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:42 AM
3

Supply and demand. Are restaurants exploiting hungry people even though they are fully able to cook their own meals? Is McDonald’s causing obesity or is it an individuals unhealthy relationship with food? Drug use is often linked to pre-existing emotional/mental health issues. These people would find another potentially negative outlet for their trauma even without the drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:37 AM
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How is she exploiting him? This is her job, she’s just providing a service. If he gets the wrong idea then that’s due to his own personal issues. Edit: Simping will never go away because I honestly believe it’s biologically wired into men, for better or for worse. It has always existed and will continue to exist unless this instinct is somehow bred out of men but this would probably take thousands of years if ever. (My personal opinion, don’t get mad).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:25 AM

So yes basically? Just let them die and not intervene.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:24 PM

Red pill men are operating under this assumption that the removal of child support will lead to a mass return to traditional marriages by women because of fear when it probably won’t. The dating market would probably look like that of Japan or other East Asian society with many women opting out of marriage, dating and childbirth because of the high risk and low reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:17 PM

I mean that sounds good in theory but at the end of the day these underprivileged children would starve without financial support from the government. What should we do just let them die?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:56 PM
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Most single mothers are struggling financially, even with child support. This plan would probably create an increase of children flowing into the foster care system because the mothers aren’t able to care for them financially. Your policy makes it so men aren’t financially accountable by default and a woman can’t seek them out for financial support. The government will have to step in one way or another because many of these children would starve otherwise, meaning all of us would have to foot t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:33 PM
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