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No mention of the southeastern states (TN, GA, AL, etc.) that seem to have 10 SBC churches in every town? Which Southern Baptist are you referring to?
/r/RPChristians11/08/20 05:28 PM
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An acquaintance of mine had ties to a church with cult-like tendencies, where leaders exercised what to my mind was an unnecessary and almost dangerous level of control on the members of the congregation. The system described in this post rings some familiar alarm bells to some of the things my friend described about that church group. For me, the big alarm bell is the emphasis on "spiritual leaders." I remember my acquaintance talking about how a friend of hers had a "mentors" in that group tha…
/r/RPChristians10/08/20 08:40 PM
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Sounds like you've got a lot going on in your life right now. Have you considered going to a reputable counselor or psychologist to just "talk things out"? Sometimes it helps me to let out my deepest fears and anxieties to someone who doesn't have personal investment in my life. Maybe it could help you, too. You mention that some things from your past that you thought you'd dealt with are causing you current trouble. You aren't alone in this! It's happened to me, too. New stresses in my life hav…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 03:04 AM
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Hm. Interesting perspective... thanks for sharing!
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/19 03:24 AM
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haha okay. Ross is great! What TJ Maxx used to be. I miss those days!
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/19 03:15 AM
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What's it called?
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/19 12:46 AM
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My tip: Moisturize your skin all over, especially during the winter time! I started using lotion all over my body after I shower every time (every 1.5 to 3 days during the winter), and it has made a huge difference in the softness and smoothness of my skin. I don't use anything fancy; just Aveeno Daily Moisturizing Lotion or Aveeno Skin Relief 24hr Moisturizing Lotion. Wow, has it helped my skin! I feel more feminine with the softness it adds to my skin. I've also been keeping a nice quality, na…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 02:30 AM
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Gotcha.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 12:46 AM
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all the really important questions Which ones did you ask before meeting the person?
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 12:07 AM
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Rice cookers are fantastic. I also cook a lot of rice and having a rice cooker has been so helpful! 10/10 would recommend!
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/19 08:09 PM
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Congratulations! What was it about your boyfriend's message that stood out to you?
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/19 07:30 PM
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u/IlluminatedElf, thanks for this. Helpful insights - as well as a much-needed push to get back to exercising. Thanks ^_^
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/19 04:26 PM
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Appreciate the feedback. Thanks :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 07:22 PM
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Okay; thanks, anyway! :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 03:46 PM
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I had a major adrenal crash due to worsening digestion, many stresses both chronic and acute, and an autoimmune disease. On this web page, scroll down to "Adrenal Crash Intensity." Level 4 to level 5 is where I was at for quite some time. Edit: added some words, deleted a sentence
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 01:24 AM
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"bubble restriction". Being immersed in the school environment This rings a bell. A lot of very smart men are not interested or suited for university education. This gives me hope. I've been feeling like the pool is very very small... If I wanted to expand my pool of options to include these men, where do I find them?
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 12:55 AM
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Thanks for the input. the feeling of „oh I could do better than him“ I dread this possibility. Growing up, I was so "good at" school, that I was often "the best" at doing whatever it was we were doing. Not always, but often enough that it definitely affected how I viewed my classmates. It's interesting to think about finding someone whose area of expertise is so different from my own that the "ability level" thing is sort of a non-issue. Hm...
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 12:44 AM
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build up the courage to start saying your true goals of being a wife and a mother This is good advice. I've been working on it, but it still feels like a vulnerable thing to me, like I said in my post. Idk; maybe it's the fact that growing up in my culture, "What do you want to do" always meant a career, men and women alike. two ways to tackle the intelligence problem Thanks for these suggestions. I'll ponder them! I think one of my biggest concerns is being able to communicate on a certain leve…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 12:40 AM
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I... don't think... I'm you. Are you me from a parallel universe?? jk ;) Thanks for responding. It helps to know I'm not alone.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 12:15 AM
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When you say "why," do you mean "by what mechanism" or do you mean "for what purpose"?
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 10:56 PM
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many "churches" today don't actually follow the Bible, so that may be why the Christians around you aren't good examples of masculinity Hear, hear! I wish more "Christians" actually read the Bible.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 10:54 PM
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Go to YouTube and search "This 200-Year-Old Secret Gets Him To Chase You (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)." I'm more traditional (in a lot of senses), but hearing the concept Matthew explains in this video was a lightbulb moment for me when it comes to thinking about meeting new guys. Now, my philosophy is to be open and friendly to just about anyone, because you never know who is going to pick up on that and decide they want to know you better!
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/19 02:55 AM
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Can I upvote this twice?? :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/19 02:28 AM
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I’m not going to approach them Why not? All you'd have to do is say "Hello" or come up with a question to ask, like "Do you know where the ____ is?" All it takes is one conversation with the right person. Edit: Added a sentence
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/19 02:16 AM
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Merry Christmas!
/r/RPChristians26/12/18 02:19 AM
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Thanks for the info!
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/18 02:53 AM
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What face wash and facial moisturizer do you use?
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/18 01:28 AM
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Thank you for this post. It's so helpful to hear the "other perspective" amidst what's typically taught in the American church. Especially appreciate the discussion of frame. It's not the way we're used to talking about marriage relationships, and as a woman it feels somehow wrong to think about giving up your own frame, since "independence" has been ingrained from such a young age in our society. The thing is, the model makes sense, especially in the context of the man's leadership modeled on C…
/r/RPChristians17/10/18 02:47 AM
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The post I've been waiting for. Thank you for this!
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/18 05:48 PM
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:D
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/18 09:37 PM
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u/bambiliftsweights, the advice you seek will be coming in my next post! I'm going to go into lots of detail on point #1. I'm in the process of writing it right now!
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/18 02:08 PM
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Fast forward to my freshman year of college, going to put my laptop on my desk only to find a literal pile of stuff!! Hahaha this sounds familiar. Lol! the life changing magic of tidying up Great book! Thanks for your input :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/18 07:53 PM
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Thanks for clarifying! In your original comment, when you said "It's easy to get addicted to dating," were you talking about serial monogamy or dating around? What exactly were you saying someone gets addicted to?
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 09:59 PM
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When you say "low effort date," what are you suggesting putting low effort into? Dating as an end in and of itself?
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 08:37 PM
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Your suggestions and comments are really interesting. Care to expand? Background: I am in grad school and hope for marriage but personal challenges have thus far prevented me from even entering the dating pool. Sometimes I get nervous because I don't have a lot of dating experience like other young women do, but I don't want to date until I am ready for marriage, i.e. when these particular challenges have been dealt with to the degree that they do not dominate my life in the same way they do now…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 07:57 PM
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Organizing Solutions for People with ADHD by Susan Pinsky has a lot of helpful tips (for every area of the house!) that are easy to implement. The tips are not the most glamorous but they are functional. Highly recommended! One thing that has also helped me has been the realization that sometimes I need to organize things in the way that is best for me, not in the way that I think I "should" organize things. This gives me the freedom to place items where I want them, get rid of stuff at will, an…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/18 03:29 PM
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Ooh, curing meats! Can I ask how you do this?
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/18 11:08 PM
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Again, just want to say thanks for the responses; they've been good food for thought, in many ways. Something else that comes to mind: how would you say Matthew 22:34-40 ties in to the points you've been making? But when the Pharisees heard that he had silenced the Sadducees, they gathered together. And one of them, a lawyer, asked him a question to test him. “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?” And he said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with a…
/r/RPChristians18/07/18 05:18 PM
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Well said!
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/18 05:09 PM
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Thank you for your response; I appreciate it.
/r/RPChristians18/07/18 03:14 AM
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It's great that girl 2 played an instrumental role in your faith journey. That's a wonderful thing, and I've written a post on the way opposite sexes can do that Is this post in the sidebar? I'd like to read it.
/r/RPChristians16/07/18 10:29 PM
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Hm. Interesting. Have you seen this qualification play out in real-life situations? I'd be interested in hearing some examples.
/r/RPChristians14/07/18 01:19 AM
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u/rocknrollchuck I'm curious to make sure I understand your comment. What it sounds like is that, in your opinion, the best way to tell if a woman is serious about faith is if she shares the Gospel / evangelizes, as opposed to looking at other indicators in her life. Is that an accurate rephrasing?
/r/RPChristians13/07/18 11:59 PM
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Wholeheartedly agree with this! Edit: I wish the church could start emphasizing glorifying God in the practical, discipline-rooted aspects of life (such as striving to maintain a healthy lifestyle) as much as it emphasizes emotional "experiences."
/r/RPChristians13/07/18 06:50 PM
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How do I move on ? What steps do I take? How can I shift my mind into accepting this and being okay? You may not be able to make yourself move on by brute force. However, you can choose to participate in a daily life routine that you know is healthful (physically, mentally, etc.). If your daily life is not one that you even have the potential of enjoying, when will you wake up and say, "I think today is a good day!"? But, if you have a good routine and are making healthful choices, you might jus…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/18 02:00 AM
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Thanks!!
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/18 01:29 PM
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This post is so far down the page, I don't know if anyone will see it, but... Can anyone direct me to any thread(s) about vetting? Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/18 12:43 AM
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My suggestion would be to practice saying "thank you." I grew up hearing the typical "strong empowered woman" lines at school, through television, etc. I was conditioned to believe that strong, intelligent women do everything for themselves so others will respect and admire them. Then, a couple years ago, I started watching Matthew Hussey's YouTube videos. He talked a lot about how men and women relate to one another. (I don't think he's RP, but a lot of what he talks about is applicable to the …
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/18 07:21 PM
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Ultimately RP to me is to think rationally and to try as hard as possible to look at reality how it is instead of looking at it how I wish it were. I was going to say something like this, but you beat me to the punch. Edit: a word
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/18 06:01 PM
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physical marriage in the OT was clearly shown in the NT to be a road-map to help us understand the relationship between Christ and his Church (us), and that post-Gospel the physical things of the OT were rendered moot once the spiritual reality is achieved Are you saying that the picture provided by marriage is now a moot point because the spiritual reality of the relationship between Christ and the church has been achieved? However, I have understood that the marriage supper of the Lamb spoken …
/r/RPChristians10/05/18 03:10 AM
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I see this contempt manifest in subconscious ways What are a few examples of this, that you have seen?
/r/RPChristians19/04/18 01:02 AM
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Intelligence is not actually a virtue; it’s neutral. Helpful words!
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 11:23 PM
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don’t assume your intellect is going to impress him the way respect and femininity would A little bit "ouch" but a little bit "I needed to hear this." It's a good reminder to prioritize being a human being above being a brain, if that makes sense. I'm not willing to "check my brain at the door" in a future relationship, though I agree with the multiple other comments that emphasize that the attitude of the woman is what makes a difference, not her perceived or actual level of intelligence.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 02:35 AM
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Thank you for the response :) How long did it take / has it taken you to work out whose strengths to take advantage of in what way?
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 01:58 AM
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Thanks for the response. Great food for thought!
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 01:53 AM
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What a great idea!
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 01:48 AM
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Thanks for the input!
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 03:05 AM
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