OkKiwi3544 Archive

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5	Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense. Scenario 1: how do you even know if she’s giving head in the relationship after you? Even if she is, how do you know that the guy she’s with isn’t coercing her into doing that when she wasn’t really interested in doing it with him either? If she purposefully withheld giving head during your relationship that could be for a variety of reasons, but either way this seems like a personal relationship issue that you’re struggling with this specific woman about and not something that broadly applies t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 02:00 PM
–	How undesirable are single dads? It would depend on a lot of factors. I’m married and in my late 20s, but if I was single and the same age as this guy, id have a lot of questions first. -how many kids? You say children. Is that 2, 3, 4, more? -are they all the kids of the same woman? Or multiple different women? -were you married to this woman? -how long were you with her and is she still enmeshed in your family/friends group? Long term can mean a lot of things. -why is she no longer in the picture? If she’s still alive, are yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 01:01 PM
–	Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married him Coming from a married woman, I’m confused by this lol. I get the concept of what you’re saying, but I didn’t think this was an issue? Are sex drives not something that most people figure out prior to getting married??? Like most people don’t get engaged until at least a year together, probably several years in majority of cases. By that point you’ve likely already had sex with each other and know what each other’s sex drives are like. If you’re not happy with the sex quality or quantity (a key p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 12:09 AM
2	What % of your attraction to a man is physical and what % is everything else? Yeah, I would say so. I remember when I was single and in college there was a guy who was in my lab class. He was really alternative looking (like blue hair half shaved and half long), a good 3 inches shorter than me, kinda shy with a stutter, and not necessarily what would be considered attractive by most people. Definitely not someone I would typically ever be attracted to. We were in the same lab group and he was nice enough and eventually I found that I really got along with him well and he …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 01:43 AM
7	What % of your attraction to a man is physical and what % is everything else? I’m married now, but maybe like 40-50% physical? And then if I’m actually attracted to his personality too that would be the other 60-50%. But also, if I find him attractive enough by personality, that can lead me to appreciate him physically more than I would have before I knew him if that makes sense? Like maybe bump up the physical attraction by 10% if the personality is good and vice versa bump it down if the personality is bad. I know that doesn’t make a ton of sense since you physically lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 11:30 PM
5	Why do women on this sub seem to consider pregnancy to never be worth it. So I am currently pregnant with my first child (by choice) and happily married to my husband. We specifically chose to have a child because we want to have a large family surrounding us as we get older and we love the companionship of family. On top of that I love children in general and I have always enjoyed being around kids and helping them. The idea of helping a future generation learn life and how to do things sounds fun to me! That being said…. - I am staunchly pro-abortion. I was before I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 07:51 PM
1	Let's say your a stay at home partner Haha what does this have to do with purple pill debate? I'm a stay at home spouse, in a similar situation where my husband makes all the money and handles finances. I'm not given a discretionary fund or anything. I just spend money responsibly and it's whatever? I don't buy clothes or makeup or other things regularly, not because I'm limited, but just because that's something I wouldn't naturally do. And when I do need to buy those things it's not a big deal because I'm generally a frugal person…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/26 06:20 PM
1	Q4women if your long time bf/husbands sexual orientation slightly changed after years together would you break up? Why do you think men don’t come out to their partners as often? I actually personally know several couples where this has happened and it’s been the man that came out as bi each time. As long as the relationship was good before, it’s usually not a big deal, or the couple goes to therapy to talk through if there are any issues and they want to make the relationship work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/26 08:22 AM
36	What is so bad about directly asking for sex? I’m genuinely curious, and I don’t mean this in an offensive way. Are you autistic or do you struggle with social cues? Having sex is generally a very intimate and private thing. You are both nude, exchanging bodily fluids, and it typically involves a lot of deep emotions. That’s not something that you casually ask a stranger (or coworker or friend) for and expect a neutral yes or no reaction. Similar to the same way you wouldn’t just randomly ask someone to massage your bare feet or help you po…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/26 08:38 PM
–	Q4W: Would you rather date a man that is the same age as you but 5 inches shorter or a man that is the same height as you but 10 years younger? I’m 28 and 5’5”. If I was still dating, I’d for sure go with the same age and shorter option. Not ideal, but I could date a 5’ 28-year old man. 18 year olds were gross when I was 18 and they’re even more gross more now that I’m 28. Forgot to add, but I only ever dated with serious intentions. If we were compatible enough then sure I’d be open to marrying him	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 11:56 PM
–	You’re approached by a man at the grocery store. How does this make you feel? I’m married, but assuming I was single I think this would still be off-putting to me and I’d politely say no thank you with some sort of excuse. My main reason being that I have no idea who this guy is. Looks or how you carry yourself don’t tell you everything. He could be insane, a criminal, abusive, or someone with completely staunchly opposing beliefs to mine. I also find it weird when a guy wants to go on a date with someone after only knowing what they look like. The only time I was cold ap…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 01:52 AM
8	Being upset about not having had sex is not a moral failure or entitlement. Why do you pretend it is ? I never even talked about dating world views in my original comment to you though. I never once mention anything about redpill or blackpill men or what that experience is actually like, because yeah, I haven't experienced it. The only thing I talked about was the guy in the article. And yeah, he may be red, blue, black, purple, yellow whatever pilled, but it wasn't about that. I was just drawing connections to his lack of confidence and how his family situation was actually harmful to his journe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 07:19 PM
13	Being upset about not having had sex is not a moral failure or entitlement. Why do you pretend it is ? I never purported to know any of your problems or why you feel the way you do. I only made my original comment in response to your post to give my opinion on the two articles of the guy you were talking about and why I felt like he was in his rut based off of the story that he told. It had nothing to do with you personally, sorry if you felt that way. If you wanted specific input on your situation and how you traumatized yourself over the years trying to figure yourself out, then I'd encoura…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 06:46 PM
9	Being upset about not having had sex is not a moral failure or entitlement. Why do you pretend it is ? I feel like I’ve always just been an average attractiveness woman, but I never had to try a ton in dating either so idk. I’ve got a feeling that I’m still blue pill though even if I’m considered average. I’ve heard of some of the things you mentioned, but some of the stuff like “looksmaxxing” I’ve never heard of. TBH the only reason I know about this sub is because my husband finds it entertaining and I started reading the posts here for fun too. Also though, I don’t think this rule necessarily …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 03:18 PM
23	Being upset about not having had sex is not a moral failure or entitlement. Why do you pretend it is ? I wasn’t blaming him because of living with his parents. I even said that there’s nothing inherently wrong with living with your parents as an adult for almost the exact reasons you listed. I was trying to say that living with them was a symptom of his lack of confidence. The true reason actually being that his parents were coddling him and encouraging his behavior of relying on them for social support and comfort. The fact that he was chill with his parents saying “oh you’ll probably never lear…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 12:26 PM
59	Being upset about not having had sex is not a moral failure or entitlement. Why do you pretend it is ? I’m not really sure if I’m considered blue pill or not since I’ve never deep dived into this stuff. From my understanding, since I’m a liberal leaning woman, I think that means I’m considered at least blue-ish pill, so I think I’m okay to respond here as the target audience. I took the time to read through both articles, and I think your interpretation of what he is saying and the story he presented is fundamentally different from mine. I’m not saying your interpretation is wrong or that mine is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 10:12 AM
21	Most women screen for vanity metrics, not true compatibility Anti immigrant people definitely exist. My mom is a first gen LEGAL immigrant in the US and I remember as a kid being out in public with her and hearing hateful comments all the time. Mostly “Go back to your own country” or “ch**ks don’t belong here”. If we were speaking Korean to just each other “what language are you speaking? You should learn to speak English because that’s the language here in America” or even just “learn to speak the language!”. We’re both completely fluent in English with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/26 12:57 AM
10	You're a slim, shorter (5'5 and under) 20-something Girl. What Are Your "Asks?" I’m 5’4”, slim, and I’m 28 and married for a year now. I’ll answer this from the perspective of when I was still single at 25 and what I had my dating app profile set to. I was looking for: guys that were interested in only serious relationships that could become marriage eventually. (I was never someone into casual stuff) 5’8” and above ideally, but taller than me at least Age range was 1 year younger to 3 years older than me (didn’t want guys too much younger since they tended to be a bit imma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/26 11:31 PM
–	Do you think an ugly celebrity could marry a model without causing a dead bedroom? I don't understand these types of hypothetical questions for women. It's not like we're tapped into a hivemind and can just speak for our entire sex on this particular hypothetical. Yes, it is possible that depending on the particular ugly celebrity and the particular female model, they could marry without a dead bedroom. And it is also possible that depending on the particular ugly celebrity and the particular female model, they could not marry without a dead bedroom. Not all women are the same…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/26 06:16 AM
4	What do you like about men? We weren’t talking about obvious or subtle. We were talking about violent or casual, and I was saying that I think casual homophobic behavior is performed at least equally if not slightly more by men. I’m not at all denying that some women are homophobic and some women do say subtle homophobic remarks that come across as more harmful than straight men calling things gay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/26 02:59 AM
8	What do you like about men? I don’t think you can say that casual homophobia is done more by women than men. It’s probably at least equal (homophobic people everywhere), and in my own life I’ve seen casual homophobic insults thrown out by men more often than women. Thinking of how a lot of locker-talk type guys casually call anything and everything “gay”. Theres definitely a fear of being gay and or being perceived as gay by straight men and that translates to a lot of straight men making homophobic comments to appear more…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/26 02:16 AM
10	What do you like about men? I’m not sure why you’re equating my marriage to my husband as being the same as a closeted gay man being married to a woman. I’m a straight woman that’s happily married to my husband. I generally find men attractive, and I find also find my own husband attractive. Not sure what your issue is or why you feel so confident in asserting that it’s so impossible for a woman to love a man. It sounds like you have some personal issues to work through tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/26 02:00 AM
9	What do you like about men? I’m a straight woman, so I would disagree because I am in fact married to a man. Also, don’t call me kiddo. I’m a 30 year old woman. Gross lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/26 01:54 AM
9	What do you like about men? Tbh I don’t think I agree with that. I get where you might be coming from, but a lot of homophobia is enforced by straight men. Historically, straight women have been more supportive of gay men than straight men have been. Straight women also like men, so I don’t quite understand your line of thinking. Also, I don’t think it’s a matter of making liking men “cool”. If you want to make homophobia lesser, then why not focus on making love for anyone and everyone “cool”. I’ve gotten the sense from y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/26 12:46 AM
10	What do you like about men? You never answered my question from my comment. Idk why the mods deleted your other response to me. If you’re claiming to be a gay man, then why do you care so much about men being loved or desired by women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/26 12:36 AM
4	What do you like about men? If you’re a gay man, then why do you care so much about whether women like men then? I’ve never met a gay man so concerned over if women like men so much lol. And yes, I imagine us heterosexual women also like men for similar reasons that homosexual men like men. Physical attraction and personal preferences	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/26 12:01 AM
–	What do you like about men? I am a straight woman and I’m physically attracted to men??? I don’t understand your question. I think my husband has nice shoulder and a nice back and an attractive face. I like his arms, I like his legs. Also, he treats me well and has similar values to me and cares for me. I don’t understand why you keep asking this same question over and over. Like, dude just admit you are listening to echo chambers and hate bisexual and lesbian women. You literally post in a “women are not into men” subredd…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/26 11:56 PM
1	Women that objectify women I don’t know where you’re getting the idea that this is such a common thing. TBH it sounds like this is just a very particular thing that you happen to dislike and you’re seeking out echo chambers of places where people repeat this. I’ve never in real life or even online seen anyone speak of this phenomenon that you speak of. I’m not even trying to be mean, but I genuinely don’t understand what you’re trying to say. As a heterosexual woman I can recognize that another woman is attractive, but th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/26 11:37 PM
1	The constant characterization of male sexuality as something 'dirty' needs to stop. Did you respond to the wrong comment? Sorry, if not. I genuinely don’t understand how what you said has anything to do with what I said. I didn’t mention anything about women objectifying other women or women wanting to have sex with men when they love men	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/26 11:19 PM
5	The constant characterization of male sexuality as something 'dirty' needs to stop. I always, thought of the womanizer personality of Hugh Hefner as being a form of overt sexuality, but the businessman side is also valid I guess. I think your personal beliefs are fair! I’m not one to step on somebody else’s toes for what they do or don’t like. I myself am probably more on the conservative side with how I dress (I was so scarred by my conservative school experience that I was scared to wear skinny jeans for a long time lol), but I also appreciate the women that are pushing the e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/26 10:17 AM
11	The constant characterization of male sexuality as something 'dirty' needs to stop. That’s a good point! Men were still perceived as being pervy in what I view as specifically situations revolving around masturbation (porn, toys, self-pleasure), but in my mind that was always because women felt like they had to view those things as pervy or deprived because accepting it would be accepting their own sexuality (which big no no in purity culture! Woman can’t know what masturbation is!! /s). Similar to the idea of a man has to make the first move even if a woman wants to, because a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/26 09:30 AM
23	The constant characterization of male sexuality as something 'dirty' needs to stop. I think this is an interesting take because it’s so much the opposite of what I’ve experienced in my life as a woman. I’m not saying your take is wrong! It’s just interesting to me that you view it this way when my experience has been just the opposite. Sorry if this is long, I’ve got lots of thoughts!! To go into it, the idea of male sexualization being viewed as dirty is something that I think of as being a relatively “new” idea. I’m like 30-ish now, so feel free to correct me if I’m wrong, bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/26 08:43 AM
6	Reaching 18 doesn’t make you a man, having sex does. Yes or no? I’m referring to the social construct of when people talk about a male becoming a “real man”, which is what I’m assuming OP is talking about as well. I’m not talking about when a boy becomes a man as in biologically after he’s gone through puberty. As for swapping out what I said for man to woman… again, I was just responding to the OP about what makes a man, a “man”. Sure you can swap what I said out for woman as well. Our society doesn’t really have that same kind of terminology for a woman be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/26 08:19 AM
19	Reaching 18 doesn’t make you a man, having sex does. Yes or no? Disagree. There are teenagers out there having sex with each other. High schoolers and even some middle schoolers. That doesn’t make them men. IMO, being a man has nothing to do with sex or any specific achievement. Being a man is about reaching a level of maturity and level headedness that comes with the wisdom of life knowledge. Maybe that includes sexual knowledge, but sexual knowledge doesn’t define what makes a man, a man. Edit to add: I also don’t think that boys “magically” become men at …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/26 02:54 AM
3	When you go on a date are you genuinely interested or are you pretending to be interested to seem nice and likable? Slightly confused about your question since I don’t think this type of thing is gender specific. More just like social interactions that everyone should understand how to navigate. If it was something I was genuinely interested in as well (like video games), then of course I’d be genuinely interested. If it was something that they were passionate about that was something I don’t know anything about or that I think I don’t like (like football), then I’d be polite and smile and I may even ask them…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/26 01:27 AM
1	Why don’t women like passport bros? "Obesity: The rate is consistently double that of... anywhere else, sincerely. This is not only about physical attraction, but quality of life, diseases, ETC Promiscuity: The culture consistently pushes sexual promiscuity. This is not only a matter of "preference", it is objectively correlated with tangible trauma, and other issues that can be loosely called "baggage"." These traits exist everywhere though...? There are higher rates of obesity in America, but the rate of obesity for younger wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 08:26 PM
4	Women consider it a "betrayal" when an ostensibly platonic male friend expresses romantic interest in them ONLY IF they're not interested in him, as well I mean if it comes down to this, then it's really about the individual. Not what women, in general, think. I imagine most women, in general, find this behavior to be bad. I'm sure there are some women that may find a guy in this situation to be attractive, and they may not even realize he's doing this, and they decide to date him. There are some that may realize he's doing this and don't care since they like him. Once again though, it comes down to individual behavior. I don't think enough women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 07:48 PM
1	Women consider it a "betrayal" when an ostensibly platonic male friend expresses romantic interest in them ONLY IF they're not interested in him, as well I think there's nuance to these situations. Usually if two people like each other and they join the same friend group, then you pretty quickly get to the point where they're sharing glances and then flirting, that turns into dating. There's a difference between that and a guy, essentially, stalking a woman into her friend group because he has feelings for her and wants to orbit her with the hopes of a relationship. These situation often lead to the men counseling the girl through dating woes and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 07:00 PM
1	Why don’t women like passport bros? You know, I would agree with you that if there were specific cultural traits that you dislike in all American women and that's why you struggle with dating here in the US, then it is reasonable to go somewhere where they share a similar culture to you. I'd love to hear what you think these cultural traits are that American women have that these third world country women don't have (genuinely, not being sarcastic). I can't imagine though it's in any way similar or on the same level as what you're…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 06:53 PM
2	Why don’t women like passport bros? Assuming most foreigners speak English is a very American-centric point of view. That's very dependent on the country and where in the country the person is from. Broken English doesn't count either because you can't discuss higher order topics. I personally know of at least three different passport bro marriages (from my own personal life) with stories extremely similar to what I've described. The women have no functional use of English. They only learn basic phrases before marriage. "i love yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 06:46 PM
1	Why don’t women like passport bros? Sorry, I guess I should clarify. Cultural standards vary drastically across the world. But yes, I do think the quality of the people still has the same variances across the world. What qualifies as a good husband in afghanistan is I'm sure different then what qualifies as a good husband in sweden.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 06:37 PM
2	Why don’t women like passport bros? I touched on this, but I would say that the passport bros that can’t find anyone in the US that likes them (aka struggling with dating and want to get married), would likely have some issue with their personality, looks, behavior, or speech that would be very off-putting to majority of women here in the US. If a female friend of mine said they couldn’t find a man, I’d probably help her evaluate her dating profiles and ask her about what type of men she’s attracted to in order to help her find so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 06:25 PM
6	Why don’t women like passport bros? It's the power dynamics at play in the situation. Yes, she believes that she has absolutely nothing to lose and everything to gain in this situation. He is just looking for companionship. There's usually a language barrier though. She doesn't fully understand the type man he is. She moves to the US with him without understanding the consequences fully, and essentially becomes a prisoner to this man. She has no way to make her own money. No understanding of the language to get any public help or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 06:11 PM
8	Why don’t women like passport bros? I think people just feel like they are exploitative and creepy? If you want to find a long term partner in the US that wants to get married and have kids, it's not extremely difficult. Women and men that want these things are out there. We get married and have kids all the time in the US. It may be trending downwards because that's what just what happens to populations in first world countries and naturally shifting population demographics, but yes people do still get married and have kids here.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 05:38 PM
7	Women consider it a "betrayal" when an ostensibly platonic male friend expresses romantic interest in them ONLY IF they're not interested in him, as well The only time I feel like a woman would feel betrayed by a friend showing interest in her would be if it felt like the only reason he was even friends with her was to try to date her. Makes her feel like she was being used by this person since their whole relationship was based off of his ulterior motives from the start. It's just a manipulative and gross thing to do. When you think about the type of person that would go through the effort of pretending to be your friend in the small hopes that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 02:55 PM
2	Women are not romantic. Hot take, and possibly controversial. But maybe it’s related to political extremism? I feel like I see both far right and far left women wanting men to pay for the date (for vastly contradicting reasons lol). Whereas my friend group really has no political extremes and our partners are all very similar with no extreme political views. All of us probably fall somewhere within light red to light blue, but probably mostly leaning a little more blue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 08:03 AM
3	Women are not romantic. Oh gotcha! I think it just depends on the crowds you run in? Like, most of my friends are pretty similar to me and have all split their dates (although some have seen guys that INSIST on paying for the whole thing). Only a few of my friends have that “the man’s gotta pay” mindset. Most of us go splitsies though. Not denying that what you’re saying is the norm. I know a lot of women that expect the man to pay for everything, and I personally think that’s an outdated societal expectation that they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 07:48 AM
5	Women are not romantic. Ah sorry, I’m confused here. Really not trying to argue with you :( I never said splitting the bill was a romantic gesture? I’m trying to say it shouldn’t be connected to romance at all. I don’t find men paying for the bill to be romantic (it feels awkward and forced). I don’t think me paying for the bill is romantic (once again awkward and forced). That’s why I’m saying people should just split the bill. It has nothing to do with actual romance. It’s just an outdated societal expectation that e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 07:36 AM
6	Women are not romantic. Well, my man was the one splitting the dates with me and I still found him to be romantic lol. I guess I don’t attribute romanticism to paying the bill. Like it’s just a thing. Society has just normalized that men are supposed to pay, but for what? We’re all out here working and paying bills. I’m splitting not because it’s a romantic gesture, but because it’s the pragmatic thing to do. Also, when I say romantic, I mean more in the extra small acts of kindness and showing a little extra love here…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 07:27 AM
4	Women are not romantic. I’m just of the belief that you split during dates since that’s the fair thing to do. That had nothing to do with being romantic lol. It was just practical and a way to let the other person know I respect them as a person and we’re both here just doing our thing and trying our best. I do think reciprocation is romantic though! I think I’m a natural giver, and I’ve been in a relationship before with a man that’s not. It’s actually tolling on you at some point because it feels like your actions ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 07:18 AM
9	How low are the chances to find such a woman nowadays? Some people say that Buddhism is a fact or that praying a way sin is a fact. Some people even claim they hear god talk to them and answer their prayers. That doesn’t mean any of it’s true. It may “feel” true to you, but it’s not backed by science in any way and can’t be proven by science, therefore it’s considered a spiritual or cultural belief. Nothing is wrong with admitting that dude! It’s okay to believe in that, and I’m not saying it makes you or your beliefs any lesser. People can believe …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 07:10 AM
7	Women are not romantic. Seems like you’ve just had bad experiences with women. Hold yourself to a higher standard if you don’t want to be treated that way and don’t date women that don’t treat you the way that you wanted to be treated. I always insisted on splitting dates back when I dated. My husband and I are very romantic to each other. I surprise him with things and he does the same for me. We show each other little acts of kindness and love to show our affection to each other. People of all kinds are out there. Yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 06:53 AM
16	How low are the chances to find such a woman nowadays? I read it. I literally had to google what Runanubandha is because I’d never heard of it. Google said it was an Indian philosophy of invisible threads of karmic debt that form between people who have shared physical or emotional intimacy or even shared food. I would say that pretty much counts as a spiritual or cultural belief since it’s not grounded in science, unless you have another definition. Also, I would say a hook up and one night stand are most definitely ways of shared physical intimacy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 06:07 AM
12	How low are the chances to find such a woman nowadays? Wait, so your reasons for this are because of spiritual or cultural beliefs? And you are okay with yourself having one night stands and hook-ups? It’s just not okay for the women to do that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 05:57 AM
3	How low are the chances to find such a woman nowadays? I mean women like this definitely exist, and I have friends that fall in this category. I didn’t have my first boyfriend until I was 23. And then I got married at 27 after meeting my husband at 25. He was my second boyfriend. Not the exact age you listed, but I think pretty close. And I’d like to think I’m a fairly attractive person lol. I had plenty of guys interested in me before that, but I just wasn’t interested in dating up until that point because of focusing on school and not really likin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 05:30 AM
1	Women need to drop their screen addiction and go outside. Way to cherry pick the one thing I said out of all the hobbies I listed that you didn’t agree with lol. But yeah I would say going to or hosting parties can be a hobby for some people. Which I would consider to be completely different from “partying”. Women going to parties with other women is like a chill thing. Like themed house parties is a thing. Movie night, themed outfit night, bring a charcuterie board night, snack bowl night. Just things that women like to do with their friends… I would …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 01:37 AM
1	Women need to drop their screen addiction and go outside. I’m sorry, but I feel like your argument here is so flawed. Women do go out. Women do have hobbies. Like a lot. We go to parties with each other, we have book clubs, we get dinner with friends, we take work out classes, dance classes, church, friendsgiving, concerts, group trips, spas, book stores, horseback riding, crochet and knitting classes, art classes, etc. just to name a few. And a lot of these places, I see very few men. However, I know that doesn’t mean men don’t go outside, because wha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 09:08 AM
2	Women need to drop their screen addiction and go outside. I love how your bar for women going out and doing things is “there’s no younger women in my Latin dance class“ lol I don’t know a single woman even close to my age who has ever gone to or thought about attending latin dance. It’s not really a common young women’s activity. If you’re looking for gym or dance activities with young women, try going to Pilates, pure barre, orange theory, hotworx, etc. Also, idk where you get the idea that women aren’t going out and doing things? If you go outside in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 08:42 AM