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It helps me look for more valuable things a woman can offer. I have a mentally, "the sex will ALWAYS follow, but what does she lead with?" I also know now it doesn't matter if she loves you or if she's into you. It matters about how she loves you, and how she's interested. If she's interested in you and a lustful way or in a physical way, then she can definitely leave you for someone with a better physical quality. But if it's something that is intangible, she deserves more attention and conside…
/r/seduction10/06/23 05:48 PM
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There's a difference between being funny and trying to be funny. Literally, you shouldn't "want" to make women Laugh. Because when you do that, you make yourself the joke. It's cringy and unattractive. You already know your problem too (luckily) you take life too seriously. Just be more laid back and chill. The "funny" side of you will Flow naturally. As long as you know what you want to be and what your doing in life, nothing else should matter, or be taken "seriously". Now go out there and be …
/r/seduction25/10/22 07:08 PM
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Basically, you don't compliment her based on her looks because she usually gets it all the time. Whether it be from you or for someone else, she's getting it regardless. If you want to be different, compliment her based on what she does for you. Let's say you guys go on a date, and you ask her to wear a red dress, if she comes through with the red dress, you compliment her on how good she looks in a red dress. Also make sure you let her know that you appreciate her wearing that red dress. She's …
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:59 AM
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Go right ahead, but avoid commitment with her. She's too immature to deserve that
/r/seduction12/10/22 09:24 PM
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If you're going to compliment her, compliment her on something she does for you. That's it
/r/seduction12/10/22 03:14 AM
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Don't chase her, replace her. Fall back until she crawls back. Just move on and get back on tinder. There's going to be a lot of women like that, just treat it like gambling. you'll win some, and you'll lose some
/r/seduction10/10/22 10:04 PM
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If she has daddy issues, and you don't initiate, you just won't get it. She'll probably think you're too scared or you just want to be friends. So she'll act accordingly and put you in that category. She'll just use you for conversation and "quality friend time"...and she'll use you as an emotional pillow. If you want what you want, be more direct but don't force it. If you've done it already and she looks "disgusted" or "scared " you're already in the friend zone and leave it alone. There's no …
/r/seduction06/10/22 01:19 AM
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You're being TOO friendly bro. If you want to smash her, you're gonna have to be less passive and a little more direct. It might seem like a risky task or an "easier said than done" type of scenario, but if you want to get over that hump of being "just friends" you're gonna have to do it. Now if you do want to be just friends with her, keep it how it is and understand that it'll be like that for as long as you guys know each other
/r/seduction22/09/22 07:49 PM
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Yupp, but just understand, women's emotions change like the weather. So don't be surprised if she's into you after you've backed away. I actually use it as a method. It's called fall back till she crawl back. It's usually a hot or miss method, but it's still effective
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:03 PM
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I wish I could tell you just to get over it and take it like it's not a big deal, but for most guys it just doesn't work like that. You have to make sure that you take notes on how you present yourself to women. That's number one. Get creative with how you talk to women. The worst they can say is no anyways, so just start experimenting with your presentation of yourself. The reason why I'm saying that is because most girls hear the same lines over and over again."hey how are you my name is xyz",…
/r/seduction19/09/22 03:03 AM
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A wise man once told me, "she should be the dance to your eyes, and you should be the music to her ears" meaning if you find her attractive, and she doesn't find you attractive, it's okay. What really matters is how you talk to her. If you are charismatic, and creative with your words and body language, you would have little to no problems. With women
/r/seduction16/09/22 07:30 PM
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It's basically relating with them on a topic of anything that makes you guys FEEL a certain way
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:00 PM
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I was just about to type that, I'm glad there are like minded people here
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:13 PM
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Well first off, you need to know how to talk to girls. In most cases, it's not what you say, it's how you say it. If you're coming off as serious, ignoring, or introverted, then you probably won't get the best results regardless. Girls can sense that type of energy. You need to understand g.a.m.e (gaining access with minimal effort) I could explain more if you like, and give you tips and tricks
/r/seduction13/09/22 02:26 PM
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First of all, why does her opinion hold so much value to you? That should never happen. I promise if you said that same joke to a different woman she would laugh. Don't let other people's opinions bother you man. you have to understand that you are the most important person to yourself. Now go out there and be yourself, and be comfortable in your own skin again young king 👑
/r/seduction12/09/22 11:12 PM
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Now this book doesn't really emphasize on neediness, but the best way to attack neediness is to focus on your own independence and understand that everyone has the ability to mean something to you, whether it be romantic or cordial. Everyone is emotionally replaceable besides family based on the process of conditional and unconditional love. Once you understand that people will only love you conditionally besides family (or at least that's what is supposed to happen) then you have no choice but …
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:24 PM
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Outwitting the devil by Napoleon hill. That book will have you focused on yourself. There's an audiobook on YouTube if you need it too
/r/seduction12/09/22 03:43 PM
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Look bro....... When you think about things to say, you'll run out of things to say. But if you let things flow and know what to say based on the conversation already, that is when you can talk forever. And if you start running out of things to say, start going deep. Not wide, meaning, based on whatever she just said, go deeper into that topic. Ask the six main questions (who what where when why how) while maintaining and allowing that low tone, deep voice and good body language to flow. Make su…
/r/seduction10/09/22 06:07 PM
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Basically always be honest. The only way you win or lose depends on the woman. Someone will want a fwb and some won't.
/r/seduction05/09/22 09:23 PM
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So basically what I'm trying to say is, sure. You can say that, but in due time those feelings will go away
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:35 AM
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You're right, and it may help. All girls are different, some might like it some might not. I've experienced a lot of girls who didn't like it because when they find that you're nervous they automatically correlate it to the stereotypical "weird nerdy boy who doesn't know how to talk to girls" I've always been told by girls that they like guys who've "been there and done that" Now it's okay to say that you're nervous in the beginning. But like I said with more practice, those feelings will go awa…
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:34 AM
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It's true, and finding women who are more conservative with their bodies is getting harder. I've come to acceptance with that fact, especially since I live in New york city. I can't even show how disappointed I am anymore. And if I do, they can't open up to me because I've "shamed" them. Women don't want to feel shame or guilt when they're opening up to you. women will like you better when they open up to you, so you shouldn't be judgmental in front of their faces. You can say whatever you want …
/r/seduction05/09/22 05:38 AM
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You shouldn't get into a relationship if you don't plan on staying with her for a long time or having kids with her But on the flip side, you shouldn't have a bunch of meaningless sex It's your job to pick if she's good to play with or to stay with
/r/seduction05/09/22 01:53 AM
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Make sure your body is fit Make sure you're not judgmental when a girl gives you a hoe story or a crazy story Make sure you're calm cool chill and collective at all times. No woman likes a nervous man. When a man is nervous while talking to her, she will end up nervous as well and if you're calm while talking to her, she will be calm as well. Women always remember you mostly by how you made them feel. Not what you said Make sure you have a low, seductive tone for most occasions And try to unders…
/r/seduction05/09/22 12:35 AM
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That's true, and it makes sense, but most women don't think like that. In a woman's mind you shouldn't be nervous if you're meeting people, it should be a nice new experience. But when it comes to doing a certain activity you've never done before, then it's acceptable Now I'll give you the benefit of the doubt because you're starting out, but when you start practicing, in due time that nervousness will go away. And when you look back, you'll ask yourself why you were even nervous in the first pl…
/r/seduction04/09/22 11:57 PM
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It works either way, you can have girls approach you, or you can approach girls. It's all about how you do it. If you want girls to approach you, you have to look approachable. You can't look like an antisocial person even if you are, because if you look antisocial, you will get people to become antisocial with you. If you look sociable and fun to talk to, people will be more inclined to talk to you. Now when it comes to talking to girls, you can't be nervous, you can't be scared, and you can't …
/r/seduction04/09/22 04:39 PM
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I'd rather ask for her instagram. You can see her photos and videos, you can call, text and video chat, and it takes pressure off the stereotypical "can I get your number" and besides, girls are more inclined to give you their socials than their numbers. It's hard for them to understand if you get more off their Instagram though, but it's whatever
/r/seduction04/09/22 03:21 AM
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Women make rules for men they don't like, and break rules for the ones they do like
/r/seduction03/09/22 07:24 PM
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Well, if you put it that way. But don't let that discourage you. Men like what they see, women like what they hear. Some of the ugliest men in the world can get some of the prettiest women in the world. So that's not really an issue. It's about what you say and how you say it vs how you look. Just make sure your hygiene is on point and your clothing is to your own standard. And just make sure you're relaxed and comfortable. If you're anxious and nervous when talking to women, she's going to be a…
/r/seduction23/08/22 03:51 AM
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Well this only happened two times for me. They both had the same scenario. I was hanging out with my friends, and there was a pretty lady already there, for about 10 minutes straight, I kept getting eye contact, and I kept finding her staring at me. So I went up to her, said "hey I noticed you staring. You like what you see?" Luckily she laughed and things went well. We hit it off and then that was that. She later told me that she was looking for something casual and nothing serious, so we kept …
/r/seduction22/08/22 09:05 PM
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Well, we both live in big cities, I live in New York City. I've met women in libraries, bars, amusement parks, regular parks, tourist areas, dating apps, museums, grocery stores, even group meetups. Of course I had to get used to talking to women, before I even approached them or had them approach me. So what I did was go to anonymous voice talking apps, like spoon or clubhouse, and started talking on whatever topics I felt. I had certain conversations with many women which helped build my confi…
/r/seduction22/08/22 05:22 PM
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Go to places where young adults go. You don't go places where people don't make money in search of money. You don't go places where people don't work in search of work. Moral of the story, go places where groups of certain people do certain things. So if people around that age are texting online, or going to fun places, then you must do that too. Try not to cold approach either, cold approaching won't really work because it takes two people to like each other. Women were raised to think that all…
/r/seduction22/08/22 05:08 PM
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1) Just be more confident in yourself, say less, and carry yourself with an "I've been there, done that" mentality. 2) Be relaxed and comfortable around her. Why? Because you set the tone. She's going to be more relaxed and comfortable when you are more relaxed and comfortable. Women like men who can make them feel that way. 3) Don't try to think of things to say. When you think of things to say, you'll run out of things to say. But if you let things flow and know what to say based on the conver…
/r/seduction21/08/22 05:20 AM
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I wouldn't say it would be difficult if she's not already attracted to you, but first impressions do matter. The main thing you must realize is that you must be in your own element, minding your own business, and exuding confidence while doing it. When she starts seeing this, she'll probably be interested but wouldn't approach. Those things happen. But if you think she's attractive and you want to get to know her, and she's consistently showing you signs of interest, then you should approach her…
/r/seduction17/08/22 04:42 PM
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Here's a tip, talk to women that you are unattracted to. It'll reduce some of the nervousness you have and you can really focus on what you're saying and how your body is reacting. This helped me boost my confidence, and now I can talk to beautiful women like it's nothing. Here's another tip, beautiful women like to be treated regularly. It gets a little weird when they're pedestalized, especially when they haven't done anything. They get called beautiful all the time, so for you to not give her…
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:30 PM
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