| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 561 | Women who’d reject you in OLD give you a shot IRL | Field Report | OkResponsibility2470 | /r/seduction | 11/06/23 08:52 PM |
| 8 | Girls who randomly unfollow when you stop giving attention | Outer Game | OkResponsibility2470 | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 07:30 AM |
| 3 | Clubbing: Easier to find a “good spot” or roam? | Logistics | OkResponsibility2470 | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Any advice for solo clubbing? | Escalation & Calibration | OkResponsibility2470 | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 08:27 AM |
| 1 | How often do you run into the same girls at the club | Logistics | OkResponsibility2470 | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 10:40 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Used go get girls easily, now I don't even get matches on tinder.It’s looks. Lol | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 06:24 AM |
| 1 | its 35 yo a good age to start, or its already too late?Idk why you’re being downvoted. A younger woman is not going to pick a dude 10 Yrs older than her unless he is exceptional in some way lol. Thinking otherwise is cope | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7?Idk why ppl here are arguing with you about semantics. Yes, attraction is subjective to a degree but there are objectively attractive traits across all phenotypes and cultures If you are really worse looking than them, and this is not a scenario where you know them beforehand,I think it’s a matter of being in the right place at the right time or being incredibly charismatic | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 09:26 PM |
| 4 | Results from Dating Apps, should I cold approach aswell?Apps are objectively more effective there’s no real reason to do it regularly if dating apps are working well for you besides wasting time imo, unless you aren’t socially adjusted and need the practice | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 01:26 PM |
| 0 | Guys did I ignore red flags?Tbh you probably weren’t the only guy in the picture, you were 100% right to call her out on #4 if you wanted anything serious | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 10:29 PM |
| 2 | I genuinely dk why TF this keeps happening.You’re definitely not an 8 lol. Those guys can have the social skills of a goldfish and still have success. You’re probably coming off in a weird way socially | /r/seduction | 08/05/25 04:23 AM |
| 1 | "Womanese" - a guide to basic yet complex things women say and do without telling you what they meanA lot of the people in this thread are gonna learn the hard way lol. this is incredibly simple. With any girl you genuinely liked, did you ever play any of these moves? Likewise, just like with men, Sleeping with you doesn’t mean she likes you. LOL The one thing I’d disagree is that it isn’t binary, all of these are indicators of low interest and 99% of the time you’re better off putting your time elsewhere but it’s not a guaranteed “not interested” | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Across the Board, What is Biggest Hurdle to Dating/Hooking Up with Girls?Randomly approaching people or dating apps: You’re basically forcing them to make a snap decision, so looks, then actually having social skills. This sub copes extremely hard about this but it’s objectively true. You don’t hit that looks threshold tho, goodnight sweet prince. | /r/seduction | 26/04/25 01:27 AM |
| 168 | Approached a girl, got her insta but this always keeps happening? What am I doing wrong?You’re just another face out of dozens in her DMs | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 08:43 AM |
| 7 | Shit tests from other menIf she doesn’t brush him off herself she’s not even worth speaking to lmao | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Worst first date ever on Valentine’s DayPeople treat you the way you let them | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 03:28 AM |
| 3 | Asian Fever - Pickup TacticsIdk why you think you have to treat Asian women differently. They’re still human with the wants and needs of any other woman. Anecdotally speaking though, being white is pretty much a cheat code. Not to be a hater, but I’ve seen some guys punch waaay above their weight class but only a when they were. I’m mixed race but not white/asian and the Asian girls I dated I met all over the place/ apps, libraries etc and I don’t think there was ever one consistent thing. In other words, it’s the same as … | /r/seduction | 29/01/25 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Do women actually have as many options from online dating as men think they do?…Yes? You talk like they respond to every single guy chasing/messaging them (they don’t) | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 03:10 AM |
| 2 | How can one tell if someone is being flaky and not interested?If anyone takes more than 24h to reply to you and they weren’t in a coma or had no service youre a back up plan at best | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 07:59 AM |
| 5 | Indirect game makes no sense to meLmao, is this indirect game some PUA thing? Cuz it makes no sense to me either. Sounds like jumping through a bunch of hoops for no reason when most women decided if they’re interested in your or not before you even open your mouth | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 05:13 AM |
| 10 | Only getting rejection when going directCold approach is vastly overhyped here. Youre going to overwhelmingly fail more than you succeed. I can count on my hands the number of times I approached a random girl on the street and it wasn’t a waste of time If youre dead set on doing it, do it in social venues only, or pay more attention to the girls who give you an indicator of interest. frankly you probably can get a bigger net return joining a club and meeting women from there and creating an all around better dating profile on the apps | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Do attractive women care about a guy's social media presence?SM absolutely plays a factor but moreso in the sense that a really bad one can hinder you and a really good one can help you | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 06:46 PM |
| 3 | What Worked for You Guys in College for Meeting Girls at BarsI used to go out all the time and I would loosely categorize people in a few groups with some overlap Shotgun approachers I think this method success can vary wildly depending on how you go about it, but generally you’re gonna get curved a-lot. I think the hottest girl I ever pulled was with this method, but it was damn near a one time occurrence Good Looking Guys Literally just show up Bartender/Security Same as 2, if you have any semblance of social skills building rapport is even easier YOLO … | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 09:55 AM |
| 1 | The Brutal Truth About Approaching Women Nobody Wants to Hear+1. I guarantee you the average Joe doesn’t approach 100s of women a week and probably still does better than a lot of people who do | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 07:13 PM |
| 1 | High rejection ratio on daygameCold approach is like throwing darts at a dartboard without knowing where the target is. you’ll miss more often than you hit. And even when you do land one, it’s more likely due to luck than skill. ESPECIALLY if it’s not at some kind of social venue. | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 01:34 AM |
| 3 | How Subtle "Lifestyle" Clues in Your Dating Profile Can Do the Heavy Lifting for YouSeems counterintuitive to the advice I’ve heard which is to be as broadly appealing as possible, but not sure how anecdotal that is | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 02:27 AM |
| 11 | Do women get turned off if you tell them you really like them?Pretty much every girl I showed high interest to off the bat rejected me, even if they pursued me first 😂😂 go figure. it seems like a lot of woman has a dude they’re chasing where she’s just part of the lineup and that dude barely try and isn’t clear on what they are, so you not doing the same makes them sus | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 01:28 PM |
| 0 | What did I screw up?You probably didn’t do anything wrong. You literally could have just been the least appealing guy she went on a date with that week. It’s pointless to overanalyze | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 01:03 PM |
| 4 | How many approaches did you guys do until you saw results?TL;DR; you are always going to fail more than succeed —— The harsh reality is cold approach is ass. It’s like playing darts blindfolded in a hurricane and expecting a bullseye. You’re taking a shot with limited information, facing environmental factors you can’t control (like mood, context, or personal preferences), and the odds are rarely in your favor. I will die on the hill that there is literally no good reason to blindly approach 100s of women and expect anything other than being ghosted be… | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Money, status and lifting is outdated advice in 2025Cope | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Girl doesn't remember me after night, because she was too drunkEject | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Why women don't answer back on tinder no matter if they have matched with you ?This is the only real answer. If you get matches but very low convo rate, her other options are just better | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Where to pick up younger womenIf you’re really as good looking as you say you are you can literally just go to any bar or nightclub and just stand around and women will do the work for you | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 06:15 PM |
| 2 | What is the Most Amount of Women You Can Talk to at Once?most I managed at once was 3 and it was way too much effort for me. I think the only guys with rosters were it works is if you are investing mostly in one or barely in any of them and you just hit them up whenever you please | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 12:15 PM |
| 43 | If a girl wants a relationship but you want to have her as a fwb, how and most importantly when do you tell her ?Honestly, I don't know if I can tell you what the best thing to say is. I've seen guys literally straight up say they are not interested, only ask them over at 12-1am and never wanna go out with them and the girl still stuck around for a while but eventually it came to a head since they still had feelings. It really depends on the girl, some of them are extremely delusional and still hold out hope you will "change your mind", some of them will accept it, some will immediately end things You kow … | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 02:41 AM |
| 344 | If a girl wants a relationship but you want to have her as a fwb, how and most importantly when do you tell her ?If you’re a PoS; never, give vague noncommittal answers whenever she brings it up If you aren’t and another persons feelings are more important than your own pleasure, immediately | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 02:26 AM |
| 39 | How much does a great body help in attracting females?How much do you think a woman with a great body helps attract men? Do you think that woman would date a slightly overweight man? There’s your answer. There’s no solid % because it varies per person. Better looking women have higher standards | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 02:41 AM |
| 2 | FR: Last night was a prime example for me of why dating apps are just so much better (imo)IMO I think this sub is weirdly obsessed with cold approach despite it having the lowest chances of success + most effort BUT honestly you probably would run into the same bs you encountered on there too. It’s just not as overt. I guess the core takeaway is there is a good amount of subjectivity to what’s “better” though im also in the dating app camp | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 07:39 PM |
| 6 | How to get a hookup on Tinder?Only time I’ve ever gotten hookups was when I was pretty direct about it and they just came straight over. Only texting was logistics and maybe some flirting | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Was much more successful in my 20s than my 30s, where do I go from here?If you’re doing the exact same thing It’s probably not your game, honestly . Do you physically look worse? | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 05:34 AM |
| 3 | Should I Be More Picky, Even if It Means Fewer Dates?IMO you really should be trying to get your average interest level up which should yield more prospects because it sounds like the few women you do get aren’t all that interested in you . And if you are gonna be even more selective…i know this is probably not very constructive or specific, but maybe work on improving your dating profile or “looks maxing”? This is just my observation, I could be totally wrong I experienced this a lot, dealing with women with low interest, it changed dramatically … | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 12:07 AM |
| 3 | Compliment on looks or compliment on her style/vibe?You have it right - It literally doesn’t matter, if a girl is interested she will receive any kind of compliment positively. It only matters when she ISNT and/or youre being a creep about it | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Very HornyPay Be good looking | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Accidentally Re-Approached the Same Girl Without Realizing – Here's What Happened"So the truth is - nothing bad happens when you reapproach. Actually the opposite " This is extremely anecdotal. I've seen guys get a negative reaction many of times, especially if it didn't go anywhere the 1st time | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 12:40 AM |
| 12 | Why do I get low effort girlsThey’re not that into you | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Can you actually find good quality women at bars/clubs?Ofc you can. It’s just like any other place. It’s just a matter of vetting them properly | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 12:39 AM |
| 6 | Most young women are used to getting pumped and dumped by fuckboys. Thats why you aren't getting laidIDK how true that is but it definitely is to an extent. IMO, this is more the case for women who are out in nightlife alot, and maybe to a lesser extent dating apps. I can't tell you the number of times I have a girl I know on social media indirectly crying about getting played or getting kicked to the curb over the smallest transgression | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Got broken up with over text during a 4-month Situation-Ship. When should you have the exclusive conversation?So it either wasn’t as “magical” as you said or it has nothing to do with what you’ve done and was caused by some outside factor she isn’t telling you about | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 05:30 AM |
| 9 | Being toxicIdk. I keep meeting women who are like this, where the guy treats them like shit or clearly considers them little more than a warm body and they fawn over the mf like he’s the second coming lmao. And they always end up going back to the guy. That said, I wouldn’t date like 90% of the girls who fit this criteria long term, but they were all really solid looks wise. Go figure | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 04:33 PM |
| 1 | How do I primed my space for sex?Clean everything. I fumbled literally the hottest girl I’ve ever pulled because I didn’t clean living room before she came over | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Any older guys (35+) look super young for their age?I get told I don’t look my age a lot but it’s not much of an advantage for me. Tbh, I’m not really interested in women in their early twenties. Guess I’m just an outlier | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 04:38 PM |
| 1 | How do I flirt on InstagramYour IG…isn’t that great tbh. It looks more like a business account which isn’t going to work. You basically have to be flexing on IG for DM sliding to work. Posting good pics of yourself, and Lifestyle/Hobby stuff | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 06:10 AM |
| 2 | A guy asked to do night game with me and I wish I didn’t agree.1st group: You basically threw him into the pool knowing he can’t swim without floaties LMAO of course he is gonna fumble hard. Last group: okay nvm, he has no social skills 😂 props to you helping him out and being patient | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 03:27 AM |
| 2 | An indifferent manYou literally just have to not care. This is the one reason why having a roster helps | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with intense loneliness and clubbing not helping (yet)?The club is the last place you should be going for meaningful connections | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 09:56 AM |
| 29 | Had an Amazing Night, Then Got Completely Ghosted Why Does This Happen?You can do everything right and still lose. I wouldn’t think too much about it. Have literally met girls, made out with them, banged, gotten their number, kissed me goodnight, and blocked me the next day. LOL | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Good girls are usually picked up from the field by age of 25 at mostThis isn’t true at all lmao. | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 02:37 PM |
| 49 | PSA: seduction =/= basic social skillsI think a lot of people here are neurodivergent(and there’s nothing wrong with that)as feels a lot of this stuff just comes naturally to a lot of men | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Race and cold approachMy broad takeaway from observation matches yours: White: easy mode, slightly harder vs black women Everyone else: harder vs out group, easier vs in group Dante’s inferno mode: dark skinned non asian vs asian, EXCEPT if that demographic is dominant in the area | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 12:48 PM |
| 9 | When did women gain so much leverage?That makes 0 sense 😂😂 cold approach doesn’t change the fundamental aspects of the dating market | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Why online dating is the holy grail for introverted/shy dudesThat isn’t the uniform male experience tho. If it was, this sub wouldn’t exist lol. The hottest girls I’ve pulled were from bars/clubs. Online is a lot easier, with a lot more quantity but quality was lower. Some people don’t even get that though. All you have to sell yourself online are 5 pictures and videos and if they don’t make the cut you’re screwed | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 11:33 PM |
| 7 | Why online dating is the holy grail for introverted/shy dudesI'd argue it's basically the same as going to bars/clubs, which are only slightly less superficial | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"You have no social awareness | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Are "leagues" a thing?They objectively exist. There are objective qualities either gender can possess that make them objectively better looking than people who don’t have those qualities. A lot of people are yapping about “confidence” but a quiet “9” is going to be chose over a confident “5” 99% of the time and likely will expend <50% of the effort to do so. there are niches etc that can bump you up and down, some ppl like blondes, some ppl like darker skin etc, but everyone still have a baseline | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 03:24 PM |
| 2 | should’ve gone for the kiss?From my xp it’s better to always go for it unless it’s abundantly clear it’s not an appropriate time | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 05:28 PM |
| 7 | Moving was the worst thing I have done that affected my game/sucess with womenSounds like you fulfilled some specific niche in your old town that isn’t as sought after in the city | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 03:48 PM |
| 0 | Why girls like being ignoredYou’re even dumber than I thought | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 12:16 PM |
| -1 | Why girls like being ignoredIf you read my comment and still couldn’t comprehend what I’m saying I can’t help you | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 12:09 AM |
| 14 | Why girls like being ignoredIt’s funny to me how people write out paragraphs on how to approach scenarios that other men just walk through effortlessly 😂 brain chemistry is a funny thing | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 03:03 AM |
| 0 | A thought experiment: some dark-skinned Indian guys are black-passing(look like an African American), if they get muscular and change their race to black on Tinder, will it bring more matches? As the title says.Isn’t that what I said? | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 03:27 AM |
| 1 | A thought experiment: some dark-skinned Indian guys are black-passing(look like an African American), if they get muscular and change their race to black on Tinder, will it bring more matches? As the title says.Your entire premise sounds stupid as hell, especially the Harvard analogy. There’s literally no similarity between getting into a college and getting matched on a dating app. I don’t really see how this will help you unless you are looking to mingle with the niche of girls who only want to fw black men. If you are good looking enough I doubt ppl will swipe left on you just bc you’re Indian. On top of that, If you’re going to fake it it’s objectively better to go for something like Latino because… | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Why is Social Media ( DM’s ) approach so Underrated here ?DMing a few hundred girls a week is insane lmao. 1-2 girls is a 2% success rate. Ask yourself that question again 😂 | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Any guys here on the more average side have a good amount of success?I said 5.5, not 5’5 | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Any guys here on the more average side have a good amount of success?If you are objectively average (like 5.5) you’re going to need a lot of volume and your game has to be on point to do well without shooting down tbh. I doubt most of these “avg guys” in here are actually avg if they are doing well without these two criteria | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Average looking men - What is your medthod of getting laid on a night out??Pretty much every time I pull at a club, I wasn’t even trying to (like I was making basic conversation and we ended up making out) or they came up to me. Besides that, standing on the dance floor and random tipsy girls coming up to dance with me | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 05:05 AM |
| 6 | What's your biggest missing opportunity?Had a group of 3 good looking girls try to get my attention (light kino/dancing on me) at a club, did nothing Followed a girl who was a club promoter and she followed me back, she asked me to come to her club and she’d get me a table but I declined exchanged a few simple messages here and there and asked her out for drinks after she quit, kept looking at my lips and got the DTF vibe, fumbled by showing way too much interest and talking about srs relationship stuff(she told me this later down the… | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 08:13 AM |
| 0 | If most women look away immediately as soon as you lock eyes with them, is this is good indicator that you're ugly? (NO COPE ALLOWED)Consistent eye contact is more reliable tbh | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 02:48 AM |
| 9 | Is age a limiting factor as a man?Ppl will say it’s not but it absolutely will be in some cases. You can still do pretty well assuming you’ve taken care of yourself but there will be women who won’t be with it depending on the gap | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Clubbing: Easier to find a “good spot” or roam?Thanks | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Hmmm i Love to seduce a Girl, especially i let her Drink tons of Vodka :P🚩 | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?Girls I’ve met IRL have been, on average, far more attractive than the ones I match with online. But in the end you’re dealing with the same BS. Lots of flakiness, etc. the difference is you can push things much further and faster in an irl scenario. I made a thread here a while back about girls who reject you online being down irl, idk if the lame mods here locked it or not | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Clubbing: Hot then ColdStop buying drinks lol. It’s probably the most pointless thing you can do with random women. Lots will accept then give some BS excuse to escape | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 05:06 PM |
| 0 | Noticed something regarding attention receivedNoticed this too. I’ve gone to Taco Bell after the club, dinner dates, and women will just stare lol. Happens way more frequently when you’re with a woman | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 05:03 PM |
| 148 | Unintentionally ignored a girl and got laidShe was already interested and when nothing happened with the other girl she threw you an alley oop. If anything, she gamed you | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 05:01 PM |
| -1 | Girls who randomly unfollow when you stop giving attention2 of them I matched on Hinge and had plans to meet like a week out, 2 of them were just random girls I followed and just exchanged a few messages with | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 08:01 AM |
| 3 | How to set boundaries with a player?You’re over complicating this. Literally just tell him you think he’s fucking around with you and if that is the case, you aren’t interested | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Is she even interestedSo I’ve been in a situation very similar to this - and imo, you’re either a backup option or she’s using you to fulfill some emotional gap and that’s about it. I literally had the exact same scenario play out - toxic ex, 3 yrs, texted me a lot after the “date” - but it was very clear this girl had some type of romantic interest in me and things naturally progressed to us eventually having sex. Most of the time, if you’re confused about where you stands it means they aren’t really interested | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 07:39 PM |
| 5 | How do you stop feeling insecure about interracial dating?You basically just have to own it. I guess best way to look at it is, there’s no reason to let the perceptions of who are basically NPCs in your life to affect your mental state. Stop focusing on other ppl and what they are doing and put that energy elsewhere because you can’t be certain if it’s malicious or not, and even jf it is there’s nothing you can do about it so there’s no point agonizing it Anecdotal example, I think out of all the girls outside my race there was only one time someone ca… | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Interested in a friend, need some timing adviceIt’s pointless trying to do anything but ask her. The timing won’t make a difference esp if you known her for 2+ yrs | /r/seduction | 19/03/24 07:58 AM |
| 0 | Drop the ten-point scale. Adopt the binary.I guess I see where you’re coming from but I don’t really agree with the logic. You’re basically still doing the same thing except making it even more black and white | /r/seduction | 01/11/23 06:49 PM |
| 3 | I'm proof that having success / money doesn't get you laid. (27/M)Success and money can absolutely get you women. You aren't leveraging your advantages properly, tbh. It's kinda funny because you work in sales but don't know how to advertise yourself, lol | /r/seduction | 11/09/23 09:49 AM |
| 7 | Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubs99% of the time it’s not worth doing | /r/seduction | 10/07/23 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Old man advice, some observations and instruction.+1 to this | /r/seduction | 15/06/23 03:14 AM |
| 3 | Women who’d reject you in OLD give you a shot IRLI thought this would go without saying, but yes | /r/seduction | 14/06/23 11:35 AM |
| 13 | To guys with a high number of bodies(50+) how has it affected your life?Im in the high 20s and barely even tried. 50 is nothing for someone actively trying to get laid frequently, esp if they’re good looking | /r/seduction | 11/06/23 12:14 AM |
| 28 | The Tesla Method: How To Make Dating Easy…isn’t Tesla unprofitable and heavily subsidized lmao | /r/seduction | 09/06/23 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Seduction through Text - Be present or distant?It varies on the girl. There are girls who suddenly became a lot more available the less I messaged them, and there are girls who basically ghosted me because I didn't reply to them for like a day (unintentionally) | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 07:33 AM |
| 3 | Has a girl ever lost interest in you but somewhat became interested again in the future?Met a girl in 2017, was super shy back then and despite obvious ioi never did anything. A year or so later i met her again and she Ended up being a friend of a friend, got her # but fumbled due to social inexperience (she told me after we seggsed the first time she never knew I liked her, but I doubt it) anyway I’d run into her every now and again, at school or at parties. Sometimes she would give signs of interest and sometimes she wouldn’t and I kind of gave up on anything with her and ended u… | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Fucked a girl. she says don't make it weird.I would say be careful with this, it’s cool to have girls know you have options but don’t overdo it. Sometimes her not knowing what you’re up to is just as effective | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | 'Dating 10/10 model girl' - Girl night outs - what is acceptable and what is not.Boils down to a trust issue imo. If people want to give her free shit thats on them, i'd honestly only feel uncomfortable about it if her friends are hos and therefore liable to drag her into undesireable situations OR if your GF has no self control and gets black out drunk / drunk enough to the point she makes bad judgement calls. In my personal experience inability to hold liquor is the worst of those two but ultimately if someone wants to cheat, they will find a way irregardless of what restr… | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?It's definitely not easy if you're a normie without many warm approach opportunities or social circle to exploit | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 07:02 AM |
| 12 | Why do women love thugs so much?women don't give a shit about how much u make unless they're a gold digger or looking to settle down, proven by OPs post. 85k,100k isn't high value anymore(in reality, IT IS, but you have to remember women are being bombarded with depictions of lifestyles like tiktokers, singers, etc, the 'real' high value men..have you ever seen those women on IG who are constantly travelling but never seem to work?), women have their own careers and can take pictures of their feet and easily make that amount o… | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 06:47 AM |
| 0 | Lack of volume in approachingcold approach is low risk low reward imo (ESPECIALLY if you're only average looking). you're better off pursuing other social avenues to meet women | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 12:50 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First Proper Night Out for the Summer. Got cockblocked, but am still proud!The friends will cock block you ALOT unless there is another guy keeping them preoccupied... get used to it lol. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 12:39 AM |
| 16 | How to tell if girl is promiscuous?lots of guy "friends" has been the most reliable indicator for me...cuz lets be real, even if she legitimately believes they're her friends, we all know what most of them are really after. bonus points if she has way more of em then girl friends. 2nd is if they don't seem to have much self control, such as going out and getting utterly shitfaced consistently | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | How to handle a constant liar?Did you catch feelings? It almost sounds like you have, at least a little - if so, cut her off. It's better in the long run. I fw a girl who was a lot like this (CONSTANTLY lying) and you are better off without em. IF you are willing to detach and are okay with her constantly lying to your face, then sure keep her in rotation, I wouldn't trust women like this any further than I could throw them tho | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Should i openly talk with this girl?I think you need to decide what you actually want with this girl. Do you wanna blow her back out or just be platonic? Cause if its the former you really don't need to apologize for anything. its not like you forced yourself on her (i hope), clearly she was into it or it wouldnt have gone to that point. I'd say to save yourself the effort with the dumb games and just tell her you want to talk to her about what happened. Stop overthinking and tryng to engineer a perfect invitation that will someho… | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 06:39 PM |
| 5 | How to get past the eye contact and smiling phase in a club ? its usually pointless to try and have a convo (at least in my experience), best thing to do is to approach them and escalate, she will make it easy for you if shes interested | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 09:53 AM |
| 10 | Girl visiting my city ghosted me after going to the restroomStrongly disagree with that other commenter. There's no excuse for that kind of behavior - you're not a fucking entertainment object. just chalk it up to dodging a bullet. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | I'm only attracted to hot girls physically- but they have no personality!It honestly sounds like you answered your own question lol. Start fishing in another pond | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 02:51 PM |
| – | How do I know if a girl gives me the fuck me eyes or she is just casually looking up because Im taller?Yeah I really can't explain it, I made out -> banged a girl once who's only IOI that entire night was giving me that look after I gave her a hug and all I can tell you is that unless you are severely socially retarded you'll know it when you see it | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 04:06 AM |
| – | Fuck seduction get in your bag. I don’t want woman until I reach 100k cashIf you can't comprehend how having more money can increase your options...I don't think he's the stupid one. LMAO | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 04:05 AM |
| – | A surgeon once said: When I improve someone’s face they get more woman, it’s not because of his looks but because he believes he looks good.yeah try tinder with that mindset and see how much your self confidence matters in getting matches | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else purposely working on themselves before being in a relationship?THIS don't neglect opportunites because you are levelling up | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 05:06 AM |
| 5 | Taking girls on expensive dinner datesNot worth in 21st century untless you've bee ndating a while or are exclusive | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 05:05 AM |
| 3 | which advice changed youre whole gameHe who hesitate masturbates | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 12:17 PM |
| 4 | Best tinder opener that’s not cringeyBe attractive Don't be unattractive | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Girls bumping into me at clubs, what do I do?Some girls are a mystery, today I had a girl who was grinding on me but would give me a bitchy look and would move my hand if I touched her shoulder In your case you are overthinking. Your train of logic is pretty absurd - they clealry want to dance so just fucking dance with them | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 09:32 AM |
| 1 | A relationship with 14 years.Get crushed while you're young. Things will go a lot easier for you in the future that way | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 07:35 PM |
| 5 | What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn"I mean its basically true if you think about the number of women you fw vs the one you eventually end up possibly sticking with long term | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 06:12 PM |
| – | Wish me luckgood luck boyo | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 06:27 AM |
| – | Have you met like extremely handsome guys who could walk into any place, literally any place, and girls would be all over them? Not just bars..Had a friend like this. 0 Game, would literally do nothing but stand around drunk/ high af and steal the girls my other friends would pull LMAO | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 06:13 AM |
| 2 | Keep it simple stupidThis. I get where you're coming from OP but if things were really that simple boards like this wouldn't exist | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Tinder’s Algorithm is a scamHottest girl I hooked up with came from Tinder but it's definitely a wash if you are legitimately average looking. I posted a thread about it earlier but I couldn't get over the idea that the women who approaced me IRL afterwards at clubs/bars had some kind of ulterior motive talking to an uggo like me | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 05:26 AM |
| 7 | Solo clubbing, what to say when approachedyou dont need to talk to them (its 99% fruitless anyway with all the ambient noise) If they are literally walking up to you you're basically in, all you have to do at that point is pick one and start dancing with her - but u need to escalate . after u feel like you have a high enough comfort level grab her by the hand and spin her around and grind, should be ez from there | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 02:19 AM |
| 38 | I noticed a lot of guys at clubs/bars would rather talk to other guysTalking to guys is legit more fun than talking to a woman standing in a circle with her bitch shields up. Not all gals are like this but definitely had nights where I had more fun making friends than hunting tail. It also helps get you hype if they're high energy | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 11:27 PM |
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