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| 4 | Women ask men to improve emotionally, yet their dating preferences often incentivize men to focus on material success and physical appearanceBecause they are hypocrites and if they admitted what they are genuinely attracted or looking for they know that like 80% of men would basically go into crisis mode and try to strip their rights and livelihood away so they have to keep this facade that even you can get sex no matter how short and ugly you are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 11:28 PM |
| – | The idea of men needing to be "nice" really needs to die alreadyAgain, it all comes back to looks. Nearly all behavior is excused by women or disapproved by women solely based on the physical appearance of the man doing said behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 11:26 PM |
| – | It's better to become a redpiller than to try the bluepill way of coping with the lack of dating success..There definitely is one lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 06:34 PM |
| – | It's better to become a redpiller than to try the bluepill way of coping with the lack of dating success..Blue pill is definitely the most unrealistic of the pills. I often find it’s the pill that women wish all men would believe cause it would make the world safer and easier for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 05:58 PM |
| – | It's better to become a redpiller than to try the bluepill way of coping with the lack of dating success..And those guys have things I can’t achieve | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 05:57 PM |
| 8 | Our knowledge of dating is limited to our self experienceI don’t think that’s entirely true because you can get a sense of other experiences through talking to people and hearing their stories and experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 05:56 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Your son is unsuccessful with women, would you get him an escort for his birthday?They do. That’s why so many men are virgins lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 04:42 PM |
| 4 | Men don't want empathy, they want powerYou’re right. Empathy doesn’t solve shit but transparency on the part of women would help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 04:29 PM |
| -2 | Do you think women are more bigoted then men?Yes they are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 04:28 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: Your son is unsuccessful with women, would you get him an escort for his birthday?No because a key aspect is sexual validation. Meaning what’s in it for the woman isn’t money. She actually wants the sex with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Misandrist is justifiable. Misogyny isn’t.I think a lot of misandry is just trying to “get back” at men for rightly judging women for their actions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 01:54 PM |
| 4 | Why do you find dating hard?Except the dirty water is usually not dirty at all. She just thinks any water that doesn’t live up to her expectations is dirty while it’s actually safe to drink | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do you find dating hard?Don’t worry ladies, I got this! It’s cause the hot men just want to fuck and the ugly ones won’t stop trying to shoot their shot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 01:25 PM |
| 0 | Misandrist is justifiable. Misogyny isn’t.To me, misandry is just “why can’t I have casual sex with hot men and complain about how hard dating is with all my self imposed restrictions without these ugly short men I don’t want trying to shame or stigmatize me.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 01:24 PM |
| 13 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADCause if women admit it, there may be a price to pay for them if enough young sexless angry men believe they have nothing to lose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:18 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?Ofc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:05 PM |
| 8 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI don’t take offense to it. I’m a realist. I’m not attractive and I don’t really have a path to even be average. I lack everything a woman is looking for in a partner. And I understand your advice but I think even you are aware the odds of that actually working are beyond small because 1) those spaces are like 90% male and 2) I’d still be competing with other males in those spaces regardless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:52 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?Yes! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:50 PM |
| 11 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYes I do. I’m about 5’6, maybe 3 out of 10 face, and I’m autistic and extremely awkward in social settings and have a slight speech impediment. So I can confidently say that me at my absolute best would be the average man at his absolute worst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:44 PM |
| 19 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThere is no amount of “eduction” that will stop young men from gravitating towards incel spaces and being more aligned with the right/extreme right wing. If most young men are having an incredibly difficult time establish romantic relationships with young men due to their physical appearance, they will only seek revenge or some way to even the playing field. It’s evolutionary and no amount of reasoning or eduction or interaction will stop it in any meaningful sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:40 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNot even close | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:38 PM |
| 12 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThat’s like saying me at my absolute best is most men at their lowest. It helps with nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:38 PM |
| -4 | I believe women have a personal motivation to lie about their desiresI 100% agree! They have a clear and convincing self interest to lie about what they like in men, don’t like, and why. The truth comes out only when they believe only other women who also agree with them are the ones they are talking to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:37 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?I’m not gonna make a comment that could get me banned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:24 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?Idk like acid or something. I’m not saying it will ever happen or that I want it to or anything of that nature. I’m not advocating for violence or saying it’s good. I’m just like in an ideal world everyone is paired with their looks match | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:15 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?I mean there’s little more I can get lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:14 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?lol I’m not saying in reality this is just an ideal world. That’s why I said in an ideal world. Not saying it ever would or could happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:13 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?lol for what? Does therapy fix height and face and hairline? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:13 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?Cause if we do that women will still just gravitate to a small subset of the most physically attractive men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:10 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?For hookups possibly. But im saying its to the point where even they wouldn’t use its body | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:09 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?If it was a woman saying that to me I would be ok with it cause I’m ugly so why would I have a problem with an ugly woman demanding sex from me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:07 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?Idk I guess maybe like a physical deformity or something that would make it impossible for them to obtain the men they are actually attracted to cause they’ll be forever too ugly to get those men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:07 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?Well not them cause they’d always pick a 8+/10 cause every female thinks it’s a 10 lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 03:57 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?She can they just all can’t. They can’t form harems. They need to take their looks match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 03:53 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?Nothing will want to make them do it. It’s just the failure to do so will have life altering repercussions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 03:51 PM |
| – | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?Ideally a society where the consequences for hypergamy and an unequal distribution of sex are so disproportionately severe for women that all men have a genuine chance at getting a keeping a girlfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Guys don't have to worry about being judged for having strong sexual desires.They clearly aren’t if you look around lol! That’s an insane statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Guys don't have to worry about being judged for having strong sexual desires.Men in general have to have lower standards in order to get a gf in modern dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Women should not be shamed for having lots of options and living accordingly. It's their live and they have the right to date around and choose the best guy for them.I don’t care if they should or shouldn’t. It’s not in my interest for them to not be shamed so I’ll do it and I hope others do as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 01:49 PM |
| 0 | Guys don't have to worry about being judged for having strong sexual desires.We can’t have standards or else we’d definitely be alone forever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 01:47 PM |
| -1 | If women hate being objectified, why don't women stop other women from objectifying themselves?A) They are lying. They hate the WRONG MEN objectifying them. They are fine with the men they are attracted to objectifying them. B) they don’t give a shit what other women do so long as it doesn’t effect their status or material interests | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 06:53 AM |
| -1 | Q4W: Why can't you detect toxicity/misogyny in attractive men?You really think you’ll get an honest answer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:24 AM |
| 11 | Do you think it's harder to find a good job or a good partner?100% a good partner. I could probably find a seven figure job before a girl friend lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Guys don't have to worry about being judged for having strong sexual desires.Ok let’s use this logic for lesbians | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Guys don't have to worry about being judged for having strong sexual desires.That’s not reflected in reality this is just some anecdotal bull shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Guys don't have to worry about being judged for having strong sexual desires.Most men would put up with a lot from a woman in order to have sex with that woman. Instead or admitting most men would have sex with most women you have to deflect or obfuscate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:19 AM |
| 3 | Guys don't have to worry about being judged for having strong sexual desires.Sexuality matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Guys don't have to worry about being judged for having strong sexual desires.Are you a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Guys don't have to worry about being judged for having strong sexual desires.Most men have very low standards for what women they will and won’t sleep with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 03:08 AM |
| – | Body count always has and always will matterWish it was that simple but eventually all these sluts will likely be looking to settle and that might be the only thing we have access to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Guys don't have to worry about being judged for having strong sexual desires.Men include lots of different types of women when they want to have casual sex while when women want casual sex they exclude nearly all men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 02:16 AM |
| – | Body count always has and always will matterYeah it really does matter. The only men who want women with lots of previous partners are cucks or men who also have lots of previous partners. But a woman kinda becomes an untouchable if you find out about her college experience or hoe phase. I would genuinely feel disgust and lose interest immediately if a woman I was interested in had a hoe phase | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 02:13 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADWomen act like they but virtue of being a woman in modern dating are owed a 7+/10 man and they are compromising their standards or settling for anything less than that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 11:09 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThat’s not true lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 10:56 PM |
| 6 | Guys don't have to worry about being judged for having strong sexual desires.The only reason men judge women’s strong sexual desires or sexual promiscuity differently is because men’s desires are inclusionary and women’s are exclusionary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 10:39 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADA think a rich person actually is more aware of their privilege than a woman is in relation to dating and the sexual marketplace | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 10:35 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNot really comparable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 10:31 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYes for the female it’s pretty obvious lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 10:19 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADCause they don’t want to address their own entitlements or feelings of entitlement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 09:56 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI hate when women call men “entitled” when the reality is, in the dating market women act for more entitled than most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 09:42 PM |
| 8 | The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible adviceIn terms of looks he ranked higher than her and she was dating up in looks while she believed she was dating across. Once he was picked and secured access to her and wasn’t competing with other men he lost interest and decided to look for his next conquest. Now she becomes an alpha widow meaning she probably can’t lock down a man as equally physically attractive as him which frustrates her cause she believes shes entitled to that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 09:34 PM |
| 28 | If most men followed the "look for implicit attraction signals / read the room / make sure there is some interest" advice that is given, most men would have minimal opportunitiesMost women feel no attraction to most men. So there really aren’t any signs that you can read at all if you’re sub 7 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 09:31 PM |
| 1 | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant.I think you’d agree very few rejections happens over “mindsets” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 09:29 PM |
| 1 | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant.An unappealing mindset can be overlooked by a woman much faster than an unappealing body | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 08:31 PM |
| 7 | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant.I’ve read posts of women admitting as much. That the guy is tall and hot and they don’t get along that well or have that much in common but the woman isn’t interested in ending things cause she’s very attracted to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 01:36 PM |
| 3 | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant.I didn’t argue it was healthy I’m just saying if you look around you can see men and especially women with people who they don’t necessarily share that much in common with still dating and hooking up cause of attraction to the bodies. I’m sure most women know for a fact that they can find a man that has significantly more in common with them if they wanted to but that’s not really what they’re looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 01:26 PM |
| 3 | Promiscuity and hookup culture is ruining our society.Not at the same rates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 01:24 PM |
| 14 | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant.No, and I never claimed that. But you’ll never get into that relationship as a man if you haven’t met the woman’s looks and height standards first. Also I think it is accurate to say that most women or possibly people in general would sacrifice some shared hobbies in order to obtain a more physical attractive partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Promiscuity and hookup culture is ruining our society.Right so it’s involuntary. The reason less men are having sex now isn’t cause they chose it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 12:59 PM |
| 28 | To be successful at a SOCIAL interaction with another human (a.k.a. dating / relationship), SOCIAL skills are the most important thing. This is as obvious as the sky is blue, yet some people on this sub keep doubling / tripling down on the desperate lie that social skills are irrelevant.I don’t disagree that social skills are extremely important. I think what a lot of us men on here say is that they can often be irrelevant or nullified by a persons physical appearance like their looks and height. I man who’s very short and or physical unattractive is usually relegated to simply being seen as a friend or nothing more. The ideal partner women want is a tall hot man with great social skills. But it’s not a stretch to assume that a man with great physical characteristics but less g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 12:59 PM |
| – | Feminism has freed men more than women: my hypothesisI love how female users always “other side” it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 12:44 PM |
| 0 | debate on percentage of women cheating vs menMost men can’t cheat even if they wanted to. It’s beyond difficult to find a woman interested in you as a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 03:53 AM |
| 4 | Every man should live the fuckboy lifestyle if they can at some pointMost men will never no matter how hard they try because it’s women who run the show in terms of hookups | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 02:11 AM |
| 0 | What if we could reinvent Dating Apps?The only way to fix a dating app would be to force the female users to interact with the men they don’t find immediately physically attractive. And the female would never want or agree to such a thing because it has not interest in doing so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 01:21 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNo, I’m not talking about violence or murder or anything crazy like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 08:22 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI mean reacting in a way that causes other people to not be able to ignore your grievances | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 08:13 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADIt seems a lot of modern women do expect that. They think that lashing out against a society for selfish reasons is unreasonable. I’m not arguing if it’s right or wrong. But it’s certainly within reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 08:06 PM |
| – | You Can’t Argue your Way to Success in DatingNo one here is saying they can argue their way into attractiveness or argue the female out of its nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 07:57 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADJust as it’s unreasonable to expect a woman to have sex with a man she’s not physically attracted to, it’s unreasonable for an individual or society as a whole to expect that a man with no sexual validation and success from the opposite gender be happy and content and docile in life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Promiscuity and hookup culture is ruining our society.It ruins society in so far as it excludes most young men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Promiscuity and hookup culture is ruining our society.But it’s not by choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 07:37 PM |
| 11 | A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their characterPlease tell more women that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 05:30 PM |
| 1 | “Women aren’t a monolith” vs “Not all men”If women aren’t a monolith we could expect to see a relatively equal distribution of sex and relationships cause a monolith would all form a cohort around a small subset of men. But a group that isn’t monolithic would be more equally distributed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 04:43 PM |
| 2 | women have an aundance of BOTH casual and romantic optionsI agree and any woman who disagrees is lying because women equate an option they are not physically attracted to as no option at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Being a woman in your late thirties or forties is not the handicap it used to be. I’ve noticed they’re dating more and more young attractive menYeah cause all men are getting more desperate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 04:41 PM |
| 4 | Telling struggling men to be gay is not a valid solution.They say that to terminate a conversation they believe they might be losing in my experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 04:40 PM |
| 14 | A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their characterAt least you’re honest lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 04:39 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their characterThey are linked together. Attractive men receive constant validation especially from women growing up. They have no reason to have poor social skills | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 04:38 PM |
| 12 | A lot of men who are chronically single get immediately rejected, not ghosted after they showed their characterYou’re right and wish women would be more open to admitting it cause they are obviously aware it’s true. A good person means nothing to most women. An attractive and sociable person is what they are looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 04:36 PM |
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