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| 1 | How can dating work efficiently in a world without gender norms?It's simple. You keep meeting people until you find people who have chemistry with you. Someone who is attracted to you doesn't just stop being attracted to you because social norms change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Rejected men and loss of masculinity. How ate they suppose to deal with it.If you get rejected, do everything. Work on your social skills. Get into social circles. Look better (hair, clothes, physique). Talk to more women. Get better photos on dating apps. \^ Doing all of that will infinitely help you more than theorycrafting on the internet about masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 04:27 PM |
| – | I've heard people say that men's lack of success on dating apps doesn't occur in real life. I don't believe thatI'll offer a different opinion here. There are just less women than men on apps, and this makes more apps competitive for men. This would happen regardless of the company. Even the apps not owned by Matchgroup (i.e. Bumble) are the same experience. A lot of women are driven away from the apps because guys send dickpics and super sexual messages. I know it's not the majority of men that do this. But the ones that do, mass message this stuff to lots of women. This kind of stuff makes them uncomfor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 03:26 PM |
| 2 | I've heard people say that men's lack of success on dating apps doesn't occur in real life. I don't believe thatOne match a week isn't much. Having great photos that make you stand out is super important. Especially the first pic. Keep in mind chatting with more than a few people at once can be overwhelming. I get overwhelmed as a guy when I talk to 5 matches at once. Imagine how a woman feels talking to 10 or 20. When you have 10-20 matches, you'll go on dates with the 3 with the profiles that stand out the most and ignore the rest. If you're not asking them on a date in the first few messages, I would g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Do women instictively know when you have options?You get the abundance. If you don't have a social life, build one. If you aren't getting matches on dating apps, look better and get better photos. If you aren't making moves, start asking women out. | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Boys. No matches? Delete your accounts TODAY, recreate on the 91st day. In the meantime, go do in person activities ONLY.I get like 10-15 matches a week. Not a lot, but more than many on here. It's not enough to get new pics. They need to be good pics. And if you're not getting matches, chances are you don't know the difference between a good and a bad pic. | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 01:43 PM |
| 0 | Boys. No matches? Delete your accounts TODAY, recreate on the 91st day. In the meantime, go do in person activities ONLY.This is because your photos suck. You don't need to delete, remake or do all sorts of elo tricks. Look better, hit the gym, dress a bit better, get a haircut. Take photos with a good camera. | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Rebuilding in 2026I would drop the lingo and just do what normal people who go on lots of dates do. Like get in shape, be social, get into social circles and friend groups. + Get great pics for dating apps. Looking better and meeting lots of people will do infinitely better than any pickup methods. | /r/seduction | 11/01/26 09:52 PM |
| 1 | You’ve had a good date, she’s agreed to come home, now how do you escalate?To be honest, I feel like people on reddit get so focused on following step by step instructions rather than just letting it happen organically. Chat with her, see what the vibe is, ask what she wants and go based on that. I'm not against anything you wrote. But I think it's more important to read the situation than to try to follow a guide from the internet. | /r/seduction | 11/01/26 01:37 PM |
| 1 | You’ve had a good date, she’s agreed to come home, now how do you escalate?Use your words. You can wrap your arm around her while you're both on the couch ask if that's okay. You can ask if she wants to kiss. If you're making out, you can ask if she wants to go into the other room. | /r/seduction | 11/01/26 01:33 PM |
| 1 | What are subtle ways women flirt with men?I think it's better to just ask them than to rely on signs. Ask for their number. Ask them on a date. You get a clear answer and you get that answer immediately. | /r/seduction | 11/01/26 01:31 PM |
| 1 | How to increase volume naturally?(without cold approach)I noticed I went on WAY more dates on dating apps when I started pitching a date early on in the first few messages. A lot of women want to just get off the app and spend time with a real life person. I'd offer days I'm free. I'd suggest a location; or I'd offer 2 and let them pick. I try to be proactive. I wouldn't just say "hey want to do something some time". And also improving the photos on the dating app. People are far more likely to go on a date with you if they love your profile rather t… | /r/seduction | 11/01/26 01:23 PM |
| 1 | How do I NOT come of as desperate?The way to not come off as desperate is to actually not be desperate. It's not just about how to come off, but rather being genuine. Your words and actions come from the mindset that you operate from. Have hobbies/interests to occupy your time. Have some goals outside of just dating. Don't put all your eggs in one person. Meet people in real life and find social circles IRL. Meet more people on dating apps. etc. If you're chatting with 2 or 3 people instead of just 1, there's less pressure for t… | /r/seduction | 11/01/26 01:20 PM |
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