Ok_Cauliflower6211 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	LOL, are they all this flighty and erratic? I live in a small town with a big lake life. My all-time favorite response this time of year is “No worries! I need to put some runtime on my boat this afternoon [or insert time of cancelled date here] anyway. Maybe catch you next time!” Then go silent. The responses i have received to that comment have bordered pathetic. And something to remember about that boat (Besides the fact that they are money pits)…..they don’t want you for the boat. They want you for what/who they think the boat can get…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/06/24 05:43 AM
7	My wife mentioned divorce Why do you have to be married for another 2 months?	/r/Divorce_Men	17/06/24 03:13 AM
2	I'm getting a divorce with the same person “Covert savage.” I’m putting this one in my vocabulary. Thank you.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/24 05:22 AM
3	I'm getting a divorce with the same person God does not ruin marriages -or at least not the God I know. But organized social cults disguised in the name of denominational religion, they do enjoy a good marriage-turned-witch-trial………	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/24 05:16 AM
1	Dating a person with little to no net worth at age 40? Thank you for investing your time in such an overlooked, yet important, thing.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/04/24 12:56 PM
2	Why do we seem so rare? Bruh….don’t take this the wrong way. But statistics are statistics for a reason. The “Happy couples with kids” you see today are most likely, in some stage or another, tomorrow’s other 50%. Just sayin….. it’s a cancer in america. It has broken and ruined so much. And in true american fashion, we are leading the world in it. It’s time for a change. One of the best things you can do for your psyche and for yourself esteem at this stage is to discover your purpose, and to know that you are making a…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/04/24 04:36 AM
2	How did you level yourself up? Let me add to this, if I may….. this is excellent advice, especially with you being a jack of all trades type. Just be sure to find a really good accountant who can explain to you beyond tax law, and into “child support calculation” law. Depending on your state, and your accountant/lawyer combo, this could really work out well for you. Keep your chin up. Seek support in all the right places. Keep climbing. It will be worth it. And keep a smile on your face. Don’t give up….brotherrrrr. And reach …	/r/Divorce_Men	16/04/24 04:12 AM
1	He’s at my goddamn house right now I’m sure there’s someone in this group who already has more thorough insight on this than myself, but wouldn’t this be good evidence to put in the file for infidelity? It seems that it carries less weight in court nowadays than it ever has, but there are still some outposts of judges who still get very upset to see this kind of thing happening.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/24 07:03 PM
2	Have court tomorrow. Nervous as ever Checking in and checking up on you. How did the miscellaneous hearing go?	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/24 03:16 PM
1	Have court tomorrow. Nervous as ever Non-profit. I dont guess it’s technically a charity. But it’s also not intended to take peoples’ money and leave them just as empty as when they started.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/02/24 01:02 PM
3	Have court tomorrow. Nervous as ever I have a friend who started a np. How would you feel about tomorrow if you knew you could pick up the phone and call someone (not your attorney) to discuss tomorrow and the events to expect? Would it make you feel a little more at ease? This is part of their mission. I think it may grow to be a good thing. But, regardless, GOOD LUCK TOMORROW! My prayers are with you!!	/r/Divorce_Men	15/02/24 04:50 AM
6	Wife cheated on me with my father I second this. Changing the last name will show voluntary severance from the crappy lineage, so as not to create a generational curse. Start over. With your own family name, and new image. The father is obviously not the kind of person a man would be proud to call “dad.” Blow the top on it. Make it so embarrassing for everyone else that nobody even makes an attempt to embarrass you. But prepare for your father’s side of the family to come up with excuses for his actions. I have seen it play out …	/r/Divorce_Men	10/01/24 06:43 PM
5	Wife wants me to move out for the month of January, anything I should be concerned about from a legal perspective? They are setting up the playing field to ensure that you will never win, and you will always lose. This is just step one to you losing it all: The kid, all of your money,etc….trying to recover just what should legally be yours to begin with, such as just being able to see your child. The best thing you can do is devise a plan, take solid advice from people who know and have been through same or similar -before you take advice from an attorney. And keep in mind that she is the one who has the pro…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/23 01:58 AM
13	Why should I have to marry down and be a provider? GROWN through. Man, I love that.	/r/MensRights	14/12/23 03:11 PM
3	Sign the petition to appoint a Minister for Men in the UK “Rough sleeping?” What does that even mean? Perhaps this petition could use a bit of editing to be more descriptive and/or convincing on that particular line? Regardless, I would sign it if i lived in the UK. While I thank God every day that I live in the USA, the UK is leaps and bounds ahead of us in researching parental alienation, the parenting dynamic skewed against men, and pushing for men’s rights overall. And for that, I commend you. Stay in the fight. Keep the faith.	/r/MensRights	06/12/23 03:34 PM
4	I don't trust people anymore “When someone asks for an open relationship, your relationship is over. They have already been emotionally cheating and want your permission to physically cheat.” Please keep preaching this. True words.	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 08:17 PM
1	Friend's been married for 8 years but since the 2 toddlers, wife became insufferable to live with. He filed for divorce and she went MORE NUTS and made a FALSE domestic violence report. He lawyered up but can use all the help he can get at this point to see his kids. Good writing. But WHAT IF there were resources out there to complement the soon-to-be or already-existing attorney? Would people use them? I am, and have been for nearly 5 years now, in a similar situation as OP. And the number 1 thing I have needed the most is a coach. A good coach probably would have done more good for me than all of the attorneys combined. Again, I appreciate your response.	/r/MensRights	19/06/23 02:20 PM
1	Friend's been married for 8 years but since the 2 toddlers, wife became insufferable to live with. He filed for divorce and she went MORE NUTS and made a FALSE domestic violence report. He lawyered up but can use all the help he can get at this point to see his kids. I would love to hear more about how you pulled this off. Pm is fine if you prefer. Congratulations, btw. Your story will give hope to many.	/r/MensRights	19/06/23 02:13 PM
3	Friend's been married for 8 years but since the 2 toddlers, wife became insufferable to live with. He filed for divorce and she went MORE NUTS and made a FALSE domestic violence report. He lawyered up but can use all the help he can get at this point to see his kids. Are there resources besides social media to help men in (and out of) situations like this? Perhaps a professional service such as a very well skilled and diplomatic counselor, life coach type? Or is that even a thing? Most lawyers, if they even give any good advice, do so between 8-5 M-F (and at $250-$350-$450/Hour). Surely there are many on here who know that the problems typically peak after normal business hours…. What workarounds are there for that? I am all ears.	/r/MensRights	19/06/23 07:38 AM
2	"Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provide something" “But whenever they’re going through a tough time, all of their friends are there to tell them how great and wonderful they are.” While I wholeheartedly agree with the entirety of your post, I do have to say that men are guilty of not doing this often enough. We have to do better about supprting each other. This group is a wonderful start.	/r/MensRights	03/06/23 01:28 AM
2	We Want Equality, Until It's Time For Equality PREACH!	/r/MensRights	23/05/23 03:03 AM
3	Australia's war on boys continues, accusing all 16 year old school boys of "rape culture" I agree, USA is leading the way on the idiotic beliefs. Move to America and help make a change. We could use more like you.	/r/MensRights	12/05/23 02:36 PM
1	Be careful out there, fellas I cannot upvote this enough.	/r/MensRights	12/05/23 05:16 AM
1	Be careful out there, fellas Why do you say this “smart enough not to take your side” portion? Not bashing you, but simply intrigued and wanting to learn. After all, he has presented in his story to be a minority (If said story takes place in USA), so that alone should carry some “unofficial” weight for him in his workplace. This is interesting.	/r/MensRights	12/05/23 05:15 AM
1	Equality feels like oppression? I can’t speak for everyone, but I can certainly speak for myself. It’s not that I/we are looking for women in the wrong places. A woman (or PERSON/PARTNER in general) like you is hard to come by. Consider yourself a unicorn, a member in a herd of unicorns. Not always, but typically, like people attract like people. People who like to fish, for example, they spend time around other people who like to fish. People who read books go to book clubs with people who read books. Again, not ALWAYS, but t…	/r/MensRights	15/07/22 05:43 AM
3	Equality feels like oppression? I had a desk job in college where the manager of the location literally told me “Whenever we have a man on shift, it is his job to take the trash from the building to the can at the street.” It was approximately 20-gallon bags of shredded paper. Every woman there weighed more than me, was built bigger than me, and claimed no physical disabilities.	/r/MensRights	15/07/22 05:27 AM