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It bemuses me how men take things like slut shaming or emotional abuse or really inappropriate bullying between women, and use it to say "ha, the women who perpetrate this are perceptive and see through other women". In my experience female bullies use more manipulative tactics but they pick the same targets as male ones for much the same reasons. Jealousy/ perceived weakness/outright paranoia on the part of the bully. Insecure women can be extremely hard on other women when they feel threatened…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:11 AM
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It boils down to this for me - if a good boss has an underachieving or a dishonest employee, they should deal with him or her fairly. And if someone suspects their son is in a bad relationship the focus should be on supporting him, not on psychologically terrorising his wife. Mature women sometimes opt for the "psychological terror" option though rather than fairness when they suspect something is wrong, and that's why young women who've been burned by this at work already are often wary and pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:59 AM
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Truly consensual casual sex is just a lifestyle choice. Manipulating women is an ego trip. It has to be - it takes time and effort for them to lead one woman on, let alone a number. They enjoy letting these women down and having power over them. Another aspect of it is he might want a relationship but not be stable enough to provide one but that's a minority of men. Seriously you won't get a good response for even raising the question here. There is a massive denial around how similar this stuff…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:20 AM
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Im pretty sure this has NOTHING to do with penises lmao. It's the social side of things. Men can be incredibly cruel to women they date, women they don't like, so how do you think they act towards women who are competition? The WORST place you can be is in a relationship where you are literally competing with his friends. Bi or gay men who are jealous because they want to be with another man are just horrible people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:14 PM
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Yep - but I've noticed in male dominated places female bullies get more vicious with the rumours and slurs and do stuff that seems more aggro and similar to sexual harassment. I think in an all female place they would change tactics as other women have less tolerance for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:47 AM
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I'm female and it DEFINITELY exists! It all depends on the women involved. I think most women just focus on living their lives and socialising a bit until they meet the right man, and they'll find a style that suits them, often including makeup and flattering clothes etc. I don't know if that really is "competition" or just a desire to fit what society expects. They're not really combative with other women, but you might find yourself excluded from a social group or whispered about if you flirt …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:29 PM
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"Bad sex habits". Most women don't magically think sex = a relationship out of the blue. Usually if women think a relationship will start there is a REASON. I.e. maybe they've gone on dates or the man has been friendly with them for a significant period of time or has been love bombing them. I agree with you that genuinely consensual casual sex is not damaging to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:10 AM
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Dude in the case of purple pill you literally have a whole subreddit of men who rate women from 1 to 10 and talk about plotting to use unattractive and damaged women for sex. Im literally shocked by some of the stuff people write on here as it seems borderline criminal. The problem with male sexuality is not that it's bad to fall in love or to want beautiful, put-together women....it's that many men lie to, mistreat, hurt and degrade vulnerable women in the meantime. No one wants to be treated l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:19 AM
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No problem, I was once in a similar situation with a hot/cold, controlling man who i was dependent on emotionally. I found that actually acknowledging what he did was a kind of abuse - rather than just redpill or an immature guy- actually really helped me process it. To be honest what this guy is doing to you is more extreme than what I went through but I noticed the same mental health things, anxiety, fear, adhd type symptoms when I never showed signs of that condition before. When I did some r…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 08:49 AM
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So....him not defining this as a "relationship" , for whatever reason, doesn't change the fact that this is a really toxic relationship. Controlling your social behaviour and belittling you constantly sounds like coercive control. He sounds like he's capable of being really abusive and you probably won't be able to recover and regain your confidence while youre living with him. It might help to look for specialised resources on recovering from domestic abuse, and safe alternative places where yo…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 05:56 AM
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Lol. Once you've been rejected AFTER sex and you've really been made to feel degraded, other forms of rejection actually become much more palatable. Especially if the guy is someone you don't even know well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:41 AM
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Because......sometimes they do!! I'm passionate about this lol because it's really interesting and complex. Love and sex are really powerful things. In 2023 casual sex can be completely honest and consensual and open (and it usually is) but there ARE still men who are very dishonest. Just to give an example from my own life I have had a couple of one flings with men I didn't know or have any expectations of and they were good experiences. Not life changing, but fun. I didn't regret anything. On …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:51 AM
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