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Yeah fuck all this shit just for pussy like I said I’ll rather use my hand than do all this shit
/r/seduction05/07/22 12:33 PM
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But I don’t even meet new women. Don’t know how and where. I don’t really like cold approaching. Recently I took uni dance classes with a women from my uni, but she’s really not my type and I couldn’t convince myself to kiss her and give it a try because I just don’t like her looks. She was very into me though.
/r/seduction05/07/22 12:00 PM
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Yeah I’m improving myself since 6 months now. But I don’t approach women anyway so it doesn’t really matter. I have this mindset they don’t wanna be bothered by me so whatever
/r/seduction05/07/22 11:35 AM
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LMAO
/r/seduction06/06/22 12:56 AM
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Exactly. This shit are not „rules“, it’s stuff that worked for some dudes on some girls.
/r/seduction05/06/22 07:43 PM
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Hmm
/r/seduction05/06/22 06:37 PM
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Wtf you basically didn’t understand a word of my post. I don’t give 2 shits whether the prostitute is ‚interested‘ in me or not.
/r/seduction05/06/22 06:27 PM
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For the one where I fucked up the kiss it was probably more like my general behaviour. It was the first girl I dated and I was way too obsessed and clingy. I would’ve cut the ropes too being in her shoes lol.
/r/seduction05/06/22 06:24 PM
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Yes I reduced it to a minimum / not at all since 2 weeks now
/r/seduction05/06/22 05:56 PM
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How did you get out of that bad mindset though and finally had sex?
/r/seduction05/06/22 05:45 PM
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Kinda I guess, also about not wanting to fuck up
/r/seduction05/06/22 04:57 PM
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Mental barrier
/r/seduction05/06/22 04:49 PM
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Thanks, I posted there too now
/r/seduction05/06/22 04:29 PM
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What would therapy do? Also it is almost impossible to get here
/r/seduction05/06/22 04:26 PM
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Yes but the women I had chances with were women I know and had an emotional connection with or the same group of friends. This is very different from fucking a prostitute you’ll never have to see again
/r/seduction05/06/22 03:59 PM
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Yeah you seem to get the point. I’ll think some more about it and then decide. Currently I’m dating a girl, depending on how it develops I might just fuck her as well
/r/seduction05/06/22 03:46 PM
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Hmm yeah I have actively dated 3 women. One currently, she’s a 6 i’d say. Pretty hot but maybe 5-10kg too much. Not a problem in any way though, I think she’s cute. We have met 3 times and she’s really touchy, I didn’t try to kiss her yet though. In the past the other 2 girls were easily 8‘s. Amazing body and face. With one girl I made out a few days in a row on a festival. I basically had a permanent boner making out with her, later met with her in bed for Netflix and chill. I didn’t make a mov…
/r/seduction05/06/22 03:41 PM
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I’d wanna practice penetration in different poses, just to see if it works with my dick lol. Everything else like eating pussy I’ve read very much about and feel somewhat confident
/r/seduction05/06/22 03:01 PM
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I think being vulnerable, getting rejected in any way or embarrassing myself. Also not knowing what to do or just being bad
/r/seduction05/06/22 02:56 PM
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Look. I’m kinda terrified about having sex. If I just have sex with a hooker that I’ll never see again and don’t have to give a fuck about embarrassing myself + probably see that my fear doesn’t have a reason / is irrelevant, it will probably go away. This is the idea, facing fears by exposure and seeing that it’s nothing to be scared of.
/r/seduction05/06/22 02:54 PM
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Hmm yeah interesting point. I’d try to keep it to a bare minimum with the prostitutes and not let it spiral into addiction
/r/seduction05/06/22 02:48 PM
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Yeah I don’t have any psychological traumas. I had a good childhood, love my parents, always had good friends, was never ever bullied etc. Tbh my life is pretty amazing except the fear of having sex. I’ve spiralled myself into this fear over the years without any real reason or concern. It is a non-problem, still can’t get over it idk.
/r/seduction05/06/22 02:41 PM
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Man the answers here are really split between no and yes
/r/seduction05/06/22 02:38 PM
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Eh, I got my first blowjob drunk as fuck on holiday in the Dominican Republic. Also by a hooker. Couldn’t care less
/r/seduction05/06/22 02:37 PM
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Bro your your is above average tf are you crying about
/r/seduction05/06/22 02:31 PM
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Just huge brothels in some cities, not a secret
/r/seduction05/06/22 02:29 PM
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Can’t imagine that he could do anything and it’s nearly impossible to get one here. They are booked out 1 year prior
/r/seduction05/06/22 02:27 PM
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Yeah I am 100% sure that this blockade will go away after a first positive sex experience or just sex in general.
/r/seduction05/06/22 02:11 PM
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Lol prostitites don’t say this kinda stuff. And who cares if she’s satisfied or not
/r/seduction05/06/22 01:07 PM
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Thanks for sharing
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:57 PM
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I wouldn’t say anything about my dick size and especially not excuse it, it’s average.
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:54 PM
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How would they know …
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:50 PM
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This was exactly my thought, yeah
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:33 PM
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I’ve been to a strip club some times. It’s cool but didn’t really do anything
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:29 PM
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No confidence comes from repetition and being familiar with the process
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:13 PM
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Yeah I mean it’s kinda sad but idk maybe it is what I need to get over some fears. Im even currently dating a girl and things are fine but kinda scared if it comes to sex tho.
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:09 PM
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Hmm I don’t think you understood my main point. It is about the mental barrier regarding sex. My idea was that having sex a few times with prostitutes, without ever having to see them again, could lift this mental barrier. Kinda like behaviour / exposure therapy if you want. Psychologists use exposure therapy all the time and it’s very successful.
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:05 PM
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Yeah
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:02 PM
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It’s really popular here and they get regularly checked and clean themselves in their rooms. Think about it this way, why would young girls who just want some extra bucks for their studies or in general risk health concerns? They are fine.
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:00 PM
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Bro who cares nobody addressed my main topic yet
/r/seduction05/06/22 11:52 AM
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Let me just say Europe and like 30-50€ for 30mins.
/r/seduction05/06/22 11:25 AM
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Hey OP can I ask how big your dick is? Im really insecure about mine too. Absolute grower from like shrimp size to about 5,6“ and kinda thin with 4,5“. Also was the sex with hooker your first ever sex? I’m strongly considering to fuck some hookers too because I’m an anxious wreck regarding sex. I often turned down women who were interested in me because of this. I guess if I fuck like 5 hookers and see that it’s not a problem I’m better off mentally.
/r/seduction05/06/22 11:09 AM
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I will try
/r/seduction05/06/22 01:07 AM
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This is true. I’ll stay a virgin till 40 if I don’t do anything. But it is like a mental block
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:26 AM
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Yeah bruh.
/r/seduction04/06/22 11:52 PM
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Well we already went out a few times but without escalation
/r/seduction04/06/22 11:51 PM
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Yeah but I’m kinda scared of escalating / rejection idk. And even if she doesn’t reject I’m scared of fucking up or being bad.
/r/seduction04/06/22 11:45 PM
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I have the same problem. I’m a very serious person. I can’t „let loose“ except when drunk. I was out with this girl a few times and one time we went on a party, she said I was a completely different person (not in a bad way). Don’t know how to work on this.
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:34 PM
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What dis
/r/seduction03/06/22 10:41 PM
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Good cum analogy thx
/r/seduction03/06/22 01:17 AM
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Good comment kinda true. I’ll rethink some things
/r/seduction03/06/22 12:26 AM
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Best comment so far
/r/seduction03/06/22 12:23 AM
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Yeah but it’s like weird blank stare eye contact lol. They stare me in the eye and I stare them in the eye for a few seconds
/r/seduction03/06/22 12:22 AM
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Social event as in what? I usually just follow the dress code or the average
/r/seduction02/06/22 10:40 PM
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Hmm yeah it’s really a phobia, I cant get the courage to do it
/r/seduction02/06/22 10:39 PM
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Wouldn’t it be weird to say hey to every women I walk past though
/r/seduction02/06/22 10:24 PM
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Yeah tbh the last part of your comment annoys me the most. How do they do it and why can’t I?
/r/seduction02/06/22 10:05 PM
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It means I go outside where people are
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:36 PM
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Haven’t made new friends in years, don’t even know where to start
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:28 PM
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West European
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:14 PM
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Because I prefer the looks of many other women over hers
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:10 PM
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Really? I see tons of ugly guys with hot women
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:08 PM
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Yeah sure I mean rn I’m doing dance classes with a girl and she’s really attracted to me but I’m not to her
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:07 PM
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It’s probably more of a mindset thing. When you look down your body and see a six pack it gives very much sexual / naked confidence. It’s not like it is required though. If you go outside you see lots of fat and ugly dudes with hot chicks
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:57 PM
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180cm, 75kg, white western European with brown head hair and otherwise very dark body hair
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:52 PM
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Ok bro I have read your 3 step guide. I’ll comment the advice -My bf is currently at 16%, bit high but I’m currently cutting down to 12ish -My teeth are very good and white -I dress fashionable -My hair cut is good and suits my face -I don’t have acne -My jawline is fine, will get better with more fat loss -I’m tanned because I spend many weekends surfing -I don’t have a unibrow -Beard is somewhat dense stubble I think i addressed every point BTW, many people consider themselves uglier than othe…
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:49 PM
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My people / social skills suck ass
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:40 PM
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Bro there’s nothing I can do about my attractiveness and it’s definitely not my problem. I’m 180cm and 75kg of muscle, have a good hair cut, dress good, shower every day, etc etc all the bullshit. Heck, I do +30kg weighted pull ups. I’m fit as fuck and not fat or ugly or whatever. My voice is deep and my intonation normal. What is eye projection btw?
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:50 PM
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My dick is average
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:40 PM
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Bro. If I was ugly I wouldn’t have like 70 matches on tinder, retard. Just because you have to cope your ugliness doesn’t mean everybody else is as ugly as you
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:38 PM
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Back in home town I know everybody. In my uni city I know like 3 people I hang out with
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:29 PM
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It’s not about my looks
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:25 PM
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It became smaller since I started university. Mostly engineers, doctors and IT guys. No women friends though
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:24 PM
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Alright yeah it’s true. Just need to somehow do it
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:23 PM
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No why would I talk to random women who happen to randomly look at me while I pass them on the street? If I approach women it would be more in a chill setting like if she’s sitting somewhere or whatever. Just wanted to say that I think it’s weird how often I notice that women look at me for a somewhat long time and even maintain eye contact
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:20 PM
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Nah normal girls from fugly to hot
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:18 PM
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I consider myself more attractive than most other dudes and I’d date myself. What now? There’s not a thing wrong with my appearance and my tinder match rate confirms this.
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:08 PM
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Lol useless comment
/r/seduction02/06/22 05:58 PM
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Because I suck ass at tinder conversations
/r/seduction02/06/22 05:57 PM
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I don’t know. Like I said I get very many matches on tinder with sometimes even 9/10s and I’m in good shape. But in real life I’m invisible to women and I don’t approach
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:47 PM
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Even right now I have very much money (rich parents) and it doesn’t help. Also I am thinking of doing a PhD which would mean very bad pay for 5 years after graduation
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:40 PM
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Yes good point but you know what I don’t get? In the end it’s like entirely up to the women, they pretty much decide (“female choice”). But it’s still the men who need to initiate and risk getting rejected. This doesn’t make any sense. If the women were initiating everything would be easier because most men would not say no, they’d love it.
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:21 PM
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Yeah but how to become confident. Nobody seems to know
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:19 PM
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How can I work on my confidence? I read this every damn time but have never seen someone clarify actual ways to do this. Except hitting the gym, which I already do since almost a year
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:12 PM
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Not that often I think lol. I have never approached a woman in my life. The 5 or so women I had something going on with approached me.
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:07 PM
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Yeah fuck it that’s kinda true
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:04 PM
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Nah clean shaven I look like 16. I usually keep it at 1mm
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:02 PM
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I don’t think I can do that
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:02 PM
1

But in todays metoo and uberfeminism society I don’t even wanna risk anything. Men are just seen as trash and having bad intentions
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:00 PM
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I don’t know about that. Women seem to always assume you just wanna fuck them and don’t wanna be bothered
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:57 PM
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How can I get over the fear of approaching though …
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:56 PM
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Idk man just regular high quality pants like jeans and chinos. When I wear shirts or t shirts / polos they are usually a bit tighter (I have a good body). When wearing sweaters they are more on the baggy side. This shouldn’t really be relevant
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:55 PM
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Nah I don’t talk to stranger men too unless I’m super drunk on a party and make friends with every man there lol
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:51 PM
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I’m dressing appropriate for my age and somewhat follow the majority. Sometimes jeans and a sweater, sometimes polo / shirt and a chino. Hair longer on top than sides, wearing modern glasses and have stubble beard usually. Whatever. I feel like women often look at me / check me out, but other than that I do not get any attention
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:49 PM
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Yeah maybe but I wouldn’t even know how to approach them
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:46 PM
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Not really because 95% of the time they give the vibe that they do not want to be bothered
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:43 PM
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Of course not. The best make up a man can wear is stubble or a good beard
/r/seduction01/05/22 12:56 PM
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If you are older than 45 and your natural testosterone levels are shit (get this tested), I’d just give TRT a try. But don’t mess with tren and shit like that
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:17 AM
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Nice bro didn’t wanna be mean or anything just spitting facts
/r/seduction08/02/22 03:07 PM
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If that’s you in the second pic you’re still kinda fat / skinny fat brah. Lift some weights.
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:08 AM
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Before I bought a reduced 1 month platinum offer I had ~22 matches. Then with platinum I had more than 60 matches in some days. I unmatch many afterwards but in general I get 3-8 matches a day. Pretty good. I’d consider myself average looking. Many matches are fat or ugly, but some are really cute/hot. Remember that the 10’s on tinder don’t swipe on average guys. They swipe on super model looking guys. Objectively, I can get up to 7-8’s on tinder. Getting them out for an actual date is another p…
/r/seduction02/02/22 11:15 AM
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lol yeah gl with that incel mindset. Guess 85-90% of men will never have a girlfriend then and the human race goes extinct in a few hundred years? Lmao
/r/seduction01/02/22 07:58 PM
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Stop acting jealous, instead don’t care. If she cheats on you break up immediately and find a better one.
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:12 PM
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On tinder I get like 98% answer rate using a first message that says something cool or funny about their profile or photos
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:53 PM
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How does this help him initiating stuff
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:49 PM
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Oh yes I had those dates in bed too. 2 so far. We lie in bed together, maybe cuddling. I can’t escalate/initiate, it feels wrong and I always don’t think the vibe is there idk. Like I think to myself “well, does she want me to escalate now? Should I? Can I? Would this be ok? What should I even do? Fuck”. One time I just went fuck it and kissed her for some seconds but it was the worst kiss of my life lmao she wasn’t really into it and we didn’t kiss after that again. We were just lying in bed cu…
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:49 PM
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Well 1 week and especially right after a date is too long for not messaging at all
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:04 PM
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I’ve also often declined women for the same reason and many insecurities. I regret it because now I’m still a virgin with 23, I had a good amount of opportunities to change this.
/r/seduction18/01/22 05:46 PM
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Why? Personally I don’t know many men who have real female friends. Out of my social circle of about 15 guys only one has many female friends. The others are fine too, having girlfriends and such. I don’t get the whole female friend thing.
/r/seduction18/01/22 04:39 PM
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Send pics of what you are currently doing with text, this makes a conversation automatically. Then she sends pics and you can ask stuff etc. If you wanna turn it sexual and you are muscular, send some pics of your body or whatever (but be sure the mood is there). I’ve got many nudes and lingerie shots in return this way
/r/seduction18/01/22 01:25 PM
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I get boners from leg contact while sitting next to her lmao
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:37 AM
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I’m in the exact same situation. 23 years old too. Don’t know what to do. First goal is to get lean and muscular so that my body insecurity is at least gone. Can’t change my face tho.
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:03 PM
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Then how to change insecurity?
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:17 PM
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Yea but if the first time with a prostitute really sucks / is a bad memory then it could fuck you up even more mentally regarding sex and women. This is what I’ve read.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:13 AM
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Hmm yes. The way I’m looking at it is not an improvement for the things you mentioned but rather a mindset change that women are not “intimidating” and sex is not as special as everyone makes it to be. Because I’m stressed about it and also the fact that the woman I’m going to sleep with some time (maybe) already had sex many times.
/r/seduction17/01/22 03:45 AM
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Hmmm
/r/seduction16/01/22 09:59 PM
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