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If you move to other country and don’t pay CS then your ex can file criminal charges for arrears . You need to talk with good lawyer from your state. Paid lawyer may not tell you much since his license is at risk .
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/22 06:06 PM
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I am a father and trying to get equal time with son since 2 yrs and I am not getting it . The system is designed against fathers by lawyers . Men will not get custody even if they are fit and want it and system will force them to pay CS so that he will on hook for next 18+ yrs and lawyers can make money by keeping the issue alive. I used to think that US Justice is fair and better than other countries but it took a long time to realize that all US courts are controlled by corrupt lawyers .
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/22 05:56 PM
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It’s true. I compare divorce lawyers to vultures . They feed on dead families and kids.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 02:53 AM
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Try meetup I found that Reddit is also kind of support group. You can get quality advise from people who have gone through it already.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/22 04:01 AM
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Let it happen. If you know the time of departure just tell her in 1 sentence not to do it. She will still do it . Don’t make any fuss about it . If that has happened 4 times , take this to court and ask for primary custody, attorney fees , punitive damages .
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/22 11:59 PM
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I think national parents org is already doing it So far only success is KY https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shared_parenting
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 05:27 PM
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At least one good thing here.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 03:40 PM
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Hope the laws change and this nonsense stops
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 03:35 PM
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It’s good that she called cops now because now her credibility is questionable. Thankfully cops now know women’s tactics . Get the police report copy in case you need it . You will need hidden cameras now . Worth of investment . Biggest benefit is that anything recorded in camera in admissible as evidence . Sound recording is not unless you are the party in most states.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 08:00 PM
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It’s extremely hard for the judge to make you homeless. It’s your home and not even judge can take that right away from you . I think the strategy should be to convince the judge that neither of you a threat to each other. Give him some options . Like get permission to install cameras all over house. If your home has some arrangement that minimizes the contact then it’s good . Separate doors etc . Proof that you are involved in child’s life (doc visits , school drop off etc). Cameras are most im…
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 06:48 PM
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This ☝️ 1.Stay in house no matter what . 2.Install hidden cameras (her next step may be call cops on you ) Consult best lawyers in your county area (even if paid ) Just your consultation will block her from getting that lawyer and she would have to go with some shitty lawyer. The principal reason for her divorce is to get the house for free and custody. If you don’t want to be homeless and bankrupt then take above steps TODAY
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 06:10 PM
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In NJ I have a heard that a 2 week uninterrupted vacation/yr is ordered if you both dont agree.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/22 05:29 PM
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If you are making 250k a year then even if you are in bad shape now, you should soon recover. Why dont you fight for 50 50 custody? With 3 children you have a very good chance of sharing and you don't have to pay child support for next 13 yrs. Reduction is easy if you want it later in future.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/22 01:07 AM
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People never change. Inaction can destroy your life.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/22 12:20 PM
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I am in NJ. Laws changed recently. It ends at 19. If kid in enrolled in school it goes to 23. Also, college expenses is not a law but you can put conditions like in state college and good academics etc.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/22 10:57 AM
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File for divorce but don’t serve the notice and don’t let her know. Interview as many as best lawyers in your area . This will decrease her chances of getting those lawyers . Stay in home . Install cameras . Be ready to change locks . Record the conversations . If you have a joint account , change password . If you have the cameras then you will be able to stay in same home without fear that she may accuse you of assault or something . This will make you keep the house and custody Post divorce .…
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/22 07:45 PM
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The 10-15k cost of interim motion . Seems too high . Is it legal fees or something else ?
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/22 05:43 PM
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Probably you are talking about economic mediation. My question is about custody mediation
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/22 11:25 AM
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Being pregnant doesn’t give her any right to harass you. In fact she has a more responsibility to keep herself calm and satisfied in this condition. Recordings definitely help especially if she is trying to take benefit of you and projecting extreme behavior. Yes . You won’t get custody of an infant. try to move to a good state where 50 50 is a norm (democratic states) where fathers are treated equally. For now, be extremely patient. Hire a good lawyer and start processing of divorce . Pretend e…
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/21 04:57 AM
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No.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/21 08:44 AM
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