Ok_Conference5631 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	A man's personality is not important and is way down on the list behind looks, status, money. What makes you say that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 11:15 AM
–	A man's personality is not important and is way down on the list behind looks, status, money. I don't personally believe in the friend zone. But, beliefs aside, naturally looks do function into attraction for most, but primary reason for rejection? I'm not sure about that. What people are attracted to and what other traits they preference will vary, even 'average looks' for example may not be average to another. Just like you may be rejected for looks, you may be rejected for personality and or other reasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 11:12 AM
–	A man's personality is not important and is way down on the list behind looks, status, money. Every time I see these kinds of posts I wonder what type of women ya'll are meeting. Sorry to hear you have that kind of impression. End of the day, there might be some trends here and there, but women are not a monolith. Same with men. There will be some women who prefer Guy A, some will prefer Guy B. I don't personally want to date someone just so I can "show them off", that's a whole person there and I would hope a relationship would have more substance than that. When I was younger, I defini…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 10:15 AM
3	4b movement isn’t so bad I mean, people are more than welcome to do so if they believe it'll bring about change. People can do that if they are unhappy with their situation. I respect the decision either way. But, realistically, the type of men you're describing would do that regardless of whether someone is boycotting or not. To cause any effect you would have to see enormous participation too, which seem unlikely. If anything I just suspect it would be detrimental to the people participating. Surely there exists more …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 06:39 AM
2	Why are women very uninterested in dating/sleeping with younger men Mmm, many reasons I think? Throwing my two cents in, I think it's because generally older men are expected to be more mature. Traditional gender roles would also say that the man protects/provides, and that's less likely to be found in someone that is viewed as immature. Older men are often viewed as more attractive, hence terms like "silver fox" with less terms existing for women. Also, personally, I think the gap between 20s and 30s is more noticeable than 30s and 40s - generally at very diffe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 06:25 AM
9	How bad are huble Jobs in the eyes of women? ( Ex. Garbage men) I don't think it's limited to gender. I think a lot of people tend to look down on others who do that kind of work that people view as unpleasant, unfortunately (same extends to other essential work). I also don't believe it's common knowledge that it's a well-paying job. It's a good job, and it's honestly great that you can get a well-paying job that doesn't require a degree and/or hard to obtain skills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/24 03:48 PM
1	Is the real threat to women in the dating market the trauma dumping AI? I also share concerns about how AI use will look in the future, and I hope some form of legal guidelines will be implemented to circumvent that. Edit: point clarification	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/24 11:21 AM
1	Low expectations, high effort? I think that it's great that you are focusing on progress rather than the end result. In my opinion, the best thing is intrinsic motivation and having realistic goals. Far better to do something for your own sake or passions. It should also not be unreasonable and cause frustration, even if it's the matter of meeting smaller goals in between. Not that is unreasonable to want this; but, if someone was motivated purely extrinsically (e.g, they want praise), I personally think you are just risking …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/24 11:04 AM
16	Is the real threat to women in the dating market the trauma dumping AI? I have trouble reading tone, so forgive me if the last part was meant as a joke. But no, I'm not worried, you should not be dating someone purely to use them as emotional support. So, if this becomes a question of 'replacing women' then there's a far larger problem. I'm always fine with people seeking (healthy) ways to better their mental health. My only concern is that I would question the quality of the advice the AI might be giving. I would also hope that this maybe could function as a steppi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/24 02:02 AM