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Ok_Culture_2566/r/askMRP14/01/25 09:39 PM
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Mission Realizing that "If only I knew what I want!" is likely just a mental crutch. Also realizing that a lot of what I've done so far with my life was validation driven: compensation, climbing ladders, prestigious employers. Just make a choice and own it? I do have a scary thought that I'm not fully convinced about, so I'll dig into that and see if I can turn it into a mission and plan. A prompt that helped me (im still working on fully defining my mission as well): What do you want your avera…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/25 08:01 AM
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I don't get the classic banter shit tests, I get the weird female questions - "Do you miss me at all?", "Do you really love me?", "Do you care about my feelings?" Bro these are the classics. Its not unattractive to give comfort. Its unattractive when you're giving comfort and getting nothing in return.
/r/askMRP09/02/25 11:39 PM
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Is bro really asking how to lead others? Lol How about you start leading your own fuckin life first, eh?
/r/askMRP29/01/25 10:28 AM
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I had this issue recently, though I'm still working my way through it. Reposting my thread in case the comments I received are helpful for anyone else. https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/s/6CF0MLGPjh
/r/TheRedPill27/01/25 08:54 PM
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So she asked you a question and you sat there and smiled at her like a retarded? Fuck, dude. No. That's not dread. When your girl thinks you have better options than her, that is the feeling of dread. You having better/other options is passive dread. You pursuing other options is active dread. If you're resorting to active dread, you're better off just ending the relationship.
/r/askMRP18/01/25 08:28 AM
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Hell of a response, right on man.
/r/askMRP16/01/25 06:28 PM
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A few "unicorn" traits do exist, but that doesn't necessarily mean they cannot be found in other women. Certain traits are very rare, none of which are apparent in OPs case. It's always tradeoffs; no woman is perfect. What are you willing to suffer in trade for what you're getting? In OPs case, his girl is a nagging harpy that's witholding sex. Those are 2 "hard no" items in my book - as in, there's no amount of positives that can outweigh either of these individually or collectively, at least f…
/r/askMRP16/01/25 10:22 AM
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This is the answer i was looking for, only i didn't know how to explain the problem. You did. Thanks, Horns.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 08:07 PM
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I asked you to think with your brain, not your dick, and your dick still made an appearance. You don't love her for anything that cannot be found in another woman. You love her because you cannot find another woman.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 05:17 AM
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yeah im not reading all that. list 5 qualities about your wife that you genuinely love and would struggle to find with another girl. You cannot use sex, her looks, her body, etc. To preempt your response, I'm willing to bet you can't. So why the fuck are you with her? For the sex she isn't giving you? Get your ass back in the gym, get back on your MAP, and for fucks sake - get two in the kitty.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 03:26 AM
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Should I initiate a conversation on it stating I'm not doing all the laundry until I start to see some contribution to maintaining the house Yes definitely. Let us know how it goes.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 03:20 AM
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Sure, I've just always had an issue defining both. Haven't figured out what the fuck I want. Great post the other day, it was a refreshing read.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 01:10 AM
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Damn dude, what a throwback post. It's going to take some time to internalize everything there. You've got yourself a new follower. Thank you.
/r/askMRP14/01/25 11:23 PM
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Right behind the list of "hard no's" she wouldn't do in the bedroom.
/r/askMRP04/12/24 06:42 PM
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If you brought home a baddie from the bar you barely knew, how would you fuck her? Like that. Fuck her like that.
/r/askMRP03/12/24 09:47 PM
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Its how you're framing it. You said "this gorgeous female is letting me fuck her", meaning you feel like the lucky one. She should feel like the lucky one for being fucked by you. Stop being a faggot and start posting OYS because you're missing fundamental shit. IDGAF if you do or don't, but you're probably going to continue being a faggot until you train it out of you. Most cannot do it alone.
/r/askMRP02/12/24 01:41 AM
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sometimes I think about the fact that this gorgeous female is letting me fuck her What are strange thing to say. Don't ask me for oys/weights/bf% or whatever other gay metrics you think you need. Tell me you're a weakling without telling me you're a weakling. P.S it's not gay if I haven't made you my girlfriend yet.
/r/askMRP01/12/24 09:27 PM
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I struggle to practically apply this in real world scenarios, with social consequences Define what these social consequences are. Specifically. I want you to really think about what these consequences are, and then think about whether they're real or just in your head. Because they're probably just in your head. Stop following so many rules, dude. Unchained Man 2.0 would be a beneficial read for you. .
/r/askMRP29/11/24 08:24 PM
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Help, my wife is acting like a woman and idk how to act like a man. Attention is the currency. Withdraw it when there's behavior you don't like.
/r/askMRP28/11/24 08:45 PM
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Never showed her that. If you believe she is better than you, I promise that you cannot hide it from her. She knows. Your penance is to read the Iron Rules of Tomassi thrice over, and read Practical Female Psychologys chapter on subcommunication. Book of Pook if you want extra credit.
/r/askMRP25/11/24 09:19 PM
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She's a 9/10 and it sometimes honestly blows my mind how we're together. Her SMV is higher than mine, even while mine is now the highest it has ever been. Man, her view from atop that pedestal must be beautiful. Does she still use the dog clicker when she's training you, or have you moved past that?
/r/askMRP25/11/24 09:02 PM
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Bro really thinks there's a cheat code here. Fuck you, read the sidebar. Downvoted
/r/askMRP21/11/24 10:00 PM
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What is the answer to “why aren’t you saying anything, you never talk”? Lol We’ll wait and see if she pulls the same shit when I get home. I am expecting it. I’m sick of being in her frame and at the mercy of her moods. Stop caring about her moods, then. And stop initiating only if she's in a good mood. Also, stop anticipating her next move. It doesn't matter. You need to internalize frame. It's not a thing. It's your mission and your pursuit of it. When you're not pursuing it, you're not in you…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/24 09:03 AM
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Instructions unclear, i gave her the house, half my money, and lifetime 50% alimony.
/r/askMRP16/11/24 01:48 AM
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I’m curious, what does that mean to you? Or what would the fundamental points be for you? Protein coming from meat sources. Carbs coming from unprocessed sources (or the least processed carbs you can get ahold of). Rice, potatoes, fruits, etc. Fats coming primarily from meat sources. Could also be nuts or cold-processed non-seed oils. The Vertical Diet is one of the best and healthiest diets you could follow. I do this but with the contingency that I keep my fats MUCH lower than it recommends. B…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 09:51 AM
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sex for us has very much been starfish Have you ever just turned down starfish sex? "This isn't working for me, babe." + leaving to do something that aligns with your mission or frame. It's not defensive, it's not offensive, its simply turning down pity/duty sex. Sex that isn't wanted is not sexy. It's beneath you.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 09:45 AM
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Your point about his ego getting in the way should be well taken, I've done a REMARKABLE amount of bullshitting and rationalization to make me feel better about myself sucking, and used those excuses to rationalize not making changes that needed to be made. Held me back probably a literal year. There's a saying that goes something like "if you spot it, you've got it". I spotted it because it used to be me, the same way you spotted it too. We're all in here just yelling at our past selves.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 05:01 AM
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Following my post from last week I thought I’ll elaborate further on my issues with ED. Initially my issues were around getting hard and lasting long enough to have enjoyable sex. Following the mojo app I have managed to get hard though I’m still struggling with lasting long enough to enjoy the sex. During the past week I made some progress and have lasted longer than before, though finished when it was starting to become more enjoyable. I'm going to ask some questions - I'm not shitting on you.…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 02:41 AM
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I don't care about lifting particularly heavy so I'm going to stick with 8-12 rep ranges as opposed to the 5 rep sets that are more strength focused. Did you ever consider that someone more knowledgeable than yourself came up with the reasoning behind the 5 reps for powerlifts recommendation? Do yourself a favor and keep the 5 rep sets for all the powerlifts. I could go into detail as to "why" but I'm halfway convinced you're sticking with bitch weights because it's easier to choose to suck at s…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 02:27 AM
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Hey buddy Anger - what’s behind it? I went into it above, but for me it was blaming everyone else for shit that was ultimately my fault. I was angry that all these people would do these things to me, and how I'm the victim of this person and that circumstance... It went away when I came to take accountability for my own fuckups.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 02:16 AM
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I averaged a 968 calorie daily deficit this week, and I’m down 4 lbs from last week. I expect 2 of those pounds to be fat. I’m weighing everything, and I’m eating high protein foods to about 2200 calories a day, limiting fat. I’m timing carbs around my lifts, and I’m averaging 176g of protein. It’s taxing to add weight to the bar in this deficit, but I am not failing reps. I’ve eliminated all high intensity cardio, as I don’t seem to have much of a tolerance for it in this deficit. That addition…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 02:14 AM
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I'll preface this by saying that I'm a bodybuilder. My big 3 total was around 1350 by the time I stopped powerlifting. Now I'm 10% bodyfat with 17.5" biceps. It's not a brag, it's my resume. this morning the doctor advised no heavy lifting for 2 weeks with the medication prescribed Smells like bullshit to me. Not your bullshit, your doctor's bullshit. They'll tell you not to lift heavy, but they won't tell the fatass that comes in after you to lose some fucking weight. My focus as per some advic…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 01:53 AM
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I am doing animal movements. I like that you said this as if it were somehow less gay.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/24 01:28 AM
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As I am still 97 kg I really should be able to loose weight on 2000 cal. I used to think this way, too. Should would be better left out of your vocabulary here.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 12:45 PM
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Cool, now we're getting somewhere.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 10:04 AM
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Lifted twice, did my mobility routine three times (so everything as planned). Also kept strictly to my 2000 calorie/day limit. Weightloss seems to slow down though. Maybe because you're only lifting twice per week and doing chair yoga thrice per week? Increase your daily activity or you'll have to lower food even more. Walking, LISS cardio, whatever - just get moving. And get your fuckin protein in, 2.2g/kg bodyweight. The scale will lie to you; its an incomplete metric. But if the scale and mir…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 10:02 AM
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You posted a lot of goals and wins... remind me, what is this section called? What did you fuck up? Tell us that.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 09:45 AM
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It’s been roughly 6 months since my last OYS Welcome back. Why did you feel the need to return? how can I maintain a reasonable amount of sex spread out through the weeks, if it becomes no one’s priority? Who are you asking? If its something you want, you need to make it a priority. I can’t help wondering if it’s time to carve out my expectations moving forward, or if I should simply be a bit more patient with this. Your expectations regarding sex..? Did you forget what covert contracts are? Wha…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 09:41 AM
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Lifts: Bench 90kg 4x6 , Squats 120kg 3x5 , OHP 70kg x 5, Haven't deadlifted in a long time ... I've always gone to the gym at least 4 days a week, its just habit at this point. Make it make sense. I've recently started sleeping in the spare bedroom at her request Pussy I'm boring, there are no tingles or excitement, and I don't know if they're coming back. Then why are you here? I know need to focus on myself but impending divorce after only 1 year is bruising the ego. By all means, keep wallowi…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 09:31 AM
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Why not jerk off? Can't tell if sarcasm or actual retardation.
/r/askMRP08/11/24 10:05 PM
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If your wife isn't hot and you don't want to fuck her, there's nothing wrong with YOU. If you're watching porn or jerking off at all, and having these problems, stop doing that shit, and see if the problem resolves itself. Get your total test and free test checked, as well as your prolactin. This test should come with an estrogen panel as well. DONT jerk off for at least 24 hours before getting bloods drawn as it will fuck with your results. A low dose of Cialis / Tadalafil could be helpful.
/r/askMRP08/11/24 05:50 PM
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This question prompted lot of variety in responses. It's interesting to see such division in the comment section. Your response is fine. Dread during pregnancy is playing with matches, and I think your response was the equivalent of putting a match book in front of your wife, without lighting any of them yourself. It gave her an opening to self-dread without external factors. I would implore you to read into Slave and Master morality, then think back on your rationalizations. A Slave will find h…
/r/askMRP28/10/24 09:01 PM
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Bitch really said "dark blonde hair" knowing goddamn well she's a brunette. She's a Gemini, though, so it's not really her fault.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/24 11:12 AM
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Why the fuck did i open the link? I knew it was going to give me a headache, and I opened it anyway. Why do I do this to myself?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/24 01:49 AM
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Ive found shutting the fuck up to be a helpful tool if I've just fucked up and getting shit tested. If you're too retarded to say something attractive, settle for not being unattractive. If you're playing her game, you're losing - no matter how well you play it.
/r/askMRP19/10/24 03:37 AM
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She definitely knows who he is. It's the wealthiest of 7 male suitors who were pushing her guts in that one weekend at Coachella.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/24 08:40 PM
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/r/askMRP06/10/24 07:55 PM
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You'd have to be more specific about those issues, but without knowing what they are... my answer is yes, and they are worse. Not in the short run, but as they become adults... Higher rates of anxiety, depression, generalized behavioral problems. Higher risk of imprisonment, higher body counts (for girls), lower body counts (for boys), higher likelihood of obesity. I'm sure I'm missing a ton. These stats get rattled off constantly by red pill YouTube content creators, but they're often intention…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/24 08:27 AM
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What didn’t become evident for a few years is that despite having a safe haven for them that was much higher functioning than their mother’s house, it actually worked against us. The logic of a child becomes “I like this environment so much, why would I risk rocking the boat to talk about the problems Im having w/ Mom or the emotions I don’t know how to cope with here?” This is a risk because the kids learn to bottle up their emotions. Knowing what you know now, what would you do differently if …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/24 07:21 AM
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Good news? I figure in about another 10 years we'll have the other side of the story, but there are also 2-3 guys that already made it that far to rekindle their relationship with their kids. And that's about a 100% success rate from my notes, but it takes about 10 years. Did the kids still develop all the same issues that kids raised by single mothers tend to have? One of the things I most appreciate about MRP is the no bullshit truth - for better or worse. This post lives up to that history.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/24 07:17 AM
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The best diet is the one you can sustain as a lifestyle. Intermittent Fasting tends to do very well here, but it's not "better" it's just more sustainable. Keep your food sources clean, get your protein in. The less processed, the better. Take it one step at a time. *there are 0 big guys who live the keto lifestyle. Only stage competitors should be going keto and only during the final stages of a cut.
/r/askMRP28/09/24 09:02 AM
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OYS1 - Restarting Stats: 210lb, 5'10, lean Mission: Unapologetically live my life for me, in pursuit of my own long-term goals. *This cannot be done without abundance of money, friendships, sex, opportunity, health, etc. Why am I here? I struggle with consistency from day-to-day. One day, I wake up exactly the way I want to be and I crush it. Another day I wake up with no motivation and can't get my shit straight. This has been an issue for me for as long as I can remember. Some days it comes na…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/24 06:51 AM
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