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Not everyone wants kids, also plenty of men wanna date their own age
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:05 PM
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Generalising
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:54 AM
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Pre sure a lot of men care if they’re having good sex and not sleeping with a starfish/pillow princess
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:53 AM
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Most women who enjoy casual sex have standards though and preferences. They’re not gonna sleep with some gross guy and that’s why threads like this exist the revenge fantasy of red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:08 AM
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If you wanna think like that sure let’s just forget about her as a person cause ickyyy she’s slept with other men. Fuck y’all are some prudes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:04 AM
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Well least you’re not a hypocrite, my body count is 20
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:01 AM
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Empathise with my position? I’ll do just fine cause there are men out there who don’t care, my body count is 20 and shock horror that doesn’t rly phase certain men that I’d wanna date. When I am ready to date and get into a relationship again I’m gonna have no trouble finding a guy chill with that. Imagine having an opinion and thinking all people have that same opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:00 AM
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Yes but what you’re missing is that she’s investing in you by dating you her sexual past should have nothing to do with that. Casual sex is just a bit of no commitment fun, she’s committing to you ontop of the sex. The mindset of oh she gave it away for free before me is childish, she wants more than just your body but ofc sexual attraction plays a role too. Should be feeling flattered she’s wanting to fuck AND date you not just bang you casually. Idk in my mind casual sex is meaningless and sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:33 PM
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But what if there’s men out there who are emotionally intelligent enough to realise women who like bdsm or rough sexual are worthy of love and can find men who also enjoy it rough who realise that romance and bdsm can co-exist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:13 PM
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I hope you have a low body count then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:10 PM
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But women aren’t cows, casual sex is different to dating. Men should feel special she picked them to date romantically. Sex is just sex, dating is different and has more meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:09 PM
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Not all men have this thinking though, stop assuming all men have your ideals when they don’t. Plenty of modern men honestly don’t care much at all. But that can’t be cause of men on this thread thinking all men think the same way right ? They must be lying. eyeroll
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:07 PM
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What if they’re compatible with everything else and there’s an undeniable connection / something special there ? You’re really gonna get hung up over their sexual past even if you’ve found someone who is perfect for you apart from that one thing. Nope she a hoe for having had casual sex whilst single because god forbid she has needs. I kinda get the conservative thing to an extent but a lot of men on this subreddit seem hung up on the body count thing through insecurity or jealousy and or slut s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:59 PM
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No I’m just saying that sexual compatibility plays a big role for me in romantic relationships and I wouldn’t know what I was into and what is average and not average in bed if I hadn’t the experience to go off by. I don’t think it’s immature of me to want my partner to be good in bed? I’m not comparing my romantic partner to other people in bed I just have more of a feel of what I’m into and what is shit or average in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:54 PM
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Or they just enjoy sex ? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:24 AM
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This was in regards to dating me not casual sex, they weren’t saying they don’t mind to get into my pants lmao. I never said that the amount of people you sleep with makes you inherently better just that you get more experience. My original point was don’t feel flattered if a virgin or low n count woman says you’re the best she’s ever had or that you’re great in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:33 PM
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It doesn’t though cause they don’t have much to go off off average sex could be good to them until they have more experience. I’m not coping about my body count I got no regrets
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:31 PM
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Lmao or I just have standards and know there’s decent men out there who wouldn’t be that insecure about my past. Sorry my bad lmao, this subreddit never fails to amuse me thank you. I have talked to enough men to know that it’s common enough for there to be guys who don’t care about a woman’s past when dating. And like I said y’all are insecure cause you start thinking “oh what if she’s gonna cheat or leave cause she’s been with multiple men and has had experience ” unless she has a track record…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:04 PM
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Also definitely not a small subset a lot of people are freaky and like a lil extra something out there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:48 PM
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I wasn’t talking about height I’m saying in this day and age plenty of men (within reason like it not being in the 100s) aren’t phased by a woman’s sexual past. But yea I’m not agreeing or saying it’s right that a lot of women prefer tall men I feel it’s rather shallow. Sadly it’s more common for women to care about height than men to care if a woman’s slept with 20-50 people dating wise
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:48 PM
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Actually hate to burst your bubble but it is very common for men these days to not care so much about sexual pasts and body counts and is often not a deal breaker. Also when it is to certain men, I doubt women and myself included would feel much of a loss there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:41 PM
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It’s better than a guy finishing in 5 minutes missionary lmao, there should be a discussion before hand imo of what both partners want, and yes good sex for many ppl requires skill and practise. Also Men should care if they’re pleasing their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:36 PM
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Or it’s just certain people like their sex a certain way? Ofc a virgin is gonna take a lot longer to get the hang of it and then there’s also a matter of peoples kinks if they’re not vanilla. We live in a society where sex and the quality and quantity of it is an important role in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:34 PM
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Idc if a man is the same height as me, or even slightly shorter, I guess I’m not vapid or shallow like that. Stop lumping all women into the same umbrella, I’m so glad there are plenty of men who don’t give a crap about someone’s sexual past
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:32 PM
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Oof I’d rather not have a selfish lover if that’s the case, remind me not to date older men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:30 PM
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Fr a lot of men do have preferences of what they like in bed and it’s a lot more than just taking it enthusiastically lmao and just no teeth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:11 PM
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I feel a lot of men prefer women to not star fish and will grow tired of the same starfish sex unless he’s vanilla/boring like that I spose. The whole theory that high n count are more likely to leave and cheat is total bs, casual sex is a lot different to being in a relationship. If you wanna play it safe with a church mouse with a low n count be my guest but don’t expect all men to enjoy that. My n count would be considered high but I’m not gonna cheat and if I find my right person I’m gonna s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:08 PM
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That’s such a weird whataboutism lmao, if men were raised in the woods they probably wouldn’t care about their clothes / fashion either
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:11 AM
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Wouldn’t men wanna know if they’re good in bed if they sleep with or date a “ high”n body count on woman? sleeping with a girl whose only been with a few men and she says you’re the best she’s ever had isn’t really compliment now is it? You could be so Average in bed and not realise that way. You would want you and your partner to have good sex and have something to go off on instead of being unaware of how dogshit you might be in bed. If you wanna date a low n count woman be my guest but don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:08 AM
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Idk what was deleted I was too late to check
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:00 AM
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I don’t expect a man to pay for my date, make up makes me feel attractive/ better about myself it’s not just for men, it’s mostly for me if anything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:21 AM
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Imagine calling 32 old 😬😬 my guy you’re almost 30 yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:23 AM
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They’re really not, there’s women with different senses of humour. Maybe you’re just unlucky or not funny shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:52 PM
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I am a woman and I love toilet humour/sexual humour and I’m not an outlier plenty of women do enjoy it. I swear, the people who post on this thread don’t hang around many women or have proper conversations with women irl. Also both men and women work these days and should share household duties where they can. This isn’t the 1940s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:32 AM
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Or she will find someone who also doesn’t enjoy toilet humour and a crass taste in humour. Not all men enjoy the same jokes and there are men who are more private about sexual things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:25 AM
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What the hell did I just read.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:45 AM
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I think this is a pessimistic view, attraction plays a role for a lot of people or they end up falling for the person not just their looks. Plenty of people have different tastes too. Also there’s people who aren’t shallow and realise people age etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:12 AM
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Off the market at 16? Wth highschool sweet hearts that work out are quite rare. Most people tend to figure out what they want later in life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:10 AM
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In this current cost of living crisis, Maybe anything 35+
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:04 AM
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There are plenty of women who want just sex or something casual, just don’t lie to people about your intentions it’s shitty. If you can’t get laid that’s on you not your ability to lie or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:26 AM
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I’d wander why he doesn’t go completely bald and why he has to feel the need to fake his height. Least with heels or platforms it’s obvious we’re wearing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:20 AM
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Well that’s not what I’ve found, I’ve seen plenty bi or pan women dating bi or pan men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:45 AM
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Then you’re not really bisexual and you’re just homophobic/bi phobic. Orrrr Maybe you’re projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:45 PM
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I think that’s horrible advice, you should be open about your sexuality. Especially if you want your partner to you really know you as a person. Date a bisexual woman maybe there’s plenty of us out there :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:44 PM
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I’m not seeing many women suddenly gain 50 percent of their body weight after turning 30 but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:30 PM
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It’s societal conditioning, if you retrain your brain and tell it it’s okay for women to age or have wrinkles or lines on their face they still remain attractive, because their face hasn’t rly changed much between 21 and 35 let’s be real, still the same features etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:29 PM
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I honestly don’t understand why women having a few wrinkles here and there makes them somehow less attractive than a 20 something year old. With age you’re suppose to adapt and change that way or thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:54 AM
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Imagine having this much of a negative perspective, jaded much.. enjoy being single for the rest of your life I spose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:34 AM
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I think you’re being paranoid there, that would be such a rare case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:35 PM
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That’s not how bisexuality works, it means they’re interested in men and women. Mildly attracted to girls would be someone bi curious cause usually bisexual women are sexually attracted to women too. There are women who are bisexual with a preference to date men (yet are sexually attracted to women)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:04 AM
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What does too bisexual mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:40 PM
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Often cases like that where a guy can’t finish or “get there” isn’t because of the other person in bed. Could be medication such as Ssris, overthinking etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:08 AM
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There are men who are so good at manipulating and love bombing though. Quit victim Blaming quit blaming women for men’s poor actions
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:48 AM
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There’s a difference between being a virgin and being an incel. An incel likes to blame women for their lack of sex, has a toxic view on women that perpetuates his lack of sex. Also incels often don’t need to be virgins to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:29 AM
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I’m sorry domestic violence is something women can control now? That’s a new one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:07 PM
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I think it’s a turn off, bullying is childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:22 PM
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No one said all men are? Did I say anything like that? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:20 PM
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Wait you’re telling women to take accountability for men being players? I’m sorry what huh? Women are cynical about men for a reason and it doesn’t make them a misandrist either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:00 AM
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Women sleep with men they simply don’t want to date all the time…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:49 PM
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The way this subreddit constantly blames women for everything is ridiculous. Thank you for this amusement
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:58 AM
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I don’t see a man’s high number as a turn on or success, and I’m not defensive about my number at all, I’m so glad there are many men who don’t have your gross ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:28 AM
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When I do want a relationship I’m gonna find someone who isn’t so hung up on past sexual encounters and insecure. And I’ve had exes who were fine with my number too. Your word is not gospel everyone has their own opinions and saying fat men can’t get laid is only hindering yourself (if you’re fat) also that kind of mindset that it’s harder for men is gonna make it harder for you to get laid yourself, self for-filling prophecy. Also who are these women sleeping with Oh that’s right men. But only …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:05 PM
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You kidding me? I know there’s plenty of fat dudes who get laid often. I’ve met them too sorry to burst your lil bubble there. What even is wrong with being a slut anyways? I don’t get it. Inb4 they fail to bond emotionally that’s bs and doesn’t mean they’re gonna cheat cause they had casual sex when they were single. Y’all have wack ideology that is gonna make you stay single and not laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:36 AM
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I think this is just your backward thinking. Plenty of men and women don’t have this weird ideology. This sub reddit is what is called a “loud minority”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:30 AM
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This makes no sense to me cause who is banging these “sluts” oh that’s right MEN. I’ve seen ugly men get laid often stop making excuses for your ineptness and slut shaming women as some revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:42 AM
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Oh please, then why do men high five their buddies when they get laid and brag about all the women they’ve been with? It’s not that they care but they definitely celebrate their male friends promiscuity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:29 AM
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It’s the double standard from the male perspective though mostly. Women don’t seem to understand why they hold such a standard about women but don’t judge each-other for promiscuous behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:10 PM
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Tall and lanky, skinny and short, dad bods, muscular are all types I find attractive. I don’t discriminate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:55 PM
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Debatable, sadly there is men start to go bald in their late 20s/early 30s and their looks fade and there are men who age like fine wine this is the same with women ageing. it depends on the person and if they look after themselves/genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:03 PM
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There’s men who actually love crazy girls that’s they’re thing shrug I have bpd and have had guys confess to me they like em crazy, my recent ex did too. Though I’m not amber heard level of bpd I’m not violent or abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:33 PM
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Not particularly it used to when I was younger. If you can afford the modifications why not? Diff strokes for diff folks also
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:10 PM
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Sounds like bitterness to me, sleeping with people You aren’t attracted to isn’t a gendered thing. Women and men both can been seen lowering their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:46 PM
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Too many men on this subreddit have a Madonna/whore complex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:40 AM
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But men don’t get less attractive when they age either ? It’s called not being shallow and seeing the beauty in your spouse even when the lines and memories show on their face. A lot of people even find their wife still attractive with wrinkles/aging gasp what weirdos, they should only want their wife forever young
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:40 PM
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In what world is 27-30 old tho lmao, so you’re just gonna be stuck in this unhappy marriage 5 years in cause you find your wife too old and icky ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:26 PM
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You do realise once you’ve married someone young they tend to age and grow older right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:14 PM
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I don’t think so, especially if they’ve had long term relationships. You can be faithful and have a broad sexual history. Don’t be insecure and open your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:41 PM
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Agreed it’s so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:37 PM
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I genuinely wouldn’t prefer being a man, also I don’t want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:36 PM
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I said the few times I could think of, but nice try bro. I get approached by men more so. Approaching them Doesn’t work for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:12 PM
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Rejection is a part of life that happens to everyone. forums like this are filled with bitter jaded people who are convinced the dating world is something it’s not. Just avoid people who prefer younger women or women who want to be with a rich guy. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:26 PM
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Lmao okay so the times out of the few of times I can think of when I’ve approached a guy to date or to even have a one night stand, I’ve gotten rejected that’s just totally bs? And before anyone says it’s about my looks I’m definitely not ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:23 PM
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Well, I’d say find a partner who isn’t going to be shallow once looks inevitably to fade due to old age which isn’t just what happens to women but to men also.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:10 PM
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Oh I’ve definitely been rejected before and I’ve approached guys
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:28 PM
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But if women were the ones to approach normally we’d get rejected just as much. Maybe not for sex but rejection for dating for sure. And women can and do approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:02 PM
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If women were the first ones to approach men most of the time we’d get rejected too. Rejection isn’t gender based.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:00 PM
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Also plenty of women approach/message guys who they’re interested in
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:56 PM
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Okay well,if this post applies to you then it reeks of self pity. otherwise I’m still unsure as to why you wrote it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:55 PM
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People/women truly have their own preferences though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:54 PM
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Making sure you’re compatible, so when looks fade and you grow old together you’re still reminded of why you love eachother. The redpill ideology is rly toxic. It’s not about keeping your looks as much as you can after having kids/avoiding ageing as much as you can. It’s about comparability in the end, looks just help draw people together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:49 PM
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This post reeks of self pity, don’t create such a complex. Women get rejected in dating often too. Keep trying and limit your expectations and be patient
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:46 PM
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