Ok_Ice621 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
30	I desire to be a stay at home wife/mom, for woman who have achieved this, how did it come to you? And while looking how did you not get discouraged <18> I really think it’s easy only when a man grew up with a father who values/valued his SAHW. There are so many men with SAHM/ SAHW who financially abuse their wives so it wouldn’t even be worth being a SAHM to those kind of men. When I met my husband I was an engineering student and so was he (doing his masters). I really had no opinions about children or whether I was going to work forever and he brought up that his goal was to provide for his wife so she could choose to work or not because he re…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/11/25 10:52 PM
31	Would you let your spouse cheat on you if they treated you well and provided Cheating is a form of abuse and also reflects lack of discipline. Men who lack integrity towards their spouses cheat and I wouldn’t be married to anyone who lacks integrity in general and certainly someone who lacks integrity towards me. Sorry there is no treating me good if you are a cheater.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/03/25 12:46 PM
2	Thoughts on trying to conceive before wedding There is no guarantee that you will get pregnant immediately but first trimester was not very kind to me. I was miserable, vomiting, crying constantly and I started showing at around 4 months. I personally would wait, and try during the honeymoon. Plus just because there is a wedding date doesn’t mean it’s guaranteed to happen but that’s just me.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/24 11:49 AM
13	How to make friends who are also Red Pill Women? I would say the easiest way is to meet moms who go to story time during the week. I don't know what part of the country you live in but I know in the South, you will find a lot more SAHM in traditional marriages than in the Northeast. Usually a woman who can attend story time frequently during the week in the morning is most likely a SAHM and that's how I was able to find SAHM friends who are more traditional leaning. You can chat with them, plan for playdates and eventually you will find their …	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/24 07:12 PM
12	As a single woman, is this normal? Wondering if I have high expectations Your coworker’s fiancé doesn’t like her. He is more like a roommate, in a relationship of convenience. No your standards are not absurd, so many men are so used to giving nothing that the bare minimum seems like too much. I bet if it was his buddies, he’d find a way.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/11/24 06:46 PM
1	Career vs Wife Keep at your career and max out retirement until you have kids. I am talking traditional 401k and IRA/Back door IRA/Mega backdoor IRA. I worked as a chemical engineer in Pharma and had so many great opportunities, met so many great people along the way and most importantly i was able to invest a significant amount of money a year to give me to cushion to feel relax when it came time to stay home. That allows you to have a serious safety net for your future and that was very important. And if you…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/09/24 06:10 PM
2	Thoughts on 'Be the Prize'? Meant to say way more to lose in terms of safety. Like I said, I will never pursue a man for anything in this world. A woman showing up doesn't make everything better for a man but women carry much more domestic labor in relationships including women who earn more in marriages. Married men tend to earn more and die later than single men, so yes a woman's value in infinite. The social value I am talking about also includes other women finding coupled men more attractive. Gender differences on hou…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/07/24 02:16 PM
0	Thoughts on 'Be the Prize'? I let my partner demonstrate interest first because I don’t believe in pursuing men. I have way more to love during the dating phase and after children than them so why would I pursue? I made myself available when I was dating if I was interested in someone. I never said yes to go out with guys that I had no interest in. This conversation of what do you bring to the table makes 0 sense to me because any man whose goal is marriage and children and who has observed marriage dynamics understand the…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/07/24 10:39 AM
55	How did you know your husband was a provider? When we met, my husband and I were students yet he was still extremely generous to me and very ambitious. He was doing an internship and would save money to take me to nice places, get me gifts occasionally, send me food delivery. He told me he believes men should be providers and his goal is to provide for his wife and future children. And he shared with me that his parents had a traditional marriage, and his mother managed all the money and that's what he would like in his marriage. Also when …	/r/RedPillWomen	18/07/24 03:32 PM
7	How did you know your husband was a provider? This is the advice.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/07/24 03:25 PM
4	If finances were no obstacle, how many children would you have? 3, because I want my kids to actually get individual undivided attention from me, I want to pay for their universities bills in full and help them buy their first homes. Never been a point of contention since I knew I wanted to be a mom. Yes prior to having my kid I wanted 1 child but since having her, I think I can do 2 more.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/02/24 10:37 AM
13	Unplanned pregnancy— I want to keep it, he doesn’t You’re in your late 30s so you probably feel like your clock is ticking. 6 months? You do not know this man I am sorry… He probably put his best foot forward at the beginning as most people do and with time, his real nature has been revealed. You both knew how babies are conceived and I suppose you did not take precautions so I mean technically speaking he signed up for a baby. Yes keeping the baby means you will be a single mom, no do not sit there and wait for him to come around because he mos…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/24 02:29 AM
15	Where are y’all finding men who want commitment? Wow you really thought marriage was an endgame in the US? Marriage is declining in this country with people willing to do cohabitation and have children without marriage, and a lot of men having options because the next girl will do whatever when he puts no effort. I think it’s a little naive to have the assumption that dating will lead to marriage, some men just want to waste your time, others are still trying to figure out what they want. I agree with the comment about potentially being open t…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/24 01:14 AM
69	Where are y’all finding men who want commitment? You need to be intentional when you meet men and tell them that you’re dating for marriage early. Dating in the US is so exhausting because there are so many women willing to chill, to not put labels, to hook up, to see where things go. Just don’t allow that. A man who is not intentional about his commitment very early on, I mean by date 2 or 3 has to go. Doesn’t matter where you meet them, two of my friends are married to guys they met online. Men need to have an immediate plan for marriage and…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/24 08:07 PM
21	How important is it for the man you want to marry to have a stable job? I met my husband when we were both students. I met other guys and could tell that they were not going to ambitious, driven or provide stability and I could pick that up young so I didn’t waste my time. My husband was still very stable, goal oriented, so despite not having a “career”, I knew stability was his goal. And he didn’t propose til he had had his full time job for a year and decent savings and a plan on the table. He pretty much planned our life, put it on the table and asked me if I agr…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/01/24 03:48 AM
49	How important is it for the man you want to marry to have a stable job? Non negotiable for me, not even going on a date with someone like that let alone marry. If a man isn’t stable why date? He needs to use that time to improve himself and make money. I would absolutely not plan a family with a man with no money because child rearing is exhausting, and I refuse to have two full time jobs( a job and taking care of the household) while a man chills.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/01/24 03:23 AM