| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| -1 | What is the ideal Redpill Relationship?All of you crying under the comments about your poorly treated grandmothers should probably see a therapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 08:40 PM |
| -2 | What is the ideal Redpill Relationship?Naah, in the blue pill scenario, the woman is the man of the house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 06:45 PM |
| -1 | What is the ideal Redpill Relationship?Men in the past weren't obese and women weren't fat, if you respect yourself, you'll look after yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 06:44 PM |
| 1 | What is the ideal Redpill Relationship?Those fat fucks deserve the dead bedrooms they experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 06:39 PM |
| -8 | What is the ideal Redpill Relationship?A woman who gets fat if she has a husband, doesn't respect the husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 06:36 PM |
| -4 | What is the ideal Redpill Relationship?Naah, stable two parent households, rising birth rates, respectful and strong children, respected members of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 06:28 PM |
| -1 | What is the ideal Redpill Relationship?Women getting fat and old seems like their own problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 06:28 PM |
| -6 | What is the ideal Redpill Relationship?Look at the kind of marriage/relationship your grand parents or great grand parents had, that's the ideal relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 06:22 PM |
| 2 | You can fall in love with someone because of only their personalityNewsflash, human are shallow by nature, it's in our DNA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 04:05 PM |
| 2 | You can fall in love with someone because of only their personalityI don't think this is remotely true, there has to be a baseline of attraction, love at first sight, not first personality. Looks give personality a chance, that's why if you're attracted to someone you're much more willing to let their red flags slide more than one you aren't necessarily attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Stop saying "just be yourself" to menYou have completely missed the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 04:33 PM |
| – | Attractive people are more likely to be singleLol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 06:46 AM |
| – | Attractive people are more likely to be singleOP, are you daft? This is like saying rich people tend to buy less cars. Truth is attractive people choose to be single, your average joe is involuntarily single, get the difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 05:54 AM |
| 3 | Stop saying "just be yourself" to menThanks for coming to my TED talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 09:02 PM |
| 5 | Stop saying "just be yourself" to menThis is why I tell fellow guys to stop taking dating advice from women, a fish cannot tell a fisherman how to catch fish. Simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 08:51 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.I agree with most of your points but both men and women ultimately look for the same thing in dating, no one wants to be a casanova forever, it's tiring and unfulfilling. At the end of the day we want a partner we're compatible and have chemistry with. The difference is that men have to filter through a lot of rejection before finding that partner, this is the disparity between playboys and 'incels', the playboy tends to recover from rejection pretty quickly while the incel wallows in self-pity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 04:20 PM |
| – | Men's love and attraction is conditional on a women being young and attractiveIt's not that black and white, a higher socioeconomic status grants access to a much larger dating pool, reach a significant level of wealth with status and you have many options to choose from, irregardless of your looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 12:15 PM |
| – | Men's love and attraction is conditional on a women being young and attractiveStatus and wealth are controllable but hard to achieve, sure personality is important for compatibility but having wealth and status gives you access to women who'd otherwise never have breathed in your direction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 12:12 PM |
| – | Men's love and attraction is conditional on a women being young and attractiveThis is so delusional, a great personality isn't enough to warrant dating success, you need looks, money, status etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 11:57 AM |
| – | Men's love and attraction is conditional on a women being young and attractiveI mean a woman's agency is her beauty while a man's is his success. Women's love is also conditional on a man's status and wealth, how many women are ready to hold their men down when he isn't as successful anymore? A small percentage. To attract the same women you're talking about, men have to have a certain level of status or money, personality isn't enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 11:56 AM |
| 8 | Men need to start holding ourselves to a higher moral standard of decencyThis mainly stems from the modern dating scene, basic decency is seen as weak and unmanly, that's why the manosphere is headed by men who exhibit narcissism and grandiosity. What's unfortunate is impressionable young men adapt and follow these trends, it's becoming a cycle at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 04:51 PM |
| 10 | Men need to start holding ourselves to a higher moral standard of decencyWhat do you mean exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 04:41 PM |
| 11 | Men use deception, not straightforward lies, to maintain casual sexual relationships. Deception is just as harmful as lying.Women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 09:38 PM |
| 9 | Men use deception, not straightforward lies, to maintain casual sexual relationships. Deception is just as harmful as lying.Aren't y'all the ones talking about 'trust your gut'? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 09:22 PM |
| 15 | Men use deception, not straightforward lies, to maintain casual sexual relationships. Deception is just as harmful as lying.I thought women have instincts that are never wrong? Why can't those instincts tell you your guy is probably a bum? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 09:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV : playing seduction "mind games" only works with women who are more interested than you areDon't know about you OP but the majority of women I've been involved with, situationships or relationships, have come back at one point or the other, even the ones I ghosted. Just cause it isn't working for you, doesn't mean it's not working for someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 09:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You should make Mr Boyfriend Material waitI usually have a three date rule, if we don't fuck after that, next. Life is too short to play games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 04:29 PM |
| 4 | CMV: You should make Mr Boyfriend Material waitCognitive dissonance - "I'm attracted to you but I don't want to fuck you". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 03:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You should make Mr Boyfriend Material waitThe caveat to this is, if the guy finds out that he was the one who waited while others got it on the first night, it'll bring up resentment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 03:55 PM |
| – | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.you don't like women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 04:51 PM |
| – | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.Absolutely, it shows even women can't stand women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 04:50 PM |
| – | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.Why is this surprising? Lesbians typically have more divorce/ breakup rates than heterosexuals and gays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesDude, this doesn't apply to dating apps. People who use dating apps tend to forget that you can get a relationship without one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesThis doesn't apply to dating apps, it applies at your workplace, your city, your school, the club etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 06:46 AM |
| 3 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesMen sleep with the same girls but don't date them. There's a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 06:44 AM |
| 13 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesSocial proof, it's not about those dudes being 'terrible' and having more red flags than a Chinese parade but about women being around those guys. Women know what they don't want but they don't know what they want, so they let other women do the decision making for them, so if she sees other women gravitating to a specific guy, she'll follow suit. Women want the guy other women want, despite his moral compass, it's not about red or green flags here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Do you know when a man is "running game" or using specific dating tactics on you?So what happens when you see them as a friend but can't see them as a partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Do you know when a man is "running game" or using specific dating tactics on you?Are you in dating to look for potential friends? This doesn't make any sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 02:02 PM |
| 0 | Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”.Bahahah! Nice guys are still in the friend zone hoping she'll change her mind. Their non-aggressive nature makes them complacent orbiters. The qualities nice guys have are admirable but not a trigger for attention, attraction is barely about morals. Attraction is mostly weakness and strength to women, most "bad guys" while having questionable characters and morals, usually possess strong attributes like assertiveness, confidence, extrovertedness, charisma etc while "nice guys" possess qualities … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 07:24 AM |
| 6 | Thirsty men arent good and good men arent thirsty.The type of guy OP is writing about seems like a doormat lmao. In theory, women like these types of men, men who are at their beck and call but in reality nothing makes her lose interest faster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/25 07:38 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter