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I agree but you should expect your partner to either work to make the relationship better or end things if it's not working out (provided you are doing the same of course). I wouldn't call someone entitled for having that as a standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:09 AM
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If everyone tried to work in tech like you propose then the pay would obviously decrease over time as supply of labor increases, or we would just see a bunch of unemployed people (if the supply of jobs remains constant).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 11:45 PM
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As a dude studying CS rn, I can say that * Job market is cooked (I got my last internship through nepotism basically) * it is not an attractive major to most women here You might be the first woman I've seen to make tech workers sound so attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 11:40 PM
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Honestly I think it's pretty hard to go wrong here as a woman. Either the guy doesn't catch on in which case nothing changes and you can try a more forward approach or he'll understand what you mean. I also think for guys the method of approach isn't that important (if your goal is to get into a relationship), as long as you get the message across and his feelings are the same then it should be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 11:04 PM
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There is no double standard here. Normal couples want to look good for each other and usually have conversations about dramatic appearance changes. I wouldn't shave my head bald in secret and expect my gf to magically take it well. If I did want to do something like that, I would at least consider her opinion before making my decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:25 PM
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The outcomes you listed are not really my primary concern if I were to hypothetically approach (I assume your post refers to cold approach primarily). It mostly comes down to a few factors: * Female friends complaining to me about random men trying to talk to them -> the obvious conclusion is that this is unwanted behavior * I'd basically be approaching only because I like her appearance (assuming she's a stranger), which feels kinda shallow * It makes me feel shitty to bother a woman and most l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:14 PM
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I'm sure you're already putting your best foot forward, but I feel like the only way to really fix this issue is to try and get any sort of romantic experience, just so you have enough to talk about and so that you can start feeling more confident in yourself. Like you said, talking about relationships and dating is just how a lot of people socialize, and if you don't have anything to contribute on this subject you will probably get judged for it. I was in your boat as well (zero romantic experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 09:30 PM
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To me it just sounds like you're neither romantically nor platonically interested in this guy for a number of reasons. Just do a favor for both of you and stop hanging out with him if you don't like spending time with him. Since you guys are basically just work colleagues, he doesn't have an obligation to entertain or be "interesting" to you, and you don't have an obligation to hang out with him all the time either. Your actual argument makes no sense because you observed the action of a singula…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 09:59 PM
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that subreddit is just a giant circlejerk of women hating on men while posting irrelevant pictures of their food
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 09:21 PM
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Agreed, I think the chance that some random woman who is busy doing other stuff in public wants to date you is incredibly low
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:07 PM
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Don't offer advice then, nobody is mandating you to interact with these people. Getting pissed off by random people on the internet is just part of how the internet works , it is not unique to "giving advice to incels".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:04 PM
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People who make their pets a public nuisance (loud and constant barking, not cleaning up after them) should not own pets
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:36 PM
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I get the impression she wouldn't want to do anything for her hypothetical husband either
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:05 PM
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The simple answer is that the most attractive people (of both genders) get paired off quickly and exit the app, leaving behind people who probably won't be interested in each other all that much. Kind of like how when you go to the grocery store you look for the produce with the latest expiration date.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:21 PM
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I feel like these days it goes: Friends setting you up (need a large and diverse enough friend group for this) Online dating apps Hobby groups, trying to meet people irl in terms of overall effectiveness in landing dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:12 AM
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where I live, I can survive on about $50 a week if I cook every meal. That would get me about 2 meals from a restaurant
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:48 PM
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Yeah, as someone who has used Hinge before it's pretty much all in your photos. Also if you live in a bad location you'll probably run out of new people to swipe on in a few days.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:24 PM
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One of my coworkers showed me her Hinge account once and she had an enormous amount of likes just sitting there. Since you can only talk to 8 people at a time, I can imagine it would take forever to even just look through everyone's profile. With that being said, at least anecdotally, my friend group used Hinge and everyone was able to get a reasonable amount of matches and dates from the app, and I wouldn't classify any of us as male models or super successful guys. At least for me, I had never…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:20 PM
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Every day, women choose to go out in public and are in reasonable proximity with hundreds/thousands of random men. An extremely large proportion of them are able to go about their day completely unharmed by these men. And even if we limit this to just random men in the woods - people of both genders go hiking all the time. Do we see an epidemic of female hikers being raped or murdered? I don't think so. This is the reality that I observe. If women truly believed that all men were more dangerous …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:10 PM
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It sounds like she is just looking for excuses to not date this person anymore. If she really liked him then she would be willing to work out these minor differences at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:40 PM
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Not Tinder but on Hinge I had around a 13% match rate during the few months I used it for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:44 PM
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